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Oct 26, 2020 8:08 AM
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2020 has been a bad year for singles on the dating scene. Lockdowns and social distancing guidelines have really put a dampener on finding the perfect partner, but things aren’t all bad — at least you’re not this man in China, who went on a first date with a woman who brought along 23 of her relatives.

The story begins in Zhejiang Province, where a 29-year-old man who’d been having trouble finding love during the pandemic was set up on a date by his mother. He was looking forward to the date, and arranged to meet her at a restaurant for a meal together.

When he went to the restaurant as they had planned, he walked in to find his date had turned up with 23 of her relatives. She said, “Let’s all eat together”, and despite not receiving any advance warning that the party for two had turned into a party for 25, the man sat down and ate with the family.

As they ate, the table filled up with expensive meals and alcohol, which his date and her family members devoured happily. At the end of the meal, the man was given the bill by restaurant staff and he was gobsmacked to find it came to a total of 19,800 Yuan (US$2,962).

Unable to pay the bill, the man snuck out of the restaurant without anyone noticing and returned home, leaving the woman to foot the bill.



When she realised her date was nowhere to be found, the woman was reportedly surprised and attempted to contact him, to no avail. She then had no choice but to pay for the meal.

Asked why she brought her family members with her to the first date, the woman said:

“I was testing whether the man who might potentially be my boyfriend would be generous enough to pay for all 25 people, including himself and myself.”

She went on to insist that she was the victim, as she ended up having to pay for the meal.

People online weren’t sure about that, commenting that regardless of who pays on a first date, ambushing the other party with 23 of your family members is never going to go over well.

So let this story be a warning to anyone thinking of “testing” prospective partners when meeting them for the first time. If you do, be prepared for it to backfire spectacularly, just as it likely will if you turn up in a wedding dress to the wedding of your ex and their new partner.

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https://soranews24.com/2020/10/25/man-goes-on-first-date-with-woman-she-brings-23-family-members-along-for-the-meal/

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Oct 26, 2020 8:13 AM
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SargonTheGreat said:
This is just dumb why would anyone do this, the man was right to sneak out of there and leave them to foot the bill.


Exactly it does sound really silly. I personally believe the bill should be split 50-50 and slowly introduce to your partners relatives slowly but surely.

Oct 26, 2020 8:25 AM
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Moral of the story kids is "don't be a dumb bitch"
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Oct 26, 2020 8:45 AM
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What a shitty test, it looks like a scam to me.

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Exactly it does sound really silly. I personally believe the bill should be split 50-50 and slowly introduce to your partners relatives slowly but surely.


It's still $1500 though, I think it's better to run lol.
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Oct 26, 2020 8:58 AM
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haha holy shit not 1-2 but 23 people man's unluckiest day of life but he snuck out so good for him
Oct 26, 2020 9:07 AM
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Haha he snuck out... nice
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Oct 26, 2020 9:33 AM
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I had a feeling it was a test but at the same time, the man did nothing wrong as he probably was thinking its a fake ate and the women is just in for a nice meal with her family.

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We'll be able to do it next time.
Failure is the stepping stone to success."

Oct 26, 2020 11:33 AM
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Chizuru_Mizuhara said:
I had a feeling it was a test but at the same time, the man did nothing wrong as he probably was thinking its a fake ate and the women is just in for a nice meal with her family.


people in speed dating often go there for free food and drinks

Oct 26, 2020 11:52 AM
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SargonTheGreat said:
This is just dumb why would anyone do this, the man was right to sneak out of there and leave them to foot the bill.

Agreed.

This situation is ridiculous and that guy did the right thing.

I bet that if a random man did what the woman did, then people would be harsh as hell about it. That are double standards, sadly.
Oct 26, 2020 11:59 AM

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Testing? Test my slip out skills you disgusting vermin!


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Oct 26, 2020 12:03 PM

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Plot twist: his mother knew from the start this would happen and decided to just mess with him.

Poor guy probably won't go on any date for a while out of fear of getting ganged up on by his partner's family.
Oct 26, 2020 12:19 PM

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Crow_Black said:
Chizuru_Mizuhara said:
I had a feeling it was a test but at the same time, the man did nothing wrong as he probably was thinking its a fake ate and the women is just in for a nice meal with her family.


people in speed dating often go there for free food and drinks


I see, sorry I have no dating experience and still a virgin. I learn something new every day :)

Though, most of the time it be the male thats paying for the meal. I guess no free meal for me

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Oct 26, 2020 12:48 PM

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At least he managed to sneak out... He lost nothing here, as that woman is better not being dated anyway if she pulls that kind of stunt on the first date.
Oct 26, 2020 12:53 PM

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Imagine if he couldn't flee and...I can't imagine what they would've done to him if they had caught him
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Oct 26, 2020 12:57 PM

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How thirsty do you have to be to not immediately flee from a bitch who pulled up with 23 relatives
Oct 26, 2020 12:58 PM
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i lol its just a test ye damn
Oct 26, 2020 2:33 PM
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thought this was Vietnam when i saw the title... lol asians do be protective over their girls
Oct 26, 2020 2:41 PM

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This test was not about good character. It was about checking if he had loads of money. Glad he escaped on time!
Oct 26, 2020 2:42 PM
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Nice. When are all the men doing the same too.

It's only a matter of time before the westerners copy this too.

Then everyone will walk out of a restaurant bill-free like da mafia.
Oct 26, 2020 3:57 PM

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The lion, the witch, and the audacity of this bitch.
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Oct 26, 2020 4:00 PM
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Can you stop breaking rule 7c
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She's clearly crazy and her whole family might be too .
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Oct 26, 2020 8:11 PM

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She tricked 23 persons into taking part of this or the dumb runs really hard in that family.
heh.
Oct 26, 2020 8:33 PM

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Chinese from China have a weird way of thinking...
Hopefully, Chinese from Hong Kong, Taiwan, Malaysia and Singapore don't behave like this...
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Bob-o-Dominador said:
She tricked 23 persons into taking part of this or the dumb runs really hard in that family.


She had to get it from somewhere.
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Oct 27, 2020 10:45 AM

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LOL. Yeah. This is why im staying single and a virgin for the rest of my life. Dont want to deal with BS like this.
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Oct 28, 2020 9:16 AM

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I would of left when I noticed she brought her entire family, that just seems like a trap.
Oct 28, 2020 11:48 AM

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why didn't he leave the moment he saw the 23 family members? at least he managed to run away, what a deranged woman
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