| what is the time limit? Or are you so chill that you dun care, as long as they clean up after themselves and help around a little? Or just an absolute no because you're not that close with people or want your privacy? why or why not ? |
peanutbuttersAug 19, 2017 5:41 PM
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| As long as they clean up after themselves or help around the house it isn't too bad. But there is definitely a time limit. |
| Triangle Blue has made me cut off all friends who may or may not be homeless within the next few years or so |
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| No I'll be picking pieces of glass and blood off the couch if he crashes it |
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| I do not care. the place where I am going to be living does not allow other people to sleep there, tho. If the friend in question is Ninja sure thing. |
Ikaros_42oh said: woah I thought I was welcome dude smhhhhNo I'll be picking pieces of glass and blood off the couch if he crashes it |
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mochakawaiibear said: Ikaros_42oh said: woah I thought I was welcome dude smhhhhNo I'll be picking pieces of glass and blood off the couch if he crashes it Well don't crash is aallllll I'm saying |
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| If it was for a few nights and they were a decent guest, fine. I'd be happy to help them out. But the clock is ticking lol |
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| Yes, if they are a good friend. aaaaaa |
| I literally got a friend crashing on my couch. He's been there so fking long that he pays me $150 a month for it. |
| Be thankful for the wisdom granted to you. |
| As long as they clean up themselves and respect rules |
| Sure, Idc. Better a friend, a person you know then a total stranger... |
| Sure, but they have to be a close friend. |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| If he doesn't smell or reek of urine or alcohol, then yes. You can't throw that person out the street. |
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| As long as they piss in the toilet, not around it |
| I don't have friends irl in the beginning to have anyone to crash at my place. |
| What couch? My friends are just fine with laying on my Tatami floor in my living room. Do have three friends would not mind sharing my Futon with if needed to however. |
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| Friends? What a foreign term... (nah I'm kidding *cough cough* but if I did have a bud that needed to stay over my place, probably a week or so if he plans on staying a month or more he better pay for food at least lol) |
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| My limit is a month, and that's just if they are having a really hard time. I have had a Couch-Man before, and it was a pretty terrible experience. He just drank and played video games all day. He paid rent, but the TV belonged to me and I never got to use it, so it was pretty lame. If it's going to be more than a month, I would rather clear out my spare room and give it to them than have them live on my couch forever. And they will pay rent if it's more than a month, but I'm a first-month-is free kind of girl. If they need to live on my couch, they probably can't afford rent and need a little time to find a job. I'd also be pretty picky if the friend was staying a long time, but I can't turn someone out if they have absolutely nowhere else to go. I would be quite active in getting an irresponsible person into a situation where they are not a liability, though. I tend to not keep people around if they are irresponsible, though, so I don't think I would ever find myself in this situation. |
| I literally had a friend live on my couch for 3 months one time. |
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| Of course. I wouldn't mind it. I got used to the "roommate" thing so I don't see anything wrong with that. Last month I crashed at my friend's place for a week because I had a week full of exams. I go to college that's not in my hometown, friend lives in the city that I go to college to; I left my apartment when classes were over because I don't want to waste money on rent and bills when I can live home. |
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| As long as it is someone who is close to me I'm fine, otherwise I wouldn't even be letting him/her crash at my house |
 "Only one with the courage to shoulder the burden of their own fate can be called a hero.." |
| Don't have my place yet, so question doesn't really apply. But I'd say, like a day tops. I don't really have those sketchy friends anyway tho. |
| I don't mind to a certain extent. They just have to keep the couch clean from any mess. I wouldn't let them eat their food over there. Also I don't want my friend to start screwing his over girl in my couch. Not in my place. Like hell nah. They need to find a different room for that. |
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| Topical since I'm crashing on a couch until Thursday. I think they are fine with it. |
| Absolutely, as long as they let me know beforehand that they need a place to stay the night. |
| If they spend more than 2 months they better start paying |
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| I'm fine provided that I actually like the guy. I wouldn't be annoyed alot, since he will probably deprive me of MAL, something that is quite positive. |
| They better clean up, keep the couch intact and not be a waste of money, time, and space coz I'd rather not deal with nuisances from that person~ They gotta avoid being noisy during anime time too hmm |
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| Wouldn't have a problem with it but they can only stay for a week. I can't have friends or family members over for longer then that. |
| If i had friends yea I've been in that situation a few times myself, the least i can do is give back. |
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| i've done it and would be okay with a friend crashing over for a day or two. clean up after yourself and respect your surrounding. issalgood fam |
ExhalantAug 20, 2017 10:39 PM
| I guess it's fine as long they are not all sweaty and dirty. |
| ehh.. yea, i guess. but. im incredibly dirty, so they'd have to live in my mess. gl gl. hope they like to clean. |
| "My feelings are like the approaching summer clouds - growing bigger and accumulating, sometimes bringing rain." |
| I really dont care they can use everything in my house even if im out they can stay, they can use my house like its their own. |
markfstlgk said: MajesticOtaKing said: My limit is a month, and that's just if they are having a really hard time. I have had a Couch-Man before, and it was a pretty terrible experience. He just drank and played video games all day. He paid rent, but the TV belonged to me and I never got to use it, so it was pretty lame. If it's going to be more than a month, I would rather clear out my spare room and give it to them than have them live on my couch forever. And they will pay rent if it's more than a month, but I'm a first-month-is free kind of girl. If they need to live on my couch, they probably can't afford rent and need a little time to find a job. I'd also be pretty picky if the friend was staying a long time, but I can't turn someone out if they have absolutely nowhere else to go. I would be quite active in getting an irresponsible person into a situation where they are not a liability, though. I tend to not keep people around if they are irresponsible, though, so I don't think I would ever find myself in this situation. I'm crashing on a couch until Thursday. Why did you quote a 4-year-old post to tell me that? |
| I would not like it at all. Prefer to keep the space to myself. At most I would give them 1 night when they need a place to sleep after we go out. Which I have also done in the past. |
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SynapticBlast said: I would be concerned as I do not have friends or a couch. Lol... same... kinda. I don't have friends but I do have a couch... and a spare bed😭 |
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| No homie girl got 7 digits in the bank I sleep in her spare room. |
| If they don't bother me, I won't bother them; we should be gravy. |
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| As long as they clean up after themself and respect boundaries. Other than that they can knock themselves out |
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