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LemonKushFeb 11, 2021 8:19 PM
| Life is only really worth it when you have ur dream job and irl waifu. For now if you haven't achieved those things ur life is just a long hurdle, gl till that day happens. |
  Ascended Taste I only came back to this site for the forum sets and to promote my RYM list... Anilist ftw still :dab: |
LemonKush said: is life really worth it? This is a question you have to answer yourself. Noone can answer this one for you. LemonKush said: "It'll get better". Does it? There is no answer. For some yes, for some no. LemonKush said: Do you honestly think that everyone will enjoy life if they just wait? Just wait for what? You are at least sleeping/eating/breathing, generally speaking you do some activities. If you wait for life to "get better" it probably won't. But again, everyone experiences life differently. |
| Is this like asking"what's the point"? or similar to line of thinking? |
| "In the end the World really doesn't need a Superman. Just a Brave one" |
Aidoru-Ojisan said: Life is only really worth it when you have ur dream job and irl waifu. For now if you haven't achieved those things ur life is just a long hurdle, gl till that day happens. Eh, you're right about all those, but not everyone needs a partner to be happy. Friends work just fine for me. |
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| I've seen couples fight real bad and break up over the years. I don't need a partner to make life worth it. If I like someone I'll tell them and not expect them to come begging for me.~ |
 サディスティックな考え "JUST KILL ME." サディスティックマインド |
| Camus believed living life is the badass rebellion one can do because of the absurdity of it all. |
| "How odd I can have all this inside me and to you it’s just words.” ― David Foster Wallace, The Pale King [url=https://myanimelist.net/animelist/squideyes&sclick=1] |
squideyes said: Camus believed living life is the badass rebellion one can do because of the absurdity of it all. That's a ncie summary of Camus' works :D |
| OP are you a doomer too? Life can be worth it. |
-Nightshade- said: Aidoru-Ojisan said: Life is only really worth it when you have ur dream job and irl waifu. For now if you haven't achieved those things ur life is just a long hurdle, gl till that day happens. Eh, you're right about all those, but not everyone needs a partner to be happy. Friends work just fine for me. True, having bffs, bruhs, and brother from another mother can make life just as good as if you had a love in your life. Kinda sucks that both relationships can die out *sigh* |
Ascended Taste I only came back to this site for the forum sets and to promote my RYM list... Anilist ftw still :dab: |
LemonKush said: I'm sure there have been many posts similar to this one, people down on life looking to anyone who is willing to respond but realistically is life really worth it? the buddah says life is suffering. People who don't have families suffer because they lack family, people who have family suffer because of their family. Applies to food, riches, etc. To some extent, the more you try to find the worthiness in living, the more you will find that life will not fit into your rigid image of it, all the more you'll say "aha, i knew it"!(confirmation bias) Over 100+ cognitive biases that hinder your brain, and since you live and see the world through your brain like a lens, your frame of mind constructs the world you live in. My advice OP, is to just be honest to yourself, be sad when you want to be sad, be happy when you want to be happy, which I even struggle to do lol. |
LemonKush said: Hm, perhaps the name of the goal is purpose--is that what seems missing?Similar, I've lived the last eight years trying to find a reason to live but I've found nothing. I'm neither young or old, I still don't know why I continue forward. @Theoderic: Only the next logical step, which is to find more answers than become a "whatever"--either continues or ceases. |
SilverstormMay 7, 2019 2:07 PM
| "In the end the World really doesn't need a Superman. Just a Brave one" |
| I don't think everyone will enjoy life if they just wait. Nothing good comes from waiting. Life happens when you do things. They might feel wrong or silly at the time you do them, but when you look back, you will realize that all the silly things you did in the past were just ways of "living the life to the fullest". |
If life ain't just a joke Then why are we laughing? If life ain't just a joke Then why am I dead? |
| u try to convince urself its worth it and then you end up 20 posting on anime forums with a bunch of kids... wait... |
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| You're on my friends list, but I don't think we ever had a conversation. Worth is subjective. Life is what you make it. If you want things to get better, you have to take action to make it happen. Don't just wait around. When most people feel their life is worth it, they experience a level of satisfaction derived from a certain configuration of fortunate events. It doesn't need to be anything complex; it can be whatever you enjoy. For me, music is life's greatest pleasure. |
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| hell ya dawg life is worth it. yes, there may be ups and downs. that’s something that comes with playing this game we call life. if u find yourself unhappy, my advice would be to change some things around. whether it be something really small, really medium, or really big and constantly do so. (shoutout to my boy @pure for this piece of advice) you’ll find out things for yourself, sort of like playing connect the dots, except you place where the dots are, instead of them being placed for you. don’t like this dot? ok wait a bit, tweak it, then move on. like this dot? ok stay here for a bit and tweak it, then move on, or tweak it endlessly if u like it that much. books are good too. read the dark ones if you are in a dark place. i find it helps me accept myself and i work on myself internally. or read inspiring/uplifting literature if that could help inspire you to live. follow your stupid ideas too, by stupid i mean the ones that spark and ignite your curiosity in a healthy, productive way. don’t beat yourself up too much. have compassion for yourself just some ideas off the top of my head. you don’t necessarily have to follow them to a T, nor do i admit they will work as all of us have different life circumstances. good luck friend |
| be an existentialist that says "life is meaningless until you give it meaning" |
| wow this is such a depressing question. but i would say yes. |
 Ｓｗｅｅｔ♥I guess, as long as I have life, all I can do is fight with all my might. |
| no and it will never be worth it.. just kys already :X |
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| Can’t answer it for you, but I guess it just depends. Many times life has seemed like nothing but a bother and a waste of time, i was ready to just blast outta here, but sometimes there’s small things that keep us going. It’s up to you to find what makes your life purposeful, I got into art and collecting toys, so that gives me purpose, as dumb as it is. |
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| Not all flowers bloom but most do. Human beings are meant to bloom in much the same way. But though unforgiving, life always seems to create more flowers. |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| Life is all about doing what you want. You can only feel "life" if you're out of your parent's house. |
| I always thought life is what it is. I think we just exist here to experience it, be it in a tragic or beautiful way, or both, and we just sort of make a journey from there. Or may just be the way of the universe to know itself from countless perspectives, I don't even know. We're made of the stuff that also made the stars and it probably wants to see them with our eyes, if that's even the very selfish reason why we're here. I don't even fucking know either, I'm just doing a little rambling now. But sure, you won't think it's worth it if you're a child who had its first memories in a middle of a famine and you're suffering from it, or some people tries to bring you down making you feel like shit about yourself. Makes you want to die now if that's how things is going to be until the end, and that's understandable albeit sad. Probably most would think that if they have no more control whatsoever once they're in a tight grip, or in a dead end. Eh, not many of us would think it's worth it if we're going to suffer anyways. Even some people who are living their lives right now no doubt at some point suffered many times. Things aren't always perfect that we may have to remind ourselves that to finally come to terms. It's frustrating when we're lost and things doesn't come our way. Feeling empty everyday is just numbing. That's understandable too. Just know in the end, we'd all go at the same destination that is Death, no matter how many turns, backflips, and tumbling we took. |
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| Well that is something you should find out for yourself >Build up a life you could be proud of |
| Do you know anything else worth more? |
| "among monsters and humans, there are only two types. Those who undergo suffering and spread it to others. And those who undergo suffering and avoid giving it to others." -Alice “Beauty is no quality in things themselves: It exists merely in the mind which contemplates them; and each mind perceives a different beauty.” David Hume “Evil is created when someone gives up on someone else. It appears when everyone gives up on someone as a lost cause and removes their path to salvation. Once they are cut off from everyone else, they become evil.” -Othinus  |
| Some people find its worth it. I think there's also a lot of people that have never asked themselves that question though, so I think if you feel the need to ask yourself that question you have the potential live a very fulfilling life. |
| That's a question that really can only be answered by oneself. You have to look into the aspects of your own life, and find qualities in it which you deem worthy of your survival. |
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| Not everyone will enjoy life. Waiting doesn't do shit. Only actions can make things better. |
| Ever since I started working I get the feeling that life isn't worth living. But then again I'm afraid of death and need money to survive so I need to work, my job leaves me with no time for myself or anything, I've become a corporate slave. |
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| I think each one find own sense, simply. So no one can say to others life is worth. Each one go on own way |
LemonKush said: I always waited for others to message me [...] I felt that if I messaged others then I may seem annoying [...] Are you me? Trying to find answers in blog posts or generally speaking trying to get answers from people is leading you nowhere anyway. You need to find the answers yourself. People never know what you have been through and don't know how you feel. LemonKush said: I know it's annoying when people vent or rant. No! Not at all. People vent all the time about even much smaller issues they have in their lives. I don't see anything wrong with your posts. |
squideyes said: Camus believed living life is the badass rebellion one can do because of the absurdity of it all. Living life responsibly* Again, nice summary. Life gets a lot more tolerable the more you try to view your individual, short-lived, circumstances as individual, short-lived, circumstances. In simple words, nod to your sufferings and tell them they are temporary. They may have permanent consequences but brotip: if you're busy nodding you wouldn't notice. |
| This is a nice thread, some of the replies are really insightful. According to me life has no inherent meaning so every person has to decide what their life's meaning is if they want to assign it a meaning at all. There's no right or wrong answer, just what's right for you. The thought that there is no meaning inherent in life may sound bleak or depressing but it's how you interpret it. Once you get through the process of accepting this fact the only thing that remains is the here and now. You become liberated, everything can be the meaning of life because the choice is yours. There is no reason to do anything but there is also no reason not to do anything. |
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| In general, not really. Life is pretty damn terrible. Nearly everyone is stuck to a boring routine of wagecucking, traffic and house chores, making it through by getting intoxicated with alcohol or other drugs whenever possible, and clinging to pathetic ways of fighting the meaninglessness of death, such as raising children to make it seem like their legacy will go on after they're dead. |
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