| I guess rudeness is more of a 15-20 year old people thing, now words "bad ass" a.k.a. rude, dominant is extremely popular, especially for girls(atleast in my country). Like what I have seen as a side viewer guys= straight forward at expressing their feelings and that's why they seem rude to girls(but some are legit rude), but girls= are legit "bad asses", they usually throwing curve balls at you in the most savage ways. U probably have unlucky ability called picking "bad ass" guys. |
Soverign said: I'm not talking, I'm typing, second of all: I wouldn't have to type so much if people didn't ask obvious questions that don't need to be answered kiddo. Thanks for contributing to the thread though hihi. WHHHHHHYYYY YOU GOTTA BE SO RUDE!!! Dontcha know i'm human to??? Imma marry that girl someday. Shut up loli you talk too much. ' |
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Kazataro said: I don't really mind if you believe my apology or not. Ya could of tried harder on your set hence your not a 5 year old you know.L_o_l_i said: I was being random hihi. My apologies hence I was in a sugar rush at the time. Hope I didn't hurt your feelings. Sorry but I can't stand people that make fun of others creations, I see you are just like the rest of them. |
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KatsutoSaki said: It never has been and you can even ask Ardanaz or any other staff member to verify that hihi! :3Wait! Wasn't your gender set to male a few days ago? |
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red-tomato said: It's about friendship problems, I just want to be accepted for being me is all hihi.If it’s about dating problems I’m afraid I can offer no help |
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Shinmurai-kuN said: Thank you for checking out my reply since I tried to approach this matter within a private message but your settings are set to friends only.L_o_l_i said: I was well aware of what would happen though thanks for your concern! Believe it or not I found some really helpful advice and met nice new friends teehee! Ps: Sorry for not adding back since I stopped accepting friend requests after hitting 69 to be able to pay atention to all of my current friends and not get overpopulated with 3k+ friends which I will then forget one by one slowly. Again sorry. Ok. I'm glad you know how to deal with this. You seem strong, so that's good. : ) You did? I'm glad that you found some good advice and friends. Heh, that's fine; about friends list. I did want to chat, but I am glad that you are focusing on your existing friends rather than making a hundred of new ones and forgetting about the others. I myself can't handle more than 3 friends, hah. Anyway, have a good time. ^_^ |
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L_o_l_i said: Soverign said: I'm not talking, I'm typing, second of all: I wouldn't have to type so much if people didn't ask obvious questions that don't need to be answered kiddo. Thanks for contributing to the thread though hihi. WHHHHHHYYYY YOU GOTTA BE SO RUDE!!! Dontcha know i'm human to??? Imma marry that girl someday. Shut up loli you talk too much. ' Oh, way to play the semantics victim game loli. It is the same difference, like apples and oranges. In fact, I don't even wan to type at you anymore because you took so long to respond to me. Like, I wasn't just sitting around all day waiting for you to reply to me or anything. I just wish you had a little more empathy and consideration for others. I mean that honestly isn't too much to ask is it loli? Ugh. I don't even know who you are anymore... if I ever even did in the first place. |
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L_o_l_i said: well then, either stay away from them or accept them as they are. I have gone through a somewhat similar experience myself regarding other people. red-tomato said: It's about friendship problems, I just want to be accepted for being me is all hihi.If it’s about dating problems I’m afraid I can offer no help In the end, it's all up to you. There isn't such a thing as a perfectly nice person. If you want to be social, you have to be prepared to get hurt at times. |
| An admin's dickhead Soul banned me from MAL t('v't) |
Soverign said: This is the reason for as to why I haven't answered right away and I hope that you can understand. This goes for any other people that decide to reply to my comments today sorry. (Check my reply to the message below please) It is not my intend to reply late. Some people will take advantage of this like L_o_l_i said: I'm not talking, I'm typing, second of all: I wouldn't have to type so much if people didn't ask obvious questions that don't need to be answered kiddo. Thanks for contributing to the thread though hihi. Oh, way to play the semantics victim game loli. It is the same difference, like apples and oranges. In fact, I don't even wan to type at you anymore because you took so long to respond to me. Like, I wasn't just sitting around all day waiting for you to reply to me or anything. I just wish you had a little more empathy and consideration for others. I mean that honestly isn't too much to ask is it loli? Ugh. I don't even know who you are anymore... if I ever even did in the first place. @Railey2 to try to judge me and that's just sad.  |
L0LlNov 23, 2018 8:57 AM
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L_o_l_i said: So you just let everyone come to you?LoneWolf said: Letting someone tell you what to do all the time is bad taste? I didn't pick them hence they came to me kiddo.Sounds like you just have bad taste in dudes, git gud scrub. Seriously though, you didn't give any details on how exactly these guys were being rude to you? Did they start calling you names or like showing up late? Did they start forcing you to do sexual stuff or touch you inappropriately. What exactly is the extent of this "rudeness". You might just be interpreting shit differently. When you get to know someone for a longer period of time its easier to tease them or make jokes that might be offensive. It sounds like you're just used to ppl walking on eggshells around you and when they let loose a little you interpret it as "rude". Don't pretend like you have no power over who you do and don't socialize with. If all your relationships and friendship with the other gender turn to shit, there are only 3 reasonable explanations for what's going on: 1) You are a horrible judge of character 2) You have a horrible character yourself 3) Both of the above I don't agree that often with @LoneWolf but he's right on the money here. |
| "my life at this state could be transposed into a pretty massive biography" - Cneq, "the guy who was literally using BTC in 2012 to make deals in the first main instance of a digital itemized economy forming naturally in all human history (also the precursor of NFTs) and who had 20k+ total trades.", 23 years old MAL's most prolific antivaxxer, Noboru. |
| This sounds like a post by someone who still thinks cooties are a thing. You will grow out of it. |
Not_Ryan_Gosling said: You just haven't ran into controlive guys is all. Props to ya.This sounds like a post by someone who still thinks cooties are a thing. You will grow out of it. |
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L_o_l_i said: Kazataro said: I don't really mind if you believe my apology or not. Ya could of tried harder on your set hence your not a 5 year old you know.Sorry but I can't stand people that make fun of others creations, I see you are just like the rest of them. Bold claim when you draw like a five year old yeah I said it |
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| So let me get this straight, you're posting a thread that clearly betrays that you're failing as a social actor and then you ask people not to judge you? If you're that naive, then reason 1) is a given. But no, forget about that, it's a red herring. Here's whats up: I didn't judge you on a personal level, you are the one who decided to take it personally. You gave us a situation. You fail at discerning peoples motives and disproportionally have contact to people that eventually start treating you badly. This is a situation that doesn't just randomly occur, it occurs for a reason and I gave you 3. Given the situation, it was the correct answer and everything else is beating around the bush. That's it. |
| "my life at this state could be transposed into a pretty massive biography" - Cneq, "the guy who was literally using BTC in 2012 to make deals in the first main instance of a digital itemized economy forming naturally in all human history (also the precursor of NFTs) and who had 20k+ total trades.", 23 years old MAL's most prolific antivaxxer, Noboru. |
Kazataro said: Thanks for the compliment hence i don't try my best nowadays and still manage to sell them for 10 bucks hihi.L_o_l_i said: I don't really mind if you believe my apology or not. Ya could of tried harder on your set hence your not a 5 year old you know. Bold claim when you draw like a five year old yeah I said it |
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Railey2 said: Anyone with real common sense can see through the lies you've said. Threads are meant to give out an opinion and not just straight out go chasing after someone for their tastes. You're the one who commented directly towards those thoughts and couldn't keep them bottled up to yourself unless ya wanted to hurt me in an emotional level and you've failed. I have seen people like you and all they get is the ignore button. Thanks for participating on the thread adios. :3So let me get this straight, you're posting a thread that clearly betrays that you're failing as a social actor and then you ask people not to judge you? If you're that naive, then reason 1) is a given. But no, forget about that, it's a red herring. Here's whats up: I didn't judge you on a personal level, you are the one who decided to take it personally. You gave us a situation. You fail at discerning peoples motives and disproportionally have contact to people that eventually start treating you badly. This is a situation that doesn't just randomly occur, it occurs for a reason and I gave you 3. Given the situation, it was the correct answer and everything else is beating around the bush. That's it. |
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L_o_l_i said: Thanks for the compliment hence i don't try my best nowadays and still manage to sell them for 10 bucks hihi. I'd buy them too out of pity if you bugged me everyday |
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L_o_l_i said: Why do you keep saying that I want to emotionally harm you? I harbor no ill will towards you, although I'll admit that my patience with you is waning.Railey2 said: Anyone with real common sense can see through the lies you've said. Threads are meant to give out an opinion and not just straight out go chasing after someone for their tastes. You're the one who commented directly towards those thoughts and couldn't keep them bottled up to yourself unless ya wanted to hurt me in an emotional level and you've failed.So let me get this straight, you're posting a thread that clearly betrays that you're failing as a social actor and then you ask people not to judge you? If you're that naive, then reason 1) is a given. But no, forget about that, it's a red herring. Here's whats up: I didn't judge you on a personal level, you are the one who decided to take it personally. You gave us a situation. You fail at discerning peoples motives and disproportionally have contact to people that eventually start treating you badly. This is a situation that doesn't just randomly occur, it occurs for a reason and I gave you 3. Given the situation, it was the correct answer and everything else is beating around the bush. That's it. Let's try something else here, consider the following exchange: A: I didn't take a shower for 6 weeks and lately people give me weird looks and I can tell they're keeping their distance to me. Why is that? B: Maybe because you smell like shit?? A: HOW DARE YOU JUDGE ME You are A. I am B. Get it now? |
| "my life at this state could be transposed into a pretty massive biography" - Cneq, "the guy who was literally using BTC in 2012 to make deals in the first main instance of a digital itemized economy forming naturally in all human history (also the precursor of NFTs) and who had 20k+ total trades.", 23 years old MAL's most prolific antivaxxer, Noboru. |
Railey2 said: L_o_l_i said: Why do you keep saying that I want to emotionally harm you? I harbor no ill will towards you, although I'll admit that my patience with you is waning.Anyone with real common sense can see through the lies you've said. Threads are meant to give out an opinion and not just straight out go chasing after someone for their tastes. You're the one who commented directly towards those thoughts and couldn't keep them bottled up to yourself unless ya wanted to hurt me in an emotional level and you've failed. Let's try something else here, consider the following exchange: A: I didn't take a shower for 6 weeks and lately people give me weird looks and I can tell they're keeping their distance to me. Why is that? B: Maybe because you smell like shit?? C: HOW DARE YOU JUDGE ME You are A. I am B. Get it now? And I am C. Cing my way out of this convo. If Loli wants to make it up to me for calling me out publicly like that Loli knows where I will be. v_v |
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Soverign said: changing peoples quotes is punisheable with death, you had me double check if I didn't write ABC lol.Railey2 said: Why do you keep saying that I want to emotionally harm you? I harbor no ill will towards you, although I'll admit that my patience with you is waning. Let's try something else here, consider the following exchange: A: I didn't take a shower for 6 weeks and lately people give me weird looks and I can tell they're keeping their distance to me. Why is that? B: Maybe because you smell like shit?? C: HOW DARE YOU JUDGE ME You are A. I am B. Get it now? And I am C. Cing my way out of this convo. If Loli wants to make it up to me for calling me out publicly like that Loli knows where I will be. v_v |
| "my life at this state could be transposed into a pretty massive biography" - Cneq, "the guy who was literally using BTC in 2012 to make deals in the first main instance of a digital itemized economy forming naturally in all human history (also the precursor of NFTs) and who had 20k+ total trades.", 23 years old MAL's most prolific antivaxxer, Noboru. |
Kazataro said: If I recall you're the one that messaged me hihi. Time for the ignore button Mr. N Hentai teehee. I'd buy them too out of pity if you bugged me everyday Ps: It's odd that you don't like my drawings but people add me and want drawing advice from me as well as keep up with my new posts. I love how connected the community can be and all the artists I've met. :3 (ignored)  |
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| Hey OP, sorry for this rude question but ... dont you by any change break MAL PG-13 rating with your age ? |
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Swagernator said: Hatred knows me well enough by now and nope. Are you a friend of them?Hey OP, sorry for this rude question but ... dont you by any change break MAL PG-13 rating with your age ? |
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| jesus fucking christ OP, did you sextuple post in this thread? This is a first. |
| "my life at this state could be transposed into a pretty massive biography" - Cneq, "the guy who was literally using BTC in 2012 to make deals in the first main instance of a digital itemized economy forming naturally in all human history (also the precursor of NFTs) and who had 20k+ total trades.", 23 years old MAL's most prolific antivaxxer, Noboru. |
| Boys just want to see your panties,don't trust them. |
| We already know that "men are pigs"~ @L_o_l_i: Publishing PMs - even if only meta data like the user name, send date, as well as title + parts of the message can be seen - is not okay in my book, though, since those are called private messages for a reason. I can imagine that people appearing less nice than initially towards someone can be a sign of them growing feelings for you. Not in the form that they would want to see you in tantalizing clothes or something - though guys would be less likely to mind it - but more in the form that they want to be as often as possible with you and as close as possible to you. As for the part about "controlling": they say the way to Hell is plastered with good intentions. Maybe there are actually bad boys out there, who try to manipulate people. However, I assume that most guys having told you what to do might be just socially awkward or you are socially awkward or both. I don't think there would be a thread like this with over 100 replies within a day if people could just use the tool called language to communicate with each other instead of about each other. |
Noboru said: You're looking at the matter way differently by thinking that all men are pigs when my first post cleared out the fact that it's not meant towards every single boy out there. Let me clear something up for ya since you might think I'm socially awkward not letting myself be told what to do on the first time. They have asked me to do what they want to do not just ONCE, more than I can count and that's simply controlive is all. Thanks for your concern! :3We already know that "men are pigs"~ @L_o_l_i: Publishing PMs - even if only meta data like the user name, send date, as well as title + parts of the message can be seen - is not okay in my book, though, since those are called private messages for a reason. I can imagine that people appearing less nice than initially towards someone can be a sign of them growing feelings for you. Not in the form that they would want to see you in tantalizing clothes or something - though guys would be less likely to mind it - but more in the form that they want to be as often as possible with you and as close as possible to you. As for the part about "controlling": they say the way to Hell is plastered with good intentions. Maybe there are actually bad boys out there, who try to manipulate people. However, I assume that most guys having told you what to do might be just socially awkward or you are socially awkward or both. I don't think there would be a thread like this with over 100 replies within a day if people could just use the tool called language to communicate with each other instead of about each other. |
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| They don't have nearly as good of social skills as girls. |
The anime community in a nutshell.  |
L_o_l_i said: Aww, no problem! :3You're looking at the matter way differently by thinking that all men are pigs when my first post cleared out the fact that it's not meant towards every single boy out there. Let me clear something up for ya since you might think I'm socially awkward not letting myself be told what to do on the first time. They have asked me to do what they want to do not just ONCE, more than I can count and that's simply controlive is all. Thanks for your concern! :3 However, I have to interject, since the song is meant to be ironic. Even the video creator, who created an Inuyasha AMV out of the song "Männer sind Schweine" (translated: "men are pigs") from "Die Ärzte" has written that they don't intend to hurt the feelings of boys by this. What made me think that you might (not saying you are) be socially awkward was you having felt the need to ask others publicly about it instead of trying to solve your issues directly with the respective other party or to consult with other close people to you. It's difficult to give any qualified statement about your situation without knowing more details, but this is imho. not something that should be done in public. |
NoboruNov 23, 2018 11:35 AM
| I'm just a bad boy bby girl xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
loolz said: good boys are hiding under the mask of bad boys nowdays, unfortunately this is the only way they can integrate into those "social groups" or Forced friendships as I like to call it That is true to the core. In the current society, it's quite natural for males to take the lead, but obviously there are girls out there who's definitely more mature and independent than others. |
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| Holy fuck. This thread is cancerous. |
| Any partner that doesn't let you be you is a bad partner. Love be confounded. I always feel uncomfortable if I see someone trying to control someone else or curb their natural, healthy instincts. We all need structure but when you're trying to force someone to be someone else, it destroys them. Trying to talk to the one who's instilling this behavior is always hard. There are many abusive relationships out there. Don't let it be you, op. |
foxsuprise said: Lads, I think they found the answers in each other's questions... Quite the well-timed destiny I laughed hard at this one. great dude. |
| Whats the point of this thread? Like actually whats the point of mentioning something like this. It's like pointing out that water is wet and not explaining why you brought it up to begin with. I'm confused |
definitely dont be friends with those guys, i cant tell you how many times ive gotten into fights defending girls from guys like that.  |
| I much rather someone be rude to my face, than behind my back. |
| sounds to me like you've just had bad luck with the boys you've met |
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| that's how humans are everyone has a rude side to them, whether they show it or not is up to the individual it just happened that most of those individuals you met who did were males but there is another point that i would like to mention Boys =/= Girls there is the Norm for a Boy, and then there is the Norm for a girl, it just happen that the Norm for a Boy is more Obnoxious than that of a girl's norm is! well, that's as far as i'm gonna go with this Discussion |
| I think its a result of the current internet culture promoting the idea of being ironic and savage as what is considered "cool". Granted, some guys have always been dicks towards people either because they are edgy or because they cant be honest towards their crush, which manifests into rudeness/bullying. |
Maneki-Mew said: Thank you for coming to my aid here. I thought, I didn't have to use a smiley to mark it and could just use my "I'm just kidding" tilde, especially not with how exaggerated the video looked like. The video has translated captions (even better ones at some parts, but you have to click on the button for it), but also thanks for posting the more literal translation in text form. Though I can't recall the part after the "yeah, yeah [...]" after the "Men are cars/only without a spare tire" ("Männer sind Autos/nur ohne Reserverad") part.That was a sarcastic song from a popular German band, where they are making fun of all of these cliches. |
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