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Sep 18, 2017 7:31 AM
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i just watch a series of anime and the ending was quite tearjerker,when it was end,i cried like i was there,the pain,sadness,the memory when i was with him,showing in my mind over and over.i feel it like it was a real emotion,from my life.tbh,i cried like that only when someone closes to me passed away,of course the Character in the series i mention was also at the same circumstances.but man,in anime?

so is it strange?,because i confused
Sep 18, 2017 7:33 AM
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No it isn't. The Japanese are great at writing emotional stories.
Sep 18, 2017 7:39 AM
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i dont know about you but, i think you never experienced something saddening in your life that would make you feel pain (i think). The death of an anime character we like is sad indeed, but the death of someone we like in real life is even more sadder.

but no its not strange to me, tho others may find it way too strange.

Sep 18, 2017 7:40 AM
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Pixel_Vapour said:
No it isn't. The Japanese are great at writing emotional stories.
Not really. A lot of them tend to be melodramatic like Your Lie, Angel Beats and Toradora. They try to create sad scenes but the characters fail to get you to create a bond with them and then the scenes come off as forced
Sep 18, 2017 7:43 AM
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Sad events in anime can hurt
But sad events in real life always hurt so much more
You never experienced the death of a family member or a friend I guess
Sep 18, 2017 7:45 AM
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Maybe its because you stopped giving a fuck in the real world. It happens a lot. The real world is just too toxic to give a damn but hey there are anime that can make you feel all kinds of emotions.
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Sep 18, 2017 7:47 AM
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harshtruth said:
Pixel_Vapour said:
No it isn't. The Japanese are great at writing emotional stories.
Not really. A lot of them tend to be melodramatic like Your Lie, Angel Beats and Toradora. They try to create sad scenes but the characters fail to get you to create a bond with them and then the scenes come off as forced

Uhmmmmm.
>"Comes off as melodramatic"
>Lists actual melodrama.
The fuck do you expect.

Can't you even list actual good examples. I mean Graves and Hotarubi are sad non-melodramatic anime. And effing wistful Shinkai.
Sep 18, 2017 7:48 AM
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Eh..? Since when did you even had a lyf?..

Is it just 5depressing9you?? wondering how platonic your thread filled with bunch of graffiti crap

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Sep 18, 2017 7:48 AM
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harshtruth said:
Pixel_Vapour said:
No it isn't. The Japanese are great at writing emotional stories.
Not really. A lot of them tend to be melodramatic like Your Lie, Angel Beats and Toradora. They try to create sad scenes but the characters fail to get you to create a bond with them and then the scenes come off as forced


Maybe you just don't like those series but they are pretty good.
But that doesn't matter because you didn't really prove him wrong. You can feel strong emotion even from anime that don't have drama in their center, such as One Piece or Beck (personal picks).
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Sep 18, 2017 7:51 AM

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Erebus25 said:
Maybe you just don't like those series because they are pretty good.
Lol, wut? I don't like it because it's "good"...ok you need to make sense
Sep 18, 2017 7:52 AM

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harshtruth said:
Pixel_Vapour said:
No it isn't. The Japanese are great at writing emotional stories.
Not really. A lot of them tend to be melodramatic like Your Lie, Angel Beats and Toradora. They try to create sad scenes but the characters fail to get you to create a bond with them and then the scenes come off as forced


I'm a big fan of Your Lie in April and Toradora and found both incredibly emotional. I didn't find Angel Beats that emotional though despite liking it. All 3 are melodramatic I'll give you that.

(I find it odd that we have 31.1% affinity. I really don't understand how it works)
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Brb said:
harshtruth said:
Not really. A lot of them tend to be melodramatic like Your Lie, Angel Beats and Toradora. They try to create sad scenes but the characters fail to get you to create a bond with them and then the scenes come off as forced

Uhmmmmm.
>"Comes off as melodramatic"
>Lists actual melodrama.
The fuck do you expect.

Can't you even list actual good examples. I mean Graves and Hotarubi are sad non-melodramatic anime. And effing wistful Shinkai.
Listing the popular choices of "sad anime" because it's mainstream and most people are aware of...and really? Graves is sad? You need to nut up
Sep 18, 2017 8:09 AM

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tragedydesu said:
Sad events in anime can hurt
But sad events in real life always hurt so much more
You never experienced the death of a family member or a friend I guess


i was experienced it all,friend,family and it feel like the same as i feel for watching an anime that make my emotion like that.of course it was sad and painful to lost someone in real life,but what more is in anime.is that,i can re-watch it and the feels comeback all the time,when a very fucking reminiscent scene,but in real life i learn how to move on.maybe because after i finish the series,on my social media,all about
it come again as a result from my searching about the series LOL
Sep 18, 2017 8:09 AM

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Probably because your life is boring.
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Sep 18, 2017 8:12 AM

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Idk about irl, but anime sure has a easier time evoking emotions from me than live action.
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Sep 18, 2017 8:15 AM
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Please, fix your writing. It was really hard to understand anything from that blob of text.

As for the topic, you can't compare emotions that you're witnessing when you're watching any type of medium be it a movie, tv show, anime or even comics, to the emotions that you would witness in a real world, in real situations with real people. It may seem obvious, but that's how it is.

I'm writing this as an answer for the title alone, as in that unreadable description, you've stated that your emotions after an anime were the same as in a real-life scenario, and not sadder.
So that's that.
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MortalMelancholy said:
Probably because your life is boring.


my life is incredibly happy,sad,stressed,etc.boring is one of it,that is why i watch anime in the first place.i laugh a little cause it a little bit pierce my heart LOL
Sep 18, 2017 8:20 AM

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harshtruth said:
Erebus25 said:
Maybe you just don't like those series because they are pretty good.
Lol, wut? I don't like it because it's "good"...ok you need to make sense

You are right, it should've been "but" instead of "because"
Sep 18, 2017 8:22 AM

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Aslt said:
Please, fix your writing. It was really hard to understand anything from that blob of text.

As for the topic, you can't compare emotions that you're witnessing when you're watching any type of medium be it a movie, tv show, anime or even comics, to the emotions that you would witness in a real world, in real situations with real people. It may seem obvious, but that's how it is.

I'm writing this as an answer for the title alone, as in that unreadable description, you've stated that your emotions after an anime were the same as in a real-life scenario, and not sadder.
So that's that.


yes,finally.i was waiting a reply like you.my mistake and i am sorry.i know that,only my title that really understandable for all people,but i want to tell you guys about it.its my first making a discussion,at first i know the risk of making this,but i can't hold it anymore

I AM SORRY XD
Sep 18, 2017 8:24 AM

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harshtruth said:
Brb said:

Uhmmmmm.
>"Comes off as melodramatic"
>Lists actual melodrama.
The fuck do you expect.

Can't you even list actual good examples. I mean Graves and Hotarubi are sad non-melodramatic anime. And effing wistful Shinkai.
Listing the popular choices of "sad anime" because it's mainstream and most people are aware tof...and really? Graves is sad? You need to nut up

That's a matter of degree. Japan seems to think its sad, I for one agree with that.

Yeah, saying listing mainstream does not change the fact that "melodrama is melodramatic". I mean you could've said over the top or overdrawn, but no, you had to do the duh thing.
Sep 18, 2017 8:26 AM

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Sad and emotional events in fictional world/medium or fantasy can make you cry like a baby. It's not strange at all. I cry all the time over emotional moments in anime. Even fanfictions.

But still, nothing compared to emotional events in real life of course. In fact, not only emotional moments, things like gory images, I don't mind in anime, and to some extent, in movies, but in real life? I'm probably gonna vomit.
Sep 18, 2017 8:27 AM
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Aslt said:
Please, fix your writing. It was really hard to understand anything from that blob of text.

As for the topic, you can't compare emotions that you're witnessing when you're watching any type of medium be it a movie, tv show, anime or even comics, to the emotions that you would witness in a real world, in real situations with real people. It may seem obvious, but that's how it is.

I'm writing this as an answer for the title alone, as in that unreadable description, you've stated that your emotions after an anime were the same as in a real-life scenario, and not sadder.
So that's that.


yes,finally.i was waiting a reply like you.my mistake and i am sorry.i know that,only my title that really understandable for all people,but i want to tell you guys about it.its my first making a discussion,at first i know the risk of making this,but i can't hold it anymore

I AM SORRY XD


There's no need to apologize, just try to express what you mean in an understandable manner, that respects repliers.
Sep 18, 2017 9:42 AM

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Brb said:
Yeah, saying listing mainstream does not change the fact that "melodrama is melodramatic". I mean you could've said over the top or overdrawn, but no, you had to do the duh thing.
Yet many people don't know it's melodrama. Hell even melodrama and overdrawn have similar meanings since they both described exaggerating something so the point isn't lost and more so, you just reinforced it so a better question would be...why are you bitching?
Sep 18, 2017 9:44 AM
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Unless it is someone close to you, no. We tend to feel sympathy and other emotions for people we know, and for fiction, character we got to know.

It is not unusual for us to feel worst for a character we know than a human being we do not know.

If you do not feel more overwhelmed when someone close to you has perished or otherwise, you must not be close then.
Sep 18, 2017 9:52 AM

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I cry out of empathy when I cry for an anime. If something happens to me personally I'm not empathic, I'm just numb, shocked, depressed, suicidal maybe but my body doesn't keep up, it doesnÄt make me cry. Maybe I just care less about myself than about random strangers and fictional characters? I can't say. In any case I don't get that sweet catharsis that empathy provides irl, I can't remember when the last time I cried irl even was. As a kid I was bullied for crying a few times and it just kinda stopped since then, for years I didn't cry at all until I 'learned' to cry again with anime. And I do cry quite frequently for anime, or at least get teary-eyed. Crying is a good thing, it's rewarding, it makes me feel better afterwards, it's pure catharsis. It would be too easy if it came natural in real life, I guess.

Alternatively just think about this: Emotions that are invoked gain their strength by how much you can personally relate to them. They remind you of instances where you felt those same emotions. So it's not weird that if you experienced the loss of a family member, someone in the same situation would resonate strongly with you, linking the emotions you see on screen with your own emotions from the past and creating emotions that are just as strong, if not stronger.
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Sep 18, 2017 10:06 AM

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I don't relate with you so yes, I do find it rather strange. I don't empathize with anime characters nor with characters of any type of show to the point that I'd find their experiences sadder than real life. Especially when those experiences are overblown like it's usual in anime as it makes me lose any belief of those emotions being real.
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Aslt said:
moestatic said:


yes,finally.i was waiting a reply like you.my mistake and i am sorry.i know that,only my title that really understandable for all people,but i want to tell you guys about it.its my first making a discussion,at first i know the risk of making this,but i can't hold it anymore

I AM SORRY XD


There's no need to apologize, just try to express what you mean in an understandable manner, that respects repliers.


for me,this is a great lesson.if i want to make another discussion,or topics,next time i will do it as you said,and it will be understandable :)

and for all of you that replying me,thank you for sharing what you think about the topic!
Sep 19, 2017 6:57 AM

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No because even if it is fictive, it can be based on real life stuff all the same and it's made on purpose so that you can relate.
Sep 19, 2017 7:44 AM
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No anime can be sadder than real life, that shit's beyond depressing.
Sep 19, 2017 8:18 AM

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i mean


i highly doubt anyone will cry for chihaya if something like that happen irl

/shrug
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Sep 19, 2017 9:29 AM

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It could happen,but it depends on the anime series and of course yourself too

So it isn't strange

Life is empty without anime

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no its normal, the story writing is that just emotionally engaging, heck i did not cry when some of my relatives like grandparents died (though i felt some sadness) but i did cry on some scenes of anime
Sep 21, 2017 1:32 AM

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anime is real life though what do u mean boo



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Sep 21, 2017 1:58 AM

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Yup, it is. The reason Clannad, YLIA and such are rated so highly is because people seem to fall apart emotionally the moment some fictional character dies, and they give it 10 "cuz the feels". Nut up.
Sep 21, 2017 2:38 AM
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Hmm, very strange. I never, experience these, emotions. Ever, because sadness, isn't just a, thing. It's a feeling, a emotion, a pain. I get sad, when I watch anime, because I'm lonely. Maybe, I, just, need, a, friend? I, don't, know.

Seriously though, anime is pretty sad. I don't cry (to much alpha testosterone) when life stuff happens. I just accept stuff and move on. Though, it's probably partially due to the fact that I'm a sociopath.
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honestly i feel the same , maybe thats because i never felt the pain irl , i never truly cared or loved anyone even if i try to.. it just doesnt work. but its not strange i suppose .
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