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Nov 9, 2015 5:59 PM
#51
Ravioli_Ravioli said: HandsomeMan said: Ravioli_Ravioli said: HandsomeMan said: Just because your mother calls you that, doesn't mean it's a compliment. was that supposed to be clever? I cringed IRL imagining somebody typing that out in an attempt to defend themselves on an anime forum. Just accept that you were wrong and get /out/. How about you get out? Don't you have some filthy frank videos to jerk off to? >"No you" I see we have resorted to acting like children on the playground now. LOL YOU LIKE THAT AND FIND IT FUNNY YOU MUST JERK OFF TO IT HAHA LOOK AT ME. Jesus Christ your autism is almost tangible. You're trying too hard. Like I said, go jerk off to filthy frank. |
Nov 9, 2015 6:00 PM
#52
well this is turning out well |
Nov 9, 2015 6:02 PM
#53
HandsomeMan said: Repeating yourself now?You're trying too hard. Like I said, go jerk off to filthy frank. Boy, you've run out of ideas. |
Nov 9, 2015 6:02 PM
#54
HandsomeMan said: Ravioli_Ravioli said: HandsomeMan said: Ravioli_Ravioli said: HandsomeMan said: Just because your mother calls you that, doesn't mean it's a compliment. was that supposed to be clever? I cringed IRL imagining somebody typing that out in an attempt to defend themselves on an anime forum. Just accept that you were wrong and get /out/. How about you get out? Don't you have some filthy frank videos to jerk off to? >"No you" I see we have resorted to acting like children on the playground now. LOL YOU LIKE THAT AND FIND IT FUNNY YOU MUST JERK OFF TO IT HAHA LOOK AT ME. Jesus Christ your autism is almost tangible. You're trying too hard. Like I said, go jerk off to filthy frank. >starts a fight on a forum for talking about anime >responds to every reply >can't create a decent insult to save his life "Y...YOU'RE JUST TRYING TO HARD MAN" |
Nov 9, 2015 6:03 PM
#56
Nov 9, 2015 6:05 PM
#57
No. I need sex. If it was a long distance friendship, then yea. |
Nov 9, 2015 6:21 PM
#59
keep going |
Nov 9, 2015 6:21 PM
#60
There is nothing wrong with them. Although they are a waste of effort if a person does not plan on actually visiting the other person at least some day. Would be kind of funny if someone got married online and never met face to face. |
Nov 9, 2015 6:24 PM
#61
Moon- said: Nyarlathothep said: "So close, no matter how far .. Couldn't be much more from the heart Forever, trusting who we are And nothing else matters Never opened myself this way Life is ours, we live it our way All this words I don't just say And nothing else matters Never cared for what they do Never cared for what they know But I know" <3 Cute. Yes, it's a beautiful song Mashiro-Yuki said: Nyarlathothep said: Mashiro-Yuki said: Nyarlathothep said: "So close, no matter how far .. Couldn't be much more from the heart Forever, trusting who we are And nothing else matters Never opened myself this way Life is ours, we live it our way All this words I don't just say And nothing else matters Never cared for what they do Never cared for what they know But I know" <3 This is probably one of three Metallica songs I will never have an issue recognizing immediately. GG. My favourite from them. I always thought it was about LDR It's my favorite too. I used to be really into metal as a whole, but my tastes have mellowed out a lot over the years, so I don't listen to bands like Metallica anymore, really. This song is pretty chill though. I generally still like listening metal. I love chill songs ^^ |
Nov 9, 2015 6:24 PM
#62
cause said: Do you need fap material that badly? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)keep going |
Nov 9, 2015 6:25 PM
#63
Plz said: cause said: Do you need fap material that badly? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)keep going don't stop almost there |
Nov 9, 2015 6:26 PM
#64
cause said: ⁄(⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)⁄Plz said: cause said: keep going don't stop almost there |
Nov 9, 2015 6:29 PM
#65
Plz said: cause said: ⁄(⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)⁄Plz said: cause said: Do you need fap material that badly? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)keep going don't stop almost there |
Nov 9, 2015 7:03 PM
#68
Salvatia said: I know someone who got married to someone they originally met online and had an long distance relationship with.never ever works |
Nov 9, 2015 7:07 PM
#69
It takes a ton of effort to make work and most people aren't ready for that. hell, most people aren't ready to put effort into a standard relationship. As MAL's resident hopeless romantic™ I want to believe they can work. |
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
Nov 9, 2015 8:46 PM
#70
I did the long distance relationship with my husband for a year after we had dated for three months. After about two months apart, we had that epiphany that neither of us wanted to break up yet so we may as well start planning for me to follow him when I graduated university. As Traed said though, I think you actually need to be plan on living together at a specified time in the future though. I don't think we would have worked out if we had not made the decision that it was a temporary arrangement. |
Nov 9, 2015 8:53 PM
#71
[center][size=90]it's not easy, but it works. as long as both people are willing to invest time and effort into the relationship, it can be just as meaningful and valuable as a non-ldr, but of course, it can be very difficult with time zones and not being able to make physical contact, or not being there to hug them when they're sad. though I've noticed lots of people mention the lack of physical contact being the reason why they don't believe a ldr would be for them, and that's totally okay c: there are others who will pursue a ldr even in consideration of that, and that's also fine! such things aren't always going to be easy, so wanting to be in a ldr [ or not ] seems largely a matter of personal comfort and preference. it's built on a lot of trust, but really, i do believe it's very possible to build a wonderful relationship even when the people involved may be thousands of miles away. there can be financial or general travel limitations that prevent the people from meeting very often, but that doesn't mean the relationship is worth any less. i feel like there's a negative stigma accompanying ldrs, but at the present it's much more easy to maintain one than it was before, and honestly, why should they be considered bad? and this doesn't just apply to romantic relationships. / casually ignores arguments |
palladiaNov 9, 2015 8:57 PM
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Nov 9, 2015 9:02 PM
#72
No thanks. Very unlikely I would do this. There for more fish in the sea. |
Nov 9, 2015 9:02 PM
#73
What's the point if you can't meet with each other. |
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Nov 9, 2015 9:12 PM
#74
i'd never do ldr unless i was really serious about someone |
Nov 9, 2015 11:12 PM
#75
Personally I can't see myself being able to do it. Cheers to whoever can pull it off though. |
Nov 9, 2015 11:17 PM
#76
it only works if you plan reasonably that it will no longer be long distance. the longer you stay long distance, no pun intended, the higher it will fail. if there is no realistic time stamp on when long distance can become within physical distance, that's pretty much a recipe for failure. and time becomes an enemy, not a resource. |
Nov 9, 2015 11:23 PM
#77
My ex and I were gunna have a long distance relationship, but he dumped me before we even started XD. But my bestie was in a relationship with my close guy friend for a while, I guess it worked out for a short while, he still likes her though but I guess my bestie moved on. So, I think it's worth being in a long-distance relationship depending on who your with. |
Nov 9, 2015 11:57 PM
#78
@handsomeman Kid you messed with the wrong dongerhood palladia said: [center][size=90]it's not easy, but it works. as long as both people are willing to invest time and effort into the relationship, it can be just as meaningful and valuable as a non-ldr, but of course, it can be very difficult with time zones and not being able to make physical contact, or not being there to hug them when they're sad. though I've noticed lots of people mention the lack of physical contact being the reason why they don't believe a ldr would be for them, and that's totally okay c: there are others who will pursue a ldr even in consideration of that, and that's also fine! such things aren't always going to be easy, so wanting to be in a ldr [ or not ] seems largely a matter of personal comfort and preference. it's built on a lot of trust, but really, i do believe it's very possible to build a wonderful relationship even when the people involved may be thousands of miles away. there can be financial or general travel limitations that prevent the people from meeting very often, but that doesn't mean the relationship is worth any less. i feel like there's a negative stigma accompanying ldrs, but at the present it's much more easy to maintain one than it was before, and honestly, why should they be considered bad? and this doesn't just apply to romantic relationships. / casually ignores arguments Lol that ending tho.. Great response actually |
Moon-Nov 10, 2015 12:04 AM
Nov 10, 2015 12:41 AM
#79
Very rarely ever works out in favor of the two individuals. Tachii said: it only works if you plan reasonably that it will no longer be long distance. the longer you stay long distance, no pun intended, the higher it will fail. if there is no realistic time stamp on when long distance can become within physical distance, that's pretty much a recipe for failure. and time becomes an enemy, not a resource. This! The longer my long distance relationship goes on the longer I feel it simply won't work out. Angst, arguments and petty problems every which way. I've definitely contributed since an intense feeling of worthlessness and low self-esteem gives me good reason (Or so I used to think... Durr ha durr) to be jealous and paranoid of every little thing he would do. Play with a guy friend? That's good. Play with a friend that's a girl? Ohohoho... I lost count on how many fights we had because of just that. I was always worried of being replaced or abandoned because of personal 1st world problems. And stuff. Just saving up money, every little bit I can now and hope I'll meet him and see if he really is OK with me. I just don't think another year without seeing each other will do anything except drive the last few nails in the coffin. Hope that when I do it might repair the relationship enough for us to go back to how we were instead of how we are right now, which is a foundation of bitterness because both of us contributing to each other's paranoia, negativity and own personal problems. Despite this I really discourage people from doing L.D.R.s. I gave up my apartment, a really lovely place, just so I could move back in with my transphobic parents to save up money to go see him sooner. It really wasn't worth it because in the process I gave up what would have made me happy all year. Privacy and independence, as well as not being given mean looks or demeaned since I was in a really tolerant community. Now I'm... back living in hillbilly bumpkin countryside. Yays. Reconsider your options when you really like someone online. Do you really? Do you want to meet them? If you want to date them, I think you should really meet them within the first year of dating. It isn't rushing as much as confirming things for yourself and to find out if things will work out or not. And yeah good luck to everyone that presently has an LDR going on. I wish everyone happiness. Short and long term. |
Nov 10, 2015 1:50 AM
#80
I wouldn't be able to hold it if we meet only two times a year. I need physical contact. I need to feel the're a part of my life. |
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Nov 10, 2015 1:53 AM
#81
From witnessing my fair few they never work out. When people say Well we've been together 2 years! what they mean is they've been chatting with someone online for two years and throw in some skype stripping. wooow except for the stripping that must mean Ive dated loads of people! |
Nov 10, 2015 2:13 AM
#82
I'd become too sexually frustrated to maintain a long distance relationship, so no. |
Nov 10, 2015 2:26 AM
#83
If you and your GF have a strong bond, long distance relationship would work well. i've seen couple of my friends who are still in a long distant relationship for a long time. |
Nov 10, 2015 2:46 AM
#84
Nov 10, 2015 3:02 AM
#85
Pacifica_Ocean said: As opposed to in person chatting and in person stripping. Wow big difference.From witnessing my fair few they never work out. When people say Well we've been together 2 years! what they mean is they've been chatting with someone online for two years and throw in some skype stripping. wooow except for the stripping that must mean Ive dated loads of people! |
Nov 10, 2015 4:44 AM
#86
traed said: there is a big difference between physically close and cuddling with a partner than... seeing them on skype and... saying you are cuddling with them? like, the difference is literally worlds apart. physical touch is known to have physiological effects on the body and i hope im not in a situation where i need to provide sources to back this up.Pacifica_Ocean said: As opposed to in person chatting and in person stripping. Wow big difference.From witnessing my fair few they never work out. When people say Well we've been together 2 years! what they mean is they've been chatting with someone online for two years and throw in some skype stripping. wooow except for the stripping that must mean Ive dated loads of people! |
Nov 10, 2015 4:47 AM
#87
Tachii said: traed said: there is a big difference between physically close and cuddling with a partner than... seeing them on skype and... saying you are cuddling with them? like, the difference is literally worlds apart. physical touch is known to have physiological effects on the body and i hope im not in a situation where i need to provide sources to back this up.Pacifica_Ocean said: From witnessing my fair few they never work out. When people say Well we've been together 2 years! what they mean is they've been chatting with someone online for two years and throw in some skype stripping. wooow except for the stripping that must mean Ive dated loads of people! Human touch and physical body closeness hell even smell is all a big part of any species coupling without it you're missing huge chunks of information your body and brain uses to determine if you really are compatable. Its why a lot of online couples who meet up find they're actually not as attracted to each other as previously thought even two peoples body language sends different signals than when separate and says a lot subconsciously to the other person. Romance is far more than similar interests, hobbies and making each other laugh online. I can do all of that with friends and not be sexual or attracted to them. Its why its so easy to get close and make friends over the internet because there's a lot more going on between two people in the same space than two people over skype or talking by text based speech. as I said I knew someone who was dating a guy online for like 2 years "hes the one" and "he gets me we share everything" were common lines. what happened? they decided to meet in real life for the first time and broke up after one date because who you are online is only like 40% of all the information thats actually shared during romance the rest comes from physical presence. |
SpooksNov 10, 2015 4:53 AM
Nov 10, 2015 4:50 AM
#88
Tachii said: traed said: there is a big difference between physically close and cuddling with a partner than... seeing them on skype and... saying you are cuddling with them? like, the difference is literally worlds apart. physical touch is known to have physiological effects on the body and i hope im not in a situation where i need to provide sources to back this up.Pacifica_Ocean said: From witnessing my fair few they never work out. When people say Well we've been together 2 years! what they mean is they've been chatting with someone online for two years and throw in some skype stripping. wooow except for the stripping that must mean Ive dated loads of people! then how do you think people stay loyal to people who have to work away from home fr longs times like people n the miilatray for example |
"If you tremble with indignation at every injustice, then you are a comrade of mine" When the union's inspiration through the workers' blood shall run There can be no power greater anywhere beneath the sun Yet what force on earth is weaker than the feeble strength of one For the Union makes us strong |
Nov 10, 2015 4:54 AM
#89
Bernkastel said: DateYutaka said: Tachii said: traed said: there is a big difference between physically close and cuddling with a partner than... seeing them on skype and... saying you are cuddling with them? like, the difference is literally worlds apart. physical touch is known to have physiological effects on the body and i hope im not in a situation where i need to provide sources to back this up.Pacifica_Ocean said: As opposed to in person chatting and in person stripping. Wow big difference.From witnessing my fair few they never work out. When people say Well we've been together 2 years! what they mean is they've been chatting with someone online for two years and throw in some skype stripping. wooow except for the stripping that must mean Ive dated loads of people! then how do you think people stay loyal to people who have to work away from home fr longs times like people n the miilatray for example Then how do potatoes get cooked? what the fuck does that have ot od with what i said |
"If you tremble with indignation at every injustice, then you are a comrade of mine" When the union's inspiration through the workers' blood shall run There can be no power greater anywhere beneath the sun Yet what force on earth is weaker than the feeble strength of one For the Union makes us strong |
Nov 10, 2015 4:55 AM
#90
DateYutaka said: uh, its because they already had that closeness, and can reasonably expect to meet again to share that closeness again would be my guessTachii said: traed said: Pacifica_Ocean said: As opposed to in person chatting and in person stripping. Wow big difference.From witnessing my fair few they never work out. When people say Well we've been together 2 years! what they mean is they've been chatting with someone online for two years and throw in some skype stripping. wooow except for the stripping that must mean Ive dated loads of people! then how do you think people stay loyal to people who have to work away from home fr longs times like people n the miilatray for example and some people would easily cheat when their scenario happens too so... lol |
Nov 10, 2015 4:56 AM
#91
Bernkastel said: DateYutaka said: Bernkastel said: DateYutaka said: Tachii said: traed said: there is a big difference between physically close and cuddling with a partner than... seeing them on skype and... saying you are cuddling with them? like, the difference is literally worlds apart. physical touch is known to have physiological effects on the body and i hope im not in a situation where i need to provide sources to back this up.Pacifica_Ocean said: As opposed to in person chatting and in person stripping. Wow big difference.From witnessing my fair few they never work out. When people say Well we've been together 2 years! what they mean is they've been chatting with someone online for two years and throw in some skype stripping. wooow except for the stripping that must mean Ive dated loads of people! then how do you think people stay loyal to people who have to work away from home fr longs times like people n the miilatray for example Then how do potatoes get cooked? what the fuck does that have ot od with what i said Exactly. what i said has connection ot the convo they were having |
"If you tremble with indignation at every injustice, then you are a comrade of mine" When the union's inspiration through the workers' blood shall run There can be no power greater anywhere beneath the sun Yet what force on earth is weaker than the feeble strength of one For the Union makes us strong |
Nov 10, 2015 5:02 AM
#92
Bernkastel said: Daconator said: DateYutaka said: Bernkastel said: Then how do potatoes get cooked? what the fuck does that have ot od with what i said Bernkastel said: MAL is probably the most tryhard forum I've ever seen. It takes a LOT of trying to act that dumb. Like a martial artist not trying and acting off reflex alone would still be able to do kicks and stuff, but MAL is like trying to limit yourself to only throwing punches. I don't believe people are legitimately this dumb, so it's clear that they're only trying hard to pretend to be dumb. My sides. I'm glad we share similar humor. But what if MAL users are like....wheelchair martial artists? Bonus points for having limp arms. |
Nov 10, 2015 5:21 AM
#93
you can't completely trust each other in a long-distance relationship and meeting each other once or twice a year is ridiculous |
Nov 10, 2015 5:22 AM
#94
People need to be together physically because people need physical contact. So unless you had a date where you were certain it wouldn't be long distance anymore (and it wasn't years away), it wouldn't work out. |
Nov 10, 2015 5:24 AM
#95
cause said: Plz said: cause said: Plz said: cause said: Do you need fap material that badly? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)keep going don't stop almost there Jesus |
Nov 10, 2015 6:16 AM
#96
HandsomeMan said: Go said: HandsomeMan said: Go said: HandsomeMan said: Good for you, kid. Maybe instead of thinking of your friends so much, next time you can learn how to properly present yourself when you write to not make yourself look like an imbecile. Sounds like we have a mad child who can only throw insults, you're presenting yourself as a completely autistic maggot. You're the only imbecile here. Throwing insults? You just came in this topic to call someone an "autistic maggot". Are you that much of a tosser? You should be happy about it, that's a compliment. Just because your mother calls you that, doesn't mean it's a compliment. I stopped a while ago to prove how pathetic you are, and you didnt fail !!! thank you, I didnt need to post a word, you simply dug yourself a wider and deeper hole, either ways all that expertise and maturity you were talking about isnt being transpired trough your words and attitude. Thank you and Goodbye TL;DR: You messed with the wrong dongerhood |
Nov 10, 2015 6:51 AM
#97
I think LDRs are fine as long as people don't go over the top and have more of a casual relationship. I've seen so many relationships fail with friends but if you really like the person it's worth a shot |
Nov 10, 2015 7:19 AM
#98
I was kinda against them until I saw this video. I'm still not interested in internet relationships but I think if I met someone and we had to part, I'd still try to date them. |
Nov 10, 2015 7:35 AM
#99
Can work, if there is commitment on both sides. Not the case most of the times though. |
Nov 10, 2015 8:32 AM
#100
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