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Given a choice at birth, would you rather be a male or a female?
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Apr 20, 2015 10:18 PM
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Does it matter? And why?

I'd rather be a guy. Anyone want to trade?
ClaireApr 20, 2015 10:39 PM
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Apr 20, 2015 10:19 PM
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i want to be a genderless asexual being

Apr 20, 2015 10:20 PM
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Male.

If I had the option I'd prefer to be an immortal cyborg.
Apr 20, 2015 10:21 PM
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Male.

Say no to periods.
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves,
By each let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!''
~Oscar
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Apr 20, 2015 10:24 PM
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I'd rather be Mail because then everyone would touch me~
Claire you mad cuz you a man?

Apr 20, 2015 10:31 PM
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I'm a boy in a girl's body. It'd be easier being a boy.
Apr 20, 2015 10:33 PM
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Given the choice, I would rather not be granted birth at all.
Apr 20, 2015 10:35 PM
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male.
less worries.
If life ain't just a joke
Then why are we laughing?

If life ain't just a joke
Then why am I dead?
Apr 20, 2015 10:35 PM
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Female.

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Apr 20, 2015 10:40 PM

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Still male coz patriarchy
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Syndiciate said:
If I had the option I'd prefer to be an immortal cyborg.
Twitter and it's consequences had been a disaster for the human race
Apr 20, 2015 10:42 PM

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worldeditor11 said:
Given the choice, I would rather not be granted birth at all.


lmao.
Apr 20, 2015 10:43 PM

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Anything that gets me the cute chicks faster.
Apr 20, 2015 10:45 PM

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worldeditor11 said:
Given the choice, I would rather not be granted birth at all.


damn thats depressing

and i will still choose to be a male, hate the idea of giving birth and menstruation
Apr 20, 2015 10:46 PM

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Kagami_Hiiragi said:
Anything that gets me the cute chicks faster.


so... lesbian?
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves,
By each let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!''
~Oscar
[/i]
Apr 20, 2015 10:47 PM

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Geni-2-ol said:
Kagami_Hiiragi said:
Anything that gets me the cute chicks faster.


so... lesbian?


I'd rather be a guy who gets the cute chicks :c
Apr 20, 2015 10:50 PM

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Kagami_Hiiragi said:
Geni-2-ol said:


so... lesbian?


I'd rather be a guy who gets the cute chicks :c


a gay?
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves,
By each let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!''
~Oscar
[/i]
Apr 20, 2015 10:51 PM
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I'm not sure. I like the idea of looking like a girl but at the same time I'm happy being a guy.
Apr 20, 2015 10:51 PM

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Geni-2-ol said:
Kagami_Hiiragi said:


I'd rather be a guy who gets the cute chicks :c


a gay?


I said cute chicks, not cute dicks.
Apr 20, 2015 10:53 PM
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I would be neither a grill or a boi. I would be elitist.
Apr 20, 2015 10:56 PM

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Kagami_Hiiragi said:
Geni-2-ol said:


a gay?


I said cute chicks, not cute dicks.


You would get both.
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves,
By each let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!''
~Oscar
[/i]
Apr 20, 2015 11:09 PM

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Guy and it's not even close.
Apr 20, 2015 11:11 PM

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A guy, like you Claire
Apr 20, 2015 11:26 PM

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Female, much easier to get laid.
Apr 20, 2015 11:27 PM

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Would probably go with a guy . . . Peeing standing up is pretty handy.
Apr 20, 2015 11:27 PM

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Gator said:
Female, much easier to get laid.

and pregnant
Apr 20, 2015 11:31 PM

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Cleo- said:
I'm a boy in a girl's body. It'd be easier being a boy.


http://web.stanford.edu/group/knowledgebase/cgi-bin/2011/03/08/women-who-display-masculine-traits-and-know-when-not-to-get-more-promotions-than-men/

This study determined that learned behavior patterns — not biological sex — may be the greatest determinant of workplace success as measured by salary and promotion.

So hopefully its because of the balance of masculine and feminine energies which you project and can control rather than actually thinking and feeling like a boy without the ability to turn the masculine traits on and off.


"When our masculine and feminine energies are not complementing each other but are instead interfering with one another, we feel confusion and unrest, incompleteness and a disconnection within ourselves and with out outer world (including our relationships with others). But when the energies are well adjusted and harmoniously balanced we feel more connected, in harmony, at peace and whole within ourselves and with out outer world (including our relationships with others).

Masculine energy without the feminine energy to balance it off can cause a person to be cold, insensitive and emotionally closed off, reckless, wasteful, overly critical and aggressive (even physically violent). Most men and women who express too much of the masculine energy find themselves too outwardly-focused and out of synch with their own deepest feelings and the feelings of others because they lack that feminine energy that drives fluidity, creativity, sensitivity, introspection, supportiveness and nurturing.

Feminine energy without the masculine energy to balance it off can cause a person to be too timid, too passive, superficial, compliant, clingy and needy, unable to make decisions, overly dependent, vulnerable to exploitation and abuse. Most men and women who express too much of the feminine energy find themselves too inwardly-focused and unable to move forward in their lives. They stop engaging and challenging their outer worlds and instead go too far into their inner worlds and sometimes find themselves stuck because they lack that masculine energy that drives action, force, movement and firmness."

http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/NEWSLETTER%20ARTICLES/masculine_feminine_confidence.html
CosmicbeingApr 20, 2015 11:47 PM
Apr 20, 2015 11:32 PM
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im fine being a guy

i bet u are too rev
Apr 20, 2015 11:33 PM

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Gator said:
Female, much easier to get laid.
Yea, but you're not going to want it as bad and it won't be as unequivocally awesome as it is now (mainly because you have more to worry about).

It's like saying it's much easier to suck tits if you're a baby or get invited to a chick's house if you're gay. Even if those are true, you wouldn't necessarily switch places with them, because afterwards you're going to be in a worse position to enjoy those things.
okagesamaApr 20, 2015 11:38 PM
Apr 20, 2015 11:35 PM

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I'm happy as I am now so I'd still pick being a male.
Apr 20, 2015 11:37 PM

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mayukachan said:
Gator said:
Female, much easier to get laid.

and pregnant

Yeah that's why 90% of all females are pregnant all the time right?

Solipsistic said:
Gator said:
Female, much easier to get laid.
Yea, but you're not going to want it as bad and it won't be as unequivocally awesome as it is now (mainly bc you have more to worry about).

It's like saying it's much easier to suck tits if you're a baby or get invited to a chick's house if you're gay.

Not wanting it as bad is even better, where can I sign?

That would be true if I wanted to only suck tits or get invited to a chick's house, which I don't.
Apr 20, 2015 11:40 PM

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Gator said:
Not wanting it as bad is even better, where can I sign?

That would be true if I wanted to only suck tits or get invited to a chick's house, which I don't.
I think you're misunderstanding the analogy; maybe my edit made things clearer.
Apr 20, 2015 11:43 PM

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Solipsistic said:
Gator said:
Not wanting it as bad is even better, where can I sign?

That would be true if I wanted to only suck tits or get invited to a chick's house, which I don't.
I think you're misunderstanding the analogy; maybe my edit made things clearer.

Like I said, not wanting that stuff as much anymore is even better.
Apr 21, 2015 12:49 AM

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Funny decision to make. Either choice would cause a butterfly effect that would alter my whole world dramatically from the other. Manliness would be hard to find a coherent modern role model for. Alternately, growing up as a girl has its own unique challenges such as navigating the social expectations around value in sex and relationships instead of just trying to get laid. Life isn't hard as it is . . but if the choice was there? Easy decision.
Now you're wondering if there's white text in any of my other posts.

Over there, I'm everywhere. I know that.
Apr 21, 2015 12:52 AM

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Gator said:
Solipsistic said:
I think you're misunderstanding the analogy; maybe my edit made things clearer.

Like I said, not wanting that stuff as much anymore is even better.
But then, being able to get laid much more easily becomes much less of a benefit, now doesn't it? And thus it's not a strong reason to want to be a girl. You're saying you have 2 reasons: 1) you get laid more, 2) you won't want to get laid as much. Don't you see how those logically can't both at once be strong reasons?

This is the tradeoff I was talking about. You want to have your pussy and eat it too.
Apr 21, 2015 12:55 AM
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Zeally said:
i want to be a genderless asexual being


wanna trade asexuality for my hot cousin irl
Apr 21, 2015 12:56 AM

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I would be both genders. Best of both worlds
Apr 21, 2015 1:00 AM

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Solipsistic said:
Gator said:

Like I said, not wanting that stuff as much anymore is even better.
But then, being able to get laid much more easily becomes much less of a benefit, now doesn't it? And thus it's not a strong reason to want to be a girl. You're saying you have 2 reasons: 1) you get laid more, 2) you won't want to get laid as much. Don't you see how those logically can't both at once be strong reasons?

This is the tradeoff I was talking about. You want to have your pussy and eat it too.

Okay let me explain this to you in a really simple way:
Man - Wants it really bad, doesn't get it that easy
Woman - Wants it not that bad, gets it easier

It's not hard to see what's better, is it? So my reasons are still valid.
Apr 21, 2015 1:20 AM

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Gator said:
mayukachan said:

and pregnant

Yeah that's why 90% of all females are pregnant all the time right?

you're missing the point lol
Apr 21, 2015 1:22 AM

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mayukachan said:
Gator said:

Yeah that's why 90% of all females are pregnant all the time right?

you're missing the point lol

If your point is "Females can get pregnant", then I'm inclined to tell you that I already was aware of that fact.
Apr 21, 2015 1:22 AM

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male pls.
Apr 21, 2015 1:23 AM

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Gator said:
mayukachan said:

you're missing the point lol

If your point is "Females can get pregnant", then I'm inclined to tell you that I already was aware of that fact.

no, the point is that males can go around sex'ing everyone up without that risk of getting pregnant
Apr 21, 2015 1:28 AM

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Female because then I can be a loli.
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All hail HaXXspetten king of the loli traps!
Apr 21, 2015 1:30 AM

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mayukachan said:
Gator said:

If your point is "Females can get pregnant", then I'm inclined to tell you that I already was aware of that fact.

no, the point is that males can go around sex'ing everyone up without that risk of getting pregnant

And still a lot of women manage to not get pregnant even once in their lives despite being able to. And lol at men going around sexing everyone up.

1. It's not that easy.
2. Getting girls pregnant isn't really a smart thing to do for a man.
Apr 21, 2015 1:30 AM

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I would be both genders. Best of both worlds
You wouldn't survive school.
Now you're wondering if there's white text in any of my other posts.

Over there, I'm everywhere. I know that.
Apr 21, 2015 1:31 AM

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Gator said:
mayukachan said:

no, the point is that males can go around sex'ing everyone up without that risk of getting pregnant

And still a lot of women manage to not get pregnant even once in their lives despite being able to. And lol at men going around sexing everyone up.

1. It's not that easy.
2. Getting girls pregnant isn't really a smart thing to do for a man.

even the slightest chance is pretty depressing if you think about it. better safe than sorry.

as for #2: there's such a thing where people do the dirty and never meet each other so lol yeah, i dont think he'd care
Apr 21, 2015 1:53 AM

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Apr 21, 2015 2:03 AM

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The decision would largely depend on the setting I am being born in. In earlier times and certain places in the world I would without hesitation pick being a male over a female; however, there are certain benefits to being a woman that are useful in certain scenarios. Assuming I am being born in a liberal enough place like the U.S. I would leave the decision to a coin flip.

It's turning out to be largely irrelevant what your gender is, and both genders have pros / cons in different scenarios, so it'd be more interesting to not be cognizant of the gender.
Apr 21, 2015 2:07 AM

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Gator said:
Solipsistic said:
But then, being able to get laid much more easily becomes much less of a benefit, now doesn't it? And thus it's not a strong reason to want to be a girl. You're saying you have 2 reasons: 1) you get laid more, 2) you won't want to get laid as much. Don't you see how those logically can't both at once be strong reasons?

This is the tradeoff I was talking about. You want to have your pussy and eat it too.

Okay let me explain this to you in a really simple way:
Man - Wants it really bad, doesn't get it that easy
Woman - Wants it not that bad, gets it easier

It's not hard to see what's better, is it? So my reasons are still valid.
Well that still only makes sense if you ignore the potential pleasure you lose out on by not wanting it as bad. But assuming you are doing that, yea I get what you're saying.
Apr 21, 2015 2:09 AM

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If I had to choose, I would choose female. As for why, I don't quite know.
Apr 21, 2015 2:10 AM

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Always wanted to be a girl. Still do. Don't really know why.

At least I can be a trap if I want to.
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