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Nov 16, 2015 4:01 PM

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Of course! You shouldn't judge a person because they slept with many people (and I know you're not judging in the harsh way). Actually, wouldn't that make her really good in bed? Plus, if she's pretty and has a good personality who cares?

People could be different by day and night, and you'll just have to accept them! She probably just didn't find the right partner to pleasure her the way she wanted and her job as a bartender gave her more access to men, so she went along with it. Maybe you can be the one she'll want to remain with.
Nov 16, 2015 4:02 PM

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traed said:
If someone has slept with that many something must be off. The average person in their entire lifetime only has 7-8 partners tops.
Not if you're a prostitute.
Nov 16, 2015 4:04 PM

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@hello3245dumbass

Seeing as you can't even quote someone properly, I'll let the fact that what you said was hilariously stupid slide.
Nov 16, 2015 4:05 PM

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ok yo breaking news i actually believe OP now
just talked to a friend who i used to go and pick up guys w/ before, she told me she's been with 31 guy so far (she's 21). so tbh 50 at 22 doesn't sound too unrealistic to me anymore considering this is one of my closest friends and i know fucking guys consumes very little of her time ¯_(ツ)_/¯
deadoptimist said:
Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes.
Nov 16, 2015 4:06 PM

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yaoi_renee said:
Actually, wouldn't that make her really good in bed?
Having had more sex does not make you better at it by default, some people will never learn. I know a lot of girls that think they're good, but are over-the-top in the worst kind of way
Nov 16, 2015 4:07 PM

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mayukachan said:
traed said:
I meant sexual partners because the topic is about sex. That should be obvious. Thats the number of SEXUAL partners.

r u sure thats the average????

my conservative asian friend has had 10 so far.. and he's 23
Being politically conservative does not mean they automatically are sexually conservative.

"Females 30-44 report an average of 4 male sexual partners in their lifetime (Mosher, Chandra, & Jones, 2005).
3% of men have had zero sexual partners since the age of 18, 20% have had 1 partner, 21% have had 2-4 partners, 23% have had 5-10 partners, 16% have had 11-20 partners, and 17% have had 21 or more partners (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).
3% of women have had zero sexual partners since the age of 18, 31% have had 1 partner, 36% have had 2-4 partners, 20% have had 5-10 partners, 6% have had 11-20 partners, and 3% have had 21 or more partners (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).
20% of American men and 31% of American women have had one sex partner in their lifetime (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).
56% of American men and 30% of American women have had 5 or more sex partners in their lifetime (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994). "
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html

"According to the 2010 Health Survey for England, the mean number of sexual partners is 9.3 for men and 4.7 for women. However, the 2013 National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (Natsal) found the mean to be 11.7 for men and 7.7 for women. "
"Relate’s 2014 The Way We Are Now report found that 31% of men and 21% of women had slept with more than ten people in their lifetime."
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/have-i-had-an-average-amount-of-sexual-partners-10297819.html
Nov 16, 2015 4:10 PM
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kawaiiyuris said:
ok yo breaking news i actually believe OP now
just talked to a friend who i used to go and pick up guys w/ before, she told me she's been with 31 guy so far (she's 21). so tbh 50 at 22 doesn't sound too unrealistic to me anymore considering this is one of my closest friends and i know fucking guys consumes very little of her time ¯_(ツ)_/¯


especially when you're a bartender and tons of drunk guys come up to you every day
Nov 16, 2015 4:15 PM
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Drugs said:
I would have trouble trusting that somebody who sleeps around so much is ready to settle down. I don't give a shit how many people you've slept with, but it needs to be in the past. Promiscuous people tend to cheat and being cheated on sucks


I think that's a bit unfair though.

If they are promiscuous outside of a relationship. That's a bit different then being promiscuous inside a relationship.
Nov 16, 2015 4:23 PM

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cause said:
Drugs said:
I would have trouble trusting that somebody who sleeps around so much is ready to settle down. I don't give a shit how many people you've slept with, but it needs to be in the past. Promiscuous people tend to cheat and being cheated on sucks
I think that's a bit unfair though.

If they are promiscuous outside of a relationship. That's a bit different then being promiscuous inside a relationship.
People that are promiscuous can settle down, for sure. I mean people that carry that mentality into a relationship are likely to cheat at the first signs of distress. If you can justify cheating, you are more likely to cheat

Besides, some relationships are more progressive and committed partners have other partners as well, but that really isn't for me
Nov 16, 2015 4:24 PM
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cause said:
Drugs said:
I would have trouble trusting that somebody who sleeps around so much is ready to settle down. I don't give a shit how many people you've slept with, but it needs to be in the past. Promiscuous people tend to cheat and being cheated on sucks


I think that's a bit unfair though.

If they are promiscuous outside of a relationship. That's a bit different then being promiscuous inside a relationship.


I still wouldn't date a roastie tho.
Nov 16, 2015 4:30 PM

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some of my best friends have had sex with 30different girls in a week - not joking and I actually know it's true -
as friends I love them, but I'd never date them
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Nov 16, 2015 4:30 PM

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Lain_ said:
some of my best friends have had sex with 30different girls in a week - not joking and I actually know it's true -
as friends I love them, but I'd never date them
Did you watch them do it?
Nov 16, 2015 4:32 PM

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Lain_ said:
some of my best friends have had sex with 30different girls in a week - not joking and I actually know it's true -
as friends I love them, but I'd never date them

week????????? wtf? thats like almost 5 per day??? wtf r u doing in ur life to have that much free time for sex??
Nov 16, 2015 4:33 PM

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mayukachan said:
Lain_ said:
some of my best friends have had sex with 30different girls in a week - not joking and I actually know it's true -
as friends I love them, but I'd never date them

week????????? wtf? thats like almost 5 per day??? wtf r u doing in ur life to have that much free time for sex??
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Nov 16, 2015 4:41 PM

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She probably more likely to cheat. If it's just sex go for it
Nov 16, 2015 4:43 PM

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Lain_ said:
some of my best friends have had sex with 30different girls in a week - not joking and I actually know it's true -
as friends I love them, but I'd never date them


That is a lie and you know it. No one can be this naive.
Nov 16, 2015 4:47 PM

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Gov said:
Lain_ said:
some of my best friends have had sex with 30different girls in a week - not joking and I actually know it's true -
as friends I love them, but I'd never date them


That is a lie and you know it. No one can be this naive.
deadoptimist said:
Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes.
Nov 16, 2015 4:48 PM

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Lain_ said:
some of my best friends have had sex with 30different girls in a week - not joking and I actually know it's true -
as friends I love them, but I'd never date them
Group sex? That's the only possible idea I have...
Nov 16, 2015 7:31 PM

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Drugs said:
Did you watch them do it?


I did not, but I don't need to. I actually know some of the girls and when, where and in what circumstances it happened and I also know lots of the people who told me the story. it wasn't even them telling it. they never brag about that kind of stuff
gov said:

That is a lie and you know it. No one can be this naive.


I don't think it's a lie nor do I have a reason to believe it is. also knowing them as I do, and when I actually saw some picking 5+girls in the same day I am not surprised.

the good part is that when they are in a relationship they're quite loyal,
and they're very good friends.
so to me this says nothing about them. they just experience sexuality in a different way.
as long as they hurt no one. eh. couldn't care less
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Nov 16, 2015 8:27 PM

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kawaiiyuris said:
Brandon said:
If she was that proudly honest about sleeping with 50 guys then I'd avoid her.

yes god forbid people be open about their sexuality, especially women

lmao ikr
Temmie said:
But how about all 50 at once?

Goals.
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Nov 16, 2015 8:30 PM

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why are you asking for dating advice from a website full of sweaty fat virgins is the real question here??? this is so befuddling
Nov 16, 2015 8:48 PM
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tit said:
why are you asking for dating advice from a website full of sweaty fat virgins is the real question here??? this is so befuddling


well considering im not one, i'd say not everyone on here is. but everyone has their own opinion, no matter who they are.
Nov 16, 2015 9:10 PM
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There is a basic rule of thumb.

"Thou shalt not date/sleep with a Bartender, for any reason"

For one thing, female bartenders are very busy shooting fish in a barrel, so multiple partners is fairly common. Second, instead of thinking about your own thoughts, maybe you should try to guess what she's thinking about you.
Nov 16, 2015 9:16 PM

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Lain_ said:
some of my best friends have had sex with 30different girls in a week - not joking and I actually know it's true -
as friends I love them, but I'd never date them
Jesus fucking Christ.... your friends alone will give us a super strain STD that is so strong it can even pass through condoms or become airborn.
Nov 16, 2015 9:21 PM

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Only if she gets tested. Even then I wouldn't really want to unless I'm 100% sure shes on birth control. Imagine if she gets pregnant and your one of the 50 potential fathers? Yeah don't wanna be in that position.

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Nov 17, 2015 12:10 AM

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I wouldn't care how many sex partners she had.
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Nov 17, 2015 12:19 AM

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Better have her vag checked out first before smashing that

I'll see you on the Maury show OP

50 partners, 22 years old
What are the chances that dating her would lead to something long term?
Slim to none probably. If you are so desperate for sex just smash her with no strings attached. Also remember to check that vag before proceeding with anything. Trust me i'm a knowledgeable penis
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Nov 17, 2015 12:19 AM

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TheBrainintheJar said:
I wouldn't care how many sex partners she had.
What if... its over 9000!
Nov 17, 2015 1:36 AM

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fucking gross

probably has swallowed nearly all of that too

Imagine that
Nov 17, 2015 11:15 AM

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Maybe it's high because she's a sex worker.
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Nov 17, 2015 11:19 AM
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Well, if she really slept with 50 guys, I think that there's a 95% chance you're just another "Dick Trophy" for her.
Nov 17, 2015 11:23 AM

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I'm a bit shocked at the comments. For some, having sex doesn't mean that much you know, so I wouldn't be surprised if someone has had sex with + than 50 people. However I'd be a bit suspicious if I saw someone boasting about this (this is the kind of thing you'd reveal when you get to know the person better). OP, if you want to date this girl seriously, be careful and wait to know more about her. And absolutely use a condom if you're not sure about her health (and it's a thing I'd suggest even if the girl had had sex with only one guy though... But 50, the chances are way higher haha).
Nov 17, 2015 11:32 AM

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Alright.. Coming from a woman who enjoys casual sex, that is an insane amount. She'd have to have been sleeping around since she was 11 or some shit

Don't really care for the fact that she's slept with so many people, just the fact that she probably has a couple STD's (they're a lot easier to get than you think). If she's open about this stuff, then you should confirm that she's clean

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Don't get attached. People who have a lot of casual sex sometimes have intimacy issues from my experience.

^ vouching



Nov 17, 2015 11:34 AM

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Short term sure though I would require them to get tested first.
Nov 17, 2015 11:45 AM
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Confessions said:
C'mon guys, it's 2015.
nice meme
Nov 17, 2015 11:51 AM

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Mooncake said:
Confessions said:
C'mon guys, it's 2015.
nice meme
c'mon guys, it's 2025. You know we dont need sex anymore unless its with a robot
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Mooncake said:
Confessions said:
C'mon guys, it's 2015.
nice meme


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