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Feb 2, 2020 12:16 AM

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Because doxing yourself isn't very smart
Feb 2, 2020 12:24 AM

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No one does that on any forum since the inception of the internet lol It's like an unspoken rule.

[besides forums that focus on that kind of stuff, like bodybuilding forums or dating sites where it makes more sense]
Feb 2, 2020 3:23 AM

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It's a website for listing anime you've watched, i don't think using real pictures is necessary at all. I actually prefer people using anime pics and stuff. I did have a pic of myself in my profile's about me section for a little bit since i saw a few others do it and wanted to be one of those people who don't care about putting themselves out there. I decided it felt too much like a regular social media site if i had my real pic around, just being seen as an anime icon is nice.

Idk, my feelings might change on it again someday, but for now i'm not bothering to have a pic of myself on MAL. I do use my real pic on discord though, it's a lot less out in the open there since only my friends would see. I still kind of want to switch back to my default Rika icon though lol.
Feb 2, 2020 4:12 AM
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I do it sometimes but I always make it so edgy that I'm unrecognizable.
Feb 2, 2020 4:25 AM

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Because ppl will judge me based on my appearance :3 (even though I don't think I'm ugly, it has nothing to do with attractiveness and more to do with racism and the likes).

I'm here to talk about my hobby so I prefer to showcase my favorite character as my profil page :3
Feb 2, 2020 5:36 AM

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but why? It's the internet, it's not that we don't trust people online it's simply that it's the fucking internet and people have preferences and use a profile picture of a character they like or a certain hobby. Imo I think it's better that there are less people with there own photo as there pfp. The internet should be an anonymous interaction ground were people can discuss things they like, problems they have and stories about themselves without having people know who they are.
Feb 2, 2020 5:44 AM

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Probably because of privacy. I mean it's common sense on the internet. This ain't Facebook it's an anime website.

Feb 2, 2020 5:45 AM

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I tried that but half MAL had a boner for me :c
Feb 2, 2020 5:48 AM

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Deathko said:
I tried that but half MAL had a boner for me :c


I've never seen it (your picture). So I wouldn't know if you're telling the truth or not. xD

Feb 2, 2020 5:48 AM

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For the same reason you don't use your full real name as you nick on MAL?

Privacy aside, I just find it better taste to align your online identity to the site you are on. On anime site I'll have anime-style avatar and related name.
Feb 2, 2020 6:05 AM

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ShadowByte said:
Deathko said:
I tried that but half MAL had a boner for me :c


I've never seen it (your picture). So I wouldn't know if you're telling the truth or not. xD

It's still here on MAL so np. But please don't fall in love with me.

Feb 2, 2020 6:08 AM

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Deathko said:
ShadowByte said:


I've never seen it (your picture). So I wouldn't know if you're telling the truth or not. xD

It's still here on MAL so np. But please don't fall in love with me.



Well, if you say it's you. I guess it looks cool. Just reminded me of Johnny Depp.

Feb 2, 2020 7:54 AM

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In a way I am. btw, its not just MAL.
emraanash said:
- There very few profile I saw who use their real information and real picture as their identity. It feels like people don't trust MAL, Am I wrong?
why arent you?
Feb 2, 2020 8:28 AM

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emraanash said:
- There very few profile I saw who use their real information and real picture as their identity. It feels like people don't trust MAL, Am I wrong?


I generally don't trust people I don't know.Plus there are a lot of nuts out there who will harass you because they don't like what you said or believe.
Feb 2, 2020 8:32 AM

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Bayek said:
Who I really am is irrelevant to why I'm on MAL. This isn't some irl social media gathering. I'm here for anime and I want every facet of my profile to reflect that.


This. Also, I don't think I'm alone in saying this, but I don't necessarily find myself attractive, so I'd rather have a picture of something I like or enjoy.
          
Feb 2, 2020 11:26 AM

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I personally dont post my face most places because of anonymity but on this site, in general, it'd be weird since the theme is anime people are here for anime and to embrace their hobbies
and as someone else said, using your face on forums is weird.
Feb 3, 2020 1:03 AM

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Twitter, FB and insta I can totally see people using their real photos... but on MAL the atmosphere doesn’t really seem right to have a profile picture of ones self. It seems to just fit the theme of all things anime!!
Feb 3, 2020 1:11 AM
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if I recognised someone in their profile picture on an anime forum I would bully them ngl
Feb 3, 2020 2:32 AM

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i honestly don't know what the other people reason is. as for me, i don't have any problem using rl pfp tbh but you see, "when you're in Rome, be like a roman". since no romans (read:MALers) use rl pfp, even the senates (read:mods), except our (ex)Emperor, Xinil. since i am nobody like the Emperor, so i just behave like the romans, lel xD
Feb 3, 2020 2:57 AM
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Well I do use my real pic on all of my social media profiles.
When it comes to MAL most people here use anime avatars so I would feel like a weird one out besides there are plenty of creeps lurking here the last thing I want is to increase amount of harassment that I already have to deal with.
Since this is not a social media site or a dating site it's just an anime listing site and forum so I don't think that real pics are necessary for stating your opinion on anime.
Many people are gonna be more honest when they are anonymous which is a good thing for the most part.
Feb 3, 2020 7:26 AM

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I sincerely don't want to scar MAL users for the rest of their lives.
Feb 3, 2020 7:30 AM

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Why would anyone use an actual picture of themself for anything when instead you can use a picture of red from Pokémon
Feb 3, 2020 8:28 AM

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juiccbox said:
Why would anyone use an actual picture of themself for anything when instead you can use a picture of red from Pokémon


Why would anyone use an actual picture of themself for anything when instead you can use a picture of manly people from gachimuchi nico douga.


Feb 3, 2020 8:46 AM

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I am happy with how I look but I prefer to use cartoons or pictures of cute animals just in case someone ever tries to stalk me. It is VERY easy to stalk people on the internet. For example: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-50000234
Feb 3, 2020 8:55 AM

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My parents taught me to never share photos of myself online when I was a kid in the 90s :)
Feb 3, 2020 9:08 AM

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Xstasy said:
Since this is not [...] a dating site


BRRTRRTRRTRRT. Wrong answer, sorry. But you're not here since long, you might not have noticed yet :p
Feb 3, 2020 10:35 AM

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I love my anonymity. In fact I might dread seeing other people's actual pics cause it might humanize them too much and I'll realise I've been texting actual people who fall ill and need hugs sometimes...... terrifying
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Feb 3, 2020 10:43 AM

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HappyPicnic said:
I love my anonymity. In fact I might dread seeing other people's actual pics cause it might humanize them too much and I'll realise I've been texting actual people who fall ill and need hugs sometimes...... terrifying


What a coincidence. I was thinking the same but on the opposite tangent. Seeing their real faces will rile me up even more. Actually, I think if everybody put their real picture on here they'd say stupid shit less often. Still won't stop me from getting pissed off more than usual when I can see how old they actually are.
Feb 3, 2020 10:53 AM
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Thanakos said:
HappyPicnic said:
I love my anonymity. In fact I might dread seeing other people's actual pics cause it might humanize them too much and I'll realise I've been texting actual people who fall ill and need hugs sometimes...... terrifying


What a coincidence. I was thinking the same but on the opposite tangent. Seeing their real faces will rile me up even more. Actually, I think if everybody put their real picture on here they'd say stupid shit less often. Still won't stop me from getting pissed off more than usual when I can see how old they actually are.
At least you wouldn't question my age if I have my real pic up. In fact you'd say I don't look a day older than 25 XD
Feb 3, 2020 10:54 AM

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I never understood why people would use their IRL photos on a site like youtube, or on forum sites. I can understand if its instagram or facebook where you're actually adding people you know IRL.
Feb 3, 2020 10:55 AM

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HappyPicnic said:
I love my anonymity. In fact I might dread seeing other people's actual pics cause it might humanize them too much and I'll realise I've been texting actual people who fall ill and need hugs sometimes...... terrifying


should i delete my selfie in your profile? lol
Feb 3, 2020 11:02 AM

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deg said:
HappyPicnic said:
I love my anonymity. In fact I might dread seeing other people's actual pics cause it might humanize them too much and I'll realise I've been texting actual people who fall ill and need hugs sometimes...... terrifying


should i delete my selfie in your profile? lol


Lollllss aww no, don't say that! I've humanised you already. So now I care :'( like if you disappear from mal for years after making it seem like u killed urself (like that one post) I'll think about it from time to time and be sad maybe
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Feb 3, 2020 11:03 AM

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operationvalkyri said:
Thanakos said:


What a coincidence. I was thinking the same but on the opposite tangent. Seeing their real faces will rile me up even more. Actually, I think if everybody put their real picture on here they'd say stupid shit less often. Still won't stop me from getting pissed off more than usual when I can see how old they actually are.
At least you wouldn't question my age if I have my real pic up. In fact you'd say I don't look a day older than 25 XD


I'm pretty sure you haven't aged a day after 25, mentally or otherwise.
Feb 3, 2020 11:07 AM

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Thanakos said:


What a coincidence. I was thinking the same but on the opposite tangent. Seeing their real faces will rile me up even more. Actually, I think if everybody put their real picture on here they'd say stupid shit less often. Still won't stop me from getting pissed off more than usual when I can see how old they actually are.


Haha maybe if they looked like real smug assholes I might get riled up too. I know if they got that big dick energy Ill irrationally hate em.
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Feb 3, 2020 11:09 AM

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HappyPicnic said:
deg said:


should i delete my selfie in your profile? lol


Lollllss aww no, don't say that! I've humanised you already. So now I care :'( like if you disappear from mal for years after making it seem like u killed urself (like that one post) I'll think about it from time to time and be sad maybe


thanks for that, and nah im a coward so im not gonna bother doing or attempting suicide anymore lol i rather die a natural death
Feb 3, 2020 11:11 AM

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HappyPicnic said:
Thanakos said:


What a coincidence. I was thinking the same but on the opposite tangent. Seeing their real faces will rile me up even more. Actually, I think if everybody put their real picture on here they'd say stupid shit less often. Still won't stop me from getting pissed off more than usual when I can see how old they actually are.


Haha maybe if they looked like real smug assholes I might get riled up too. I know if they got that big dick energy Ill irrationally hate em.


Congratulations. I'm the first person you can officially and irrationally hate. Don't worry, I'll hate you too if you hate me.
Feb 3, 2020 11:17 AM

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Thanakos said:
HappyPicnic said:


Haha maybe if they looked like real smug assholes I might get riled up too. I know if they got that big dick energy Ill irrationally hate em.


Congratulations. I'm the first person you can officially and irrationally hate. Don't worry, I'll hate you too if you hate me.


Boy you cant be having BDE saying you'll hate me too if I hate u. That's cute!
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Feb 3, 2020 11:24 AM

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I read how this user put his picture and a bunch of other random users used his picture for their profile.

Feb 3, 2020 11:26 AM

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I don't really need to see anyone's face to talk to them unless they somehow become close friends and even then, that's not the end of the world. I guess I just don't want my face to be too much on the internet either. I don't even use selfies for instagram or twitter.
Feb 3, 2020 11:27 AM

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HappyPicnic said:
Thanakos said:


Congratulations. I'm the first person you can officially and irrationally hate. Don't worry, I'll hate you too if you hate me.


Boy you cant be having BDG saying you'll hate me too if I hate u. That's cute!


Cute and dangerous are surprisingly close, separated only by determination. Don't worry, I'm determined to hate you until you stop hating me <3
Feb 3, 2020 11:51 AM

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Thanakos said:
HappyPicnic said:


Boy you cant be having BDG saying you'll hate me too if I hate u. That's cute!


Cute and dangerous are surprisingly close, separated only by determination. Don't worry, I'm determined to hate you until you stop hating me <3


Determination is v Cute if you ask me.
Oh no if u r that determined I'll melt, but my mother didn't raise a quitter. So now I'll have to hate u with resignation and hate myself for my limiting principles.
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Feb 3, 2020 12:55 PM

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because i hate myself and how i look and can live without people seeing it when i could have a cute girl there instead lol
Feb 3, 2020 1:05 PM
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The lack of confidence in this thread makes me sad. Some of you feel you are 'ugly' and don't want to show yourself. Others feel out of place since everyone else is using anime pics. That sounds like follower talk. Be a leader. You don't have to lead others just lead yourself. Be yourself. Nothing wrong with going against the grain sometimes.

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My parents taught me to never share photos of myself online when I was a kid in the 90s :)

They also told you not to talk to strangers and yet here you are.
Feb 3, 2020 2:12 PM

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no offence but someones face is last thing i want to find here
Feb 3, 2020 2:33 PM

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Why would I want a picture of my own face as my pfp when I could have a cute anime girl instead?
Feb 3, 2020 2:45 PM
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I don’t like pictures for one thing. I also don’t really like giving out any of my personal information.
Feb 3, 2020 2:48 PM

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What do you mean? This is me. I'm an anime character. AMA.
Feb 3, 2020 2:50 PM

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Freshell said:
What do you mean? This is me. I'm an anime character. AMA.
Do you have a body double for all the doujin or do you act them all out?
Feb 3, 2020 2:52 PM

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Kosmonaut said:
Freshell said:
What do you mean? This is me. I'm an anime character. AMA.
Do you have a body double for all the doujin or do you act them all out?

I don't have any doujinshi. I'm pure because I'm from a 30 minute short. Next?
Feb 3, 2020 2:55 PM

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Freshell said:
Kosmonaut said:
Do you have a body double for all the doujin or do you act them all out?

I don't have any doujinshi. I'm pure because I'm from a 50 minute short. Next?
How can you be a prude and an anime character? This is impossible, therefore a lie. Another claim at being an anime character debunked.
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