| Them being jealous doesn't meant they are faithful, actually if they start suspecting you of cheating all of a sudden it might be because that's what they are up to |
| Depends on each person. Some people tend to has their Jealousy too damn high that later turn out to be stalker. |
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| ''A jealous girlfriend is a girlfriend with trust issues and terrible self confidence." |
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| Whoa I thought Talonkarde and MellowJello were back. It kinda depends on the individual. Some girls can be fucking all your friends and still be jealous when she sees you with another girl. |
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| Being overly jealous not only shows insecurity but distrust. Also, it's known that cheaters are prone to not trust their partners because they aren't to be trusted themselves. |
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| being jealous doesn't stop you from cheating. if you want to cheat, you will cheat. it doesn't matter if you've spent the last week insecure about how your loved one is eying up other girls, or if you're indifferent to it. jealousy comes out due to miscommunication and an imbalance in the relationship, cheating and jealousy aren't a single package nor are they signs of one or the other. |
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| Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. That's all. However, if you don't give two hoots about speculations that can't be overlooked, there's a problem. |
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| This is not true sometimes they get really jealous and then cheat anyways. |
| It's a sign of insecurity, not of faithfulness. If you're certain your signifacant other won't cheat on you, you wouldn't care that much if he talks to girl. Being jealous is silly. If she's cheating on you, your jealousy has nothing to do with it and she wasn't worth it in the first place. |
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| I've cheated while being jealous at the same time. Jealousy has to do with how much ownership and entitlement you feel over others, doesn't necessarily speak to high moral standards or your own actions. |
| A jealous girlfriend would be insulting. Showing jealousy is showing distrust in your partner. We are hardwired to feel jealous and that is okay, just as we are hardwired to get horny if we see someone attractive even if we are already with someone. But both showing jealousy and cheating are ofc wrong. |
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Ellert0 said: A jealous girlfriend would be insulting. Showing jealousy is showing distrust in your partner. We are hardwired to feel jealous and that is okay, just as we are hardwired to get horny if we see someone attractive even if we are already with someone. But both showing jealousy and cheating are ofc wrong. Being jealous is not insulting. Nor is it necessarily synonymous with distrust. It's more your own issue than anything, your personal fears and insecurities getting the better of you. You can trust your partner but still get jealous. |
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| it depends on the person but mostly the people that are jealous are faithful and loving and i dont see why movies and shit try to make it look bad and all |
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| Even if that was true, jealousy would still put a strain on the relationship. |
incisorr said: don't you think there are degrees of jealousy? It's something that can be taken way too far.it depends on the person but mostly the people that are jealous are faithful and loving and i dont see why movies and shit try to make it look bad and all |
WingsOfValor said: Even if that was true, jealousy would still put a strain on the relationship. Really depends on the level of it. Being jealous that your girl/boy is spending time with other people for a while is fine, so long as it's just a small amount and it doesn't bring any sort of trust issues. I think all humans are jealous about something. It just depends on how much we let that jealousy influence our actions and thoughts. |
Vexper said: Ellert0 said: A jealous girlfriend would be insulting. Showing jealousy is showing distrust in your partner. We are hardwired to feel jealous and that is okay, just as we are hardwired to get horny if we see someone attractive even if we are already with someone. But both showing jealousy and cheating are ofc wrong. Being jealous is not insulting. Nor is it necessarily synonymous with distrust. It's more your own issue than anything, your personal fears and insecurities getting the better of you. You can trust your partner but still get jealous. Get jealous yes but not show it. I'd never fault anyone for their thoughts, only their actions. |
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| Nope. She could just be offended that the worm she graces with her presence ( you ) wants for other company then her own. Easy to confuse with jealousy. |
| Depends on the level of jealousy. |
| A jealous girlfriend is likely to be a faithful girlfriend. However, a girlfriend who isn't jealous does not imply that she is unfaithful. She might just trust her boyfriend a lot. |
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| If girlfriend is NOT jealous it's a red flag. She did not care i think. |
Vexper said: Ellert0 said: A jealous girlfriend would be insulting. Showing jealousy is showing distrust in your partner. We are hardwired to feel jealous and that is okay, just as we are hardwired to get horny if we see someone attractive even if we are already with someone. But both showing jealousy and cheating are ofc wrong. Being jealous is not insulting. Nor is it necessarily synonymous with distrust. It's more your own issue than anything, your personal fears and insecurities getting the better of you. You can trust your partner but still get jealous. This lmfao. If anything I don't trust people who say they don't get jealous because they're most probably lying. Everyone gets jealous. The extent of jealousy is what distinguishes normal people from lunatics. |
| A jealous girlfriend isn't necessarily a faithful girlfriend. Some jealous girls are faithful, and some are not. Most people don't actually know if they would be faithful in all situations, they just know they want their partner to be faithful to them, and then they assume that they won't do anything bad themselves. They think 'I know won't cheat, but how can I know what my partner will do?'. They don't actually know anything. And even if a girl does cheat on you, she can still get jealous when she thinks you'll do the same. They might justify it to themselves with 'It was just once/ It was just a kiss/ I'm not going to leave my partner... but how can I know what my partner will do?', or they might just not acknowledge they've done anything wrong at all, happily neglecting a double standard. Even if a girl leaves you, she can still get jealous of the girls in your life. A lot of people are just prone to jealousy. A number of these people act on emotions rather than thinking. Most of these people won't sit down and then meditate on their feelings and try to change them. |
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TookMe6Years said: As a male. Where do we fit in this situation? |
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| I had a really attractive girlfriend who I couldn't keep my hands off of but she became way to jealous and overbearing. It got to the point where I needed my space and then things just fell apart. |
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BryanBossling said: "A jealous girlfriend is a faithful girlfriend. If she doesn’t get jealous when someone has your attention, it’s because someone else has hers." Not necessary true. I met girls who get jealous when their "official" boyfriends talk to other girls even as they (the girls I met) screw other guys. You have to understand. Some people can be hypocrite. Women are particularly good at self-justification (i.e. lying to themselves). One girl actually told us (her colleagues) that when a girl likes a guy, that's pure but when a guy likes a girl, that's usually dirty. Therefore, she's allowed to see other men but she would stop her boyfriend from seeing other women. Her kind of love is "pure", remember? |
| A "well-f**cked" girlfriend is a faithful girlfriend. |
| It depends upto some point,she might be obsessed with you |
| I think it really depends on the person, and that that quote doesn't have to be specific to one demographic. Some people are jealous because they are really that faithful, but most of the time, jealousy is a form of insecurity with oneself as well as with other people. It ties into fear and envy essentially. |
| Hell no. A jealous girlfriend is a girl who can't find the confidence within herself to feel secure about her life and her relationships. |
| Bullshit. That's only gonna lead to constant issues with trust. Some minor jealousy is ok, it's really up to the people involved, but if my very faithful partner would be 24/7 on my back, texting and calling me every few minutes about my whereabouts when I run late from work, obsessively trying to control my every contact with other people as much as possible, that relationship wouldn't last very long. Also, while I may be faithful, that jealous gf may just be fucking someone else behind my back with no remorse. |
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| ...And by the same logic, rape just means love, right? |
| nooooooooooo i know too many creepy, jealous, and controlling people who do cheat themselves jealousy is normal to some extent. but if it gets more intense then it's not about loving you, it's about wanting to control you. |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| People who cheat are more likely to suspect that their partners are cheating on them, in general they overestimate how many people actually cheat. So . . . (this is true for both men and women, if I have time and remember I can link the study) |
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