Danjo no Yuujou wa Seiritsu suru? (Iya, Shinai!!) Episode 4 Discussion

Man.

Densest MC not realizing that his "best friend" likes him + girl who can't reciprocate her feelings (decided to hide them cuz idk why) and a narcissist = whatever this anime is

I think we're gonna have more unnecessary drama and poorly written plot coming soon

(can't wait to see)

@ItsAmsyar honestly, having unexpected plot seems to be this anime biggest pro

This is one of the few shows I'm hoping everyone goes their own way at the end.

@UTMAN


I disagree with this take. I think Himari was acting super annoying and jealously strange, while Yuu was tying to put up with her crazy antics, to communicate when he felt something was off, and trying to be nice to both Himari & Rin, plus I don't think the restaurant was all his fault.


True, I do fault them both for not communicating and not being honest about their feeling with themselves and each other.
Going back to "were best friends" all the time was really putting a gap in their relationship as friends and possibly more.

I agree they teased each other, but I disagree that their teasing is the same.

His teasing is playful and poking fun at her, he doesn't bring physical touch into the teasing, except maybe to push her away.

Her teasing is way more torturous for him. From the beginning she is literally in his face, whispering in his hear, rubbing up against him, sitting on his lap, climbing on him, which he keeps passing off as her not being serious. Then she ups her game, starts talking about them being romantic, or kissing, or having sex, while basically "cock blocking" him the whole time with ruining the moment, while laughing in his face or insulting him under her breath. After today ruing the moment, she even says under her breath, "I gave you the green light", but Yuu is over their bothered that she keeps messing with him like this and it is hurting him too.

She acted so different that he finally tried talking to her, but she avoided talking much about it directly, leaving him more confused. And what if he lost control one of these times that she was teasing him, like when she pulled him on top of her saying "Do you want to do it?", how would she have handled that situation? Say,"Just Kidding!", and find a way out of it?


The translation I saw for the anime said, not "exclusive model" but "main model", meaning it was not replacing Himari, but adding Rin as a second model in the business, doing the main shots for the new merchandise.

You are totally reading into the situation and misrepresenting Yuu.

I re-watched that scene and I really think you should watch that scene again too.

Yuu was far more innocent in this situation. Shinji is the one pushing the idea the entire time. Yuu is hesitant, Yuu & Rin kinda of talk about it, Rin says "she is happy to do it", Yuu starts considering it. Then Himari interjects, but keeps going back and forth on the topic.

She first says "You can't dot that!" while slamming her hand on the table, then she tries to backtrack it by saying, "I mean it is a great idea, but ... she tries to list reasons why Rin can't handle it",

Shinji starts pushing the idea again, getting in Himari's face, when Yuu says for them to "calm down", but they both tell him to "shut up".

Shinji asks Himari straight out, "What are you worried about?", but she denies being worried.

When it finally goes back to Yuu speaking, he is still hesitant about it, and he obviously does not remember making that promise in the past. He even reminds Himari about her saying he needed knew inspiration. Then Yuu comes right out and says to her, "You have been acting strange lately", meaning that he has no clue what is going on in head, because she always has a fake mask on to hide her true feelings, and she doesn't communicate. Yuu then shares that her teasing him all the time and not meaning it is "a drag", meaning that she is hurting his feelings by doing it, and even more now that she became more pushy with him, making him suffer under her antics. Like I said her torturing him all the time is straining not just their friendship, but anything more between them. He then says, "I am sorry, but I can't take your side on this one." Yuu is totally confused, feeling bad, not wanting to hurt Himari, but also not liking how he is being treated, saying "I can only handle so much" in his thoughts.

You are not having understanding or patience with Yuu, while acing like Himari didn't do anything wrong before then, that's unfair.


That happens in episode 4, after he remembers the promise, not before this the station in episode 3, so it doesn't count.


I am, you are the one being unfair to Yuu, and biased toward Himari, that has been my point from the beginning. I literally said you are not being fair to both of them. I also agreed with you that Yuu blew it for breaking the promise, but I thought you were being too hard on him and not hard enough on Himari. You are more defensive for her, and bothered at Yuu for Himari. You are inserting your feelings as the audience into what happened.


In no way have I been acting like hypocrite here at all. You are now misrepresenting me.


That is you as an the audience feeling bad for Himari, because you know what is happening, that is is completely unfair judgement of Yuu, who obviously does not remember the promise and has no clue what is happening.


There are women who act like Himari, and then there are women who communicate and say something like, "Yuu, you're not going back on your promise, are you?", prompting him to think about it and realize he was making a mistake. Himari, not communicating and expecting Yuu to remember the promise they made years ago in that moment, then getting angry when Yuu has no clue what is going on, is unjustified and selfish. She basically created her own problems and didn't have any patience with Yuu, even though he clearly was not remembering and was completely confused about what was happening.


Yes, they made an agree years ago, which Yuu obviously didn't remember, it happens sometimes, a loving friend would remind him, not lash out from jealously and hate.

It is like you have never had to remind a friend about something, you know sometimes they forget, but we can have understanding and patience, being mature about it, instead of being emotionally sensitive and feeling hurt.

He was totally hesitant and second guessing it the entire time. He doest need to talk to Himari in private, they are all right there talking. On the other hand, she could have taken him aside and reminded him of the promise they made, since he was obviously not remembering.

Himari didn't outright appose it, she was going back and forth, making up excuses, instead of just saying she is against because of the promise they made.

Yuu did not remove Himari from the business, that is false. They would both still be working for Yuu, with one being the "main model" and the other being an "additional model". He was not "ditching" Himari at all, he was adding Rin as a second new model to the business and having her do the modeling for their new merchandise. Himari was not mad about being out of the business, she was mad that he made her the "main mode", not because he kicked her out of the business, but because that was the promise he made to her, to be the main model for him.


That is straw-man argument. Of course I would be the idiot for actually robbing the bank in that situation.

You are wrongly putting all the blame on him, when it is Hiimari, Yuu's, and Shinji's fault in that situatoion. The each share part off the blame.

okay, what's is meaning behind the purple tulip? The answer is royalty and elegance. It can also symbolize richness, glamor, charm, admiration, and adoration.

@stupidinit thank god I'm not the only one right now

If Himari shares her opinion, I disagree.
If Himari talks, I ignore her.
If Himari fails, I judge her.
If Himari thinks, I despise her.
If Himari has 100 haters, I'm one of them.
If Himari has 1 hater, it's me.
If Himari has no haters, then I don't exist.

What even was this episode!? I thought the whole "Himari might move to Tokyo" thing was going to stretch over a few episodes or at least spin off into a proper subplot. But nope—we're right back where we started.
Though, I guess now Himari does admit she's in love with Yu. That’s progress... right?