@Puchk0v @Reign_of_Floof
you're both wrong. visiting with people... how many of those people are ALSO glued to their phones? you think kids are just allowed to enjoy their tech? or go off and play by themselves or interact with the other kids while 'the adults do adulting things'? welll guess what, coming from somebody who was a child BEFORE all this tech was invented... TV WAS the tech folks were glued to. radio. books. phonographs. cassette tapes. cable. sat. VHS tapes. NES. SNES. SEGA Genesis. PlayStation. X-Box. PC games. the internet. social media. DVDs. BrD. entertainment comes in many forms for each generation. folks today in their 50's and older are glued to their phones too. i've got 20 years older than me (i'm 49) coworkers who sit there on their tablet and phone all through lunchbreak and don't hardly interact with our coworkers, except while working. i've got an aunt and an uncle on my dad's side of the family retired and in their 60's and at THANKSGIVING are on their tablets and phones before the meal and afterwards. that is the ONLY big 'family meeting' we have every year where all the grown kids (like me) show up and bring their kids and spouses along. you're at a family gathering? so. what. social responsibilities? maybe in YOUR social circle or YOUR family phones get put down or turned off or whatever. but guess what?? that is YOU and YOUR situations. not anybody else's.
@swirlydragon this part is for you friend. 'auntie' was just being a judgy b!tch for not understanding that 20+ year olds are adults and can do whatever the hell they want with their adult lives. if somebody told her... she's too old to enjoy her daily soap operas or her periodic obsession with Hallmark Channel movies or her collection of Disney films or reality TV slop... or whatever her forms of entertainment are... what would your 'auntie' think? next time 'auntie' gets judgy? politely ask her exactly what she loved to entertain herself with at your age. then, ask her what HER elders thought of 'that' back in the day.
YOU are YOU swirlydragon. today, tomorrow, and for the rest of your life, you do YOU. not anybody else can do that. if you love anime, watch it till your dying breath leaves your lungs. or stop watching it tomorrow if YOU so choose. there is NO age-cap on fun. you're conceived, live, and die. once you're self-aware enough to make choices and old enough have them 'stick' or 'mean something' or 'have an impact' or 'cannot be undone by mommy or daddy fixing it'... that is the starting point of your lifetime where what you want and what you need tips back and forth to YOUR touch upon the scales. nobody else's.