| True love doesn't exist anymore bro its all about money nowdays no one wants to marry a poor guy |
| It depends what "give up" means. I've only tried to get a few girls, and none of them have worked out. I haven't tried to get a girl to like me romantically in a long time, mostly because of how horrible everyone I've liked has turned out to be. I should really start trying for less attractive girls because they're less likely to be assholes. |
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| I'm kind of over it at this point. I mean if you really just want to laid it's not that hard, but a steady bf/gf relationship is a lot of work and a pain in the ass. It's just way too stressful and time consuming. Not having to worry about it is a load off my mind and one less problem I have to deal with. Also I just got really tired of all people who keep saying shit like "You gotta keep trying man, you just haven't found 'The one' yet." or other iterations of the whole soul mate BS. Plus it's almost always up to the guy to the make the first move and ask the girl out and risk getting rejected... which really sucks and takes a toll on your self-esteem. |
LoneWolfJun 7, 2015 1:59 AM
 "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." -Friedrich Nietzsche |
clintonmadara said: True love doesn't exist anymore bro its all about money nowdays no one wants to marry a poor guy you just aint slick, bruh just don't be a complete fuck boy and you'll get a gf. That shit isn't hard. |
| I'm not really confident and have a rather weird personality, basically enough to have 99,9999999% of the girls not to want me. So yeah, I've given up on the 'highly evolved western dating game'. |
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| As long as I have my penis my journey will never end. |
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Senpapi_ said: clintonmadara said: True love doesn't exist anymore bro its all about money nowdays no one wants to marry a poor guy you just aint slick, bruh just don't be a complete fuck boy and you'll get a gf. That shit isn't hard. I had a gf,bro but she ain't worthy thats what i meant |
| I don't search for partners, partners search for me. ;) Or at least that's what those self help books told me. ;( |
clintonmadara said: Senpapi_ said: you just aint slick, bruh just don't be a complete fuck boy and you'll get a gf. That shit isn't hard. I had a gf,bro but she ain't worthy thats what i meant what's the definition of being a fuccboi? |
| I have to break up with my waifus first. Then ill get a gf. |
| Money is more important than love |
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| Lol, I'm gay and currently have a boyfriend. One thing I discovered when coming out of the closet was that dating became much easier. |
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Ryagan said: Congrats.Lol, I'm gay and currently have a boyfriend. One thing I discovered when coming out of the closet was that dating became much easier. |
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| I broke up with my boyfriend recently because I figured it was better to be single than to be in a relationship with someone I didn't really like. Important life lesson, that was. I think I've sort of given up trying. I mean... if the right guy comes along, I might pursue something with him, but I'm not... actively flirting with dudes or swiping people on Tinder or anything. It's just not my primary focus anymore. But hey. Have any of you guys tried Tinder? If you're really that desperate to find someone... |
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| That you identify as a "highly sensitive person" suggests that you've read or been told something and now -chosen- to embody this definition. You didn't see it as criticism, you didn't see it as a challenge, you saw it as a life sentence. Wake up, get your crap together, and change who you are. Yay. Problem solved. |
| Given up on what Nigga im not even trying |
| I've never "Tried" to get a girlfriend. I dated one girl back in high school, because she asked me out. I've never asked a girl out myself, and I doubt I ever will. |
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| Hey, OP, guess what. If you can't be happy on your own, you won't be happy with a girlfriend. You have to be happy by yourself first before you think of dragging somebody else into the equation. Thinking that "girlfriend=happiness" is stupid. Stop thinking you deserve a girlfriend, you'll never get any girl that way. |
JazzkaJun 8, 2015 11:16 AM
shintai88 said: Oxalias said: I respect that guy who got rejected like 80 times. But when your like me and spend most of the day time in my room buying g baking powder for my cupcakes is more important then finding a girlfriend. On a side note does baking cup cakes make me gay? No. The best cooks and bakers are nearly all male. Yeah, gay males. |
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| I never started. Not worth it. |
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| To erase the word "forever" from alone. |
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| Haha, to be honest, as nice as it would be to have a boyfriend, I'm more interested in college and building my career at the moment. A boyfriend can wait until later. :3 Although that doesn't mean that I won't date around, I just won't settle down anytime soon. So just be patient and have hope. Continue to work out, volunteer, busy yourself with activities. Go to events, don't be afraid to meet new people. And most of all, have fun and enjoy yourself~ |
| All you need is a single stroke of luck. I stumbled upon my GF's profile on POF by pure luck. |
erikerik said: and I think I don't deserve having a girl loving me. aw jesus, have some dignity. This is one of the main problems why so many people can't get dates. Stop treating women as if they deserve better than you or are too perfect for you. Women are not perfect creatures they can be just as much assholes, selfish, depressed and lacking in ego as the rest of you are. When ever you look into a mirror and wishfully daydream of that perfect girl skipping off with a 'better' man because you don't deserve to grace her presence....hit yourself, hard and tell yourself to stop been a giant wet blanket. |
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| My dick mostly reacts to little sisters these days but I don't have one IRL so there's not much point in trying |
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| because we need to reproduce.. |
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| Because when you're in a harem choosing is pretty difficult. ;) |
| Well I haven't tried so that's why I haven't given up yet. |
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| Shoujo anime make me believe that if some wimpy nerd with no social skills can find love the I can too! |
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Baelish said: When ever you look into a mirror and wishfully daydream of that perfect girl skipping off with a 'better' man because you don't deserve to grace her presence....hit yourself, hard and tell yourself to stop been a giant wet blanket. This. Also, OP, you really should stop thinking that girls/women are these otherwordly creatures sent down from heaven or something - they're just people, and they wanna be treated as such. As for me, I'm not trying to search actively for a life partner or something (cuz, y'know, I'm trying to ignore my biological clock everyday). As soon as I meet someone I'm interested in, I'll give it a shot at getting to know her better. If it doesn't work out, both of us go back to the status quo from before. The more pragmatic you look at it, the less it hurts when you get rejected. |
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| Don't view girls as the be all, end all, they're not that great. Although you probably wouldn't know that (this was not a dig at you). Your self worth doesn't rely on whether or not you're in a relationship or if you've eff'd the puss a thousand times. I suppose I can sympathize with you, because during my times as a horny little freshman, never having been with a guy ever, was thirstier than a fish in a desert. There's nothing to worry about, I guarantee you 100% you'll find someone, it just takes time truuuust me. I don't know you personally but you seem to have good grammar and spelling and that alone is an attractive quality that not a lot of men carry. But just chill out man, it's not a race, and don't generalize girls you wanker, that's rude. |
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| I have one |
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| I don't ask people. People ask me. Cuz I'm pro. |
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| Can't give up what you haven't started. |
I've pretty much given up. I'm at a stage in my life that while sex seems fun, I hate people and don't want to be around them.  |
| How do people get to 2000 hours when I'm already this bored? |
| Yeah I've had my fair share of rejections. Just take the hit and keep going and ultimately it makes things that much sweeter when you finally get that mutual feeling. Never really actively searched even before I met my ex. That said, I do really hate the whole dating game, it's needlessly complex and nearly entirely superficial |
| I don't try, and I don't wait. If someone comes along that I really like then I go after him. |
| Yup, I experience love before and now, I don't have the slightest desire to be in a relationship anytime soon. |
| You gotta do what you gotta do. |
Nickel-Kingins said: I don't have the slightest desire to be in a relationship anytime soon. Why? |
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| No point in having a gf, they will eventually just cause you heartbreak if you get too attached. Just find a cool girl hit and move on. |
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RedEyedkiryuu said: No point in having a gf, they will eventually just cause you heartbreak if you get too attached. I suppose that's a reality for some... not for everyone though... |
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