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Oct 17, 2015 11:59 PM
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Could you? I mean if their is no physical attraction at all in a relationship is it possible for a relationship to last. For example I'm ugly I know I'm ugly no matter what kind of person I am how could someone get past that? I don't think anyone could. Thoughts?
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Oct 18, 2015 12:00 AM
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I won't pretend that I don't factor physical attractiveness in my equation, so no.
Oct 18, 2015 12:01 AM
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Nope.

OmniStar said:
CFor example I'm ugly I know I'm ugly no matter what kind of person I am how could someone get past that?
Someone will think that your "ugly" is "beautiful". Don't give up, OP.
Oct 18, 2015 12:02 AM
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If you truly got nothing going for you, then nope.
Oct 18, 2015 12:03 AM
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Lol physical attraction is pretty damn important m8. That's a proven fact :/
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Oct 18, 2015 12:04 AM
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I personally wouldn't. Looks are very important to me
Oct 18, 2015 12:05 AM
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ugly and skinny? no thanks
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Oct 18, 2015 12:06 AM
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No I couldn't. And anyone that tells you otherwise is unattractive and desperate 99% of the time.

But it's not like people ugly in the face have no hope. They can work out and make their body look good at least. I'm not sayin they have to look like Beyonce to date them but if you take absolutely no care of your body AND you have an ugly face then nah you aint gettin that pussy. But if you can at least take decent care of your body, work out, etc. people will look past your facial features in a lot of situations #realniggatips. Personality is always a factor but your partner has to have at least SOME physical attraction towards you for the relationship to work long term, unless like i said before, they too are ugly and desperate. Sorry to sound harsh but it's the truth
Oct 18, 2015 12:10 AM
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I've only ever found people attractive once I've gotten to know them, so things could work out for you.
Oct 18, 2015 12:24 AM

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mayukachan said:
Nope.

OmniStar said:
CFor example I'm ugly I know I'm ugly no matter what kind of person I am how could someone get past that?
Someone will think that your "ugly" is "beautiful". Don't give up, OP.


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Oct 18, 2015 12:44 AM
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Zer01 said:
I personally wouldn't. Looks are very important to me
Oct 18, 2015 12:49 AM
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as long as your not ugly for some reason i really dont like ugly people.
if your not ugly then yep if i've choosen you then i'll be with you para siempre as someone once told me she was a liar and i'm also a liar but i'm not lieing about that
Oct 18, 2015 12:52 AM

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I personally would. Not trying to be the blooming white knight but it really doesn't matter to me. What does matter is a devious personality and other weird shit I like.
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Oct 18, 2015 1:03 AM

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I won't pretend that I don't factor physical attractiveness in my equation, so no.
Oct 18, 2015 1:08 AM

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no but my expectations are super low and i find attractive a lot of things others don't

except fat

why cant people stop eating and making excuses with their metabolism?
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Oct 18, 2015 1:11 AM

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No, physical attraction is a must
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Oct 18, 2015 1:25 AM

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If the halo effect doesn't make the person look more attractive, then no.
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Oct 18, 2015 1:28 AM

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NO!
Oct 18, 2015 1:47 AM

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No thanks. I value being physically attracted to my partner.

You can still be my friend though :^)

Oct 18, 2015 4:07 AM

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It's possible!

I'm no Brad Pitt too anyways. My second ex, she was average, or maybe lesser than that but I fell for her for her personality. After we're together, the flaw I thought I saw in her just vanish and I think she's cute.
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Oct 18, 2015 4:13 AM

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Appearance is pretty important to me, so I won't lie here.
Oct 18, 2015 4:39 AM
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Honestly, no. Not if there is no physical attraction at all. I place someone's personality far, far higher than looks though.


Also, OP, every time I've ever heard someone openly refer to themselves as ugly they have been far better looking than they think they are.
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Oct 18, 2015 5:39 AM

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No. Personality is the most important part when it comes to a person for me, but I'd be lying if I said that someone's appearance didn't matter; I would never want to date a disgusting abomination. Fatness and hygiene aside, facial symmetry plays a huge role in determining someone's beauty to me, and how appealing I perceive them to be; for instance, assymetrical faces indicate bad genes, genetic mutation, disease, and other fucked up things that my body is telling me to get the hell away from, whilst a symmetrical face is a sign of genetic health, as well as a good upbringing and good mental performance. Of course there is more to beauty than these basic biological drives, but it obviously plays a role to some extent, because nobody (except weird deviants) think that deformed or damaged people are attractive.
Oct 18, 2015 7:43 AM
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Nah, physical attraction is important. It is not as important as personality though, I am much more picky when it comes to personality. I would much rather be dating an average looking girl with a good personality, than some good looking model with average personality.

I think that if you are interested and seek for long term deeper relationships, than you will be thinking in similar ways like that. If I know before hand that our personalities are not compatible, then I won't be interested in dating to begin with.


Oct 18, 2015 7:43 AM

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Of course not.
Oct 18, 2015 8:14 AM

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LionCake said:
RedTie47 said:
I won't pretend that I don't factor physical attractiveness in my equation, so no.
Oct 18, 2015 8:17 AM
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Nah,physical attractivness also matters.
Oct 18, 2015 8:52 AM
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No
Oct 18, 2015 8:56 AM

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I don't really know.
Personality is more important to me anyway.
Oct 18, 2015 9:03 AM
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I'm a man, of course not. She'd have to be decent looking at least.
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Oct 18, 2015 9:04 AM
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Well you're saying you're ugly.... That alone means you don't have the best self confidence, which is important as well. I doubt you're so ugly that no one would date you... You can work to improve yourself, and try to highlight your best features.

For your question, no, if it was like you said and "no aspect" of them was attractive... I would not date them... Attractiveness can be determined by more then just physical appearance. There's people who if they did not try to make themselves look good, they'd be ugly/look like crap. If you put no effort into your looks, you'd probably not put much effort into a relationship.
Oct 18, 2015 9:10 AM

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No. But people who go after hot bodies or money would ignore that I guess
Oct 18, 2015 9:11 AM

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If by not attractive means neutral then yeah if I liked them.

If ugly then no not as likely because it would get in the way of physical intimacy unless I liked them enough I do not see them as ugly but that would defeat the point of the question.
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Oct 18, 2015 9:13 AM

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I'm generally more attracted to personality and how much in common I have with someone, not necessarily their looks.
But everyone has different things they find attractive physically, so I don't think it's a yes or a no? Personally I don't like overly muscular guys at all, for example.

I'm a bit more picky with women though, so I guess no? lol
Oct 18, 2015 9:20 AM

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No, I would not.
Personality is definitely the most important thing, but looks play an important enough role too.
Now I'm not saying that you have to look like Johnny Depp, but you have to take care of yourself and at least look above average (6/10).
Oct 18, 2015 10:43 AM
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Personality is the main factor for me, I don't care about looks :)

I would rather have someone who isn't attractive at all but had an amazing personality compared to someone who is amazingly hot but is a complete douche.

The only physical thing I really pay attention to is the eyes and the smile, well in men it is usually the smile but with women it is mostly the eyes.

My husband, I fell in love with him for his eyes, smile and personality, he is also very attractive which is just an added bonus but either way I wouldn't care.

Everyone differs I know that, but you said that you were "ugly" well just stop there! everyone has their own definition of ugly and attractive, someone will come along one day who see's you as attractive, as they say.. beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
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Oct 18, 2015 10:47 AM

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Looks aren't that important to me, but I wouldn't touch anything lower than a 5.
Oct 18, 2015 10:56 AM

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I care about looks, but I'm not really picky.
The main factor is personality though.
Oct 18, 2015 11:00 AM

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Personality > Looks for me, but no I'd rather not date an ugly person
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Oct 18, 2015 11:01 AM

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Oct 18, 2015 11:03 AM

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If that person has a nice personality, sure!
Oct 18, 2015 11:07 AM

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To be honest, no.
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money can compensate ugliness
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TheBrainintheJar said:
If the halo effect doesn't make the person look more attractive, then no.
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Oct 21, 2015 3:07 PM
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Then don't be ugly
Oct 21, 2015 3:07 PM
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Otoshiro said:
Then don't be ugly

lol

OT,physical attractivness is also important in releationship.
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Idk what exactly to tell you. I'm very good looking and I've dated people who I normally wouldn't be physically attracted to at all, based on the fact that we had some exciting energy. The less encouraging part was that those relationships were my shorter ones because once the honeymoon period would end, I'd slowly become more aware of their looks and that would usually be the drop that overflows the glass of my reasons to break up.
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Oct 21, 2015 3:27 PM
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clearly if you're in a cyber relationship, you can
because you're never gonna meet/see her in person anyway
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