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Do you think you would be happier if you had been born the opposite sex?
Dec 4, 12:10 PM
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Do you think you would be happier if you had been born the opposite sex? I need to know!
Dec 4, 12:13 PM
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Lol, your starting character doesn't really matter that much. I'm pretty sure I'd perform great as any sex. UwU
Dec 4, 12:21 PM
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You bet, if I were female I would be turned on by my own body and have boobs + pussy to play with at all times.

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Dec 4, 12:22 PM
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your starting character doesn't really matter

Multiclassing is thin ice, brother. I've met many sad elf tanks and ogre spellcasters, even on this forum.

My answer is "no", I'm happy with my starting character. But when we start over, I'll pick something else. Wanna test a new build.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Dec 4, 12:23 PM
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Yes if I was a women I'd have a line of the opposite gender I'd be hypothetically attracted too wanting me that validation would alleviate any anxiety I have thats not something you can get as a man unless you're super attractive.
I've looked to make a real anime waifu,
Too spin my world around like a typhoon,
Why do people keep calling me a raccoon,
Maybe because I keep stealing anime girls hearts like gru steals the moon.
Dec 4, 12:27 PM
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no I am happy with being a man, what about you ejordiew (ejrodijev)
Dec 4, 12:30 PM
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No, but I'd be happier if I had been born more intelligent and more attractive.
Dec 4, 12:32 PM
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If my life was exactly the same only different gender than probably not, my misery had nothing to do with gender.

Might have been easier to have a panty fetish being a female, although that could have been a little more dangerous if I didn't control it.
There's natural barriers and embarrassment there as a guy that wouldn't be there as a female.

My hobbies are more popular with males, so that could have made me feel awkward, could have made me a rare item though.

Dealing with periods is probably annoying, not so much the pain as I had that already, but the rest of the stuff that goes with it.

I guess the big plus is I might have been more popular, as I think females have a slightly easier time chatting and making friends.
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Dec 4, 12:42 PM
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I wonder about that. In some ways it would have been easier for me due to how society is and how my life played out but I'd have no way of knowing if I would be just trading off one bad for another bad because life events might have been entirely different in unpredictable ways.
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Dec 4, 12:46 PM
危ないお兄さん

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Think refers to logical aspect so if i think logically towarded my current state tbhnly not really happiest but just quite happy so if i change to opposite one i cant make sure my future state since i hvnt experience with it so i couldnt make comparison among both of aspect but most interest thing that i learned from artist which i know so far, it isnt about how much tools you have to determine ur result but how much ur result with anything u owned so it doesnt matter if u were borned as boy or girl since the only one matter just how to utilize ur resource (mind, body, time, things, knowledge, etc) as effective as outcome then

Dec 4, 12:52 PM
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Gender doesn't matter. I believe Talents, Morals and Acesses are more important.
Dec 4, 1:32 PM

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Nah I'm good. I used to think it would be better if I was a guy with great physique during teen years lol but not now.

Just wish I was tall or even had average height. ._. even tho you have a good physique being chibi irl sucks!
Infinite-VergilDec 4, 1:36 PM
No chorus rings, no whispers rise,
Just echoes lost in somber skies.
Eyes meet, then drift, like leaves in streams,
Dancing on the edges of forgotten dreams.
Dec 4, 1:37 PM

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It could be interesting for a day or two but definitely not a whole life.
Dec 4, 1:40 PM

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any gender is fine for me as long as im healthy which is not the case
Dec 4, 2:13 PM

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Hard to say without actually being a woman. But if given the choice for what I am in the next life, I'd choose being a man again.
Dec 4, 2:22 PM

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I don't know.

I might be more miserable, or I might be better off and way more successful.
Dec 4, 2:24 PM

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My instinct is to say yes but I have to remember that I have zero actual personality and would be less interesting as a woman.

Boy crazy BPD psycho is more interesting as I am currently.



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Dec 4, 3:53 PM

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No, im fine being a girl, plus has some advantages
Dec 4, 4:14 PM
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I am fine being a girl just like this.

Each gender has its own hurdles after all so I don't think reborn into a man would make my life any better or worse.



(っ◔◡◔)っ 𝓘 𝔀𝓲𝓼𝓱 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓪𝓵𝓵 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓮 𝓪 𝔀𝓸𝓷𝓭𝓮𝓻𝓯𝓾𝓵 𝓭𝓪𝔂 ♥
Dec 4, 4:28 PM

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Wow, higher results than I expected! Anyway, losing the 50/50 is a skill issue.
Dec 4, 4:33 PM

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Reply to Zarutaku
You bet, if I were female I would be turned on by my own body and have boobs + pussy to play with at all times.

Autosexual or autogynophile?

You'd most likely still be straight.
Dec 4, 4:59 PM

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I can't imagine the sex I was born as affecting my happiness much, but I do imagine I'd be much happier if I was born soft and warm and furry instead of hard and cold and hairy. I'd certainly be happier if I was born with a long fluffy tail, sweet little paws, and big whiskers instead of a stupid, tailless butt, ugly old hands and feet, and a naked nose with no whiskers to accent it!
Dec 4, 7:22 PM
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I really can't imagine myself being a man. I never have thought about this in my life and I don't think I'll change my mind.
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No, I'm sure I would have made the exact same poor decisions.
I CELEBRATE myself,
And what I assume you shall assume,
For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you.
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Autosexual or autogynophile?

You'd most likely still be straight.
@LeDemiurge Nah, I would still be gynesexual if I had the opposite sex, so I would be lesbian.
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No, I don't have gender dysphoria..

This ground is soiled by those before me and their lies. I dare not look up for on me I feel their eyes
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Definitely, I’ve always dreamt of cosplaying as a cat-eared magical girl of justice and love, but doing it as a male is just sad not that it’s ever stopped me
Yesterday, 5:54 AM

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Yes, of course, boys don't get periods after all. Also my mother told me that she wouldn't have had a second child if I was born as a boy, being the only child would be a dream come true.



「あなたのためなら世界中を敵にしてもかまわない」
"If it was for your sake I wouldn't mind even if I had to turn the whole world into my enemy"
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There is one person lying about their sex in this thread, but I won't call them out because I'm feeling friendly today.
Commit_Crime said:
no I am happy with being a man, what about you ejordiew (ejrodijev)

Since we all know that the female orgasm isn't real, I'm naturally quite content with being male.
LeDemiurge said:
Autosexual or autogynophile?

Autogynephilia is pretty common on MAL. I made a thread months ago asking users if the idea of becoming a woman sexually arouses them and quite a lot of them said yes. Unfortunately, jannies have sent that thread to the shadow realm.
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I think that it would be equivalent.
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Yes most likely. But I would have been even happier if I was never born in the world
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I wish that i was born as an snowman.

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33 minutes ago

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its difficult to say cuz i wish i were assigned female at birth but theres a whole bunch of shit comes packaged with it i mightve gotten raped and murdered and id have to deal with so many creeps all the time
at times i think that being a girl is much worse than being trans simply because of all the men that harrass u in this very particular creepy way whereas i might only get beat up and called a fag not much else honestly (im from a country where there are no chasers in the open, they all jerk off to transes in secret so theres much less risk of being SAd

tho when i think of the amount of shit i had to suffer back when i was a guy... still its really hard to say whats worse - being a cis girl or a trans girl i think its really impossible to answer tbh
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I think everyone must've wondered at some point what life would've been like as a different gender. I've definitely thought about it myself, but overall, I'm fine the way I am - although if I were the opposite gender, I would've been more into stuff that is acceptable for that gender and I've hesitated to get into as I am.

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