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Nov 23, 2020 5:08 PM
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Title says it all, would u marry a single mother/father?

I wouldn't, its just disgusting to me. I just can't raise a child that isn't mine, and I'm assuming that she's damage in the head, and view them as used up.
Just curious is it only me?
That was a little fucked up but would you marry a single mom/dad, and why?

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Nov 23, 2020 5:12 PM
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No. I hate children, and I would never want to be a part of their lives.

Also, I would never marry someone.

Nov 23, 2020 5:15 PM
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I mean if I loved my partner enough and they had a child I would try to make it work.

I would just worry about finances mostly.



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Nov 23, 2020 5:16 PM
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Never in my life that I'll marry someone with a child. But really it depends, unless the person is something that I really like then might as well go with it.

In honesty, I hate children in general so it's kind of a 50/50.
Nov 23, 2020 6:01 PM
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not my interest at all personally too much baggage

Nov 23, 2020 6:05 PM
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LMFAO.
No way in hell would I ever date some used goods bitch with some punkass annoying kid.

Only way it could happen is if she was rich. Which is never gonna happen
Nov 23, 2020 6:09 PM
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No, as I am not one of the cuck variety.
Nov 23, 2020 6:12 PM
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No. It'll probably become a problem to gain your trust to her child(ren).

Edit: It's also a hard responsibility.
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Nov 23, 2020 6:59 PM
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Oh wow I didn't think people would agree with me.
Some of my friends think that Im horrible/misogynist for not wanting to marry a single mother.
Great to know that I'm the only misogynist .
Nov 23, 2020 7:04 PM

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AwokenStroken said:
No, as I am not one of the cuck variety.

Its the greatest cucking of all time

Kayle_x_Morgana said:
LMFAO.
No way in hell would I ever date some used goods bitch with some punkass annoying kid.

Only way it could happen is if she was rich. Which is never gonna happen

LMAOOO facts
Kids are so fucking annoying, if Im raising that little shit, then it better be mine.

KazumaNagato said:
No. It'll probably become a problem to gain your trust to her child(ren).

Edit: It's also a hard responsibility.


Ye its depressing really.
You end up with all the responsibility but won't even be able to exercise the same discipline that you would on your own. There's also a big chance the children won't even respect you cuz the other parent is just going to intervene the second you try to discipline those little shits.
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No, pick better partners, so you wouldn't have to raise a child by yourself.

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Nov 23, 2020 7:12 PM
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I wouldn't even date one lol. Single mothers are a no go for me. Never done it and never will.

Nov 23, 2020 7:41 PM

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2shizukasensei88 said:
No, pick better partners, so you wouldn't have to raise a child by yourself.



EXACTLY!
This is exactly it

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Nov 23, 2020 8:21 PM
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Ouch, that's some sharp edge you got there...
For me it depends on the case, really. Being single and having a kid doesn't necessarily mean she's a slut or "damage in the head", though I do think raising a kid is a little too much baggage for me.

2shizukasensei88 said:
No, pick better partners, so you wouldn't have to raise a child by yourself.

Why would you have to raise the child by yourself lol?
Nov 23, 2020 8:23 PM

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suicide_master said:
Ouch, that's some sharp edge you got there...
For me it depends on the case, really. Being single and having a kid doesn't necessarily mean she's a slut or "damage in the head", though I do think it's too much baggage for me.

2shizukasensei88 said:
No, pick better partners, so you wouldn't have to raise a child by yourself.

Why would you have to raise the child by yourself lol?


I'm talking about the single parent, stop being willfully obtuse.
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2shizukasensei88 said:
suicide_master said:
Ouch, that's some sharp edge you got there...
For me it depends on the case, really. Being single and having a kid doesn't necessarily mean she's a slut or "damage in the head", though I do think it's too much baggage for me.

Why would you have to raise the child by yourself lol?


I'm talking about the single parent, stop being willfully obtuse.

I'm not though, I swear I didn't get it
Nov 23, 2020 8:30 PM
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That's a big step, not ready for something like that so I'd pass but in 10 years from now If I'm still single then I'd probably go for it.
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suicide_master said:
2shizukasensei88 said:


I'm talking about the single parent, stop being willfully obtuse.

I'm not though, I swear I didn't get it


Please work on your critical thinking then.
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I have already seen relatives with kids remarrying. I think it's entirely up to the person if you like who you are dating and whether you can handle the responsibilities together.

Other than that, I'm still waiting for the double standard to happen.
Nov 24, 2020 2:21 AM

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it would be better without kids but if i loved my partner i would
Nov 24, 2020 2:48 AM

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If I had a fuckton of money, and both my partner and their kids love me and are connected with me then sure.



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Nov 24, 2020 3:35 AM

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Most likely not. I don't like children and I don't want children. Having to take care of some that aren't even my own is unfathomable for me.
Nov 24, 2020 3:41 AM

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2shizukasensei88 said:
suicide_master said:

I'm not though, I swear I didn't get it


Please work on your critical thinking then.


Holy shit stfu



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No, I don't date anyone with a kid. I like kids, but it's a no no for me. I want my own children with the one I'll have chosen, and I don't want to have to take care of kids that are not mine. Particularly as the child would make my partner keep contact with his ex.
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xmaroz said:
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2shizukasensei88 said:


Please work on your critical thinking then.


Holy shit stfu


Work on your critical thinking too, you'll need it ;)
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2shizukasensei88 said:
xmaroz said:
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Holy shit stfu


Work on your critical thinking too, you'll need it ;)


Don't worry i know what's better for myself, i don't need a 16 yo on a forum to tell me. Besides, imagine going around saying things like "stop being willfully obtuse" or "Please work on your critical thinking then." . Stop being arrogant kid.



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xmaroz said:
2shizukasensei88 said:


Work on your critical thinking too, you'll need it ;)


Don't worry i know what's better for myself, i don't need a 16 yo on a forum to tell me. Besides, imagine going around saying things like "stop being willfully obtuse" or "Please work on your critical thinking then." . Stop being arrogant kid.
xmaroz said:
2shizukasensei88 said:


Work on your critical thinking too, you'll need it ;)


Don't worry i know what's better for myself, i don't need a 16 yo on a forum to tell me. Besides, imagine going around saying things like "stop being willfully obtuse" or "Please work on your critical thinking then." . Stop being arrogant kid.


Good for you then, and what am I supposed to say lmao, stay mad.
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2shizukasensei88 said:
xmaroz said:


Don't worry i know what's better for myself, i don't need a 16 yo on a forum to tell me. Besides, imagine going around saying things like "stop being willfully obtuse" or "Please work on your critical thinking then." . Stop being arrogant kid.
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Don't worry i know what's better for myself, i don't need a 16 yo on a forum to tell me. Besides, imagine going around saying things like "stop being willfully obtuse" or "Please work on your critical thinking then." . Stop being arrogant kid.


Good for you then, and what am I supposed to say lmao, stay mad.


Ahahaha you could have came out with one of your arrogant quotes. But you didn't, guess you learned the lesson or you are just the one actually mad and you don't know what to say. Peace :)



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I would but not if they recently had a child? It's a weird thing to say but I don't think I'd want to raise someone else's child during the worst years.

Also depends on the circumstances of why the father left. The woman might have been trying for children for years but couldn't manage, or the father died. Who knows.
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xmaroz said:
2shizukasensei88 said:


Good for you then, and what am I supposed to say lmao, stay mad.


Ahahaha you could have came out with one of your arrogant quotes. But you didn't, guess you learned the lesson or you are just the one actually mad and you don't know what to say. Peace :)



Lmao
xmaroz said:
2shizukasensei88 said:


Good for you then, and what am I supposed to say lmao, stay mad.


Ahahaha you could have came out with one of your arrogant quotes. But you didn't, guess you learned the lesson or you are just the one actually mad and you don't know what to say. Peace :)



Lmao look who's talking, "you can have came out with one of your arrogant quotes", ok Lelouch pfp. "You are just the one actually mad and you don't know what to say" Please work on your grammar, and I'm not the one who barrage into other people's conversations with "Holy shit stfu". We can see your projection, Lelouch pfp. Stay mad.
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2shizukasensei88 said:
xmaroz said:


Ahahaha you could have came out with one of your arrogant quotes. But you didn't, guess you learned the lesson or you are just the one actually mad and you don't know what to say. Peace :)



Lmao
xmaroz said:


Ahahaha you could have came out with one of your arrogant quotes. But you didn't, guess you learned the lesson or you are just the one actually mad and you don't know what to say. Peace :)



Lmao look who's talking, "you can have came out with one of your arrogant quotes", ok Lelouch pfp. "You are just the one actually mad and you don't know what to say" Please work on your grammar, and I'm not the one who barrage into other people's conversations with "Holy shit stfu". We can see your projection, Lelouch pfp. Stay mad.


That wasn't a conversation. That was you being arrogant with someone that wasn't even attacking you, but don't worry this fase will stop when you'll grow up.

"Please work on your grammar". Damn are we writing an assay for uni? You gotta wait until you finish highscool dude.

Lelouch pfp? Is that supposed to be some kind of "insult"? On an anime forum? I guess that shows how "obtuse" you actually are .

With love, your always mad lelouch pfp.

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xmaroz said:
2shizukasensei88 said:



Lmao



Lmao look who's talking, "you can have came out with one of your arrogant quotes", ok Lelouch pfp. "You are just the one actually mad and you don't know what to say" Please work on your grammar, and I'm not the one who barrage into other people's conversations with "Holy shit stfu". We can see your projection, Lelouch pfp. Stay mad.


That wasn't a conversation. That was you being arrogant with someone that wasn't even attacking you, but don't worry this fase will stop when you'll grow up.

"Please work on your grammar". Damn are we writing an assay for uni? You gotta wait until you finish highscool dude.

Lelouch pfp? Is that supposed to be some kind of "insult"? On an anime forum? I guess that shows how "ottuse" you actually are .

With love, your always mad lelouch pfp.



I'm not attacking him lol, I'm just telling him to stop being obtuse.


No, but the conversation I supposed we're having is in the realm of being competent.


No, it's just ironic, stop taking criticisms as insults, that's why a 16 yo shitposter has better writing skills than you. Bruh I can't even meme you bruh 🥱🥱🥱
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It doesn't really matter to me ig but I'd worry about finances.
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No way. I'd much rather die alone than settle for something like that
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No because I'm not going to marry anyone.
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My interest focuses on the woman herself if I'm madly in love with her. Her son/daughter, I'll do my part as a stepfather to guide his/her life to a better future.
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I will probably remain a monk for life, but I would not marry anyone with kids who are not my own (through a DNA test).
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Op answer sounds like something edgy teenager would write.

I personally wouldn't marry but yes I'd consider a stable relationship with a single parent. Red flag for me would be a case where the other has children from many relationships and they all ended in a break up. I have met some men who had children from 2-3 relationships and lets just say the first image all of them gave weren't that charming.
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Right now hell no, but probably if I was 35+ I would marry her if I loved her
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I don't want children of my own, why would I want to raise others' children?

But then again, I don't see myself ever marrying someone or falling in love.
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I don't really want to raise a child, never mind a child who isn't even mine
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No, I hate kids. But it still kinda depends on the person.
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No. I don't want any kids in my life. Even if nothing is expected of me in that department it just feels wrong towards said kids. They deserve better than some semi-parent who doesn't want to have anything to do with them.
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Depends if they have a kid with them or not.
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This topic gave me hope for the anime fandom all over again. Good for you, you Millennials and Zoomers!
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Yes, I would and his name is Vergil, means I don't need to raise his son because that one is already a grown up boy yay.


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Op answer sounds like something edgy teenager would write.

I personally wouldn't marry but yes I'd consider a stable relationship with a single parent. Red flag for me would be a case where the other has children from many relationships and they all ended in a break up. I have met some men who had children from 2-3 relationships and lets just say the first image all of them gave weren't that charming.


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I wouldn't, its just disgusting to me. I just can't raise a child that isn't mine, and I'm assuming that she's damage in the head, and view them as used up.
Just curious is it only me?


uuhhhh...What? what are you saying?


I mean, why not. Only if they have one child though, no more. Because I wouldn't want many kids.

However, it also depends on why the couple broke up to begin with, if the father/ mother who left is toxic &/or they don't have a good relationship with that single mother/father but still wants to visit the kid, then I'm not sure if I would want to be caught up in that. Or if the single mother/father got the child by cheating then...well, I don't want to associate with a cheater. But that goes for childless people too.

However I would prefer not to because I would normally want to get to know the person first before adding any kids to the picture, but if they have a kid & I want to leave them because they turned out to be trash, it might be difficult to leave cause I might have gotten too attached to their kid.
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