| I'm genuinely curious because I'm addicted to posting on here yet I keep getting banned so I guess I should be nicer? Or maybe I should quit posting on here to safeguard my account which was my initial plan but I'm getting bored and suicidal. ๐๐ Yeah anyway just tell me how to not insult people on MAL and lets see if we can make it work... |
Lentus1Sep 13, 12:06 AM
| Use an LLM to sanitize your posts before sending them. |
Reply to deg
oh ok youre not permanently banned yet but if you keep insulting people then ye its only a matter of time
i say do not overreact on the internet and wait for at least 5 minutes before reacting on a hate comment
i say do not overreact on the internet and wait for at least 5 minutes before reacting on a hate comment
deg said: i say do not overreact on the internet and wait for at least 5 minutes before reacting on a hate comment This would only make sense if I wait 5 minutes for every post I make. I'm mentally ill, hate comments are not the only thing that makes me insult people. Zarutaku said: Use an LLM to sanitize your posts before sending them. I'm pretty sure it's against the rules to make AI posts. And I don't like using AI it takes too long to load. |
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Lentus1 said:
This would only make sense if I wait 5 minutes for every post I make. I'm mentally ill, hate comments are not the only thing that makes me insult people.
This would only make sense if I wait 5 minutes for every post I make. I'm mentally ill, hate comments are not the only thing that makes me insult people.
im mentally sick too and always boiling of angst on the inside but i guess i was trained even at a younger age to fake calmness aka fake it until you make it so that maybe my advantage here
| @deg I don't wanna fake it I just wanna filter out the posts that could get me banned and never post them. |
| Idk if this is against TOS since it isn't directed towards anyone but it's still sensitive and the mods are jumpy so I'd start with removing that or using a synonym. Lentus1 said: suicidal. In terms of arguing with others,ik where you are coming from.The best way is to either state your argument/viewpoint as non-aggresively as possible or to avoid "attacking" the other person directly,even if it doesn't feel right or you wanna say more. A good idea would be to avoid people that you have had problems with before on here or that just seem to ragebait you,same goes for comments you might view as inflammatory.Although you can still reply as long as you self-censor and approach it in a cold manner. Phrasing is the third part,although I already touched on it,the more detached the comment the less likely you are to say something antagonizing/bannable."Keep it to yourself" is the worst way to approach socializing but it's 2025 and if I add anything more to this here imma be staring at a potential warning myself so :D TL;DR:Self-censor,as sad as it is. |
| Can I Still Go To Heaven If I Kill Myself? |
| You don't post... or... You can always stop for a second, take a break (even for a few days if need be), think about what you're about to type, and then proceed-- or choose to just leave the conversation/not join the conversation in the first place. It's not like you always need to respond immediately. You have time to think about your words and how you think they'll be interpreted by readers. I would say "so there's no excuse", but honestly people can still misinterpret what you say and become insulted anyway. Sometimes there's no winning. However, a full on argument? It can stop with you. Something that might rub folks the wrong way? You do have time to consider that. Typing/Writing impulsively can definitely get someone into some mess. This has been the case, even before the internet. We all make mistakes though, and despite what folks might think, we're all still learning. Good communication is learned, not an innate skill. It can take practice and a lot of thought, so I think it's great that you're not permanently banned. You've posted this thread, so it seems like you're willing to learn more about yourself and get to the best form of yourself that you can. More mistakes will come, and that's fine. I believe in you though and wish you well. Good luck. |
Lentus1 said: I'm pretty sure it's against the rules to make AI posts. And I don't like using AI it takes too long to load. Then you probably need to stop being an edgelord, unfortunately. |
Lentus1 said: You can always ask someone else for their opinion as well before posting somethingI'm pretty sure it's against the rules to make AI posts. And I don't like using AI it takes too long to load. |
| grow the hell up and stop being a kuso gaki |
Reply to XMGA030
grow the hell up and stop being a kuso gaki
XMGA030 said: stop being a kuso gaki Does that also mean you don't like mesugaki? |
| You take a deep breath, remember who you would disappoint, and hit backspace ๐ I'm kidding, I have no problem with anger online 99% of the time. |
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| Compliment people sarcastically, it's been consequence-free every time I did it. ๐ |
| Well, you usually insult someone when you disagree with them. It doesn't happen in my case, because I never completely disagree with anyone, and the reason for that is because I don't think that my opinion is correct. And since my opponent's opinion is more or less equal in its value to mine, it cannot be completely wrong or completely right. Yeah, that's nothing more than just sophistry, but it does help me out. |
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| Just don't say to people online what you would get slapped irl for, simple. Wait, you wrote you're suicidal. Continue, please... |
| Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
| I am pretty sure there is a thread about recommending anime for suicidals. Though i kinda forgot what the title or who the poster was. Speaking in old english might help and you get to sound fancy too ;( |
Reply to LoveYourSmile
Just don't say to people online what you would get slapped irl for, simple. Wait, you wrote you're suicidal. Continue, please...
LoveYourSmile said: Just don't say to people online what you would get slapped irl for, simple. So he shouldn't say that he likes lolis, because it would get him beaten up irl? |
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LoveYourSmile said:
Just don't say to people online what you would get slapped irl for, simple.
Just don't say to people online what you would get slapped irl for, simple.
So he shouldn't say that he likes lolis, because it would get him beaten up irl?
| @Zarutaku You only get beaten for loving lolis while being married, believe me. On the second thought, it's not that bad... |
| Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
| I try to be nice and let my opinions do the talking so I never directly insult others. |
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| id start by finding a site that is a little more interesting to kill your free time with lol or yourself over, ig |
Reply to LoveYourSmile
@Zarutaku You only get beaten for loving lolis while being married, believe me. On the second thought, it's not that bad...
LoveYourSmile said: You only get beaten for loving lolis while being married By whom, the wife? Why does this make a wife angry? |
| Spend some time on other websites to put into perspective how good we have it on the MAL forums by comparison. It's very rare to see someone here that actually makes me annoyed enough to the point where I'd want to insult them or their opinions, even though it does happen and there have been times where I too act unnecessarily rude And realistically you're not gonna change someone's opinions anyways so what do you even gain from being confrontational and hostile? It might make your ego feel good for a bit, and trust me there are times where I too want to call out dumb posts in a harsh way. But it comes at the expensive of making the forums more unpleasant for everyone, including yourself in the long run since it will turn this relatively nice forum into yet another twitter or 4chan where everyone is super hostile all the time |
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LoveYourSmile said:
You only get beaten for loving lolis while being married
You only get beaten for loving lolis while being married
By whom, the wife? Why does this make a wife angry?
| @Zarutaku Humans are so greedy when you don't share, haha. They invent all kinds of the excuses for banal jealousy. Annoying trait, I know. If I was a god, I would put this flaw into a proper container, such as loli. God, this world could be such a beautiful place if you gave that role to me rather than Jim Carrey... |
| Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
| The mods should just ban people less. |
Reply to LoveYourSmile
@Zarutaku Humans are so greedy when you don't share, haha. They invent all kinds of the excuses for banal jealousy. Annoying trait, I know. If I was a god, I would put this flaw into a proper container, such as loli. God, this world could be such a beautiful place if you gave that role to me rather than Jim Carrey...
| @LoveYourSmile Will the wife be pacified if the loli is shared with her? |
ZarutakuSep 13, 10:32 AM
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@LoveYourSmile Will the wife be pacified if the loli is shared with her?
| @Zarutaku Mine - yes. That bitch I love would fuck moss if it was female. What's the real question? |
| Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
| keep doing it they probasbly deserve it |
| Well just don't tehehe, I think that you have to remember that you shouldn't pay attention to people provoking you, remember that this is a place aimed for teens and young adults who think that is fun to troll and do bad stuff on internet, pay them no attention, that just shows that you are better than them, because you are, the fact that you are now trying to change speaks a lot of you and that is good, dogs will always bark now in the other hand, if you are the one that gives out free insults out of nowhere, well, just don't tehehe |
   There's no such thing as a life free of bad things... - Higashiyama Kobeni - |
Reply to LoveYourSmile
@Zarutaku Mine - yes. That bitch I love would fuck moss if it was female. What's the real question?
LoveYourSmile said: What's the real question? Does the wife share the loli, or does she snatch her away? |
Reply to Zarutaku
LoveYourSmile said:
What's the real question?
What's the real question?
Does the wife share the loli, or does she snatch her away?
| @Zarutaku Back in the days we shared a lot. But she is flawed, she falls in love. I don't. So, we have some disputes. Not g99d. Whatever. |
| Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
| For now I'll probably just have a lower activity on the forums than I used to and hopefully that lessens the chances of me getting banned again. |
Reply to Lentus1
For now I'll probably just have a lower activity on the forums than I used to and hopefully that lessens the chances of me getting banned again.
| @Lentus1 I always liked seeing your takes on things since they came from such a different culture and perspective than most other posts here. It's sad to see you deciding to post less but I also get it that it's not fun to feel like you're constantly having to walk on eggshells and having to worry about if you're offending someone with every word. It's exhausting |
Reply to NS2D
@Lentus1 I always liked seeing your takes on things since they came from such a different culture and perspective than most other posts here. It's sad to see you deciding to post less but I also get it that it's not fun to feel like you're constantly having to walk on eggshells and having to worry about if you're offending someone with every word. It's exhausting
| @NS2D I just feel shook from being banned multiple times in the span of like two months, so if I stay unbanned for a couple of months or more then maybe I'd feel more comfortable and post like how I used to. |
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@NS2D I just feel shook from being banned multiple times in the span of like two months, so if I stay unbanned for a couple of months or more then maybe I'd feel more comfortable and post like how I used to.
| @Lentus1 I'm speculating but it probably has a lot to do with if the mods see you as a consistent problem maker. If your name constantly shows up in reports and in controversial threads then yeah, they'll probably be more unforgiving towards you even when you're not really doing anything wrong |
i just avoid confrontation, if one feels very bad and my insult pushes him to self harm, i'd feel bad |
| You don't, somebody is guaranteed to be offended no matter what you say. Professional victims are quite common. |
| Anti-aliasing enthusiast |
| Been there, done that. Zarutaku's and LoveYourSmile's advices are pretty much the only advices one can give you: Then you probably need to stop being an edgelord, unfortunately. Just don't say to people online what you would get slapped irl for, simple Speaking from experience, I've bee one ban away from permaban multiple times. It was deserved - well, the users I was insulting would have deserved the bans too and did not get them, but that's another story, from another era, back when MAL was very different... People who tell you "others are too sensitive" or "it's censorship" are wrong, misguided, or would rather not upset you than tell you the truth. From what I could see, you definitely deserved the bans you got. The way you interact with people is often unsufferable, and you only do so because people can't grab you and give you a good shake online. Don't do that. |
DeathkoSep 13, 7:09 PM
Prophetess of the Golden Era  |
| Just view them as Not Worth It. Like view them as below garbage, view them as the rot that appears under the log in the woods, view them them so lowly that they are not worth the time and effort. |
Mao said: If you have to shit, shit! If you have to fart, fart!  |
Reply to NS2D
Spend some time on other websites to put into perspective how good we have it on the MAL forums by comparison. It's very rare to see someone here that actually makes me annoyed enough to the point where I'd want to insult them or their opinions, even though it does happen and there have been times where I too act unnecessarily rude
And realistically you're not gonna change someone's opinions anyways so what do you even gain from being confrontational and hostile? It might make your ego feel good for a bit, and trust me there are times where I too want to call out dumb posts in a harsh way. But it comes at the expensive of making the forums more unpleasant for everyone, including yourself in the long run since it will turn this relatively nice forum into yet another twitter or 4chan where everyone is super hostile all the time
And realistically you're not gonna change someone's opinions anyways so what do you even gain from being confrontational and hostile? It might make your ego feel good for a bit, and trust me there are times where I too want to call out dumb posts in a harsh way. But it comes at the expensive of making the forums more unpleasant for everyone, including yourself in the long run since it will turn this relatively nice forum into yet another twitter or 4chan where everyone is super hostile all the time
| @NS2D Spend some time on other websites to put into perspective how good we have it on the MAL forums by comparison. Yep. I've been online for a long while now and while MAL definitely has some issues, almost every other public forum is so much worse (take a trip over to resetera). I do miss the unfiltered internet of the 2000s and would like it if mods on all sites would stop treating the job so serious. Also, if I really wanna just go unfiltered and have at it, 4chan is right there. Also I can at least talk loli's there. |
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@NS2D
Yep. I've been online for a long while now and while MAL definitely has some issues, almost every other public forum is so much worse (take a trip over to resetera). I do miss the unfiltered internet of the 2000s and would like it if mods on all sites would stop treating the job so serious.
Also, if I really wanna just go unfiltered and have at it, 4chan is right there. Also I can at least talk loli's there.
Spend some time on other websites to put into perspective how good we have it on the MAL forums by comparison.
Yep. I've been online for a long while now and while MAL definitely has some issues, almost every other public forum is so much worse (take a trip over to resetera). I do miss the unfiltered internet of the 2000s and would like it if mods on all sites would stop treating the job so serious.
Also, if I really wanna just go unfiltered and have at it, 4chan is right there. Also I can at least talk loli's there.
Toadfan64 said: I can at least talk loli's there. You can here as well, but only in replies, just creating a dedicated topic is forbidden, although there are subtle workarounds. |
| Anonymity gives people the freedom to insult and talk about all kinds of weird pedo/incest stuff that they'd never dare say irl, because they'd instantly be called a creep... ironically, the internet acts like a mirror, revealing that the version of ourselves we show online often reflects who we truly are on the inside |
Reply to Zarutaku
Use an LLM to sanitize your posts before sending them.
| @Zarutaku This is unironically a good suggestion... ChatGPT has more self-awareness and manners than many people online, or so I've seen. Myself in the past included lolz Other than that, OP, unironically find God or go through intensive anger management therapy. Not the same in effects nor essence but hey, whatever floats your boat. |
My Vow is pure. |
| You could also do it like the many baiters and use disposable accounts to post anything without consequences, just make sure to use a dynamic VPN and other ban evasion tools xD |
Zarutaku said: just make sure to use a dynamic VPN and other ban evasion tools xD >buying VPNs and making fake email accounts just to shitpost on a generic anime forum  |
 Though, I haven't gotten a single ban so far on MAL. Don't worry about it too much. You can always make a new account. Matter of fact, this isn't my first MAL account. I still have username and password for the previous one, but forgot its mail. Due to MAL having gotten haxx0red they require the mail for some security theater, though. So I just made a new account. |
| As a god, I've no need to insult people. I bless them with a response, which is what they wished for and I am a god who grants wishes. I also believe that the sole motivation for making "shit posts" is for sexual gratification and there's nothing wrong with that. So you see, there's no need for a superior being to insult people for their inept and incompetent posts as it results in getting banned and them getting to laugh at you. |
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| How do you wish other people stop insulting you? Do the same to who you converse with. |
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