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May 5, 2018 1:21 AM
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so ye there was a survey that says this
Parents more worried about sex than violence in film, survey reveals
US study shows that 80% of respondents are most concerned with their children seeing graphic sex scenes
https://www.theguardian.com/film/2015/dec/04/parents-more-worried-about-sex-than-violence-in-film-survey

now why is that?

to me i got no idea so i voted i dont know

is it the thought of sex as something shameful and needs strict privacy?
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May 5, 2018 4:41 AM
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Dumb Christian values.
They think sex ed is bad but massacring of Jews and Muslims is good.
May 5, 2018 4:45 AM
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Probably because pussy and dick is not good for a child's eyes.
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May 5, 2018 4:48 AM
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Lol.

Because they don't want you to figure out waifus are better than the real thing before you have been scammed a few times, like they have before they settled on each other to raise you.

I have killed million, possibly billions according to some macro strategy games and I still never want to randomly murder people in real life.
May 5, 2018 5:39 AM
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I think it has more or less to do with our society normalizing violence more than sex. I mean, we're totally fine with guns and blood on tv, but boobs and penises? HIDE THE KIDS!!!!

I'd totally recommend watching the film "This Film Is Not Yet Rated". The film is from 2006, but it's still pretty relevant and it goes into this topic mentioned in the article
May 5, 2018 9:38 AM
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I always think violence more worrying than sex or sexual taboo
I feel more comfortable watching incest anime than action anime
May 5, 2018 10:05 AM
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Showing reproductive organs that everyone over 10 knows what they're used for engage in coitus? Absolutely disgusting.
Showing evil intentions that shouldn't be normalized? It's all good.
The best thing is that sex scenes in film are like as vanilla as it gets. To make it even better, they don't even show genitals.
The US is a weird fucking place.
May 5, 2018 10:10 AM
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NostalgiaGoddess said:
I think it has more or less to do with our society normalizing violence more than sex. I mean, we're totally fine with guns and blood on tv, but boobs and penises? HIDE THE KIDS!!!!

I'd totally recommend watching the film "This Film Is Not Yet Rated". The film is from 2006, but it's still pretty relevant and it goes into this topic mentioned in the article

yeah but what is the rating on the film tho



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May 5, 2018 10:12 AM
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Corvus8 said:
Showing reproductive organs that everyone over 10 knows what they're used for engage in coitus? Absolutely disgusting.
Showing evil intentions that shouldn't be normalized? It's all good.
The best thing is that sex scenes in film are like as vanilla as it gets. To make it even better, they don't even show genitals.
The US is a weird fucking place.

To be totally honest, Japan doesn't even show genitals in their PORN.
Japan is a weirder place (^%
May 5, 2018 10:16 AM

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Clebardman said:
Corvus8 said:
Showing reproductive organs that everyone over 10 knows what they're used for engage in coitus? Absolutely disgusting.
Showing evil intentions that shouldn't be normalized? It's all good.
The best thing is that sex scenes in film are like as vanilla as it gets. To make it even better, they don't even show genitals.
The US is a weird fucking place.

To be totally honest, Japan doesn't even show genitals in their PORN.
Japan is a weirder place (^%

Don't even start with japan. The fetishes they show in porn/hentai are incredibly morally questionable, but instead of censoring them, they're censoring the genitals.
May 5, 2018 12:46 PM

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Both are harmful for adolescents to see. Violence doesn't seem to really to much to an adolescent's brain though. When I was around 6 or 7 I had to watch a horror movie with zombies literally tearing a guy in half over a table among other things. I have turned out starkly opposed to violence, though, whereas if I had not witnessed certain sexual content when I was younger I believe it would have been to a benefit for my conscience.
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May 5, 2018 1:15 PM
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GrandSky001 said:
Dumb Christian values.
They think sex ed is bad but massacring of Jews and Muslims is good.

No serious follower of Christ thinks that massacring people is good. Such a thing goes against everything He stands for.

As for my opinion, it depends on the society and how the material is presented.

If we're comparing stuff that portrays wanton sex as a "good thing" to stuff that portrays mindless murder as a "good thing," I'd say both are destructive to developing minds (and, to an extent, adult minds) and that you can't really say which one is "worse." I would say that the former is more likely to have an impact, as most people develop a sex drive during adolescence, but most people don't have an innate tendency towards mindless violence.

If we're comparing stuff that portrays a healthy, proper, non-pornographic sexual relationship as a "good thing" to stuff that portrays fighting to protect others from evil as a "good thing," then I'd say that the former could be slightly problematic depending on how it's handled. Why? Again, teens have enough hormones running through them without adding fuel to the fire, but most of them aren't going to start needlessly hurting people just because they saw Captain America sling his shield at a Nazi.

If we're comparing one of the things in my first large paragraph to one of the things in the second, I'd say that the one in the first paragraph is probably worse, depending on the individual. Advocating mindless murder would generally be more problematic than portraying a healthy relationship, and portraying insane depravity as "good" would generally be more problematic than showing cartoon characters whacking each other with baseball bats.

Since, in America, we have a lot more disturbed sexual stuff (and more of a culture around it) than needless violence, I'd say the former is currently the bigger problem. At least for my country.

I mean, let's face it, we've got a heck of a lot more perverts, teen pregnancies, and STDs in this country than we do serial killers and brawls, though the serial killers might get the most publicity.

Wait... I just implied that porn and wacky fetishes are a bad thing... on a site filled with hentai junkies...

...If you'll excuse me, I'm going to start running for the hills before the lynch mob comes after me.

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is it the thought of sex as something shameful and needs strict privacy?

Nah. Sex is a wonderful thing. Parents are just worried that if their kids' sex drives are stimulated too much, they'll turn into womanizers and sluts. Or, worse, get pregnant/get someone pregnant.
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May 5, 2018 3:41 PM

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US study


You have your answer right there. The U.S. is still under Puritan influence. This isn't an issue in countries like France.
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May 5, 2018 3:55 PM

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May 5, 2018 4:24 PM

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sex makes life and violence takes it away. pretty clear to me which is worse
May 5, 2018 9:30 PM

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violence only harms the body

but pussies and cocks hold ultimate power
May 5, 2018 9:34 PM

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No idea, insanely violent content is completely fine for most people, but as soon as you show a titty everyone states freaking out.

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May 5, 2018 9:39 PM
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Because for most people violence is not as enjoyable as sex.
May 5, 2018 10:20 PM
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I don't know for parents but in reality it's the other way around.

Nowadays showing a drop of blood has higher chances of exceeding the PG-13 than a softcore sex scene which I find rather absurd considering that a kid will see and experience a lot of the former before even getting close to the latter.

They have the right to be worried but on the other hand it also proves that they don't know their kids since with that many forms of "entertainment" recently, sex scenes in PG-13 movies is probably one of the things they should care the least.

We don't really need more censorship when it comes to this specifically. We just need those ratings to be applied more strictly and the parents to control what movies their kid is watching instead of complaining about sex, nudity or violence.

I see so many movies or potentially great shows being destroyed by the PG-13 rating, it's just sad. You usually have to choose between less profit and a good show/movie or a terrible show/movie but with a PG-13 rating.
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Because The Violence shown is Fictional.

And Sex scenes are clearly not fictional and Animated waifus are 100% real.
Not like the Blood and graphic entrails that are shown on gore and even not gore violent media, these are totally fictional and thus don't harm anyone.

May 5, 2018 10:40 PM

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It's evolutionary...

As a society for thousands of years people had to go and fight to save their homelands, family, and way of life. So deep down we have this natural urge to watch violence to teach us how to survive.

Where as with SEX, well sex does seem to come with the down fall of society. The Romans got freaky then collapsed so did the Greeks etc. The other problem is having children is a huge responsibility. only 100 years ago it was common to see homeless children trying to survive, heck go to Africa now and you will see that. So the idea of sex through the stability of marriage in also ingrained in us from our ancestors. So it's a natural defense mechanism to avoid promoting it.
May 6, 2018 7:22 AM

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Nor sex or violence worry me, in fact I don't mind them. Expect when it is too overused like Elfen Lied.
May 6, 2018 9:22 AM

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It's not really about which one is worse, but which one has the worse effect on children. Ideally, you wouldn't want either though.
But a children exposed too early to graphical sex may easily develop trauma towards sex and have it impede his life later on. Meanwhile, peoples getting early exposed to graphical violence in movies don't become violent or murderer just because of it.

At least that's the general feeling that peoples will get out of this, and therefore why, even without being able to really explain why when asked, parents are more worried about children being exposed to graphical sex than graphical violence in movies and video games.
This doesn't mean that peoples think that murder is more okay than rape. It's not about which one is worse, but more about which one has the higher chance of impacting children's future when shown too early.
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Because children are too pure for this world.

No but really, violence isn't as easy to hide, I guess? People fight all the time on a daily basis.





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May 6, 2018 5:14 PM

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Most of the time, violence is more of concern, things like wars, criminality or even corruption are highly debated themes.

Sex is more of a taboo, that's why it's still hidden, but it sometimes is part of discussions at high levels.

@maluhia Like the quotes in your sig :x
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Fidelium said:
Most of the time, violence is more of concern, things like wars, criminality or even corruption are highly debated themes.

Sex is more of a taboo, that's why it's still hidden, but it sometimes is part of discussions at high levels.

@maluhia Like the quotes in your sig :x


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GrandSky001 said:
Dumb Christian values.
They think sex ed is bad but massacring of Jews and Muslims is good.


Perhaps in the middle ages. Not today though. That's why we have Trump in the US today. Americans, which the majority are Christians (or have Christian values), want to keep the Islamist extremists or any other radicals out by deporting and stronger background checks. And no, most contemporary Christians would say sex is much less worrying than violence and death. Me being one.
May 7, 2018 10:22 PM

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Can we have a 'neither' option OP? Cause I'm not worried about either in films.
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May 11, 2018 6:33 AM

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Because violence and sex are two very different things (and affect viewer differently).

Violence

1) People that commit violence (that isn't justified in some way at least) in a movie are black or gray characters (villains) and are judged. They certainly don't represent a role model for kids.
2) Kids watching violence will not get the idea that it's good or okay. They won't desire to imitate shown behavior. (Let's assume they are at least that mature (or sth))
3) Kids are taught that violence is bad, solves nothing... Doing violence is not encouraged by society. Violence is taboo. (In my opinion: even without society, people, as individuals, know that violence is generally wrong.)
4) There is a victim in violence.
5) Violence has a big spectrum. There is violence even in cartoons for kids. It's not graphic, it's more innocent, it's played for comedic purpose, there is no suffering... (I speak only about one type of violence). It's not always dark, deep, complex, mature etc. It doesn't always send strong (psychic) messages. (Different types of violence affect viewer differently.)
(I don't say whether is having violence in kids' shows okay or not.)

Sex

1) Sex is not marked as bad (immoral) in movies most of the time. Cheating is a good example of exceptions. Main characters (as role models) are often seen participating in sexual acts as well. Having sex in a movie makes it mainstream from something private, mature (not something for children's eyes)...
1b) It's easier to be influenced by messages of sex than by messages of violence.
2) Movies normalize sex. Kids will think it's normal to have sex, that it's everyday thing for teens and adults not connected to morality (or depth of connection of partners, if you want).
3) Society looks at sex as a normal thing. Not only that, but (naturally in that society) having sex is encouraged. Whom kids listen to? Their parents, media (movies), society (people they know; media influences society). Parents teach their kids what they think is best for them, but kids will eventually say no to them. Kids don't think critically and are easily controlled (brainwashed). What values will kid have?
4) Nobody is hurt in sex. It's all fun and games. So, what is bad about it?

Besides sex and violence, movies have a whole package of messages and ideas and a lot of them can act on a viewer without his full notice. So, there is more to be aware of than just sex and violence.
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Violence usually go hand in hand, like you can get revenge or something but nothing you can do about defloration.

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