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Absolutely! The Christmas Spirit was strong this year. Mom forced me to go outside and hang with people, i did for about 3 hours and before the clock ticked midnight i returned home to celebrate it with family. Did you party with family and friends? We watched some Christmas movies and just chilled. Hella cozy. (♡ˊ͈ ꒳ ˋ͈)

YESSS, YOU HAVE TO CELEBRATE IT THIS YEAR. It's so fun! After the paint has dried, cracking them is so satisfying.
It's even more fun when you turn it into a friendly competition with someone to see whose egg is strongest You can have prizes nd shii. Definitely celebrate it.

No you did not! How could you... What type of bird is it? Ohh definitely draw a big bird on one of the eggs and show it to the birdie. Perhaps it may feel proud of your artistic talent. ଘ(´•3•)⊃━☆

THAT SOUNDS SO AMAZING, girl... I'm jealous, but good for you. Grandparents have that gift, my grandpa gave good leg massages, but since i was quite ticklish as a child, i couldn't handle shoulder or back massages QuQ
What kind of TV shows does granny usually watch?

LOL, i did so too some years ago. Nowadays i can't afford to get sick that often, so haa... Gotta wear some sockie soooocks... And you better do so too! I don't want to be alone in this. Together we suffer all eternity. ( ´･･)ﾉ(._.`)

Such passionate words and i wholeheartedly agree, live your life. Regrets are a normal part of life and can help us grow, so there's no point in dwelling on them. After all, as the saying goes: 'It is what it is.' So let's just go with the flow and make the most of our time. Man, once i learned this saying "It is what it is", it changed my life, it made accepting mistakes so much easier for me. Huhuhee~!

Awee that's cute! Even simply standing up and maintaining good posture like a whole a*s King can be counted as a productive task in that sense. As long as you're not just sleeping or lying in bed doing nothing, anything counts! Remember what game you played exactly at 00:00/midnight?

Wait you serious? That's so dangerous, are there no laws and regulations about owning a gun? Because that's just madness... (ง ͠ಥ_ಥ)ง

One time, here kids were shooting birds on a big fountain at night. It continued for multiple nights, before they were finally caught. Gee, dem gunshots were even heard to my room. Guns be loud as hell. (•ˋ _ ˊ•)

I wonder what goes on in some people's heads. ( -_•)╦̵̵̿╤─

I got'chu, it's hard to change habits once you've gotten used to them. Fine then... I will allow you to apologize to me IF your heart desires to do so... Hence why, you should not feel bad about it, do as you want, i accept it~
UgHhGNNNgN Even if i told you to be more selfish, i know by now you would spit those words back at me. ၄ စ ౪ စ ၃_且~

You possess a kind and nice soul, i'm happy to have you as a friend too, heck it! I'm honored to have you as a friend! (•‾⌣‾•)و ̑̑♡

Awee! Don't chu worry! I was away for some time too, it's totally understandable. Reply whenever you can and want.

Been tryna do the same thing too, life's been messy for a while, got to straighten it up. Step by step we can do it! Goodluck! ૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა

Huhu! My pleasure, next holiday should be Easter, so there's plenty of time for you to enjoy the next holiday. Painting and cracking eggs is quite relaxing.

That's very good, body and mind need to relax from time to time, so definitely take your time with it. If possible, either ask someone or go to a professional for body massage, since i have to admit, that shi feels good. (˶ ᵔ ̫ ᵔ ˶) ♡

Gosh i'm relieved! At last, my advices were useful to someone! Glad you're healthy now, days will keep getting colder so be sure not to underestimate the weather.

Thank you, i understand what you're saying, and i really appreciate your kind words. It's never easy to lose someone we care about and you're right it's always important to remember the good times and cherish the memories we've made together. Although you never had the chance to meet Grandpa, i know that he must have been watching over you, perhaps as a spirit or even when you were still a baby. As long as you remember and cherish the things you have learned about Grandpa, he will always be a part of you. One thing i know for sure is that he would be so proud and happy for you and all the accomplishments you have achieved, be it something minor or something huge. Hyup-hyup hurray!

Man, i wanted to break my old record, going to try again next year i suppose... Whew, thankfully here weren't that many loud people, usually there would, but this year was quite quiet, which was honestly pleasing. And not a lot of people set off their own fireworks after the city had set off theirs. Fireworks have become quite costly in recent times. I'm grateful, since many pets and wild animals are frightened by the loud noises and flashes of light produced by fireworks, leading to injury or death for some animals. Plus it's not good for the environment. I wouldn't mind if they banned it here honestly, a laser show would be plenty, it's harmless and simple. ㅤᵕ̈

Agreed, especially when you go shower in 2023 before the time ticks midnight, and once it got 2024, you'd be coming out of the shower fresh and new. Squeaky clean! It's okay to be active whenever you can, it's not supposed to feel like a chore, so when you're in the mood to talk, you know who you can turn to! Me!
And WHAT THE F YOU MEAN NICER!? You're even too nice for your own good! So don't worry, you're perfect the way you are. You're allowed to curse and curse me out whenever you feel like it, and i'd be honored AND proud. NO BUTS. "૮₍ ˶•⤙•˶ ₎ა

Welcome back, i missed you!

LMAO, well you can never win against the weather. Is it snowing there? How much snow? Here most of it has already melted, but enough to build medium snowmen.

And MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS! (..◜ᴗ◝..)

It's okay! Life comes first before any socials, so that's a good thing to not mesmerize yourself with internet too much.
What did you do outside? Play with snow? I hope you and bro had a good snowfight~

(That's so cute! Happy memories were made).

That sucks, did you get fever? Better warm yourself up with layered clothing's and drink plenty of warm stuff/soups. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Get better soon! Going to keep you in my mind while you get better. ( ´･･)ﾉ(._.`)

Sadly quite the opposite, it was depressing. My only uncle passed away so i had to help mom with the funeral preparations. He would've easily lived for more 10+ years at most, he was the best. Now when we visit his house, it's so empty, no one's going to give me chocolate or make coffee anymore... Now resting after going back and forth everywhere. I hate winter, since everyone i hold dear goes away in that season. Sheeeeesh, heavy stuff. At least uncle is now with his son and parents up there.

Now the last thing left is New Years. Not much planned, probably just going to stroll outside the whole night and watch fireworks. What about you? Planning to do anything with friends and family?

Awee no worries! I was away too, and i can certainly say, that i too, missed you~ ( ๑ ˃̵ᴗ˂̵)و ♡

Thank you pumpkin for taking the time to understand my point of view. ( ˘͈ ᵕ ˘͈♡)
I agree with what you said. Being calm and collected in tense situations can be especially beneficial for diffusing conflicts and finding common ground. It's a good reminder to approach difficult conversations with an open mind and to be willing to listen to others. I shall never lose.

And i appreciate for taking the time to share your thoughts and experiences~
Your wisdom shall be passed down to me! ˙ ͜ʟ˙
It is indeed important to approach difficult conversations with empathy, but also to be humble and reflect on our actions and imperfections. It's a challenging process, but one that can lead to personal growth and understanding. That's the way of life~


I have to say, you write really well, seriously i can't get enough of it. That's an aspect to be super proud of!

You and i, against the world. Let's make a pact, not to let our worth become worthless. Do you know how i upgraded my worth 2 days ago? Guessed right! I learned how to make a birdhouse. I used to watch my grandpa make them when i was little, but since my mom didn't want me to use those big tools, i couldn't participate in it. So i finally did it! ૮ ˙ ﻌ˙ ა

The elderly are such a weak point of mine, of course not those with nasty tempers, but i pity them. All lives must come to an end one day, and to think they are the closest to death is somewhat depressing... We will be next too in years, but damn, that's some heavy stuff. Let's enjoy the present!

Don't worry, weakness isn't bad, it makes us who we are. ( ᵒ ૩ᵕ )♡*

Life's journey may seem like a long time, but it can pass by in the blink of an eye. Hence you gotta enjoy it and try to be happy~

Lmao! Now that you mentioned "dirt" and clean" I remember when i used to misbehave, my mom used to "cleanse" me with holy water (she got it from a Christian neighbor, plus our family is atheist) I'd start hissing and pathetically fall to make her happy. Haa... Good times. She still has that leftover Holy water on a kitchen shelf.

FRRRR, gosh how i wish i had a better memory, that's why I've started to write down if i watch any before i was too lazy.

Yes! Home alone (at least 1 and 2) ARE SUCH GOOD MOVIES. It just radiates that nostalgic feeling you had as a child, which is nice to remember. ꒰✿´ ꒳ ` ꒱♡

YES, i used to watch some Otome playthroughs on YouTube, since i was too impatient to wait for the next day for free keys to open the next chapter.

Talking about countdowns, are you ready to stay up all night on News Years?! Because I AM. ˙ᵕ˙

GOSH YOU'RE SO ADORABLE! I must say, i didn't sleep well today. My back was burning, and it felt like oil was moving around in my kidneys and stomach. And the nausea! Horrible, i NEVER want to experience that EVER again... Took many pills, and took a dump. After 1.5 hours it went better. Though i was stubborn because i waited and suffered 6 hours before taking any pills... Couldn't stand, sit, or lie down. Had to try many positions just to survive. In the end, i finally laid down and crouched myself into a ball, and sleep hit me. Most hellish night of my life. (*꒦ິ꒳꒦ີ)

My day was okie! Had a long ride back home, then went grocery shopping, walked doggie, made one-pot, made a castle out of snow, dipped my hand in cold water, then went outside, and dipped it in the snow to see how long i could last... Ah right! I DROPPED MY PRECIOUS EGG WHEN COOKING!
Such a waste... I was so mad! （ꐦ𝅒_𝅒）

What about you?? Tell me everything!! How have you been doing these past few days?

LOL! That's smart, i'd do that too. Tell me who won. ˙ᵕ˙

Ain't that nothing, we must feel for those people who have sun allergy... THAT'S OUCH!

Aww that really sucks, why do always the good people have to suffer the most?

LOL, I FEEL YOU, that's why i just put a plastic bag right next to me, so if it's filled i throw it into the bin.

Let's dive into that seriousness!

I can certainly relate to what you're saying. Trying to explain some things to older family members can be challenging, especially when it comes to complex and potentially controversial topics like mental health and depression. But it's still important to try to connect with them, even if it feels like they just don't get it. You could try using simple and concrete examples to help them understand your point of view, or you could ask them to share stories from their youth to help you understand where they're coming from. And if all else fails, just remember that you don't always have to agree with them to love and enjoy their company.

It sounds like you've had some intense experiences with your mom and are working on communicating and understanding each other better. It's very important to recognize that all relationships, including those with our parents, are complex and involve ups and downs, even though our parents may not be perfect, it's still valuable to try to understand their perspectives (Kinda hard to do, i must admit) and see them as individuals, with their own flaws and strengths.
At the same time, it's definitely important to take care of yourself and not feel like you have to be perfect to deserve love and support from your family. Remember that it's okay to make mistakes, and it's okay to disagree with your family sometimes. We all have different perspectives and experiences, and it's possible to love and support each other even when we don't see eye to eye on everything. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with each other, and to try to find common ground that we can all agree on. Ultimately, it's about respecting and understanding each other, even when it's not easy. But doing that whole life can be a tad tiring. Always thinking of others needs...

Teachers have it rough nowadays.

You're saying that understanding my mother's struggles and accepting her harsh words is a sign of emotional maturity. But being too professional and critical can sometimes exacerbate issues rather than solving them. While i know it's important to recognize that our parents may be struggling with their own emotional and mental health issues, it's also important to set boundaries and not let them take out their frustrations on us! PERIOD. Ultimately, it's crucial to remember that everyone is dealing with their own unique challenges and that being kind and empathetic to others, regardless of their age or maturity level, is crucial to building strong relationships and achieving mutual understanding. Geez, talk about generational trauma passing. Poor us.

I agree, i have noticed, some older people are still acting quite childish, like can't solve a simple problem with use of logic... It's sad!

-Ending that seriousness on this note.-

That's amazing! Such a wonderful grandpa, i try my best to follow my grandpas footsteps, honestly grandpas rock. 《˵ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°˵》

You've seen home alone 1 and 2? Perfect coziness! Honestly any older Christmas movies have that feeling, can't exactly point out why that is so.
(Overall i suck with recommending movies, i have watched lot in my lifetime, BUT I JUST CAN'T REMEMBER THE DARNED NAMES).

Oh sounds fun! Though it isn't called a game, i used to play lots of Otome games when i was bored. Most stories were quite Cliché, loved BL ones though. ⋐ʕ˵• ᴥ •˵ʔ⋑

The countdown really be the best part, and the cheers after that. How nostalgic.

DON'T YOU WORRY! You helped me a lot! Who doesn't have struggles in their lives, and it's part of life which we have to get through with. it makes/has made us who we are today.

Joyful things? What's a theme that makes you go all babble talking? For me i think it's dogs and BL mangas/manhwa :D

You know, you always have a way of just making me type up paragraphs and paragraphs. I can't help it, I just love to dive into a good conversation. But enough about me, what about you? How are you doing? How's your day been? Do you have any big plans coming up? ʕ ꈍᴥꈍʔ

HOT CHOCOLATE? That's the best choice one can make, yum! Enjoy it. ⁽⁽ଘ( ˊᵕˋ )ଓ⁾⁾

Seriously!? Such coincidence! Trueee, having asthma AND allergies is like a double kill. Sucks.
I feel you on the dust part, i try to wipe down most places every 2-3 days, it has made me a clean freak. （￣へ￣）

Is it possible to be allergic to roaches?? Brb, googling. WOW, it's true!
The saliva, feces, and shedding body parts of cockroaches can trigger both asthma and allergies. These allergens act like dust mites, aggravating symptoms when they are kicked up in the air. That's madness, never knew about this one. (｡•́︿•̀｡)

Is there any way to call an exterminator near you?
Googled some ways to lessen/get rid of them:

1. Peppermint oil, lavender, cedarwood oil, and cypress oil are essential oils that effectively keep cockroaches at bay. Additionally, these insects hate the smell of crushed bay leaves and steer clear of coffee grounds. If you want to try a natural way to kill them, combine powdered sugar and boric acid.

2. A concoction of baking soda and sugar is an effective cockroach killer and controls the multiplication of these pests. Sugar acts as a bait to attract cockroaches and the baking soda kills them. You just need to identify their hideouts and sprinkle this mixture in those corners.

Heheh, i always use toilet rolls too, much cheaper and longer lasting. I mean, napkins or toilet paper, they are still both quite the same, doesn't matter how you use them, so scolding you for that is meaningless.

Agreed, woah was your grandpa a crafter?

YES, i love Christmas-themed movies too! Any favorites? ♡(੭´͈ ᐜ `͈)੭
Daym sounds awesome, what's Persona about?

What a feisty family, cats and dogs can sometimes be friendly with each other, but still fight most of the time. In the end, they both cherish each other. In my case, my 4 cats and dog don't get well along, except for 2 (males) who don't care about him most of the time. And the 2 (females) are more aggressive toward him. Still doesn't matter who it is, if one cat accidentally/deliberately attacks the dog, all others come running to protect. Jeez, such tsunderes. Overall, family can be a pain but in times of need, they can be useful. My mom cusses me out too out of habit when she's in a bad mood since i'm the only daughter. She babies the men, no wonder i came to despise them. (Issue of mine). I try to tolerate my mom because it's sad to see she's doing everything on her own. (Plus she's quite senior by now). Wish i could have a positive attitude like you. Unfortunately, i could never put family first before anything, since i feel like i don't have it. Hence why, i've made my own family (me-pets).

Yes! Fireworks are banned in some areas in my country, i understand why and honestly i support it. So while it's still allowed in my city, be it my last, a nice view of fireworks this year would brighten my mood. Colorful stuff brightens the day. (〃´𓎟`〃)

I know right? It shouldn't be that bad if you're covered in warm clothes and a thick blanket. Definitely drink something warm/hot after sitting on the balcony. Sounds peaceful, wish here was a beautiful sea to be seen close, lucky you! QAQ Enjoy the view for me. Pinky promise? 🤙
This year there's lots of snow falling down, unlike in past years. Wonder if it's related to climate change? I wish i could enjoy cold air since i got asthma my throat and airways just close up and it's hard to breathe, so gotta use the medicine. ૮( ꒦ິ࿄꒦ີ)ა
Do have any illnesses?

YESSS! Messing around with lights is exciting and fun, two days ago, i helped my mom put up a light in the hallway, it's blue-green-yellow-red colored, so pretty.
You can still create that atmosphere without a traditional Christmas tree. That's for sure, all that matters is the feelings you have when seeing snow and Home Alone movies. Are you rewatching Home Alone?? GOSH, a TV channel is starting to broadcast it each Thursday starting this week, so i ain't skipping it out!
It's a tradition here where i live, never skipped a year. 👁u👁

LMAOO, that's cute! Lenny was my favorite shark in that movie. Wasn't a fan of Oscar, he annoyed me a lot. What about you?

Aigooo besto frendo! Don't you worry about that! We can always talk about grumpiness. My mom is usually grumpy right after waking up, she's so aggressive so we have to leave her be or it can end REALLLLY badly... I tend to be REALLY grumpy only if someone's bothering me when i'm really focused on something, or they keep pestering me about something i said no to or i asked someone to do something and they didn't do it, which makes me hella grumpy. What about you? What makes you grumpy? Not the usual grumpiness, but the SUPER DUPER grumpiness?

I wholeheartedly agree, it ended in a heartbeat especially the second half of the year. Still remember vividly the fireworks of 2023. Ugh right, people are going to start blasting their fireworks and bombs soon at night, which is going to scare my pets. (And me with it's loudness) Shucks, at least they going to come to me to hide and cuddle... Hueheueheh. (₌ ꈍᆽꈍ₌)

GAHHH YOU GOT A TENDER TASTE, I LOVED BOYS OVER FLOWERS, AFTER WATCHING IT I REMEMBER I USED TO WISH, I'D LOSE MY MEMORIES AND I COULD REWATCH IT. Used to be so obsessed with it, it was just to good. It's one of my favorites! Definitely in my top 10. 10/10 recommendation. ❤️‍🔥

Absolutely don't mind, it just shows we are really into it :)

I appreciate your honesty and it's really heartwarming to hear that you are self-aware and aware of what others are going through. It's definitely not easy to stay humble in the face of such empathy, but i think it's an important quality to have. And you don't have to see yourself as someone who just mumbles nice things, but rather someone who can provide comfort and support to others during their struggles. It's a gift to be able to listen to others and help alleviate their pain. Remember that everyone goes through different challenges, and it's okay to acknowledge your own struggles, even if they don't seem as big as others. You are still valid and important as a person, and it's good that you are aware of that. I'm always here to listen to you if you ever need it, if it gets difficult to share with people around you, you can count on me!

Nooo, no such thing as mumbling! And it's nice to have serious talk from time to talk, it gives time to think of things you usually don't, so that's a great bonus. (Glad to know you know that. If it makes it easier for you to talk, you can think of me as a wall that responds, so you better NOT feel regretful!)

I can understand where you're coming from, and it's true that once you've seen enough shows, the storylines and plot twists may become more predictable. However, i
do believe that there's still value in watching shows, even if you know how they're going to end. The process of getting to know new characters, exploring new worlds, and following the journey of the storyline can still be enjoyable, even if you have a general idea of where it's going. Additionally, re-watching shows can also be a fun and nostalgic experience, as you can appreciate the details and nuances of the show that you may have missed the first time around. At the end of the day, it's all about finding the shows that bring you joy and entertainment, regardless of how predictable or unexpected they may be. Don't you agree? Got any good dramas to recommend?

Don't worry, growing old is a fun experience, especially personal growth. The more knowledge one learns the wiser one becomes. (〃˘◡˘)

YES EXACTLY! You're reflecting on your past and how your perspective has changed over time, plus it's totally natural to feel like things were more unique when you were younger, as you were still exploring and learning about the world. As you grow older and gain more experience, your worldview may change. However, it's also important to remember that those experiences have shaped who you are today.

You're also acknowledging that the process of growing up and getting older is a learning experience, which i too do! It's not always easy to remember everything from your younger years, but it is a sign of growth and maturity. It's actually quite interesting that you feel grateful for this process, as it means you're not taking it for granted. You're an old yet pure-hearted soul. ₍՞◌′ᵕ‵◌₎♡
Overall, it seems like you're approaching this with a positive attitude and a willingness to continue learning and growing. This is a valuable mindset to have, and it will serve you well throughout life. Keep it going, you are a rare gem, one of a kind. There are actually not many who think like you, you better appreciate yourself more by putting your needs first before anyone! This is an order from me! (o •̀益•́)=◯)`ν゜)╝

What have i been up to lately? Hmm.. Very good question! Honestly, haven't been doing much since it's SO COLD! I always swell up when it's too cold, but i do enjoy making snowmomen/men. AND SNOWFIGHTS, there's a gang of kids outside (rare sight to see nowadays) which i got to befriend, they're much younger than me, but i'd rather befriend younglings than people my age... They are ruthless. It all started when i accidentally destroyed a snow castle outside, i jumped on it with my dog when we were walking, a kid nearby started to yell and others came to look. And then a feisty snowball fight had erupted. I was freezing nd shiii, we are all living in the same apartment complex, so my mom knew some of their parents. (They all laughed at us, meanies) I was quite an antisocial child. So that was an opportunity to become enemies to friends over time, which happened. Lmao that time was funny, but good times. At first, i was even afraid to go outside anymore, but over time we warmed up to each other and became friends. I suppose i was 14-15 at that time, kids were like 7-11. Good kids. Glad they still live here. The youngest of the group, she's the only child of her family, so i sometimes go sledding with her, she's too shy to go alone (Which is adorable!) (˵ ꒡﹏꒡˵)

What else, what else... I'm going to bake some cookies tomorrow (gingerbreads) I wanna test some things, so preparing for Christmas. I decided to put up my Xmas tree on 1st December. Do you have the tree up yet? And decorations? 🎄

Otherwise, when it's winter, i don't go out much more than 1-2x weeks, when i do, i tend to visit the cinema, museums, concerts, etc or just hang around people. But i love walking, so never a skip walk day. After work and study on weekdays you just get bummed out when getting home, so nappings are a need! On weekends (not always), i help/volunteer around at a local pet shelter, going to visit them again this week. GAWD animals are so DAMN adorable! They deserve the world! 💕
It's okay! I could've of asked too, so i apologize for that, sorry about that... :(
AND WHAT ABOUT YOU?? Tell me about anything! I love stories. (✨´•‿•`)

WOW! At last, I've found someone who can challenge my mastery of text lengths~ (•͈ ʊ •͈ )

I'm glad! I shall continue to excellently humor you from now on. That's my new goal in life now.
Always have to have fun in life, no matter what means you have to use for it. If you don't it can become so suffocating, i support you. ⅽ(′ᴗ‵)ↄ

Thank you! This website is useful for Text Faces: https://www.textfacescopy.com/cheerful-text-faces.html So many to choose from, which i like.

You call our conversation a small chat!? Ain't no way. That doesn't make sense! Our chats are the longest one have ever seen!

Honestly these days people try to be who they truly are not. Just be you, why disguise? Why fake? It's all pointless and exhausting. And goofy people are on TOP, i have met some people who outright start to shame people who are a bit different (either be obsessed with trains or even just like a certain music genre) Weird right? And those people who do that possess very distinct traits: uncomfortable/dark aura. Most of all my gut always can tell if someone's bad or good personality, which i'm hella thankful for. You can copy my things for life, i don't mind Benben ୧(´‿`)୨

Thank you, i give my best~ It's true that we are not alone in our experiences, and that many others may feel the same way. However, it's also important to remember that every individual is unique and has a purpose. Exactly like swords may be used for different purposes, each person has the potential to make a positive impact in their own way. We shouldn't let our routines or processes define us but rather strive to tap into our true potential and make the most of the lives we've been given. Wish people didn't make living this complicated, why can't everyone just be giving and compassionate? Guess that's life. 【ᇂ_ᇂ |||】

Your text is truly heartfelt, and it's clear that you have a deep appreciation for the complex processes that shape our beliefs and connections with others.
It's SUPER rare to find someone who values understanding and empathy so highly in this age, and it's inspiring to see your conviction towards cherishing the human core that unites us all.

I totally agree with that while it's natural to feel at ease with familiar beliefs and religions, it's equally important to be open to differences and embrace the beauty of uncertainty. I really wish more and more people understood that.
Your dedication to love and care for others, even those you've never met, is admirable and serves as a reminder that the power of kindness can have an extraordinary impact on the world.

Man, i appreciate you for sharing your thoughts and for continuing to carry the mood of those around you, even when it may be difficult. But don't try to shoulder it all alone, emotionally it can drain you very quickly, so try to mediate and keep your mind busy at times
Your words have reminded me of the importance of compassion and empathy, and I strive to embody those values as well.
Gosh, it makes you basically my idol now~ (〴 `ᴗゝ´)〴

GETTING SERIOUS/DEEP TIME!


"The one who doesn't cry loud enough may never get the breast to be fed!"
I agree with the sentiment behind this phrase, which is that we shouldn't stay silent when we're struggling or in need of support. It's important to reach out for help when we need it, rather than bottling up our emotions or suffering in silence.

However, i don't agree with the implication that loudly crying is the only way to get the help or attention we need. Many people express their emotions and communicate their needs in different ways, and they all deserve to be heard and supported. It's important to prioritize personal comfort and find the communication style that works best for us, rather than forcing ourselves to conform to a stereotype. Overall, i think it's important to prioritize open and honest communication, regardless of how we express ourselves. I hope i understood that saying correctly.

While it's commendable that you strive to understand and empathize with others' struggles, i encourage you to also prioritize your own well-being and needs. The fact that you recognize the value of respect and compassion in relationships is important, but it's also important to cultivate healthy and supportive connections with others. Remember that you deserve kindness and compassion just as much as anyone else, and it's okay to reach out for help or support if you need it. I hope you will continue to find ways to take care of yourself and develop meaningful connections with others, while also learning and growing in the process.

Although it's true that everyone is on their own unique journey, it's also important to remember that we all have the capacity to make a positive impact on the lives of those around us. The ability to empathize with and care for others is a valuable trait, and finding ways to show your concern can have a profound effect on those who need it most. It's also important to recognize that everyone has their own struggles and priorities, and it's okay if you can't always be there to help in the ways that you want to. The most important thing is to do what you can, when you can, and trust that your efforts make a difference.

END OF SERIOUS/DEEP TIME

YES! Testing different recipes and ingredients can be fun, but if it fails, it's such a waste of products...
We may be quite similar than we may even think, yay!
Yes, spend a lot of time with family, i try to be with my mom quite often since she's quite old by now QAQ bet she's still going to strive even in her 90s!!
Textbook-long tutorials are so no fun. So it's best to skip it. But It's either not needing them anyway or desperately needing them later. Lmao!
As kids, we had tons of energy, but adults told us back in the old days. Once you grow up, you'll be doing nothing but sleeping and working/being alive. Minecraft used to be so fun. Oh! I loved k/j-dramas! I've always wanted to continue watching them, but 1-hour episodes eaaachhhh.... So off-putting, i'm an impatient person :(
What genres did you mostly watch? Mine were: BL, Romance, and Thriller. (✿˵⪰ᗜ⪯˵)

Tbh granny life is so comfy, like what else do you need but your room and some peace? I enjoy it, we rocking that lifestyle. Dreaming is fun, but not when you're dreaming and not guessing that it's a dream, so many lost opportunities i could of done in dreams... Shame! ⅽ(-⌓ -〞)ↄ

Revenge eh? Heh, you can try! I won't be giving up my throne that easily! ¯\︵( ͡~ ͜ゝ°)︵/¯

Why!? DID SOMEONE SAY THAT TO YOU? WHO? I SWEAR! I SWEAR I WILL SHOW THEM, HOW DARE THEY! And NO, you are NOT boring at all! So don't you dare think like that! I forbid you! No, no! ๑(•̀_•́ )ﾉ

(It's alright! Respond whenever you can and feel like it. Work can tire one really out, so replenish your energy, eat well, and rest well.) (ꈍ .̮ ꈍ)

Man compliments make me shy... Thanks miss! I say meticulous people are so helpful, they never skip a detail, people should be grateful instead of complaining, shame on them. I love it when others give a bigger effort to keep/make everything beautifully organized/done. I always pay attention to small details too, and look for them, especially when bored. How the store shelves are stocked, how a document is written etc. It tells a lot, and honestly, it's fun! It doesn't harm anyone, so why not?

As my favorite idiom says: "The Devil/God is in the details" (You choose if you prefer the Devil or God) :D
Here's the meaning:
The phrase "the Devil/God is in the details" is a commonly used idiom meant to emphasize the importance of getting all the little things right, as even small details can make a big difference in the final result or outcome. This idiom is often used to remind people to pay attention to even the slightest details, as they can have a big impact on the overall quality of a project or a task. It's important to remember that the small details can make all the difference when it comes to creating something exceptional. (I'm an atheist, i believe in rocks and the Universe). (⟤ᴗ⟥*)

Siblings are a treasure, yet they can sometimes truly be a pain in the arse... I feel you.
Don't worry! Poetic approaches can never be lame, it's a rare approach these days, so be proud of it, indeed family expectations can be a hassle, be it from the parents or from the kids. It's always better to be neutral since it's... Simpler! But your parents still should make extra effort to take time and properly talk with you.

It sounds sad... Why do your days usually go hassle-filled? I'm always here to lend an ear :)
Have you got any hobbies? Mine are obviously, anime! And a bit of gaming here and there (Not hardcore, just Genshin/farming games, i get tired of games so fast). Reading books is super good, you can use lots of imagination, though time flies hella fast when reading. Internet scrolling (not healthy, but nowadays who cares).
Oh and cooking/baking relieves stress and sometimes i hang out with an elderly couple next door, they have lots of yummy stuff, gramps even taught me how to play chess (I still suck at it, but i mean i'm doing better than i did before). (ˊ☉_☉ˋ)

Wow, you wrote that so well! That's so nicely put and it sounds like you've had some important revelations about the nature of life and how to navigate difficult situations effectively. (I'm proud of you 💗) I do agree that it's always good to take a step back and reflect on our own perspectives and judgments, and to recognize that everyone is unique and has their own journey to go through. Plus it's super important to try to understand and empathize with others, rather than trying to change or control them. And sometimes, it's okay to just accept the things we can't change and focus our energy on the positive aspects of life. Yippie yay!

You seriously wrote a thought-provoking message about the importance of self-reflection, humility, and acceptance. It's true that acknowledging our own limitations and mistakes can be difficult, but it can also be liberating and open us up to new possibilities and opportunities for growth. It's important to remember that the people around us are human too, with their own unique perspectives and challenges, and that our love for them is not dependent on their achievements or success. Acceptance of oneself and others can lead to a more compassionate and fulfilling life. 〲( ^ᴗ^ )〴

The way you see things is INCREDIBLE! Everyone needs you in their life (Of course, you're also deserving of someone who you depend on too), you're quite wise, and i'm not even overexaggerating. These days people lack any kind of insight and the ability to see the depth in things, but you have proven that you're certainly not one of them! I think your message can inspire others to be more reflective and open-minded in their own lives. I'm so glad that you've been able to find peace and confidence through acceptance, and I hope that others can learn from your experiences as well. Your friends are really lucky to have you. And remember: don't ever belittle yourself for someone else's sake. I FORBID! (ﾉꐦ ⊙曲ఠ)ﾉ彡┻━┻

No, no, i feel like we do share the same view, it just changes depending on how hungry i am (joking). (~˘˗˘)~
To sum it all up, we learned that we should strive for excellence in most things, but not get bogged down by small details that may not be crucial in achieving our goals. It's important to understand and accept that everyone is unique and has their own way of doing things, and that our personal struggles and fears may be due to a lack of understanding or compassion towards others. Ultimately, confidence and acceptance of ourselves and others can help us achieve great things over time with the right effort and understanding. Muah perfecto! (ง ื▿ ื)ว

AND NO! DO NOT APOLOGIZE, I PREFER LONG CONVERSATIONS, THE LONGER THE BETTER, it makes one feel ticklish (in a good way). Thank you for taking the time to write so much! If you don't mind me asking, how much did it take to write that text? It's so in-depth and well-written. 👍
I still beat your text length, which means i came out as the winner! Ⴚტ◕‿◕ტჂ



Ps: I hope my cutish Text Faces don't annoy you much... I'm just too addicted to using them... (˵ ꒡﹏꒡˵)

Awww, but i must say that (facts) :3 xoxo.

HAHA! Love your personality, we both have that same determination to strive for excellence in everything we do. If i do something, i gotta do it perfectly, otherwise, it's going to bug me for days... It do be a hassle sometimes, but i try to ditch that mentality, so i sometimes make mistakes on purpose, so it's totally okay and your compliment was great! Loved it (☯ ᴥ ☯)

Man, i'm glad i did! Talking with you feels refreshing yet poetic, which i really like.
Frrr, Demon Slayers' action is going to be dope as heck, one more year of waiting... But definitely going to be worth it, since time is flowing so fast these days, it won't be a problem. It still feels like it's October ᗒ෴ᗕ

That's the right way to do so (✿˶˘◡˘)⋑♡

Gosh... Thank you! That's the nicest compliment I've ever gotten 💗

Loved your introduction, very well written! I'm hyped about Demon Slayer too, it's just soooo good! The animation is top-notch,
can't wait for the next season. (˵╰ ‿ ╯˵)

Aww yeah! Thanks for accepting, your taste in anime is so diverse and unique ( ˘ڡ˘) Your passion for anime is unmistakable, keep the grind going! ✽-(⩾∀⩽)/✽