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Sep 26, 2016 10:58 PM

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Kuma said:
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If you reread my earlier comments, I said that it's not just sexual ways. That was the whole point of my original post.
but they does have, i mean, you can simply looking cartoon porn parodies...


Porn is completely different than regular shows.
Sep 27, 2016 2:58 AM

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CrashD said:
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but they does have, i mean, you can simply looking cartoon porn parodies...


Porn is completely different than regular shows.
anime also nothing different with regular shows... and different with porns...
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Sep 27, 2016 3:08 AM

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Probably cause it sells. ;/

Tbh I'm kinda fed up with that, especially when it just randomly occurs.
Sep 27, 2016 4:28 AM

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CrashD said:
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em.. just like how we have feelings toward character in any intertainment medium?


Explain. Not many people connect with fictional characters on that level to the point where they get near obsessive like a lot of people do with their waifus and lolis. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I'm just saying it's not common.
waifus and lolis son? waifus and lolis?
remember last year when ep 7 came? the amount of tards lining up dressed as characters of SW.
such fans are not just for waifus and lolis.
even ppl who say loli fans are pedos and waifu's body pillow huggers are potatos would have shown up as 501st.
even grown ups who yell at their kids to not watch too much tv or play violent games would have,
I went to a convention and this tard i kew, showed up as darth vader.
and he's always mocking our chinese carttonns.
EVERYONE has their fethises.
Sep 27, 2016 8:51 AM

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I agree that the anime fandom is OTT when it comes to creepy fetishes and wanting to fuck every character (even if they are BLATANTLY NOT ADULTS) and it sucks. It's why I keep being a fan of anime a secret, because I don't want people thinking I'm a pervert.
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Sep 27, 2016 9:58 AM

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OP, you're acting as if sexualizing is a bad thing. All animals and humans have hormones that make us desire sex, it's completely natural. There's nothing wrong about sexualizing

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Sep 27, 2016 1:25 PM

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OpiumSama said:
I agree that the anime fandom is OTT when it comes to creepy fetishes and wanting to fuck every character (even if they are BLATANTLY NOT ADULTS) and it sucks. It's why I keep being a fan of anime a secret, because I don't want people thinking I'm a pervert.


What is a 'creepy fetish'? Is it wrong to have preferences in sexuality? Who is being harmed if I have a fetish for lingerie?
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Sep 27, 2016 1:35 PM

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TheBrainintheJar said:
OpiumSama said:
I agree that the anime fandom is OTT when it comes to creepy fetishes and wanting to fuck every character (even if they are BLATANTLY NOT ADULTS) and it sucks. It's why I keep being a fan of anime a secret, because I don't want people thinking I'm a pervert.


What is a 'creepy fetish'? Is it wrong to have preferences in sexuality? Who is being harmed if I have a fetish for lingerie?

It's a fetish that many would find really strange. It doesn't have anything to do with moral harm.
Sep 27, 2016 4:40 PM

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KuroudoAkabane said:
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Explain. Not many people connect with fictional characters on that level to the point where they get near obsessive like a lot of people do with their waifus and lolis. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I'm just saying it's not common.
waifus and lolis son? waifus and lolis?
remember last year when ep 7 came? the amount of tards lining up dressed as characters of SW.
such fans are not just for waifus and lolis.
even ppl who say loli fans are pedos and waifu's body pillow huggers are potatos would have shown up as 501st.
even grown ups who yell at their kids to not watch too much tv or play violent games would have,
I went to a convention and this tard i kew, showed up as darth vader.
and he's always mocking our chinese carttonns.
EVERYONE has their fethises.


I'm not talking about fetishes and I'm not talking about cosplay. I'm talking about deep emotional bonds.
Sep 27, 2016 4:42 PM

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Kuma said:
CrashD said:


Porn is completely different than regular shows.
anime also nothing different with regular shows... and different with porns...


And you don't really ever hear people talking about their Spongebob waifus and adoring underage girls in western cartoons, do you? There's nothing wrong with it if they do, but this is mostly an anime specific thing.
Sep 27, 2016 4:48 PM
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Selenium_Thorium said:
OP, you're acting as if sexualizing is a bad thing. All animals and humans have hormones that make us desire sex, it's completely natural. There's nothing wrong about sexualizing


That... isn't a sensible argument at all. That some thing X is "natural" doesn't mean nothing is wrong with it. People naturally want to hurt other people, but that doesn't mean it's okay or moral.

Now I actually agree that sexualization isn't inherently bad. The problem is that it tends to actually be mostly one-sided sexual objectification instead.
Sep 27, 2016 6:24 PM

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Wish fulfillment to demonize something that someone doesn't like. If a guy likes watching girly shows like Aikatsu, it's easier to justify it because he wants to shtup every girl in the series as opposed to him just being genuinely interested in their idol antics.

I thought this thread might have been about how people always insinuate that every close character has the hots for each other. I actually prefer how anime can create deep relationship dynamics without bringing romance or lust into the fray. It's especially important in CGDCT or all boys shows, where you can see connections without "Hah, GAAAAAY!"
Sep 27, 2016 8:23 PM

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I think the question that we should really be asking here is, who the FUCK cares.
Sep 27, 2016 10:27 PM

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Selenium_Thorium said:
OP, you're acting as if sexualizing is a bad thing. All animals and humans have hormones that make us desire sex, it's completely natural. There's nothing wrong about sexualizing
if you talking about us (viewer) doing sexualization, that's fine because it's unavoidable... but when you judge a series or a character relationship in a series and you always sexualize every reletionship they have, it's just like we sexualize every relationship human have... which starting to become annoying...
CrashD said:
Kuma said:
anime also nothing different with regular shows... and different with porns...


And you don't really ever hear people talking about their Spongebob waifus and adoring underage girls in western cartoons, do you? There's nothing wrong with it if they do, but this is mostly an anime specific thing.
i start to think we talking about different matters... i am talking about what inside the series, not the fan of series...

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Wish fulfillment to demonize something that someone doesn't like. If a guy likes watching girly shows like Aikatsu, it's easier to justify it because he wants to shtup every girl in the series as opposed to him just being genuinely interested in their idol antics.

I thought this thread might have been about how people always insinuate that every close character has the hots for each other. I actually prefer how anime can create deep relationship dynamics without bringing romance or lust into the fray. It's especially important in CGDCT or all boys shows, where you can see connections without "Hah, GAAAAAY!"

EXACTLY! this is what massage i try to convey... there is more relationship than simply sexual desire and romantic feelings, but too many people suddenly judge a series as pedophile and gay like every relationship will including as sexual relationship!!!!

shipping habbit in anime fandom when people suddenly shipping every pair as romantic relationship doesn't really help either...

HOW AND WHY this happened?
KumaSep 27, 2016 10:31 PM
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Sep 27, 2016 10:44 PM

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Cuz that is what a big part of the anime community is into. See: the /r/anime sub on reddit. Everyday at least 1 top post is NSFW/ecchi fan art of whatever waifu happens to be in season or sexy anime cosplayers dressing up as said waifus. Even on MAL, there is a very vocal part of the community that proclaim a deep love for all things lewd/ecchi and will not be afraid of attacking those who look down on their tastes.
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CrashD said:
Kuma said:
anime also nothing different with regular shows... and different with porns...


And you don't really ever hear people talking about their Spongebob waifus and adoring underage girls in western cartoons, do you? There's nothing wrong with it if they do, but this is mostly an anime specific thing.

That's because Spongebob sucks. My Little Pony, on the other hand, gets lots of fan attention. (I have no idea if the MCs of the show are meant to be underage or just young)
Sep 28, 2016 9:10 AM

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AltoRoark said:
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What is a 'creepy fetish'? Is it wrong to have preferences in sexuality? Who is being harmed if I have a fetish for lingerie?

It's a fetish that many would find really strange. It doesn't have anything to do with moral harm.


Calling a fetish 'creepy' implies there's something morally wrong about them and that we should be ashamed of it.
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Sep 28, 2016 9:15 AM

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TheBrainintheJar said:
Calling a fetish 'creepy' implies there's something morally wrong about them and that we should be ashamed of it.

Are you sure? I figured it meant that it induces a feeling of unease and disgust from others.
Sep 28, 2016 1:19 PM

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AltoRoark said:
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Calling a fetish 'creepy' implies there's something morally wrong about them and that we should be ashamed of it.

Are you sure? I figured it meant that it induces a feeling of unease and disgust from others.


Doesn't it signify a moral harm, causing such feelings?

Why should someone feel uneasy from sexual fetishes?
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Sep 28, 2016 2:13 PM

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Why does EcchiLordMamster have so many alts these days

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Can Miyu really be liked as a person, instead of as a character who makes stuff happen? She's, like, the villain of the story.


Oh! This explains why people hate pedophiles, not child molesters.


The fact we already hate pedophiles before they do something speaks volume of our fear.

"Hating" and "fearing" are still two separate things. That being said, I'd make sure children are in my arm's reach. It's the same way I fear people with homicidal tendencies.

edit: I don't fear loli fans, no.
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ashfrliebert said:
Why does EcchiLordMamster have so many alts these days
i am not even talking about ecchi and loli FFS... read my first post...
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ashfrliebert said:
Why does EcchiLordMamster have so many alts these days

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The fact we already hate pedophiles before they do something speaks volume of our fear.

"Hating" and "fearing" are still two separate things. That being said, I'd make sure children are in my arm's reach. It's the same way I fear people with homicidal tendencies.

edit: I don't fear loli fans, no.


I'm not going to tell you what you're doing is wrong. The question is, what can we do about it? Pedophilia is a dangerous thought, but not every pedophile is automatically a child molester.
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Sep 30, 2016 4:58 AM

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CrashD said:
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waifus and lolis son? waifus and lolis?
remember last year when ep 7 came? the amount of tards lining up dressed as characters of SW.
such fans are not just for waifus and lolis.
even ppl who say loli fans are pedos and waifu's body pillow huggers are potatos would have shown up as 501st.
even grown ups who yell at their kids to not watch too much tv or play violent games would have,
I went to a convention and this tard i kew, showed up as darth vader.
and he's always mocking our chinese carttonns.
EVERYONE has their fethises.


I'm not talking about fetishes and I'm not talking about cosplay. I'm talking about deep emotional bonds.
we have deep emotional bonds with our waifus.
see, not everyone changes their waifu as per the flavor of the month. some of us stay true to our waifus throughout.
we know they are fictional. and cant reciprocate our love. but we still love them.
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