Don't get me wrong I enjoy seeing a good kissing scene when I see one, but is it a must have in a romance anime? It is an act intimacy after all, right. Is simply doing kind things for one another or telling the other person you want to be with them forever not enough to convey the characters emotions and feelings for one another, and yet when an anime doesn't show a kissing scene someone will post something like 'why no kiss'. Even I'm bit disappointed to an certain extent when there is no kiss. Maybe its because since kissing is a significant part of real life romance we come to expect it. What's all of your take.
I am not too familiar with romance anime, but generally to rush things in a romance is to make things less meaningful.
Like you were saying, the simple kind things and the explanations of affection give meaning behind the relationship which builds up this strong bond and connection.
Generally a kissing scene wouldn't hurt, however, but it certainly isn't needed.
drewzm said: Don't get me wrong I enjoy seeing a good kissing scene when I see one, but is it a must have in a romance anime? It is an act intimacy after all, right. Is simply doing kind things for one another or telling the other person you want to be with them forever not enough to convey the characters emotions and feelings for one another, and yet when an anime doesn't show a kissing scene someone will post something like 'why no kiss'. Even I'm bit disappointed to an certain extent when there is no kiss. Maybe its because since kissing is a significant part of real life romance we come to expect it. What's all of your take.
It's not really a big deal but i find in fact i rather like it like this, it allows the the director to convey the relationship between the characters on a more emotional and personal level instead of the direct physical aspect.
Take for instant Byousoku 5 Centimeter, i find it be a great romance/love story even though at no point within the film there is any romance, essentially a romance without the romance.
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it depends
Kara No Kyoukai or shows like that dont really need one
but for most com/dram/rom then yea i would like to see at least, it annoys me when they dont even conclude a romance with a kiss or an "i love u" scene
I sometimes personally don't mind if they don't say 'I love you' because its sometimes not necessary when their actions speak for their selves and their intentions; where its so obvious that both the characters and the audience know it. Not that it would hurt to utter those words but it can be cliche sometimes too.
And it depends on the show mostly, some shows would be great with a kissing scene some it wouldn't matter because they did not focus on the romance so deeply.
Because kissing scenes make otakus nervous and faint.
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its not a necessity. Clannad is a perfect example, there was no kissing scene at all in 50 episodes and no sex scene either even though they had a child but it was still great to watch
And it depends on the show mostly, some shows would be great with a kissing scene some it wouldn't matter because they did not focus on the romance so deeply.
Wow, that would certainly explain a lot. It helps to be more educated about the culture in japan if your reading certain manga or watching anime.
I have a feeling this is in response to the Chuunibyou ending backlash, but...
A kiss is necessary if warranted by the series. As stated before, a show like Clannad pulls it off perfectly without a kiss. Heck, that one hug at the end of the series was more powerful than any kiss could ever have been.
And as far as Chuunibyou is concerned,
even though they did not kiss, it only makes sense, as up until that point Rikka would only 'kiss' by way of pinky, so it would have been way too forced to actually go all the way.
Just seeing the character's true feelings for one another is oftentimes more powerful than any physical thing.
AndyRayy said: I have a feeling this is in response to the Chuunibyou ending backlash, but...
A kiss is necessary if warranted by the series. As stated before, a show like Clannad pulls it off perfectly without a kiss. Heck, that one hug at the end of the series was more powerful than any kiss could ever have been.
And as far as Chuunibyou is concerned,
even though they did not kiss, it only makes sense, as up until that point Rikka would only 'kiss' by way of pinky, so it would have been way too forced to actually go all the way.
Just seeing the character's true feelings for one another is oftentimes more powerful than any physical thing.
If I've read correctly, Rikka and Yuuta did kiss in the LN, so I don't think it would've been too forced or out of place. Really, it would have fit fine during the scene on the beach.
However, I'm not too worried about it not happening. The kiss at the end of a romance doesn't necessarily need to occur for it to reach a satisfying culmination. As it was, the scenes where they hugged on the roof and when they were looking at the "unseen horizon" on the beach were very powerful.
If I've read correctly, Rikka and Yuuta did kiss in the LN, so I don't think it would've been too forced or out of place. Really, it would have fit fine during the scene on the beach.
Indeed, I've read the first light novel and that is the case. But the kiss takes place in a different context, though you're right in saying it would have fit at that particular scene. I found the way they did it in the anime to feel more in character for them, at least through my eyes.
However, I'm not too worried about it not happening. The kiss at the end of a romance doesn't necessarily need to occur for it to reach a satisfying culmination. As it was, the scenes where they hugged on the roof and when they were looking at the "unseen horizon" on the beach were very powerful.
To be honest, it doesn't matter.
I remember Cardcaptors, The Romance between Sakura and Syaoran was gradual, there was never a kiss, just a confession and what looked like was going to be a hug at the end. But yeah no need for a kiss.
Though Toradora or Zero no Tsukaima, the Kiss adds to the character development. And also helps to create a lasting scene in our heads.
I'll agree that it really depends on the tone that the series is setting.
All relationships are different. Some have more of a sexual/physical attraction between the characters while others are a little slower with the relationship development. One simple truth though? At one point or another, anyone that ever calls themselves a couple do eventually kiss (and eventually go farther), when it comes to anime, that's up to the producers.
I prefer my romance animes to have kissing but honestly, that's because it's more realistic than have BFF lovers. Then again, you might have to take the age of the characters into consideration because older couples (when I say older, I mean HS/college age) are much more likely to get ambitious with their relationship than, let's say a middle school couple.
I might need to take a closer look at this myself...of my favorite anime romances (or couples)...
Angel Beats
No kissing scenes, but lots of romantic imagery, especially toward the end.
ef-a tale of memories
Kissing scenes, especially with Hiro and Miyako...I cannot remember if Renji and Chihiro kissed.
ef-a tale of melodies
I believe there is a kissing scene or two between Yuu and Yuuko.
Sword Art Online
Obviously a pretty famous kissing scene between Kazuto (Kirito) and Asuna.
Steins;Gate
Yup, there's a kissing scene between Okabe and Kurisu before he makes one last jump...that and one with Moeka but that was more forced than romantic (you'd have to see the anime to get it).
Katanagatari
Yeah, there was a kissing scene between Shichika and Togame toward the end of the series.
Gosick
No, there was no kissing scene and honestly, it felt like there should've been one. That anime lacked soul toward the end (well, and common sense).
Hyouka
No kissing scene and one of the few romance animes I watched that didn't really need one. Then again, the romantic themes were pushed to the wayside slightly.
Chrno Crusade
I cannot remember there being any kissing scenes in this anime...but the ending was beautiful in a romantic way.
Elemental Gelade
Yes, there are kissing scenes...a few different ones if I recall.
Ano Hana
No kissing scenes...and honestly didn't need any either.
Hanbun no Tsuki ga Noboru Sora
I actually can't remember if there was one or not. I don't think there was but I could be wrong.
Eureka Seven
Much like SAO, yes, there's a pretty infamous kissing scene in it.
Tasogare Otome x Amnesia
LOTS of kissing in this one but most of it feels more forced than romantic. It still is a romantic series though.
Hmm, of my 14 favorite anime romances, it's 8-6 in favor of kissing scenes. Pretty close. Like I said, I prefer animes with kissing scenes but they aren't "necessary" all the time.
*edit* I went back and edited this because there were a couple I temporarily forgot about. It was 6-6 before, 8-6 after edit.
I don't care much about romance but kissing scene is sometimes fine, when it doesn't feel forced.
The only scene where I really missed a kissing scene was Clannad.
I mean, they never even kissed and suddenly Nagisa is all like 'Mum, dad we're having sex and want to have babies? WTF?
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KingLear said: I don't care much about romance but kissing scene is sometimes fine, when it doesn't feel forced.
The only scene where I really missed a kissing scene was Clannad.
I mean, they never even kissed and suddenly Nagisa is all like 'Mum, dad we're having sex and want to have babies? WTF?
Well, their relationship was purely based on sexual desire. That's how I felt when I watched that anime at least.
The most important part of romance animes are the romantic moments itself, the actual relationship (if it's really a true romance anime, not an anime with romance as a small subgenre).
I really like kiss scenes, the more romantic the better and I get kind of disappointed if a really nice romance anime doesn't have at least one, but that doesn't mean the anime is weaker.
As long as the relationship between the two is obvious (not by letting it be seen by the audience, but by conveying it with words between the characters) it's ok.
The kiss is the final climax, the cherry on the cake, the moment we've all been waiting for, without it the anime seems a bit pointless to me. I think that if a romance anime does not have that kind of moment in it, then it probably is doing something wrong.
Romance without a kiss just seems like it gets no pay off, no "reward", as it were. You can have all the passionate scenes in the world, if at the end we do not get a payback, then what were they for? That being said, it does not mean that if a romance anime has no kiss, that it is an automatic bad anime, I just think that it will never be....truly complete, without that moment of triumph...of sorts.
Something like Hyouka didn't need one, however could you imagine Toradora! without it's kiss? It just wouldn't be the same.
This.
I also agree with it. ^_^ I think certain shows don't need it, but some do. Clannad did without it pretty well (>.> Though, my boyfriend and I have this theory of "pregnant by holding hands" since Tomoya and Nagisa never kissed and still had a child), whereas a show like, say, Sukitte Ii na yo has a lot of significance to the kisses shown.
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Something like Hyouka didn't need one, however could you imagine Toradora! without it's kiss? It just wouldn't be the same.
This.
I also agree with it. ^_^ I think certain shows don't need it, but some do. Clannad did without it pretty well (>.> Though, my boyfriend and I have this theory of "pregnant by holding hands" since Tomoya and Nagisa never kissed and still had a child), whereas a show like, say, Sukitte Ii na yo has a lot of significance to the kisses shown.
LOL isn't it because they had a child at the end of the visual novel?