The sad reality of dating weeaboos is that there so hot that there already taken or just too ugly to date.

Exactly this. A person isn't all about looks and it's extremely dishonest if one only cares about other people's looks.

Looks are incredibly important; they tell you quite a lot about someone's personality. If someone is fit and well-groomed, that shows they have the drive to take care of themselves and make themselves presentable. If someone is fat and unkempt, that shows they're a lazy slob. Guess who everyone would rather date?

@Spinnerweb not really? i have met a lot of people who are fit and well kept but don't give a shit about their life and don't take care of themselves outside of working out and eating healthily.

I'm fat and spend most of my days out and about irl running errands , exercising or studying and am very proactive which isn't lazy last time i checked?

Those generalisations are a good way to miss out on a good partner :) wait until you meet someone like my friend lol looks fit and is well groomed but is super depressed doesn't take care of themselves and mostly eats overly processed foods and way too much sugar and then try to tell me they have the drive to take care of themselves because if you did i would fucking laugh.

Looks are important for sexual attraction yeah for sure but they aren't the be all end all and that's really all they matter for attraction!

@RyuRabbit If someone is fat and active, that means they have no self-control when it comes to meals, which is just as bad.

Depression and self-grooming are the antithesis of each other. If someone is clinically depressed, they don't take care of themselves. It's part of the diagnostic criteria of depression lol. Just because you say your friend is depressed doesn't make it so, lol.

Sexual attraction might not be the be-all and end-all, but it's extremely important, and only single people who can't get sex say otherwise. The couple that cums together stays together.

@Spinnerweb or maybe just maybe they are dealing with health and mental health issues :) i only eat 2000 calories a day as per my dieticians plans and i'm slowly losing weight 0.25 kilos a week my metabolism is heavily hampered due to multiple health issues involving the thyroid and testosterone which caused me to gain weight uncontrollably to the point where i would only lose weight if i ate so little that i ended up sick.
That was fixed once i started medication and then i started to lose weight but you know what weight loss is a LONG journey and you can't tell if that fat person is working hard to lose it all or not.
I have lost over 20kg if that's lazy in your books then i highly question your idea of lazy.

So not really you are just once again judging people to an insane degree.

Now on to the depression and self-grooming .....not really? when i was depressed and i mean suicidally depressed (before i discovered my health problems and got them treated :) ) i took care and groomed myself because i didn't want others to notice that i was depressed or make a fuss about it.....you can still be well groomed and depressed and not taking care of yourself.

By your logic i wasn't ever depressed even though i was fucking diagnosed with depression it's on my fucking medical record ???? but no i didn't have it either because like my friend i groomed myself to look good.

you don't need to meet everything on a criteria for it to be depression etc.


So nah in both cases you have jumped to conclusions insane conclusions i might add that are bordeline if not full on offensive.



Fuck i guess asexual couples or couples with low sex drives don't exist i guess people who don't care about sex or see it as a big deal don't exist.

DAMN I GUESS I DON'T EXIST because sexual attraction isn't important to me whilst i understand to many others it is.


Making assumptions and lumping everyone into one group and putting a bow on top of it "Fat people are lazy and have no control" , " Well groomed people can't be depressed " , " ugly people won't last in a relationship because sexual attraction is important" etc is just the epitome of stupidity.

That however is just my opinion you believe what you like but my god dude don't jump to conclusions like that it makes you look stupid!

@RyuRabbit If you have a thyroid disorder then you're excused, yes, but that's not 99% of people you see. Good luck with the weight loss. I'm fully aware how much hard work it takes as I went from obese to extremely fit myself, and it taught me a lot about the world. I'm sure once you've lost your weight, you'll notice a huge difference in how people treat you. And then your thoughts on how important attraction is will change as well cuz until then, can't miss what you don't have right?

It's not stupid to generalize what's true for the overwhelming majority. I'm fully aware of the outliers you mention, but out of all the obese people you see, how many are gonna have a thyroid disorder? I'm not gonna spend my energy appending "but there are exceptions such as..." to everything I say. Also, I didn't say ugly people won't last in a relationship (because there's no objectivity - what's ugly to you might be beautiful to me, and vice versa), I said people don't form relationships with someone they find ugly.

@Risa92 Well done! Hope you feel better now. So brave.

Maybe stop making dating about looks then. I don't care if someone I date is "ugly" or "hot" ( I don't find anyone for the record).

I don't think I'm that ugly LOL haha 

What on earth do you mean by men don't have the option of make up if they aren't cowards? So in your mind all women are cowards?

Disagree and Agree, this is the same with just females in overall some of them are already in relationships some are not. There isn't a majority towards any of these side as I've came across as many single and hot looking girls as to girls who were already in different states of relationship from being a beginning couple to being engaged/married.

If anyone would ask "If there are so many single hot girls why don't you date them?" - Alot of them are not my type. I am not a type for some of them. Alot/Some of them are just not a match for me due to personalities. Some of them are stupid as hell so I ain't goin there.