| And when and how many? IF you don't want them, why not?? I'm watching a lot of childcare anime and kids are on my mind. Ideally I want 2 kids of each gender by 35. If you don't want them, id love to hear why Family to me kind of feels like the most important thing ever |
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Crow_Black said: why is that? I'd love to know the details as to why + your age grouphonestly don't even want kids at all whatseover. |
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| The girl I like apparently isn't much into sex, she's only been with other girls for now, that's fine to me, but I still want kids so I'll probably adopt or at least hope my friends have their own children so I can spend time with their kids. |
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Crow_Black said: TinyTabun said: why is that? I'd love to know the details as to why + your age group I'm going to plead the 5th on my age group but lets just leave it that i'm in my 20s and thats it and some people just don't really have any interest in it simple as that imo and thats my case. Haha fair, '20s' is enough! I'm in the same group and thank you for your thoughts |
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| Where my life is at now, on a scale on 1 to 10: Negative 10. |
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| Not now but I know I want kids in the future. |
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BJuice said: Never wanted any, they are too time-consuming and loud... ...plus this planet, degenerating and falling to hell with each day anyway. This is interesting. What do you find to be a better use of your time than having kids? Were you a loud kid? I was very quiet and my mom is very loud, I find it interesting when people say kids are loud? |
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-Leiman- said: While the hereditary risk is only 10% it makes sense you wouldn't want to pass that on. Certainly not any at the moment. Maybe my atttitude will change when my life becomes more stable. I think if I ended up getting in a serious relationship, and it looked like I would marry that person, I'd probably be more inclined to want to have children. |
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| I don’t want kids. I never have. There’s no deep reason, it’s just something that’s never interested me in the slightest. And since it would change literally every part of my life forever, it seems like the kind of thing a person should REALLY want before doing it, like a super strong desire or goal. Kids have never been that for me. People have often told me that I’d make a great mom, and that I’ll change my mind when I get older, but I’m in my late 30s now. I think that would have happened already if it was going to. |
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-Leiman- said: yeah this was meant for @deg sorry. Mobile gets weird sometimes TinyTabun said: While the hereditary risk is only 10% it makes sense you wouldn't want to pass that on. I... don't know what you're refering to. Maybe you meant to quote someone else? |
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palm-tree said: I don’t want kids. I never have. There’s no deep reason, it’s just something that’s never interested me in the slightest. And since it would change literally every part of my life forever, it seems like the kind of thing a person should REALLY want before doing it, like a super strong desire or goal. Kids have never been that for me. People have often told me that I’d make a great mom, and that I’ll change my mind when I get older, but I’m in my late 30s now. I think that would have happened already if it was going to. I hate when people say that!!! I'm the only person that wants kids in my friend group, and my mind isn't changing. Neither is theirs. Somehow this is hard for people to grasp... |
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| After having worked with kids for two months, not anytime soon. Need to get me a vasectomy asap. |
Take care of yourself |
| i do actually want kids but only when im like 50. gotta make sure they have autism. + i need to live my life first, having kids is giving up on ur own life and training ur replacement |
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LoveLikeBlood said: After having worked with kids for two months, not anytime soon. Need to get me a vasectomy asap. If you need a vacectomy I think that's not any time ever... It's interesting so far no one wants kids. |
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| I really want to have kids, but I don't think I ever will be able to. I'm almost 29, and not even married yet. MY LIFE FUCKING SUCKS |
TinyTabun said: LoveLikeBlood said: After having worked with kids for two months, not anytime soon. Need to get me a vasectomy asap. If you need a vacectomy I think that's not any time ever... I mean, vasectomies are reversible to be fair. |
Take care of yourself |
| Yeah but it's not something people get if they 'maybe' don't want kids. Its something you get when youre done with kids or will never have them |
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| Well I have a son now but I was in no hurry to have children. I intended to be married first. I have had plenty of opportunities for marriage and for children with various women. They love to nag me about such things. Fiancée wants at least one more. |
| I do not want kids at all. I don't want to get married either. The loner's path is the one for me |
GenshinRosaria said: are you engaged to the same person you have that son with ? Do you want more kids? And what's your age group 20s or 30s?Well I have a son now but I was in no hurry to have children. I intended to be married first. I have had plenty of opportunities for marriage and for children with various women. They love to nag me about such things. Fiancée wants at least one more. |
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TinyTabun said: GenshinRosaria said: are you engaged to the same person you have that son with ? Do you want more kids? And what's your age group 20s or 30s?Well I have a son now but I was in no hurry to have children. I intended to be married first. I have had plenty of opportunities for marriage and for children with various women. They love to nag me about such things. Fiancée wants at least one more. Yes I had my son with my fiancée. She was on the pill until last year. Two weddings were planned and cancelled due to Covid. I’m 35. Women have been pressuring me for marriage and / or kids since I was 18. But incels in denial on MAL will tell you that I’m an incel. 🙄 |
GenshinRosaria said: TinyTabun said: are you engaged to the same person you have that son with ? Do you want more kids? And what's your age group 20s or 30s? Yes I had my son with my fiancée. She was on the pill until last year. Two weddings were planned and cancelled due to Covid. I’m 35. Women have been pressuring me for marriage and / or kids since I was 18. But incels in denial on MAL will tell you that I’m an incel. 🙄 Hmm I was taught a man won't commit to you once you've given him kids. But you got engaged after she had your son? Maybe I need to get knocked up and then get married afterwards after all. And lol, pretty sure incels haven't had sex so that's hilarious. I was a bit surprised because I thought those were guys in your sig haha, I was surprised you managed to procreate with a woman! But now I see they're supposed to be chicks. Still, I am attracted to the red one, it looks so much like a dude |
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TinyTabun said: GenshinRosaria said: Yes I had my son with my fiancée. She was on the pill until last year. Two weddings were planned and cancelled due to Covid. I’m 35. Women have been pressuring me for marriage and / or kids since I was 18. But incels in denial on MAL will tell you that I’m an incel. 🙄 Hmm I was taught a man won't commit to you once you've given him kids. But you got engaged after she had your son? Maybe I need to get knocked up and then get married afterwards after all. And lol, pretty sure incels haven't had sex so that's hilarious. I was a bit surprised because I thought those were guys in your sig haha, I was surprised you managed to procreate with a woman! But now I see they're supposed to be chicks. Still, I am attracted to the red one, it looks so much like a dude We got engaged in 2017 after she nagged me to death about it. We got our mortgage in 2016 after she nagged me to death about it. I met her end of 2010. Our son was born April 2022. Btw I've fucked 21 women and countless trans (because trans cann't get pregnant). Obviously, I could have fucked mroe women if I pursued more women but I was looking for relationships not casual sex with women. Most of the girls I fucked were girlfriends. |
TinyTabun said: LoveLikeBlood said: After having worked with kids for two months, not anytime soon. Need to get me a vasectomy asap. If you need a vacectomy I think that's not any time ever... It's interesting so far no one wants kids. I've already got 3 so... I'm good. (Nothing wrong with finding Rosaria hot even as a woman!) @GenshinRosaria to be fair to your fiance I feel like owning property is a smart move for anyone who's able to afford it.  |
| Right now I don't want any. In the future, when my living situation is not so chaotic, then I will think about it. |
 This ground is soiled by those before me and their lies. I dare not look up for on me I feel their eyes |
GenshinRosaria said: TinyTabun said: Hmm I was taught a man won't commit to you once you've given him kids. But you got engaged after she had your son? Maybe I need to get knocked up and then get married afterwards after all. And lol, pretty sure incels haven't had sex so that's hilarious. I was a bit surprised because I thought those were guys in your sig haha, I was surprised you managed to procreate with a woman! But now I see they're supposed to be chicks. Still, I am attracted to the red one, it looks so much like a dude We got engaged in 2017 after she nagged me to death about it. We got our mortgage in 2016 after she nagged me to death about it. I met her end of 2010. Our son was born April 2022. Btw I've fucked 21 women and countless trans (because trans cann't get pregnant). Obviously, I could have fucked mroe women if I pursued more women but I was looking for relationships not casual sex with women. Most of the girls I fucked were girlfriends. Nagging anyone into engagement or marriage sounds like a nightmare, I don't know how she has any self esteem after that...And definitely don't want any guy that has put his pill in that many humans |
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| right now no I don't want kids but in the future yes I do want kids but depends on my partner if she wants kids or not |
| I want kids so much that I got kids and then got those kids to have kids. |
Mao said: If you have to shit, shit! If you have to fart, fart! |
I would rather have these kind of kids |
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| I want to have at least one, after some time I would stop to think if I could handle having one more. But I would do this only after getting stable on money, although I think that cash is the easy part, getting a girl is the hard part, I have not had a talk with a girl around my age since early 2019. |
| Hmm, somewhat "badly," but it seems that is going to be at least a few years down the line. 3 would be optimal as long as I can provide for them and my partner is okay with it. But even having a single kid would make me more than happy, to be honest. |
| Not at all even remotely. And I've also known this since I was around 12 years-old (at least!). At the time of course it's typically dismissed as the irrelevant musings of a child, until you find your opinion and view on the matter hasn't changed one bit when you're 15, then 18, then 22, then... |
| i just want 1 kid, imma be the best dad. dont want more as india is flooding with population anyways. |
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| 2/10 Plus this place isn't fitting to my standards in regards to raising kids |
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TinyTabun said: GenshinRosaria said: We got engaged in 2017 after she nagged me to death about it. We got our mortgage in 2016 after she nagged me to death about it. I met her end of 2010. Our son was born April 2022. Btw I've fucked 21 women and countless trans (because trans cann't get pregnant). Obviously, I could have fucked mroe women if I pursued more women but I was looking for relationships not casual sex with women. Most of the girls I fucked were girlfriends. Nagging anyone into engagement or marriage sounds like a nightmare, I don't know how she has any self esteem after that...And definitely don't want any guy that has put his pill in that many humans Well like I said, it wasn't just her. A few of them nagged me for the same shit since I was 18. So what is your body count and what is the max body count you would accept in a guy for a serious relationship? Maybe that should be a new thread. Wanna do the honors? |
| Not planning to have one. I have various reasons which formed as I grew up, including the personals ones I have shared at some of the threads here. Though really.. and this is the first time that I will be admitting this -- as if the platform and the anonymity provides credibility but whatever -- I do not want the responsibilities, risks and sacrifices that comes with it. |
 もろともに 哀れと思へ 山桜 花より外に 知る人もなし. On a mountain slope, Solitary, uncompanioned, Stands a cherry tree. Except for you, lonely friend, To others I am unknown. |
| I do not want children because I am not mentally stable enough to be in a loving relationship with another person, let alone to care for children. |
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GenshinRosaria said: TinyTabun said: Nagging anyone into engagement or marriage sounds like a nightmare, I don't know how she has any self esteem after that...And definitely don't want any guy that has put his pill in that many humans Well like I said, it wasn't just her. A few of them nagged me for the same shit since I was 18. So what is your body count and what is the max body count you would accept in a guy for a serious relationship? Maybe that should be a new thread. Wanna do the honors? I can only imagine the storm that would cause haha. I don't have a hard number for what I would accept but less than 5 would be my goal as someone with a very very low body count |
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| I hate children, also I don't believe I have good enough responsibility to take care of them |
 "Only one with the courage to shoulder the burden of their own fate can be called a hero.." |
| Probably about 60% or so. I think having a loyal & loving family probably is one of the best things to ever experience in life... although I think it would be unlikely for me. |
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