| Which is more important to you? For me sex is highly overrated. No woman will ever be able to give me the same satisfaction my left hand does. Love all the way. |
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| They are connected in a way, but yea i guess i prefer love it's something you can enjoy regularly & casually and enhances lust. Should make a poll for it. |
| spiritual successor of lord rothchild. |
| "Love all the way" for me as well, because I'm not into having empty pleasure for the sake of just having experienced it, because it would be meaningless to me. It's far easier to find the latter particularly in a country where paying for such services is legal and even outside of that, my chances to pick up a woman in this overly sexualized society who would be up for having some close body contact with me would be far from zero. Yet, I don't want any of that if it isn't preceded by having become intimate in mind/soul with my hypothetical partner, first. Every bodily action would be a bonus rather than a requirement and my cravings for genuine and mutual love have always been far grander than my cravings for lust |
NoboruJul 8, 4:03 AM
| Lust is part of romantic love, so the choice should be obvious. |
This dance is the pinnacle of human achievement. |
Zarutaku said: Lust is part of romantic love, so the choice should be obvious. Not necessarily. Nowadays there's a tendency to move away from casual intercourse in a relationship, especially in mainland Europe. |
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Reply to SimplyBrazen
Zarutaku said:
Lust is part of romantic love, so the choice should be obvious.
Lust is part of romantic love, so the choice should be obvious.
Not necessarily. Nowadays there's a tendency to move away from casual intercourse in a relationship, especially in mainland Europe.
| @SimplyBrazen That doesn't sound like a romantic relationship anymore. |
This dance is the pinnacle of human achievement. |
| Lust is one of the seven deadly sins. |
| Love is the most important thing to me. If only how much you want something actually made it easier :/ |
If the only thing keeping a relationship romantic is sex, then that relationship was never romantic to begin with. |
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traed said: Love is the most important thing to me. If only how much you want something actually made it easier :/ It only makes it harder, which sucks. |
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Reply to SimplyBrazen
If the only thing keeping a relationship romantic is sex, then that relationship was never romantic to begin with.
| @SimplyBrazen That's not what I said, just that sex is supposed to be an integral part of romance. |
This dance is the pinnacle of human achievement. |
| sex is a hassle its anxiety-inducing triggering traumatic uncomfortable and theres just so much shit i gotta sort out first and finding a person who i can actually trust is also a whole lot of work and the reward itself, is just okay at best i cant comprehend hedonism in sex like i know ppl do it i saw my partners lose themselves in sex to the point that i felt like holy shit what the fuck is this and its like i wanna feel like this too... but i cant im just not like that idk if its like trauma or whatever but yeah i sure am working on it sure of course but maybe im just not wired like that, maybe im just simply not too crazy about sex, and thats okay too therefore, love of course recently i realized that a majority of my friends are way more sexual than i am, theres like fewer people that truly get me or my feelings on sex and i myself am struggling to accept the fact that i might be kind of asexual, and it often feels like im carrying some baggage or that theres something inherently wrong with me u know cuz im not "normal" like the others but thats just my brain playing tricks on me, its okay to just not be too crazy about sex, thats fine, im fine... i hope and on top of that, i fkn love reading smut, im fascinated by this shit for real, its cool to watch those characters do things that i just dont understand, its exciting, but like real life shit is like ehhhhh this made things all the more confusing for me, but apparently me enjoying it as a subject is kinda of irrelevant to how i am irl, thats what ppl online say its not like i nut to smut, im there for the story and the messy relationships |
elgatosaikaJul 8, 5:43 AM
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| love is better people can just go to brothels for lust anyway |
| Lust, easily. And it's not only about having sex, it's about peak emotions. Love is an excuse for doing same boring shit everyday. |
| Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
| Love definitely, don't even really know if I like sex all that much, even self-love. |
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| Love for sure, lust is something that comes out of love for me. Therefore it would be needed to have love first before even having that lust (: |
| I agree with the OP. Who would wanna date a woman for sex lol? |
| Both are up there in terms of importance in my life but love triumph over lust for me. I think lust can be found easily and easily replaceable, can't say the same with love. Just my opinion. |
I opened two gifts this morning and they were my eyes How lucky am I to live another day in this body? |
| i'm assuming it's romantic love, right? if so, i don't really care for either, but love sounds more appealing to me than lust |
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| I've been thinking about this recently since I'm trying to get back into dating. It's really hard to find someone when you are someone like me apparently. Lust has been historically much easier for sure but has it's own issues because it leads one to usually interact with shitty people. I'm trying to remain emotionally strong so I don't download Grindr again but the search for love is incredibly emotionally exhausting when you are more of a sexual curiosity. |
  ♡ Harder Daddy ♡ |
| Love is the most important to me, not lust. |
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| Lust is overrated, I prefer wrath!. |
Opinions are opinions, and differing opinions can co-exist. 🙂 But I don't do debate, life's too short to spend time debating people.    |
Reply to Kwanthemaster
Love is the most important to me, not lust.
| @Kwanthemaster sounds like a smart idea, man. |
| Love is more important. I've been a very lustful person for 8-9 years of my life and it's gotten me nowhere but mentally scarred. |
i love it when you look at me baby <3   ⋆ GROTESQUE - lynch. ⋆ |
| As far as romantic love is concerned, one cannot exist without the other. |
This dance is the pinnacle of human achievement. |
Reply to 19R0CKST4R
Love is more important. I've been a very lustful person for 8-9 years of my life and it's gotten me nowhere but mentally scarred.
| @19R0CKST4R lustful of what exactly. Please tell us. |
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@19R0CKST4R lustful of what exactly. Please tell us.
| @DesuMaiden I might interpret this wrong, sorry if I do. But if you mean the kind of things that I lusted over it would be hentai characters, porn models, crushes, exes, people I met online, so forth. I must admit though I was too young but anything about love used to make me so angry so thoughts of sex, or even just watching it filled that void in the worst ways possible lol (my bad if i went too personal) |
19R0CKST4RJul 9, 8:42 PM
| i love it when you look at me baby <3 ⋆ GROTESQUE - lynch. ⋆ |
| I think both are important. The fun thing about life is, nothing is certain. You dont want monotonous stuff in your life or else you get depression. Sometimes you want lust, sometimes you want love from your partner. it is how it should be. |
| The stars are distant as always Still shining with the light of their grand deaths in vacant space Let it penetrate the darkness when a beast roars a final wail Let it penetrate my heart so I can share your pain |
| They are both important in my opinion. |
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| theyre both valid but love is more rewarding on every level to me. and hurts more when you dont get it. |
| The Holy Bible clearly forbids lust. Choose Christ mal bros... |
| ngl punpun was a bit of an asshole right wing extremist (chud 😔😔)  |
| Love is a surgery metaphoric concept annoying romanticists use to explain away our natural drive to reproduce. |
I LOVE Loli Hentai Send me a PM if you want to debate my talking points. |
| Romantic love needs lust for pretty much everyone. If anyone disagrees and is either heterosexual or homosexual, try dating the sex you are not sexually attracted to. Anyway, I'll go with love despite what I just said. |
| Lust without love is horrid and meaningless. I'd rather be alone than have sex with random strangers I don't care about. But obviously, both are necessary in the context of a long-term romantic relationship. |
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