This thread is about personal experience and is not meant to every boy out there. Most of the boys that have talked to me pretend to be nice to me but later on just tell me that I should do things their way. I've always ended up ignoring those kinds of people because I don't feel like it's right for me to just follow along to anything they tell me to do. It feels like they want to control me. I feel like the real nice boys are the ones that let me be me. I hope I'm not the only one that has had this issue. |
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| Why are all the cute boys straight?? |
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| it takes 6 weeks of knowing a person before they start to get on your nerves. Don't worry, it's very natural |
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| evolutionary speaking we males are the more dominant, competitive and aggressive gender blame females why they prefer male partners like this that they are not get removed from the gene pool |
| I think men tend to get more to the direct points of conversations rather than passively answering in most cases. This is not neccessarily bad, but it can be interpreted as rude occassionally. If someone would ask me a question I usually aim for a brief but concise answer. In terms of relationships this behavior is more common due to males liking loyalty which sometimes can cause controlling behavior. |
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deg said: I have seen girls like that though they must be passive don't ya think so?evolutionary speaking we males are the more dominant, competitive and aggressive gender blame females why they prefer male partners like this that they are not get removed from the gene pool |
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Hatred said: i wanna know why @Swagernator is rude as well,the amount of times he has ignored me led me to losing half my dignity and pride jokes aside i have never met a guy like the ones u have before so Oh you know why, don't you think otherwise ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) |
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rohan121 said: My step sister suffers from this type of controlative behavior from her boyfriend. They've dated for 5 years now and she stopped talking to a lot of her male friends because her partner would get jealous.I think men tend to get more to the direct points of conversations rather than passively answering in most cases. This is not neccessarily bad, but it can be interpreted as rude occassionally. If someone would ask me a question I usually aim for a brief but concise answer. In terms of relationships this behavior is more common due to males liking loyalty which sometimes can cause controlling behavior. |
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L_o_l_i said: deg said: I have seen girls like that though they must be passive don't ya think so?evolutionary speaking we males are the more dominant, competitive and aggressive gender blame females why they prefer male partners like this that they are not get removed from the gene pool girls like that must be submissive gender equality is only recent in human history anyway so maybe submissive males and dominant females will come out if this gender equality thing progresses more, but for now even feminists i think do not want to initiate dates for the most part so they still prefer the dominant/aggressive/assertive male partner its a sexual selection thing lol |
shotz said: I'd rather be mad at someone than upset because I'm very sensative and don't get angry very easily. (Based on personal opinion)personally i'm rude to ppl cuz i don't want anyone to be sad when i die :( |
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2mg said: Why are all the cute boys straight?? Wait, I'm not straight. You need to look harder. We're out there. |
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Seiya said: sometimes we find a person in the least place we'd expect that is right beneath our noses. Makes it feel like the world is getting smaller each day teehee.2mg said: Why are all the cute boys straight?? Wait, I'm not straight. You need to look harder. We're out there. |
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| It's hard to find a good guy this days. Most of them are rude and simply stupid. You'll need to look harder I suppose. |
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| mmm idk all my male friends are really good people. |
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L_o_l_i said: This thread is about personal experience and is not meant to every boy out there. Most of the boys that have talked to me pretend to be nice to me but later on just tell me that I should do things their way. I've always ended up ignoring those kinds of people because I don't feel like it's right for me to just follow along to anything they tell me to do. It feels like they want to control me. I feel like the real nice boys are the ones that let me be me. I hope I'm not the only one that has had this issue. I would like to know also .....this is the reason i mostly hang with Women other guys are generally mean and rude i thought in general other guys around my age would grow up but well i was wrong. that being said it can also be the type of guys you hang around like i live in a town of Bogans (think hillbillys) so it's expected that the guys are nasty and treat women like meat and are all the sporty types who bully other guys. |
Same tbh i think this thread will attract a ton of them. |
| Guys are more forward. Even the nicest guys I can think of say things that leave me taken aback. Girls are much more "hush hush~". In the end, there are going to be girls more rude than any guy you've known. This is just a people in general type of thing. |
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deg said: But these traits are caused by the testosterone hormone. It has nothing to do with the gene pool. Unless perhaps you want men to have estrogen from now on?evolutionary speaking we males are the more dominant, competitive and aggressive gender blame females why they prefer male partners like this that they are not get removed from the gene pool |
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| I don't know how to answer this question, there are so many reasons. I don't think it is uncommon to feel this way. It might be exhausting, but I think getting to know as many types of people as possible will lead to meeting several decent guys quite quickly. |
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L_o_l_i said: What does this mean? Can you give examples of what they wanted you to do? It's hard to tell if it's bad luck or something else without more details. Sure, meeting one or two controlling boyfriends is one thing, but if you're meeting a lot of people, and this is a recurring event, my bet is that there's something else in the mix.Most of the boys that have talked to me pretend to be nice to me but later on just tell me that I should do things their way. |
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deg said: Dominant, aggressive, assertive, and controlling are all different things. Controlling is not dominant, it is indicative of low self-esteem.L_o_l_i said: girls like that must be submissiveI have seen girls like that though they must be passive don't ya think so? gender equality is only recent in human history anyway so maybe submissive males and dominant females will come out if this gender equality thing progresses more, but for now even feminists i think do not want to initiate dates for the most part so they still prefer the dominant/aggressive/assertive male partner its a sexual selection thing lol |
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| A lot of guys can be very straight forward, including myself. This can misinterpreted as being rude sometimes, but that's not the intent. katsucats said: I'm going to echo Katsucats on this one. Being controlling has nothing to do with being dominant. Controlling has to do with low-self esteem and insecurity.deg said: Dominant, aggressive, assertive, and controlling are all different things. Controlling is not dominant, it is indicative of low self-esteem.girls like that must be submissive gender equality is only recent in human history anyway so maybe submissive males and dominant females will come out if this gender equality thing progresses more, but for now even feminists i think do not want to initiate dates for the most part so they still prefer the dominant/aggressive/assertive male partner its a sexual selection thing lol |
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Lads, I think they found the answers in each other's questions... Quite the well-timed destiny |
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| lol the 2 recent topics that are being answered are complaints toward boys and girls well I do think there are guys who are approaching you with ulterior motives but mostly I guess its just a part of their social personality regardless of gender, there are people who would show their colors when things get into their ways I have met someone who literally is there to meet new people, especially girls, just to increase his number of friends on socal media in order to make him feel popular |
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| Nice bait, regardless of whether you purposefully meant for it to be. If you want the thread not to be targeted at all boys you should make it "Why are some boys rude" or something similar, because as it stands, it's targeting all boys. Are you sure you're not a naughty girl, op? |
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katsucats said: I've been banned in other forums for speaking my mind and I purposely skipped those details to avoid unwanted atention hihi. All these bad experiences have made me stronger though my heart remain soft somehow. I wish I could leave behind my heartache and cast away at times.L_o_l_i said: What does this mean? Can you give examples of what they wanted you to do? It's hard to tell if it's bad luck or something else without more details. Sure, meeting one or two controlling boyfriends is one thing, but if you're meeting a lot of people, and this is a recurring event, my bet is that there's something else in the mix.Most of the boys that have talked to me pretend to be nice to me but later on just tell me that I should do things their way. |
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lamawalrus said: Thank you for the honest answer. I was just speaking out my mind hihi.I don't know how to answer this question, there are so many reasons. I don't think it is uncommon to feel this way. It might be exhausting, but I think getting to know as many types of people as possible will lead to meeting several decent guys quite quickly. |
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mascarpone said: That's the reason I give them a chance and my heart gets stepped on anyway. I find this thread very helpful for advice. Thank you for the honesty.A lot of guys can be very straight forward, including myself. This can misinterpreted as being rude sometimes, but that's not the intent. |
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mayoinnaisu said: I spoke out of the heart and if that didn't seem genuine enough for ya I'm sorry. I do keep seing people increase their friend list by 3k+ just to look popular and that's the reason whenever one of them asks to be friends with me I deny them. I have met someone who literally is there to meet new people, especially girls, just to increase his number of friends on socal media in order to make him feel popular |
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Gan_water said: Ya reminded me of this song that I relate to in a very deep emotional level hihi. Thanks for the helpful info.it takes 6 weeks of knowing a person before they start to get on your nerves. Don't worry, it's very natural |
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Mayling said: I tried that and got a perma ban for cussing them out to leave me be. Nowadays I'm thankful there's an ignore button teehee. Thank you for the support, really needed it. :3Boys are stupid. Also just be clear about your own views and opinions, and if someone don't respect you tell them to fuck off |
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L_o_l_i said: You're welcome and I do my best to avoid sugar coating things.mascarpone said: That's the reason I give them a chance and my heart gets stepped on anyway. I find this thread very helpful for advice. Thank you for the honesty.A lot of guys can be very straight forward, including myself. This can misinterpreted as being rude sometimes, but that's not the intent. |
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L_o_l_i said: [Ya reminded me of this song that I relate to in a very deep emotional level hihi. Thanks for the helpful info. Oh for real I'm very glad haha ^^ Imagine Dragons always makes me want to listen to RAdiohead again |
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Gan_water said: Without trying to get off topic no lie I could listen to them for hours. L_o_l_i said: [Ya reminded me of this song that I relate to in a very deep emotional level hihi. Thanks for the helpful info. Oh for real I'm very glad haha ^^ Imagine Dragons always makes me want to listen to RAdiohead again |
L0LlNov 22, 2018 5:39 PM
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Kazataro said: I threw my heart away a long time ago. At least ya still wear yours hihi.You gotta find a guy that wears their heart on their sleeve like me |
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| Most men aren't rude in my opinion and while many people lack courtesy I would say that people nowadays are a lot nicer than what it used to be let's say 200, 100, 50 or even 30 years ago. deg said: girls like that must be submissive gender equality is only recent in human history anyway so maybe submissive males and dominant females will come out if this gender equality thing progresses more, but for now even feminists i think do not want to initiate dates for the most part so they still prefer the dominant/aggressive/assertive male partner its a sexual selection thing lol I don't think submissiveness is a gender thing. You remember that mal thread about whether you are S or an M, the ratios were pretty much the same for both sexes with males being slightly more S but considering that there are men who just wouldn't admit it because of social pressure makes me think that if everyone answered honestly they would be very close if not equal. In fact if you look at history examples long before gender equality or feminism were a thing there were plenty of documented M males and S females. I believe the reason behind why we have this stereotype is that "aggressive", "dominant" and "assertive" partner is usually considered a strong one that will most likely make your life easier by bringing more security/stability to it even if it means giving up on your true nature. In fact I talked on that topic with a SE Asian girl recently who believe that being a female in her country is a blessing and would sacrifice some of her freedom just to avoid the hell that males go through to get a good education and a decent job in order to support a family. And to be honest I doubt it would be any different if society was the complete opposite, a lot of men would most likely accept a dominant woman as their partner even if they don't have a submissive nature as long as she's is able to support the whole family and reduce their responsibilities to housework and watching after potential children they might have. |
| Boys can be rude. Girls can be rude. Men can be rude. Women can be rude. Non-binary people can be rude. Transgender people can be rude. People can be rude. Some aren't, but some are. That's about as far as anyone can really go into discussing this matter. Anything else seems to turn the corner into sexism and baseless generalizations with lightning speed. |
YaoiMaster said: deg said: But these traits are caused by the testosterone hormone. It has nothing to do with the gene pool. Unless perhaps you want men to have estrogen from now on?evolutionary speaking we males are the more dominant, competitive and aggressive gender blame females why they prefer male partners like this that they are not get removed from the gene pool lol hormones are part of biology and genetics is the blueprint of any biology anyway plus those who become fathers undergo hormonal changes like increase in estrogen levels https://www.livescience.com/46322-fatherhood-changes-brain.html |
L_o_l_i said: Kazataro said: I threw my heart away a long time ago. At least ya still wear yours hihi.You gotta find a guy that wears their heart on their sleeve like me That's so corny unless you were trying to make me laugh then good job |
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Kazataro said: It's funny to me that you thought I was serious. Glad I gave ya a giggle or two though hihi.L_o_l_i said: I threw my heart away a long time ago. At least ya still wear yours hihi. That's so corny unless you were trying to make me laugh then good job  |
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