So to make it short, I was kinda depressed, little bit nervous and happy at the same time. How about you guys? |
VaasMontenegroJan 18, 2017 1:47 PM
 If God exists, then he should try extending my deadline right now! ~ Kobayashi, Kobayashi-san chi no Maid Dragon - Episode 12 |
| So...do you like her back romantically or just as a friend? |
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| Take her to your room and bang her ffs , BE A MAN. |
| I've read some doujinshi/original hentai that is like that to be honest, and I fapped to it. |
| Tell her you're already devoted to your waifu/husbando and show them ur dakimakura to prove your love. |
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Rellexia said: I already like her back then but she told me to met each other in person. Which of course it didn't happened. Until this time I wanted to do it. Bad news is that I don't have enough money yet so it might give some time... :/So...do you like her back romantically or just as a friend? OppaiSugoi said: O...kay?Tell her you're already devoted to your waifu/husbando and show them ur dakimakura to prove your love. |
If God exists, then he should try extending my deadline right now! ~ Kobayashi, Kobayashi-san chi no Maid Dragon - Episode 12 |
ImTheJuggernaut said: Rellexia said: I already like her back then but she told me to met each other in person. Which of course it didn't happened. Until this time I wanted to do it. Bad news is that I don't have enough money yet so it might give some time... :/So...do you like her back romantically or just as a friend? Sorry but I don't fully understand here. Is it long distance? |
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Rellexia said: Not...actually. Just like I said earlier, we both studying at the same school in a different course (Me studying BSIT, I forgot about her course but it's all about Businesses and stuff) so we had a chance to take a glimpse to each other, but somehow we never talk to each other because of how shy I am (which what I hated thanks to my superior complexity) and we had different courses. I confessed to her that I like her somewhere around mid-2015 to 2016. But she told me to wait for the right time and told me that she really want to see each other in person so that we would know each other better. Bad news that due to tight schedule, I didn't have a chance to do so...ImTheJuggernaut said: I already like her back then but she told me to met each other in person. Which of course it didn't happened. Until this time I wanted to do it. Bad news is that I don't have enough money yet so it might give some time... :/ Sorry but I don't fully understand here. Is it long distance? |
VaasMontenegroJan 18, 2017 2:16 PM
If God exists, then he should try extending my deadline right now! ~ Kobayashi, Kobayashi-san chi no Maid Dragon - Episode 12 |
| i have a similar story, albeit she confessed her feelings indirectly least summer, i was in a certain friendship group with maybe 3 or 4 girls in it. my male friends would always ship me with a certain girl C. one day, one of the girls showed me a facebook conversation with C that said stuff like "my heart melts whenever i see him" (yes, i know it was me since my name was referred to earlier in the convo). anyway, i mostly just treated her the same after that and it ended somewhat unspectacularly |
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ImTheJuggernaut said: Not...actually. Just like I said earlier, we both studying at the same school in a different course (Me studying BSIT, I forgot about her course but it's all about Businesses and stuff) so we had a chance to take a glimpse to each other, but somehow we never talk to each other because of how shy I am (which what I hated thanks to my superior complexity) and we had different courses. I confessed to her that I like her somewhere around mid-2015 to 2016. But she told me to wait for the right time and told me that she really want to see each other in person so that we would know each other better. Bad news that due to tight schedule, I didn't have a chance to do so... Not sure how not having money factors into it, but if you both like each other I'd say it's worth trying your best to meet up somewhere. I think you should trust more in the idea that she knows what she's looking for though, and don't beat yourself up. The only way to find out if you make a good pair or not is to try it out, if you'd like to at least. |
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| What I do is tell them that I am not in a position for a serious relationship and I cant really love them back. I got once confessed on my first week in a new school and it was super akward.I did talk with her a lot but it was very one sided and I dont like her back. I told her that I have no interest in a relationship. Especially not with her. And to be honest even if the cutest girl confessed to me I would say the same answer.However going out on a date or a little get away is a totally different thing. Getting confessed to is very tricky. Especially if the girl is cute because you dont know what to do. Just hang out with her once okay and see how you get along. |
DildryJan 18, 2017 2:31 PM
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Dylaan_Omer said: Why not? Except that if you're gay or you're a priest. Are you scared of getting into a relationship?What I do is tell them that I am not in a position for a serious relationship and I cant really love them back. I got once confessed on my first week in a new school and it was super akward.I did talk with her a lot but it was very one sided and I dont like her back. I told her that I have no interest in a relationship. Especially not with her. And to be honest even if the cutest girl confessed to me I would say the same answer.However going out on a date or a little get away is a totally different thing. |
If God exists, then he should try extending my deadline right now! ~ Kobayashi, Kobayashi-san chi no Maid Dragon - Episode 12 |
| I expected more from your "In short" story. More of a TL;DR. To be serious, lol nah. I couldn't abandon my waifu. |
| Break it off before she goes nuts. These type always kill themselves without leaving a note. |
| Ok OP, you gotta strike when the iron is hot. Conventional old guy wisdom used to be that you had to wait 3 days before calling them back...But that's WRONG! Girls these days have too much ADD and can move on in that short amount of time... I also noticed that you said you're broke... Well lucky she confessed to you, so she's not interested in you for the money. But there are PLENTY of cheap or free dates you can go on. Most important thing is that it's something that allows you time to hang out and talk. Netflix is a good win these days for a date. Good Luck! |
| I would assume that she was BSing me, and ignore her completely. |
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| Fuck her in the pussy! That's the right response, right guys? |
SomeEdgeLord said: I WILL report you from this forum if this continues. In real life, I am one of the coldest, unsympathetic, people you'll ever know, who's grown up in an even colder household, you really don't want me to break my persona, I know how to make people feel bad. YearnsforAttention said: hm who has 1656 friends on MAL that's right me bye bye YearnsforAttention said: I don't want your approval how many damn times do I need to say it I enjoy irritating you I am gonna do things MY way |
Cbr_Star said: Hahaha, note taken... xD Thanks :) Let's see what I could do and let me take your advice as a reference...Ok OP, you gotta strike when the iron is hot. Conventional old guy wisdom used to be that you had to wait 3 days before calling them back...But that's WRONG! Girls these days have too much ADD and can move on in that short amount of time... I also noticed that you said you're broke... Well lucky she confessed to you, so she's not interested in you for the money. But there are PLENTY of cheap or free dates you can go on. Most important thing is that it's something that allows you time to hang out and talk. Netflix is a good win these days for a date. Good Luck! |
If God exists, then he should try extending my deadline right now! ~ Kobayashi, Kobayashi-san chi no Maid Dragon - Episode 12 |
| if you like her and she likes you go for it. I am a Shy person myself but being shy will only keep you away from things you would like to do (can feel you though its really hard) |
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Maneki-Mew said: Cbr_Star said: Ok OP, you gotta strike when the iron is hot. Conventional old guy wisdom used to be that you had to wait 3 days before calling them back...But that's WRONG! Girls these days have too much ADD and can move on in that short amount of time... I also noticed that you said you're broke... Well lucky she confessed to you, so she's not interested in you for the money. But there are PLENTY of cheap or free dates you can go on. Most important thing is that it's something that allows you time to hang out and talk. Netflix is a good win these days for a date. Good Luck! That's nonsense. If she genuinely wants him, she will wait an fairly amount of time. Maybe not five years, because after a certain lapse of time you move on with your life, but long enough. ^^" Trust me it's changed... You see BITD before cell phones it would be normal to call someone back the next day. So by waiting a couple days made it look like you're super busy, and make them feel self conscious about using up all your time. That way it made them try harder to gain your attention. But thanks to cell phones, people are used to instant communication. People get upset when you don't call them back in 10mins never mind a whole day. So the whole waiting 3 days has the opposite effect, and comes off being extremely rude. What happens is the girl might still be interested, but She'll now play 10x harder to get and indifferent Especially if it's a really hot girl. In just those couple of days she might get 10+ other guys hitting on her. |
| If I don't find her especially ugly, I'd just give her a chance, everyone deserves a chance after all! But I'm not gonna lie though, I'd probably use her feelings to my advantage and get her to do whatever I want, I've done it before... |
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| just be honest bro if she cant accept ur honesty then its definitely not meant to be |
| If it were me, I'd either confess as well or politely state that the feeling isn't mutual, depending on which is the case. |
| From a girl's perspective, I feel like that girl of yours is kinda insincere... that's just my opinion though. If I seriously liked a guy, I wouldn't respond the way she did at all when you told her your own feelings. Then again we're both completely different people so what do I know, there are some girls who are just weird with how they express their feelings I guess. But what I can say is that if you don't actively do something about your relationship, like actually properly letting your feelings known to her and your future intentions with your feelings (like wanting to date officially, etc), then nothing's ever going to happen between you two. And nothing's worse than being stuck in that eternal limbo of "what if's" so I would suggest making a move sooner rather than later if you really do like her. People's feelings can change fast and it can happen before you know it and you'll have missed your chance. Whenever guys confess to me I either keep them for a while on a "trial period" (I tell them this too so they know what I actually feel), accept them right away if I like them back, or reject them straight up if I really can't see myself with them. |
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ImTheJuggernaut said: Dylaan_Omer said: Why not? Except that if you're gay or you're a priest. Are you scared of getting into a relationship?What I do is tell them that I am not in a position for a serious relationship and I cant really love them back. I got once confessed on my first week in a new school and it was super akward.I did talk with her a lot but it was very one sided and I dont like her back. I told her that I have no interest in a relationship. Especially not with her. And to be honest even if the cutest girl confessed to me I would say the same answer.However going out on a date or a little get away is a totally different thing. Because I cant relate in any way with any of the girls that I know in School. You have a relationship with somebody that you only have small talk with? Or conversations that are completly one sided? Doesnt work. |
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| Nothing. I just gonna say "ok". I'm so bad :< |
| Is she nice with big boobs? Or at least blonde? |
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| tl;dr You should give her the D!!!!! (Extra exclamation marks are used to reach character limit required to post though by writing this now, I have easily surpassed but seriously, dude, what are you even doing here, you should be giving her the D already) |
| Signature? I ain't got no signature! I don't need no signature! I don't have to show you any stinkin' signature! |
| Tbh, I'd go around bursting with laughter at her for falling to a guy like me. I'm also not interested in people who like me that way. |
| Confessions always end up awkward. If it does not make you sad, nervous, or happy then there's a problem. I experience the same shits when someone confessed to me. and dude, if she like you and you like her back that's the only reason you need to have to be in a relationship. Money ain't a problem. You can date even without going out, you guys can talk in school since both of you are in the same college. Start with meeting up again in school. Manage your time if she's really worth it...and I think she's worth it since you shared your story. |
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ygtrece said: Confessions always end up awkward. If it does not make you sad, nervous, or happy then there's a problem. I experience the same shits when someone confessed to me. and dude, if she like you and you like her back that's the only reason you need to have to be in a relationship. Money ain't a problem. You can date even without going out, you guys can talk in school since both of you are in the same college. Start with meeting up again in school. Manage your time if she's really worth it...and I think she's worth it since you shared your story. WOAAAA LOVE EXPERT as if you have experience in relationship xD |
| The first time I got confessed to in high school, I lied to her and said I liked another girl. Now I'm an adult I don't really get random "go out with me" confessions. I've had anonymous ones, but I just ignored them. It's more just flirting with each other and going on dates and seeing where it goes from there. Honestly dude if you're young, you should just go out with the girl. You aren't really using that time for much else and it will be a good experience for you.. You'll start to know what you like and dislike in a girl and how relationships work. |
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Lalala1412 said: ygtrece said: Confessions always end up awkward. If it does not make you sad, nervous, or happy then there's a problem. I experience the same shits when someone confessed to me. and dude, if she like you and you like her back that's the only reason you need to have to be in a relationship. Money ain't a problem. You can date even without going out, you guys can talk in school since both of you are in the same college. Start with meeting up again in school. Manage your time if she's really worth it...and I think she's worth it since you shared your story. WOAAAA LOVE EXPERT as if you have experience in relationship xD Lmao Yeah I have ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) |
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WHOAAA YOU NEVER TOLD MEHH, i used to be the love expert, not you!! dont replace my position!!!! >.< |
Lalala1412 said: WHOAAA YOU NEVER TOLD MEHH, i used to be the love expert, not you!! dont replace my position!!!! >.< You'll forever be the love expert between us ;) |
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| >girl >Confessing to me I would ignore her then its 99% likely that shes either trying to prank me or thinks I am a Chad due to being tall |
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| I don't get it. Do you want her? If a girl confessed to me and I didn't want her, I'd simply say it. I don't want you. That's life. |
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| It depends how I feel about her. It happened to me once, but I wasn't interested at that time but I couldn't tell her I wasn't because I was afraid to hurt her feelings so I just changed subject. |
| I would have hot lesbian sex with her What else? |
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| If I found them likeable enough I'd let them have a chance.That's the least respect you can give a person when they genuinely like you and you find them even just a little bit likeable. xCYTEHEP said: Take her to your room and bang her ffs , BE A MAN. батя preaching some wisdom right there.^ |
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| le dropped sorry, but im already strictly committed to my waifu. please realize that anime life>real life. |
| Seriously don't have a clue. That's too much pressure for me to handle. Depends on a lot of things. |
| One man's freedom is another man's terror. |
| I have no idea, it hasn't happened to me. Ever. |
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