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Jul 26, 2019 10:11 PM

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I like yuri, but probably only because I haven't actually seen any yaoi. I've been wanting to find a good yaoi show for a while now.
Jul 27, 2019 2:38 AM

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Yuri obviously it's not even up for debate.


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Jul 27, 2019 8:04 AM
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I don't watch yuri. I also don't watch yaoi...I read it. Lol. Anyway, I love yaoi (and shounen ai), especially if it has a good story or interesting theme. For example, Jikan Akima Jinbutsu has one yaoi chapter that incorporates psychological stuff and I absolutely love it when two of my favorite genres mix. That's the same reason why I love Killing Stalking. While I don't support the relationship the main characters have going on, I love the dark atmosphere.

I have also found myself dropping some yaoi because the tropes or something else made me uncomfortable. (I have found a few strange yaoi. Lol.) Despite that though, I'm a yaoi lover.
Sakurai_AoiJul 27, 2019 8:07 AM
Jul 27, 2019 5:35 PM

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Yuri
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Jul 27, 2019 5:43 PM

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I personally prefer Yuri, but I don’t really mind as long as the romance is good.
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Jul 27, 2019 5:47 PM
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It honestly depends on the story. Both are good but I wish there are more Yuri manga then Yaoi because there doesn't seem to be enough variety out there. That's just my personal take probably but that's how I'm seeing it :/
Jul 27, 2019 5:52 PM

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I'm fine with Yuri.

Yaoi can also be an exception though if the plot is good.
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Jul 27, 2019 6:01 PM

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Yuri has a higher chance of involving lolis, I guess. So that.
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Jul 28, 2019 12:46 AM

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I don't really like both. If ... then only yuri and with hardcore sex in hentai. Usually trying for a real non-hentai plot gets crappy cause it focuses on certain stuff liked by certain types of fans. (Genre is fanservice itself.)

This even more so for Yaoi (and Shounen Ai) where I personally find it disgusting most of the time cause of the art style. If I want to watch gayness I need reall stuff like "Naked Kombat" (google it if you don't know it :D) and reall manly guys fighting and dominating each other. Not animated stuf. Not kissing.
Jul 29, 2019 1:50 AM
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Insert the typical "a good romance is a good romance."
Jul 29, 2019 2:30 AM

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Yaoi. Not all of it but there are some seriously wonderful yaoi stories. Maybe I was just unlucky but most Yuri that I have seen was pretty bad. It was always non con or at the must dub con. In other words - it was either rape or sexual molestation. Yaoi also has stuff like that but then again it also has stories like Yuri! On Ice!!!, 10 Dance and Free! It is too early to say in what direction Given will go.
Mar 25, 2020 12:15 AM

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Being the CRAZY fujoshi that I am, I have to say yaoi. I have watched very little yuri. It is okay but yaoi just brings along with it a whole other level of feels! #yaoiforlife



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Mar 25, 2020 12:53 AM

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I watched and read yuri, but yaoi? That's a big no for me.
Mar 25, 2020 1:07 AM

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I'm not sure tbh.

I mean, I like both, but a bit differrently.

If M/M, I really love the romantic part a lot, rather than the sex.
As for F/F, I love the sex part more than the romantic part lmao.

So,

Shounen-ai > Shoujo-ai
Yuri > Yaoi
Mar 25, 2020 1:51 AM
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I like both.
Though I watched and read yaoi the most.
But still I'd say both are good. They should make more good Yuri anime
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Mar 25, 2020 2:01 AM
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Not a fan of either of them, but I if I had to pick one, it would be Yuri.
Mar 25, 2020 2:04 AM
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I prefer yuri anime, I haven't seen that many good yaoi anime I like yaoi more in a manga format.

Mar 25, 2020 2:08 AM

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Shicchi said:
I'm not sure tbh.

I mean, I like both, but a bit differrently.

If M/M, I really love the romantic part a lot, rather than the sex.
As for F/F, I love the sex part more than the romantic part lmao.

So,

Shounen-ai > Shoujo-ai
Yuri > Yaoi

Same,might be because i'm much more attracted to breasts when it comes to sex scenes..But for actual romance of course male on male chemistry is my preference.
Mar 25, 2020 2:09 AM

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moodie said:
Honestly. If yaoi was atleast as pure as yuri id understand it but yaoi's only purpose is to turn men into sex objects. Whereas yuri takes 2 loving females and puts them together.


Love can't be pure. It's dirty by it's very nature. If you're once trapped by the fangs of love, sex is the purest thing you can get.
Mar 25, 2020 4:20 AM
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lol there's nothing pure about yaoi or yuri it's just sexualised. people confuse them with shoujo&shounen ai
Mar 25, 2020 4:32 AM
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yuri for me but thats probably cuz im more into girls than guys
i watched some yaoi and none of them really got me super interested :/
Mar 25, 2020 4:51 AM
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I would prefer yuri as a rule.
I don't mind yaoi in concept, but so much of it is super rapey. There are fun yaoi anime like Gakuen Heaven or Given, but they're in the minority.
Mar 25, 2020 5:02 AM

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yaoi is personally more enjoyable for me, the yuri ive seen is a bit eh. I like buff dudes making out, 'tis the quality content I like.
Mar 25, 2020 1:40 PM

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Yuri, I guess. I have no interest in Yoai whatsoever.
Jan 25, 2022 4:23 AM

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I am into yuri, but I won't say yuri is better to be unbiased. But as a biased person, I;ll say Yuri is the best. For me, "A good romance is a good romance", I will only say that it is not my type I won't and can't say it is bad without watching. Like I have watched and read a lot yuri and I'll say it is not too sexualised/ But then some people say yaoi is too sexualised, i don't think that too in case of manga as in my view Given is a good romance manga (I have read till 4 Volume only, tho) and yeah people say yuri doesn't gives a right representation, so just for clarifying that just read my forum signature.
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Jan 25, 2022 4:34 AM

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The terms are not symmetric. “yaoi” is an actual genre with stylistic elements; “yuri” is simply anything that involves an all-female coupling.

So obviously “yaoi” is better, since dreck such as Yuru Yuri is still “yuri”, but if they were all male it would not be “yaoi”. Since yaoi has actual stylistic commonalities such as drama, tragœdy, and rape, it is obviously better, given that drama, tragœdy, and rape, are all patrician elements of storytelling.
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For me, yuri is definitely better. :3



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Both are cringe just like you little piece of sh*t
Jun 19, 2022 1:36 PM
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I quite like both but I probably like Yuri a little bit more.
Dec 25, 2023 8:04 AM

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Haven't - as far as I'm aware - watched any actual yuri or yaoi anime outside of ecchi/hentai and Utena, but I like Gundam Yaoi fanart and unironically enjoyed CLAMP's Jojo Doujin so I'll side with the fujos

Dec 25, 2023 8:13 AM

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Yaoi forever! I like BL works so much!!
Dec 25, 2023 8:39 AM

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I like them both, but it's difficult for me to find a BL that I like.

Dec 25, 2023 8:48 AM
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Both are rarely good and most yuri in anime focuses on "cute girls doing cute things while blushing / kissing."
Not really what I'm looking for.
Dec 25, 2023 9:39 AM

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I havent really seen enough to judge which i think is written better more often but id likely be biased toward yuri for not really being into guys so much.
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Dec 25, 2023 10:02 AM
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Yaoi tends to be more serious and, with that, more romantic. Thatʼs why I prefer it.
Dec 25, 2023 10:46 AM

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Both are good, and anyone who says otherwise is stupid.
Dec 25, 2023 11:00 AM

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Yaoi tends to be more serious and, with that, more romantic. Thatʼs why I prefer it.
@ina6_-, yes, me too, I also think the same.

Dec 25, 2023 11:24 AM
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I’m fine with both (💖💜💙 obvs) but I guess I read more Yaoi cause it’s more entertaining XD sometimes out of genuine enjoyment, but mostly cause it’s fun trash lol
Dec 25, 2023 11:25 AM
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Both are good, and anyone who says otherwise is stupid.
@MadanielFL You preach to the choir brother 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Dec 25, 2023 11:26 AM

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I’m fine with both (💖💜💙 obvs) but I guess I read more Yaoi cause it’s more entertaining XD sometimes out of genuine enjoyment, but mostly cause it’s fun trash lol
@yoslina, I also think so, they are so funny to read.
Dec 25, 2023 11:59 AM

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I don't really know, they're about even to me. I have the same issues with both and like around the same number of series from each. Mildly prefer yuri I guess, but I'm pretty picky for both. If the leads in yuri are just pure and cutesy moe blobs then I don't like it and that makes up a pretty large chunk of yuri series. Though its hard to find yaoi where the characters have any chemistry. Yuri when written by women are peak and yaoi written by josei/seinen authors can be decent.
Dec 25, 2023 12:24 PM

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i cant relate to guys in yaoi, it feels like im watching from the sidelines
with yuri im more invested, as i can somewhat relate, or i actually get to live a little bit of a fantasy that is very much inclusive to me
there isnt any objective quality i could point to, i just dont care about nor vibe with the guys in yaoi, and to be perfectly clear its probably assumptions, biases, all kinds of flawed subjectivies and most importantly feelings and some personal stories and shit u know
idk reading lesbian romances has kind of become a big part of my life, with a soft spot for school and university stuff
no hate to yaoi heads gay is good
Dec 25, 2023 12:31 PM

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I don't really know, they're about even to me. I have the same issues with both and like around the same number of series from each. Mildly prefer yuri I guess, but I'm pretty picky for both. If the leads in yuri are just pure and cutesy moe blobs then I don't like it and that makes up a pretty large chunk of yuri series. Though its hard to find yaoi where the characters have any chemistry. Yuri when written by women are peak and yaoi written by josei/seinen authors can be decent.
@JKKH, no, it isn't. There are many BL works with a good chemistry between guys.
Dec 25, 2023 1:09 PM

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@JKKH, no, it isn't. There are many BL works with a good chemistry between guys.
@Memore Usually for me bl are either too cutesy and bland or the relationship is abusive/puts too much emphasis on top and bottom dynamics for my taste. I like gay media and ships in fan content but bl manga tend to fall flat for me. If you have any recs I'd appreciate them though!
Dec 25, 2023 2:05 PM

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@Memore Usually for me bl are either too cutesy and bland or the relationship is abusive/puts too much emphasis on top and bottom dynamics for my taste. I like gay media and ships in fan content but bl manga tend to fall flat for me. If you have any recs I'd appreciate them though!
@JKKH, yes, you can watch in my Completed BL works with score 9 and higher.
Dec 25, 2023 2:13 PM

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As an LGBT person, I appreciate and like both genres. However, it's harder to find wholesome BL stories compared to GL- at least it was like this a few ago.

Yaoi is very oversexualized and the "uke" "seme" dynamic is unrealistic at best, and uncomfortably rapey at worse- not to say yuri doesn't have problems with doubious consent and oversexualization (looking at you, Citrus). Every gay story written for a mainly heterosexual audience is going to be fetish fuel for sure. Once in a blue moon you will find an actual good story.

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Dec 25, 2023 2:21 PM
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I enjoy both yuri and yaoi. I don’t think one is inherently superior to the other though. A romance is all about the characters so if I don’t like the characters I won’t watch the series.
Dec 26, 2023 3:59 AM

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I just know we need more of both of them. More but less dub/non con elements
Dec 26, 2023 4:11 AM

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yaoi is degenerated filth. yuri is high class entertainment
Honestly. If yaoi was atleast as pure as yuri id understand it but yaoi's only purpose is to turn men into sex objects. Whereas yuri takes 2 loving females and puts them together.
@moodie this is sooo true. best take so far
Dec 26, 2023 5:40 AM

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Yuri. Because lesbians are so fucking cute 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

If they are sisters or twin sisters even better,,,,,YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES

Lesbian incest is wincest for the true man of culture Hehehehehehehe 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

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