I just realized my friend is a real-life tsundere.

ona said:
"I Just Realized My Friend is a Real-Life Tsundere?!", the newest hit light novel, coming to a bookstore near you, spring 2014.

ona said:
"I Just Realized My Friend is a Real-Life Tsundere?!", the newest hit light novel. Coming to a bookstore near you, spring 2014. Anime adaptation due 2015.

Paul said:


What's the shortened term? IRL-DERE?

Hederick_ said:


>"I Just Realized My Friend is a Real-Life Tsundere?!"
>Anime

Makes sense!

ona said:


my weeab level of japanese (this is probably wrong): [something something] Ore no Tomodachi wa Hontou na Tsundere?! So... Hondere?

worldeditor11 said:

Your Japanese is funny.

Paul said:
Now you just need to trip and fall between her legs and your getting somewhere.

MySilkyLove said:
You guys know that real-life tsunderes already have a label right?
Bitches.

wanderingplayboy said:
My friend hit me as greeting. She insulted me most of the time. I know that she cares about me and definitely doesn't hate me. But her tsundere-ness makes me afraid of her.

Korrvo said:
That seems to be an odd reason to be afraid of someone.

I mean, you already know she cares about. What's the problem? Oversensitive to insults that she doesn't mean?

wanderingplayboy said:


Because it hurts and I can't even hit her back. (that's a legit reason, right?)
And I don't know if she doesn't mean the insult or it comes straight from her heart but, being called stupid, moron, idiot, ugly, pisses me off. I'd rather avoid meeting her.

Kyuutoryuu said:
Every time her best friend does something stupid, I always ask her, "Why don't you stop her?" She always replies "It's not my problem!"
Then I catch her scolding her best friend at times. Sometimes even going to the extent of crying and becoming extremely emotional just to show her seriousness.
Does anyone else also have a friend like this?

Korrvo said:
Hmm

I'm gonna go with you are probably taking her too seriously. If I had a tsundere friend who got a kick out of hitting me and it hurt, I'd probably just shrug it off, giggle to myself and go, "Yep, that's so like her."

Course, there is a difference between a regular tsundere and someone who is just plain aggressive. You know her better than I do, but if you say she cares about you then I imagine it's fine and you're taking her aggression a bit too much to heart.

wanderingplayboy said:


You seem to have a big heart. I don't know, maybe it's just me being oversensitive. Isn't it normal hoping your friend to treat you a little gentler? I mean, I'm really kind toward her; using polite words, never hit her, etc. I never saw her treated other guy/girl as bad as me. I really want to get angry sometime but like I said before, she cares about me and I owe her alot. When I was in a trouble, she insulted me for 2-5 minutes for being so stupid then she helped me as much as she could.

Korrvo said:
Welcome to the world of irrational women where being treated fairly is out of the question.

But if I didn't know any better Id say she's just downright in love with you after reading that.

You lucky shit lol

Trying asking her out on a date and see what happens. Who knows, she might even quit with the tsundere stuff.

wanderingplayboy said:


This isn't anime, man. Tsundere girl who actually likes you only exists in fiction.

She'd kick me if I asked her out on a date, that's for sure.

Speaking from my experience, if she wanted to go out with me, she forced me and dragged me all the way no matter how much I desperately said no. That's tsundere girl in real life. Yep. Scary.

ona said:
"I Just Realized My Friend is a Real-Life Tsundere?!", the newest hit light novel. Coming to a bookstore near you, spring 2014. Anime adaptation due 2015.

Korrvo said:
]That's absolutely not true in my experience. I mean hell, one of the first things I was taught growing up about girls was that if they were mean to you, that's probably a decent sign that they like you, and that knowledge proved itself right a few times.

Up to you though whether or not you have the balls to find out or not. :P. Either way, if she cares about you the way you say she does, she isn't going anywhere regardless of the answer, so why not right?

Celestrial2 said:
wait, i just realized I kinda act like a tsundere to my crush and I'm a guy. well... shit. time to revise my entire way of life.

Korrvo said:
That's absolutely not true in my experience. I mean hell, one of the first things I was taught growing up about girls was that if they were mean to you, that's probably a decent sign that they like you, and that knowledge proved itself right a few times.

Up to you though whether or not you have the balls to find out or not. :P. Either way, if she cares about you the way you say she does, she isn't going anywhere regardless of the answer, so why not right?

Kyuutoryuu said:
Every time her best friend does something stupid, I always ask her, "Why don't you stop her?" She always replies "It's not my problem!"
Then I catch her scolding her best friend at times. Sometimes even going to the extent of crying and becoming extremely emotional just to show her seriousness.

Oh, and she also happens to be flat-chested. What a nice bonus.

Does anyone else also have a friend like this?

skudoops said:


That's true, I was taught the same thing and for the most part it was true. Some may not like you like you but they are just having fun with you.

@wandering
I will say though if it bothers you then tell her about it instead of avoiding her. If she does like you I think she'd be bummed you just started avoiding her out of the blue.

MySilkyLove said:
You guys know that real-life tsunderes already have a label right?
Bitches.