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Feb 14, 2013 6:17 PM

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NeoAnkara said:
Do we still view crying as a sign of weakness?

Yes.
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Feb 14, 2013 6:18 PM

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What about manly tear?
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Feb 14, 2013 6:19 PM

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NeoAnkara said:
What about manly tear?

That isn't crying.
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Feb 14, 2013 6:20 PM

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Negative-Travis said:
NeoAnkara said:
What about manly tear?

That isn't crying.
So that isn't considered crying?
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Feb 14, 2013 6:21 PM

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NeoAnkara said:
Negative-Travis said:
NeoAnkara said:
What about manly tear?

That isn't crying.
So that isn't considered crying?

That's what I said.
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Feb 14, 2013 6:21 PM
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Feb 15, 2013 1:42 AM

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JennyEsquire said:
NeoAnkara said:
Do we still view crying as a sign of weakness?

Some of the internet tough guys on here do.

B-But Bloodcalibu-...

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Feb 15, 2013 7:13 AM

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It depends why is he crying... I think its ok too cry in certain situations..like losing a loved one.. (although even then I still would try to hide it >.>)
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Feb 15, 2013 7:30 AM

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I've seen my father cry twice in my entire life. (he is 56 years old).

He cried once when his Mother died.

He cried for 15 minutes when my dog died when I was in high school.

That's basically my opinion.
Feb 15, 2013 7:36 AM

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Only if he's crying over a lame thing.

The coffee shop being out of his favourite blueberry muffins. Pretty fucking lame.
His first born child dying? Not so much.
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Feb 15, 2013 7:57 AM

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Vinter said:
The coffee shop being out of his favourite blueberry muffins. Pretty fucking lame.


I think a man or a woman crying over such a thing would be stupid.
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Feb 15, 2013 8:00 AM

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Nicole I'm so happy to see you again it's been months since I've posted here *cries*
Feb 15, 2013 9:06 AM

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I always cry when I see the state of the forums.

Until I start helping it's downfall, then it's simply laughter.




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Feb 15, 2013 9:56 AM

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apatch3 said:
Nicole I'm so happy to see you again it's been months since I've posted here *cries*


Hellos, why you been so busy? D:
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Feb 15, 2013 10:01 AM

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I have a feeling the social expectations on guys amount to let's not sit down and talk about our feelings unless it's dealing with death, anger, and a bunch of other hotblooded bullshit.
Feb 15, 2013 10:17 AM

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I was half expecting to be snubbed "apatch-who?" XD

Ah lots of things, I had to fly here and there, final year law school is intense - I shouldn't even be here today I have a divorce trial to prepare for and I've never dealt with a divorce before - it doesn't help that I'm representing the husband BAH.

Hope you've been well ^_^
Feb 15, 2013 10:41 AM

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Danielcook said:
I have heard a lot of girls say they think a guy is the "cute" when they cry in front of them. The girls say is because the guy is showing them a feminine side of them which makes it cute.
Thoughts?


I don't see how displaying emotions has anything to do with your "feminine side".
Anyway, it really depends on what you are crying about and how close to the girl you are.
Feb 15, 2013 1:19 PM

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depends what they are crying about. same with girls
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Feb 15, 2013 3:24 PM

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Feb 15, 2013 3:36 PM

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This is the sort of nanny state Orwell forewarned us about. it makes a man want to cry - (see I'm sticking to the subject matter)
Feb 15, 2013 3:47 PM

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Public display of emotion overall is unattractive.
Feb 15, 2013 3:51 PM

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yokaii said:
Public display of emotion overall is unattractive.

Thought I would never post on MAL again cuz it got boring but...

This.
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Feb 15, 2013 4:12 PM

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Bloodcalibur said:
Thought I would never post on MAL again

That would have been nice.
Feb 15, 2013 4:15 PM

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yokaii said:
Public display of emotion overall is unattractive.
By public do you mean public, or do you mean in the presence of any other human being? Because I'm pretty sure the topic is about the latter.
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Feb 15, 2013 11:41 PM

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yokaii said:
Public display of emotion overall is unattractive.


Yeah, I wish everyone walked around all day with poker faces.

Pubic display of anything differing from a walking corpse? Pfft, lame shit.
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Feb 16, 2013 4:28 AM

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Hyack said:
Depends on the situation.
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Feb 16, 2013 4:45 AM

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Crying does not indicate that you are weak, since birth it's a sign of being alive. You cried because you wanted to show that you've been hurt but it doesn't mean your're weak. Even Luffy cried.
Apr 24, 2015 12:12 AM

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Not really it shows the guy the more emotional side of himself plus he reaches to heart more
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Apr 24, 2015 12:20 AM
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no
Apr 24, 2015 12:21 AM

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RobertFjall said:
No
Apr 24, 2015 12:23 AM

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Crying in front of girls isn't necessarily lame. It depends on the situation and what you feel.
Apr 24, 2015 1:35 AM

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depends on the situation

like if ur crying over a paper cut yea ur a wuss
Apr 24, 2015 1:59 AM

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No matter what they say,Anyone finds it lame IMO.
It's been about 3 years,and this post is still going?..
Apr 24, 2015 2:19 AM

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Crying is someting with deeper meaning for me, i try not too cry but sometimes i simply am so filled with everyting so it is more easy too let it go no matter who is aroud (again in front of girl is 1 of scenario i tend too avoid).

So when i see character in anime for example that does cry in front not only 1 girl but everyone for a good reason in hard moment that is very emotional too me if i can understand said character.

But then there is someone like Yuki (mirai nikki yes) that cries sooo much too the point it becomes silly and turn off i mean guy jumps even from dog or his own shadows man.

He does redeem himself partialy but took him long enough.
Apr 24, 2015 2:56 AM
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Personally I don't know. I've never actually cried infront of a girl.
Is it lame? I guess it depends on the girl.
Apr 24, 2015 3:01 AM

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too many variables, dude. narrow it down to a certain situation, at the very least.

Apr 24, 2015 3:13 AM

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It depends on the crowd/reason why you're crying.
Apr 24, 2015 3:13 AM

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Any man who dares show any emotion that isn't blind rage or debilitating lust needs to be murdered ASAP
Apr 24, 2015 4:19 AM

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If there's no bacon, then you bet yo ass I'm gonna cry.
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Apr 24, 2015 4:47 AM

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Lame, no.

Strategic, yes

Apr 24, 2015 5:11 AM
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I don't think it's cute. But I also don't think it makes them a sissy or something. It's expression of emotion. I'll comfort them if they're a friend and if not, I won't judge. Something tear worthy probably happened. That sucks man, cry it out.
Apr 24, 2015 5:53 AM

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Alpha males shouldn't cry in front of other people, even if they're dying inside, they gotta act cool, otherwise you'd be showing weakness to other males and lose your chances of mating.
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Apr 24, 2015 6:01 AM

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Showing a basic human emotion is just that.
Apr 24, 2015 6:02 AM

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I think its fine for men to cry, it shouldn't degrade their masculinity just because people think crying is a thing only females can do openly.


Apr 24, 2015 6:28 AM

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No it's not lame at all...if you enjoy being a sissy boy pretty pink fairy. Listen up betas and sailor boy bunnies, crying is a waste of time and if you're gonna use energy on it then you need a kick in the face to man up.



Do you see tears in that gif? Hell naw! You see two men duking it out and dealing with it.
Apr 24, 2015 6:28 AM

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I think a guy crying in front of me ain't that cute.
If real men cry in front of you,that means they trust you enough to show you their weakness.
Apr 24, 2015 6:40 AM
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A guy do best to never let himself cry.


Apr 24, 2015 6:45 AM

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Obviously.

When I feel like crying, I go to a gay bar.
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Idc if you think its weird, I have a life and friends and an income of money.

Apr 24, 2015 6:46 AM

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Bully-kun said:
Obviously.

When I feel like crying, I go to a gay bar.
but what if gays will-
oh nvm
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