@Softhenic03 This is my first post on site and I have been a member for years. I am doing so because I vehemently disagree with your characterization of Norn. Specifically, 'There's actually no reason to empathize with Norn,' 'This is absolutely no reason to hate someone,' your premise that her suffering over people's perception of her brother is unrealistic, and that Norn's struggle is an author's tool that lacks foundation.
Norn is a very complex character, which is not uncommon for MT and one of the many reasons it is highly regarded.
Children are not equipped with the ability to process adult emotions yet Norn was forced to for her entire life. She grew up in household filled with love and disfunction. Specifically, a mother dealing with betrayal, her adulterous father, their maid (object of her father's desire), a half sister from the above affair, and her family's perception of an overachieving brother that she has never met. Her family was tragically torn apart, in a cataclysmic event, and she was left alone with her father, Paul. Paul is an imperfect man living with grief, addiction, hopelessness, despair, and an understanding that he lacks the ability to save his family. He is driven by a desire to save his wife and atone for all the pain he has caused her.
Paul, despite all his faults (and there are many), cares deeply for his family. He is Norn's Knight, the rock in her life that has stayed constant, and the only one there to protect her from a world (from her experience) that will literally explode and destroy everything that she knows.
What do you think psychologically happens to a child raised in this environment? Norn is being raised and dependent on a man that is controlled by his own demons and falling deeply into alcoholism as he processes them. You lose your sense of self and your individuality. Your whole purpose becomes survival, maintaining stability in a chaotic world, and managing a relationship that is protecting you but filled with emotions that you are incapable of understanding.
Rudy's confrontation with Paul was not just her brother beating up her father to Norn. It was an annihilation of her world. Everything that was protecting her, everything that she had learned to manage and value. It laid bare all of the disfunction. It was personal. It was traumatic. In that moment Rudy destroyed everything, and understandably so she resented him for it.
Fast forward to this season. Displace Norn, who is lacking self identity and put her into a world dominated by the person that has caused her trauma. Norn is alone and away from the relationships that have demanded all of her focus and dominated her life. She is probably dealing with a level of depression that only people with a clinical diagnosis or family history of dependency can experience. Add that EVERY peer, senpai, and teacher highly regards, praises, and admires the person who has caused you injury. It is not difficult to sympathize with how distorted Norn's world view must feel and why she would reject that.
This episode featured major character growth from both Rudy and Norn. First, Rudy attempted to help Norn and mend their relationship by relating to her. He also expressed sympathy and learned from regrets with his own family. Secondly, about Norn. I will began by absolutely REJECTING the conclusion of the post I am reacting to. WE DID NOT LEARN that "life is hard even for kids," and by the end of the episode "things went normal… as simple as that lol." What we did learn about Norn is that Rudy saw her true self and was sympathetic to her plight, despite her not vocalizing it. This resonated with her and changed her perception of him. Norn was also able to release a lot of the pain and emotion she was holding in onto his shoulder. She was able to take
her first step towards healing and reclaiming her individuality. Rudy saying, "I see you for who you are" was a beautiful and very deliberate line.
Great episode 10/10