YorKeY said:jaycm610 said:
I used to have a female friend. Actually, she was my best friend at the time. We were friends until she got into heroin and completely changed.
But the friendship between us worked. If you ask me, I think it worked because we were friends since second grade. If a guy and girl meet as adults, or even as teens, sex is already on the mind. It's way different when a sexually aware male and female meet then when a boy and girl meet in 2nd grade. I believe since we had a friendship that existed before we could view the world sexually it allowed our friendship to survive the sexual awakening of puberty.
It would be much harder to meet a female now and be just friends. I guess it could work if the girl was either gay or I don't find her attractive. Aside from this, perhaps the only way it could work would be if one person wasn't looking for a relationship and the other was adamantly opposed to hooking up. idk.
The thing is, lots of guys not only want cute girlfriends, they want attractive female friends too. (looks shouldn't matter, but that's the world we live in) So i doubt most would want to be "friends" with an ugly chick. I said MOST.
Okay, I get the whole girl being gay argument, and that makes sense, but it's also obvious. You'd have no choice but to just be her friend at that point, cause you know there's no hope for you getting anything out of it. (aka sex)
But at that point (from my observations and experiences) most guys would have no reason to even want to be her best friend, let alone put effort into being her friend, if they aren't gonna be able to pound that. She'll just be "that lesbian friend" not that friend. Not all guys obviously, some might still want to pursue a friend ship with her, who knows.
That last part you said about " as long as one person was strongly opposed to hooking up" was complete bull shit, friend zone, uh, ever heard of it? 90% of the guys i know will be like "errrrrrr stop, red light, i don't want anything to do with this bitch now, i'm not getting anything out of it, so fuck her for wasting my time."
^^ This one doesn't work the other way around cause we all know that when a girl gets friend zoned, it's cause the guy doesn't want anything to do with that body, sad but true. Obviously (if you say so) there's other reasons why a guy might friend zone a girl, so don't lecture me.
Oh' and congrats for having a best female child hood friend like in anime, wish i had one.