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| For me it is wanting an open relationship. It may be ok to bring in a home delivery to share, but going off seperately and doing whatever is a deal breaker. |
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| - No open relationships or cuckoldry. - No BDSM or rough sex. - No urine or scat play. - No more than 30 sexual partners (sex workers get a pass though). |
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| I'm kind of a degenerate myself, but I've got limits. First and foremost, I wouldn't wanna have an open relationship unless we're doing long distance. Also "hardcore" fetishes are off the table; I'm talking about stuff like scat, piss and the like. |
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Ryuk9428 said: - No open relationships or cuckoldry. - No BDSM or rough sex. - No urine or scat play. - No more than 30 sexual partners (sex workers get a pass though). Sigh. You're a pansy. I want the bolded things. |
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IpreferEcchi said: Ryuk9428 said: - No open relationships or cuckoldry. - No BDSM or rough sex. - No urine or scat play. - No more than 30 sexual partners (sex workers get a pass though). Sigh. You're a pansy. I want the bolded things. I like my sex like I like my food, plain, repetitive, and pretty, not nasty or dirty at all, and served 2-3 times a day. |
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| I'd say cheating. Cheat once and I'm outta there. No "but im so sowwy ;w;" or trying to get me to stay through make up sex or w/e. Human waste products are disgusting, if you relieve yourself on me on purpose please get the bleep out. There's also lying about using birth control products. I don't want kids. |
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| I don't like any kind of degeneracy, I don't like that shit even in anime/manga. |
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| Things I don't like, cheating, lying, controlling what I wear, boring/won't have light hearted arguments with me, forces me to do stuff I don't want to, and any kind of pda. This is really based of my last relationships with people cause they did all this shit and I hated it |
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RicePounder said: Theonewhorules said: Things I don't like, cheating, lying, controlling what I wear, boring/won't have light hearted arguments with me, forces me to do stuff I don't want to, and any kind of pda. This is really based of my last relationships with people cause they did all this shit and I hated it No PDA...like, not even hand-holding!?!? xD ----------------------- no I hate when people touch me at all lol >< |
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Korishi said: damn we're manufacturing STIs up in here You can’t be too picky, you won’t find anybody if you insist upon too unreasonable of a standard. A lot of girls these days have banged 10 or 15 people just by the time they finish high school. High school kind of exists in a world of its own so I’m inclined to simply forget about a lot of things if they happened back in high school and just make standards for how she’s behaved since then. I feel like 1 or 2 sex partners per year is reasonable. I wouldn’t want a girl to not live her life after all. |
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SargonTheGreat said: Ryuk9428 said: Lmao if someone bangs 10-15 people in 5 years of highschool man or women they are a massive whore and whores arent good or high quality partners.You can’t be too picky, you won’t find anybody if you insist upon too unreasonable of a standard. A lot of girls these days have banged 10 or 15 people just by the time they finish high school. High school kind of exists in a world of its own so I’m inclined to simply forget about a lot of things if they happened back in high school and just make standards for how she’s behaved since then. I feel like 1 or 2 sex partners per year is reasonable. I wouldn’t want a girl to not live her life after all. That’s just how high school is. It wasn’t unusual at my high school for girls to do that. People change. I’ve met people who were a part of the 1960s hippie movement and did everything you can think of who later became devout Christians. |
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SargonTheGreat said: Ryuk9428 said: Even if its common its still very degenerate and anyone who has that little dignity and is that loose is very low quality and low value, people can change but some whos so weak willed that they couldn't resist having sex with so many different people probably wont change, once a whore always a whore.That’s just how high school is. It wasn’t unusual at my high school for girls to do that. People change. I’ve met people who were a part of the 1960s hippie movement and did everything you can think of who later became devout Christians. Like I said, high school exists in a world of its own. I saw things happen in high school that would seem to defy what we understand to be reality today. People in high school behave according to the world they live in so you would have to understand that world first before you judge them. |
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| If she refuses to poop on my chest like how Amber Heard pooped on her bed, she's a goner Ryuk9428 said: You can’t be too picky, you won’t find anybody if you insist upon too unreasonable of a standard. A lot of girls these days have banged 10 or 15 people just by the time they finish high school. High school kind of exists in a world of its own so I’m inclined to simply forget about a lot of things if they happened back in high school and just make standards for how she’s behaved since then. I feel like 1 or 2 sex partners per year is reasonable. I wouldn’t want a girl to not live her life after all. Bruh did you forget about college? It's even worse than HS since now they have access to alcohol and coke, not to mention frat and sorority |
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ProfessionalNEET said: Ryuk9428 said: A lot of girls these days have banged 10 or 15 people just by the time they finish high school. Where did you get these numbers from? The most whorish girl I knew in high school (she was known around the school for sleeping around a lot) I think banged somewhere between 6 and 10 guys by the time high school ended. I'd venture to guess that most girls in my high school fucked somewhere between 0 and 3 guys by the time they finished high school. Heck, I wouldn't be surprised if most of the girls in my high school were still virgins by the time they graduated. The number would probably be about the same for guys. According to the CDC, the average male loses their virginity at age 17.0, and the average female loses their virginity at age 17.3. That leaves, on average only 1 year for males, and 0.7 years (about 8 and half months) for females, to have sex before turning 18. Also, the average number of sexual partners an American adult has had is 7.2. I wouldn't give those statistics much weight. In all the time I've been researching these sorts of things I've found that studies on sex, in particular, are extremely inaccurate. Everybody has a different definition of what sex means, and people lie. About sex a lot in particular. For example, they list males as losing their virginity before girls do. I'm sorry but that's just laughably inaccurate. For that to be true, girls would have to be fucking younger guys more often than they fuck guys who are older than them and we all know that's not the case. Keep in mind for the number of sex partners that adults have that it would take approximately 15 people who have only had sex with one person to result in an average of 7.2 per person if just one person had sex with 100 people. And in college it is not uncommon at all to meet people who have fucked between 30-60 people just in the time they've been at college. One of my roommates claimed to have fucked 70 girls in the span of 2.5 years. He may have exaggerated a little bit but I wouldn't be surprised if the real number was like 50 or so. I had another roommate, just for his freshman year but he must have fucked like 30 girls that year because he had a different girl over every weekend if not two different girls a week. I've spoken with other people who claimed to have roommates like that too, this isn't rare. Futari_no_Ossan said: If she refuses to poop on my chest like how Amber Heard pooped on her bed, she's a goner Ryuk9428 said: You can’t be too picky, you won’t find anybody if you insist upon too unreasonable of a standard. A lot of girls these days have banged 10 or 15 people just by the time they finish high school. High school kind of exists in a world of its own so I’m inclined to simply forget about a lot of things if they happened back in high school and just make standards for how she’s behaved since then. I feel like 1 or 2 sex partners per year is reasonable. I wouldn’t want a girl to not live her life after all. Bruh did you forget about college? It's even worse than HS since now they have access to alcohol and coke, not to mention frat and sorority College is much worse, I didn't forget about it, but I believe the reasons for why somebody slept around matter more than the actual act. People in high school are naturally going to look at the world from a more impulsive, short term, and self-centered perspective. A high schooler is gonna wanna get laid no matter what it takes and its hard for them to see the big picture. Its just part of being in that age group. And honestly, high schoolers need sex really badly. Trying to delay their sexual onset can be disastrous for their mental, emotional, and social health. People who are promiscuous in college are people who've taken that short term perspective and not only not changed but often got worse about it. So idk, I kind of have an attitude of "what happens in high school stays in high school." Whereas I feel more like college is the real world and you should start adjusting yourself to behavior that is suitable for the real world. In college is where people start differentiating from one another more and you can clearly see what track somebody is going down whereas you really can't tell when people are in high school. |
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ProfessionalNEET said: Ryuk9428 said: I wouldn't give those statistics much weight. In all the time I've been researching these sorts of things I've found that studies on sex, in particular, are extremely inaccurate. Everybody has a different definition of what sex means, and people lie. About sex a lot in particular. Do you by chance have any better statistics? I generally prefer to use statistics and empirical studies to inform my views on matters like this rather than anecdotal evidence. Here's a chart that will help explain why I generally prefer statistics over anecdotal evidence: Now, of course, statistics can be faulty (small sample size, unrepresentative sample, bad faith usage, etc.), but they are generally tell a more accurate story than someone's personal experiences do. For example, they list males as losing their virginity before girls do. I'm sorry but that's just laughably inaccurate. For that to be true, girls would have to be fucking younger guys more often than they fuck guys who are older than them and we all know that's not the case. Yeah that is a little weird, although I would imagine that guys fuck girls their own age (±1 years) more often than they fuck girls younger than them. It is also possible that the difference between male (17.0) is and females (17.3) is less than the margin of error for either group. There may also be guys that lose their virginity to escorts and prostitutes and other sex workers, which could be responsible for the age gap you see. I don't know, I'd need to know more details before making any conclusions. Keep in mind for the number of sex partners that adults have that it would take approximately 15 people who have only had sex with one person to result in an average of 7.2 per person if just one person had sex with 100 people. And in college it is not uncommon at all to meet people who have fucked between 30-60 people just in the time they've been at college. That would still make having a lot of sexual partners pretty rare. Only 1/16 people would have had more than 1 partner in this scenario. One of my roommates claimed to have fucked 70 girls in the span of 2.5 years. He may have exaggerated a little bit but I wouldn't be surprised if the real number was like 50 or so. I had another roommate, just for his freshman year but he must have fucked like 30 girls that year because he had a different girl over every weekend if not two different girls a week. I've spoken with other people who claimed to have roommates like that too, this isn't rare. One or a few extreme examples like that does not automatically mean that having had anywhere near 70 sexual partners is "normal". Your own "15 people with 1 partner vs 1 person with 100 partners" example proves this. Another problem with anecdotal evidence is that people have a tendency to remember extreme cases like that of the roommate you mentioned more than more mundane cases. The scenario I provided was a hypothetical to show that it is very unlikely to be the case. There are very few people in their adult years who have only slept with one person. Its not that 70 sexual partners is normal per se. Its that it isn't uncommon. You don't need to meet 100 people to find someone like that, you only need to meet like 10 or 20. And there's a lot of middle ground between sleeping with one person and sleeping with 70. The thing about studying sexuality through surveys is that people are particularly likely to lie about sex. If you think its difficult to get political opinions from people on surveys wait until you see how hard it is to find accurate statistics on sex. I've saw one survey the other day that claimed that 20% of British teenagers had their first sexual experience before the age of 14. https://web.archive.org/web/20080912225248/http://sexperienceuk.channel4.com/teen-sex-survey Now tell me, honestly, do you think 20% of 11, 12, and 13 year olds in Britain are getting it on? The age of consent in Britain is 16 and this study claims that 74% of British teenagers have had some kind of sexual experience before they turned 16. At the same time, this study claims the average age people have sex in Britain is 18.3 years old. https://www.indy100.com/article/a-map-of-the-world-according-to-the-average-age-people-lose-their-virginity-7319976 Do you see what I mean now by sexual surveys essentially having no validity? You cannot trust people to tell the truth especially since people's values change as they age. You could survey a group of teenagers when they are 15 about when their first sexual experience was and I guarantee you the answers would be different if you surveyed those same people at the age of 40. Teenagers want to exaggerate their sexual experience, claim they had sex earlier, and with more people. Middle aged adults on the other hand tend to want to downplay it. |
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BallistikJuice said: I honestly don't give a crap about the relationship as if right now, but, I'll state some of the points anyway. 1. Control freaks 2. Alcoholics 3. Drug addicts (of any kind) 4. Mental drama queens 5. Non-chill personality 6. Lawful-Good personality 6. Hoarders 7. Too disciplined 8. Mainstream lovers (trends followers) 9. Pet lovers 10. Talks a lot 8 and 9 are silly in my eyes(who the fudge doesnt like dogs?), but everything else is golden...especially number 10 I had to break it off with a semi-good woman because she always wanted to talk on the phone or through text like constantly...like she knew even with the pandemic, I was working 8-5 remote work...but as soon as my virtual day was over she wanted to monopolize my time. It got tiring real quick, I did mention to her she needs a hobby even before that happened...but after feeling that "need to talk" pressure... I hinted at it even more strongly, and she still just would not find a hobby to do her own thing. So I ran away and cut it off :o So i guess my degenerate cutoff is her not having her own version of alone time? XD |
ProfessionalNEET said: Ryuk9428 said: Now tell me, honestly, do you think 20% of 11, 12, and 13 year olds in Britain are getting it on? 20%, or 1-in-5? Doesn't seem that far fetched. The age of consent in Britain is 16 and this study claims that 74% of British teenagers have had some kind of sexual experience before they turned 16. I think you misread that. It says "74% of sexually active 14-17 year-olds have had a sexual experience under the age of consent". The survey also says "40% of all 14-17 year olds are sexually active". Thus, if you do the math (74% * 40%), you'll find that 29.6% of British teens aged 14-17 are sexually active and have have had a sexual experience under the age of consent. Bear in mind, this number should not be interpreted as the percentage of British teens who have had sex before turning 16, as it only refers to sexually-active 14-17 year olds, not all teens. However, I doubt the number for all teens would be much higher, as I suspect that most British teens who lost their virginity before age 16 are still sexually active. Additionally, this survey says "40% of all 14-17 year olds are sexually active". It doesn't explicitly say what percentage of 14-17 year olds in Britain have ever had sex (whether still sexually-active or not) though. That percentage must be at least 40%, but I am not sure how much higher. At the same time, this study claims the average age people have sex in Britain is 18.3 years old. https://www.indy100.com/article/a-map-of-the-world-according-to-the-average-age-people-lose-their-virginity-7319976 As I demonstrated above, the stats in the first survey don't necessarily contradict the stat you cited in this survey. Do you see what I mean now by sexual surveys essentially having no validity? You cannot trust people to tell the truth especially since people's values change as they age. You could survey a group of teenagers when they are 15 about when their first sexual experience was and I guarantee you the answers would be different if you surveyed those same people at the age of 40. Teenagers want to exaggerate their sexual experience, claim they had sex earlier, and with more people. Middle aged adults on the other hand tend to want to downplay it. Statistics are not perfect, and some statistics are better than others, but do you really think that anecdotal evidence is any better? I already explained some of the problems with anecdotal evidence, in addition to demonstrating that the apparently contradictory stats you cited were not so contradictory after all. Okay yeah I misread the part about the age of consent. I do think 20% is very far fetched. I went to a ridiculously horny and sexually charged middle school. Granted I live in the US and not Britain but my middle school was about as conductive as a middle school could be for people having sex. People got handjobs in the middle of class, we have several kids get suspended for jerking off in the middle of class. One time in 8th grade a girl offered to suck my dick while we were sitting in class (unfortunately at the time I was dumb enough to say no). One time a girl took her clothes off and walked around the classroom in her underwear after the teacher stepped outside for a few minutes. There were dicks drawn everywhere, on textbooks, in the bathrooms, on your desk. Kids turned everything into a joke about sex. The guys would intentionally bump into girls in the hallways in order to feel them up. People made out in the hallways. Kids watched porn on their phones while on the bus. I remember some 6th grade kid just walked up to one of the older girls in the cafeteria and humped her leg like a dog. Girls came to school in short skirts so frequently that our teachers stopped bothering to report them. Girls had lesbian sex with one another at sleepovers and some guys got blowjobs in the bathroom. Still, the number of kids who actually managed to have a sexual experience by the time they were 14 was nowhere near 20%. By the time they were 15, yeah, I think 20% or even a little higher would be accurate. But a lot of shit happens every year in middle school and high school and the percentage of teens who have had a sexual experience jumps up by a massive degree every year. Most of the girls who graduated our middle school for example still hadn't had a sexual experience but that was no longer true by the time freshman year ended. I swear that half the girls at my high school who did have sex, probably did it for the first time in their freshman year. I'm not saying every school is like my middle/high school experience. But I do have a lot of trouble believing that the average school in the UK is more sexually charged than my middle school was because most people I talk to not just in the US but in other countries too seem to think my middle and high school was shockingly horny. |
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ProfessionalNEET said: Ryuk9428 said: Okay yeah I misread the part about the age of consent. I do think 20% is very far fetched. I went to a ridiculously horny and sexually charged middle school. Granted I live in the US and not Britain but my middle school was about as conductive as a middle school could be for people having sex. People got handjobs in the middle of class, we have several kids get suspended for jerking off in the middle of class. One time in 8th grade a girl offered to suck my dick while we were sitting in class (unfortunately at the time I was dumb enough to say no). One time a girl took her clothes off and walked around the classroom in her underwear after the teacher stepped outside for a few minutes. There were dicks drawn everywhere, on textbooks, in the bathrooms, on your desk. Kids turned everything into a joke about sex. The guys would intentionally bump into girls in the hallways in order to feel them up. People made out in the hallways. Kids watched porn on their phones while on the bus. I remember some 6th grade kid just walked up to one of the older girls in the cafeteria and humped her leg like a dog. Girls came to school in short skirts so frequently that our teachers stopped bothering to report them. Girls had lesbian sex with one another at sleepovers and some guys got blowjobs in the bathroom. Still, the number of kids who actually managed to have a sexual experience by the time they were 14 was nowhere near 20%. By the time they were 15, yeah, I think 20% or even a little higher would be accurate. But a lot of shit happens every year in middle school and high school and the percentage of teens who have had a sexual experience jumps up by a massive degree every year. Most of the girls who graduated our middle school for example still hadn't had a sexual experience but that was no longer true by the time freshman year ended. I swear that half the girls at my high school who did have sex, probably did it for the first time in their freshman year. I'm not saying every school is like my middle/high school experience. But I do have a lot of trouble believing that the average school in the UK is more sexually charged than my middle school was because most people I talk to not just in the US but in other countries too seem to think my middle and high school was shockingly horny. It is possible that you simply weren't aware of your classmates having sex. Most of the things you mentioned in your middle school were things that you could actually see. You might see couples making out in public, but you probably would not see couples fucking in public. I'm also curious, what kinds of people did you hang out with in middle school? Most of the people I hung out with were virgins who didn't know how to talk to girls, much less make any sexual advances. As a result, I would have been mostly in the dark about what kinds of sexual activities kids at my school were engaging in. At any rate, I still stand by my preference for statistics over anecdotal evidence. No there was no privacy at my school. People were really nosy, they wanted to know how old you were when you first had sex, how many people you've had sex with, what your story was for the first time, and how many times a day you jerked off. Well, the thing about my middle/high school that was very different was that the virgin people weren't really separated from the sexually active crowd. So in college, there was a strong line of segregation between the two. The sexually active and sexually inactive crowd did not hang out with or become friends with one another so becoming friends with girls was very hard. But my middle and high school wasn't like that. There were no cliques or established social ladder. Certain people were definitely more popular than others, had more friends, lovers, and connections, but it didn't feel to me like extroverts separated from introverts or sexually active separated from sexually inactive. Everybody kind of hung out with everyone. I remember watching movies like Mean Girls and being very confused at this concept of different tables for different cliques because I never saw that. There were plenty of guys who didn't know how to flirt with or make sexual advances on girls. But there weren't really any guys who didn't know how to talk to girls. Everyone was too involved with one another for something like that to happen. People at my high school kind of had an endless social appetite. After school people wanted to go out for coffee, or go to the mall. We'd stay at one another's houses and just talk for hours, never running out of conversation material. Lots of times couples would go off and have sex somewhere after school. I also think the girls at my middle school and high school were fairly friendly towards the guys. In high school I actually used to believe that girls' sex drive was higher than guys because of how the girls I knew back then behaved. My high school years were definitely some of the favorite years of my life. It was like my middle school but without the immaturity and occasionally downright creepy behavior. It was such a nice place with good people. There was basically no bullying or fighting. Girls would ask out the autistic guys because they felt like everybody deserved a chance. Even I managed to date and have sex with one of the girls there and made out with a bunch of others despite being way more awkward, socially clueless and cringe than I am even today. Nobody was actually discriminated against but people told lewd and racist jokes all the time just for fun. If somebody confessed to feeling depressed, that person would sit and talk with them for hours about it to make them feel better. We'd stay at each other's houses until like 3:00 or even 4:00 in the morning before driving back home. Everybody just seemed like they wanted to constantly have fun and nothing else was on their minds besides having fun with each other. It was... A lot like an ecchi anime in real life. That's really the way teenage life should be. |
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ProfessionalNEET said: Ryuk9428 said: No there was no privacy at my school. People were really nosy, they wanted to know how old you were when you first had sex, how many people you've had sex with, what your story was for the first time, and how many times a day you jerked off. Well, the thing about my middle/high school that was very different was that the virgin people weren't really separated from the sexually active crowd. So in college, there was a strong line of segregation between the two. The sexually active and sexually inactive crowd did not hang out with or become friends with one another so becoming friends with girls was very hard. But my middle and high school wasn't like that. There were no cliques or established social ladder. Certain people were definitely more popular than others, had more friends, lovers, and connections, but it didn't feel to me like extroverts separated from introverts or sexually active separated from sexually inactive. Everybody kind of hung out with everyone. I remember watching movies like Mean Girls and being very confused at this concept of different tables for different cliques because I never saw that. There were plenty of guys who didn't know how to flirt with or make sexual advances on girls. But there weren't really any guys who didn't know how to talk to girls. Everyone was too involved with one another for something like that to happen. People at my high school kind of had an endless social appetite. After school people wanted to go out for coffee, or go to the mall. We'd stay at one another's houses and just talk for hours, never running out of conversation material. Lots of times couples would go off and have sex somewhere after school. I also think the girls at my middle school and high school were fairly friendly towards the guys. In high school I actually used to believe that girls' sex drive was higher than guys because of how the girls I knew back then behaved. My high school years were definitely some of the favorite years of my life. It was like my middle school but without the immaturity and occasionally downright creepy behavior. It was such a nice place with good people. There was basically no bullying or fighting. Girls would ask out the autistic guys because they felt like everybody deserved a chance. Even I managed to date and have sex with one of the girls there and made out with a bunch of others despite being way more awkward, socially clueless and cringe than I am even today. Nobody was actually discriminated against but people told lewd and racist jokes all the time just for fun. If somebody confessed to feeling depressed, that person would sit and talk with them for hours about it to make them feel better. We'd stay at each other's houses until like 3:00 or even 4:00 in the morning before driving back home. Everybody just seemed like they wanted to constantly have fun and nothing else was on their minds besides having fun with each other. It was... A lot like an ecchi anime in real life. That's really the way teenage life should be. What kind of middle school and high school did you go to? They sound like boarding schools or something. I've also gotten the impression from other posts you've made that your family is fairly affluent, so I wouldn't be surprised if your parents had the money to send you prestigious boarding schools. I went to plain ol' public schools, although they were among the best public schools in my area. It was public school but you're right that I do live among several fairly affluent neighborhoods. Some of the kids I knew actually did go to private honors schools though, but a lot of them hated it because they said the pressure to work hard, get As and study all the time was unbearable whereas our school was very relaxed. We had to do speeches for English class and lots of kids would wing it on the spot. I remember one guy literally went up with a completely blank sheet of paper and didn't seem to realize that because of the light we could all see that there was nothing written on it 🤣. My teacher could tell we were winging it and it clearly annoyed her but it was objectively good enough that she couldn't give us bad grades for it. In middle school my parents put me in the average math class because math was my weakest subject. But I was in honors classes for all my other subjects and I remember being absolutely stunned when one week I had to take honors math instead of average math and the honors students were doing basically nothing in the way of homework or even class work 😂 while my teacher had been assigning an hour or two of homework to us every day. I chalked up the fact that 80% of my homework was math due to it being math and thinking that math classes are inherently a lot of work. After that though I was like "mom I need to go into the honors class 😂." Honors classes really are for the "smart but lazy" kids. Gifted classes are for the real overachievers. That being said we were given a bit more freedom than most high schools give, we could leave the school and drive down to the McDonalds which was literally only a three minute drive away and get food there instead of the cafeteria. Went there many times with a couple friends I had at the time and have fond memories of discussing various topics before rushing back to make it to the school in time. You know its funny thinking about all this now, its been so long since I was in high school I've almost forgotten the experience but this is recalling so many memories for me. |
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