| Ah. I don't know. If my partner wants it. |
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| Both a big, fat no. The concept of marriage is in my eyes complete and utter bullshit. You don't need to make it "official" to be together. And for children... i fucking hate brats. |
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| Not unless my waifu suddenly comes to life. But seriously, I probably will just because it's expected of me by both society and my family. I feel like I'd make a terrible husband and father, though, because I hate being responsible for other people and I need a lot of time to myself. |
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| I'm open to marriage but I don't feel like I have to get married, if I find someone I genuinely love and care about then I would marry them. If I don't then I don't, I'll just see where the future takes me. |
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| If i find the right partner then most likely, as for children it's the same thing |
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| want children but not sure I'll get there before I'm too old, definitely getting married though maybe fingers crossed |
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| I genuinely feel bad for guys that think that marriage is desirable or an equal partnership. I would preferably like to have children, but I don't see the point in marriage. Its just a piece of paper at the end of the day. Tbh I think I might get married in my home country to have a kid and then live else where so I don't have to deal with a nagging wife... I just don't know what my quality of life will be like if I am having to support her and a kid. Ideally I got get divorced and get the kid, but anyone whos familiar with the family court system knows how unlikely that is. Honesty marriage is not an equal partnership. People are always saying men and women are equal and they do equal work and shit, but all of the marriages I've seen that hasn't been the case. I'm gonna leave a video that explains what I mean and I recommend if you get offended easily don't watch it, but pretty much it outlines why marriage is a bad idea. It doesn't really cover stuff like divorce, or sex getting cut off, people and expectations changing with time, being with only one person for your whole life (if you ate your favorite food everyday it would stop being your favorite food), but I feel like those are pretty well known/common sense. |
LoneWolfFeb 16, 2018 5:15 PM
 "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." -Friedrich Nietzsche |
| No and Hell No, Marriage=Yeah,everything good until few years later when everything became shit for your relationship,have to divorce and if you have a children,then good luck visiting your ex per month Childreen=Depends very much on your relationship,imagine being responsable for another life than me and if my kid do something bad,then is your fault for "no education'' or some shit. |
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| hmm one day if i can find the right person, but it seems unlikely~ |
| One day I plan to have many wives :-D I mean, I'd love to get married. Who wouldn't want a hot wife?? |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| Having Children is something that has always been on my mind ever since I was 18. Children have always made me happy, however, I've sadly come to accept that I'll never have them. My sexuality of being an Asexual (someone who dislikes and doesn't want sex) is a curse. I'll never have a partner, because I do not glorify sex, which will lead to me Childless. Apparently, single people can adopt; but, I will refuse to forever - as I believe a Child should have the best parents it can, 2 of them, and not some sad-ass loner with no partner like myself. Quite depressing honestly, but, not everyone is born with Ace cards. |
Veronin said: I don't want to "settle down" ever, I want to party like technoviking till I die at around 50-65!Yes, since I'm not a loser... Almost certainly a year or two from now with my girlfriend. I guess kids will come around the same time too as it's better for them to be born to relatively young parents. Never understood the people, especially women, who wait until their 30's to settle down. That's too late. Your biological clock is ticking. But seriously I have a "to each their own" view of other people's choices with their lives but I want to be left alone and it pisses me off when people try to shame me for not wanting to "conform" to societal norms. (This isn't targeted at you Veronin I'm just venting in general) I don't believe in state-sponsored marriage, I'd rather just have one girlfriend for 10+ years than bother with modern legalese tax bullshit and being a pagan occultist I also dislike the idea of performing the "Christian" ceremony of marriage. I want the Church and the government out of my life. I don't want children because I don't like children and again I don't want the government to force me to send them to public school or to have them see doctors and psychologists that I don't trust. Plus to be brutally honest they'd probably have mental issues and I don't want to be responsible for that. |
Lost_VikingFeb 11, 2018 1:44 PM
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| No, and HELL no. I can barely even take care of myself. Plus, kids are annoying. |
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| No and no. Nobody would stand my personality for a longer run and kids are one of those things that get me angry just by looking at them |
| Definitely not, I can't imagine me being a family man. It seems like a pain having to take care of other people so no, I better off taking care of myself instead. Besides, I doubt I could ever find the right girl anyway. |
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| Sure to both, but not soon (not that it would happen any time soon lmao). |
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| Yes, I would one day like to get married and have a child or two. |
| Yes, one day I would like to live with someone that I would see grow old with me. As for the children part, maybe, it really depends on the situation then. Most likely none of these two things will be occurring soon. |
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| i want to yes, and have kids too, but both for mostly selfish reasons. and i doubt either would alleviate my problems enough to ignore the whole other problems they bring along, so for now i'd be content with just a green eyed qt gf. |
 Oh maybe, maybe it's the clothes we wear The tasteless bracelets and the dye in our hair Or maybe, maybe it's our nowhere towns or our nothing places But we're trash, you and me We're the litter on the breeze We're the lovers on the streets Just trash, me and you It's in everything we do It's in everything we do |
| I would yes to both but not something I am worried about anytime soon got to get established first. |
| yeah, i'm kind of a hopeless romantic and I really wish to experience a once in a lifetime love with someone that I will eventually marry and have kids with, ha sounds cheesy right? |
CelestialWolfieFeb 11, 2018 8:09 PM
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| Definitely a yes to both questions. I’d really like to have a family of my own some day. |
| lol seriously? why is everyone here so insecure about marriage and having children? as for me ofc i'd like to marry and have children and not live in some apartment all by myself pllus im sure once u find the right person your brain will automatically want you to marry her/him and give birth to children |
| I don't want kids, but I wanna get married, but not the boring traditional way, I want it to be comfy and feel genuine =3= Sidenote : you should polled that, Op |
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flex_ said: lol seriously? why is everyone here so insecure about marriage and having children? Because those kids want to show that they're "cool". This is normal here on MAL. |
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| Yeah I want to get married someday and have kids too. |
| Going to keep my virginity so I can set a good example for my kids in the future. |
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| As it is I can't ever see it happening, but I'd like to get married one day. Not sure about kids though lmao. |
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| Marriage yes. Children? Still on the fence. Having my own cute girl doing cute things sounds great, but then she'd start meeting guys... argh. |
| of course most of you are saying no, you're like 15 years old. once you reach 23/24 you will understand why someone might want to marry someone they love |
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| Already married for some years, but no kids, for various reasons. I don't really get the hate, though, just find the right person to marry and you're fine. :^) |
| Unlikely, although I guess it would depend on the person I'm in a relationship with. I doubt it would happen, but who knows, maybe I'll end up meeting someone that will make me think "I want to marry this person". Same thing with having kids. |
| Yeah, i'm engaged after all. Won't be having kids tho that's for sure |
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