| Female bosses are optimal if you are an attractive guy. Otherwise, you would have better luck with a male boss assuming you get your work done. Men are a lot more straight faced than women so I prefer male bosses for that reason. Obviously men gossip far less. |
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| I have had both, but there really wasn't any difference based on sex. |
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| I've had both. It really depends on the person. I've had really cool male bosses and female bosses. I've also had terrible of both, too. It's more about the personality and less about what gender they are. My favorite male boss used to go out and drink and make sales so our branch always did well and there was no sales pressure for me and my coworkers. My favorite female boss let me do basically what my favorite male boss did. My least favorite male boss was a sleezy salesman type who never took accountability for his mistakes and tried to get me to lie to clients. My least favorite female boss was a control freak who wouldn't let me make any sales since she was always worried there would be a mistake (in my industry mistakes do matter but they're also fixable) |
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BornlovedBoy said: @konkelo @tycke @frostwork There will always be a difference between how men run things and how women will. The difference between men and women in the workplace or most other aspects of life isn't biological, its mostly cultural. One of the big differences, in my line of work, i always notice between the sexs is that male owners will be observant of their surroundings and of me like hawks.. until they trust me enough. But females will are not like that. They just want to trust you with everything and let you handle it. I just want to do things my own way so with males i have to win their trust before i can start running things my way but with females i dont have to do much in the way of spending time to earn trust. #notallmen #notallwomen I gave an example of a female boss that didn't trust anyone. |
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| Women always have been much nicer and kinder to me.. Even the mean women and angry Karens. Men have always been rude and full of hatred towards me.. It's may have to do with me being a perfect gentleman in front of women and indirectly indicating and mocking all men as beta.... _meimei said: Ahh tough for me. My fave boss ever was a guy… I’ve had some negative experiences with female bosses. I will quit being a neet, if meimei was my boss. |
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| I haven't had a female boss in a long time, so I wouldn't really know. |
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| I've only ever had one female boss, so I can't really say just from that experience alone, but I remember her being such a pain to deal with lol, she was so uptight about the smallest things. |
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| They’re your boss, the gender and race doesn’t really matter. I just care if they are an asshole or not. |
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| I've had good and bad bosses, both male and female. As long as you can communicate effectively I couldn't care less who you are. |
SynapticBlast said: I feel exactly the same way about this. As long as they're a nice boss I don't really care what gender they are. |
| No, not usually. The guys are typically much easier to work with. But it depends on the person. |
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rohan121 said: Female bosses are optimal if you are an attractive guy. Otherwise, you would have better luck with a male boss assuming you get your work done. Men are a lot more straight faced than women so I prefer male bosses for that reason. Obviously men gossip far less. Lmao, no. Men gossip at least as much as women. They just don't call it gossip, but they can eviscerate someone's character with the best of them and are not nearly as in the face about it as they like to pretend. So far, I have had better experiences with female bosses. Male bosses tend to dump their work on the people below them, so they can take up extra projects to 'shine' and get promoted (this doesn't always work luckily). In the meantime, the people working below them have to do their own jobs and the manager's tasks. |
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| I don't prefer female bosses. I've had four female bosses and three were bad. Probably not bad people, but they were quite bad managers - very micromanaging and doing stuff like sighing at staff, trying to micromanage our socialising, telling me to smile more (even in an office. Yes I have a resting bitch face lol). The youngest one was the worst (her mum was also a manager. Both were strict from what I heard. Eg if you were in the staff room for a few minutes you couldn't be looking at your phone, wtf? No surprise she became a copper afterwards haha). I've had maybe eight male bosses (half of them at one job) and like six of them were fine or even very nice. But I don't care if my bosses are female or male. I'm not sure there's a big difference, although I could imagine women bosses trending towards being stricter because they want to counteract the perception of women as being soft, especially older female managers? The nicest female manager I had was in her 30s, whereas the rest were either in their 40s-50s or probably were taught how to manage by an older person (their mum). Or maybe that's only a coincidence. ---- Women gossip and make/continue drama way more at work than men in my experience. I had a middle-aged woman make up rumours (that I didn't want to work, when I was literally working non-stop, but just not on what she'd suggested, since there were other officially scheduled tasks to do) to my manager about me on my first week at the job. She liked me later and then had that same gossipy energy, but used it to say good things about me instead, so now I know you can use the gossipy types to your advantage (I mean I'd rather not "use" them. I'd rather they just didn't act like that). Had another lady get visibly annoyed when I carried on talking normally when she made a joke (instead of laughing) and she started talking bad about me behind my back, but luckily nobody else cared. Another lady was the worst - she was always having mini tantrums and one time didn't like how some papers were organised so she threw three drawers of paperwork on the floor in a public part of the building, wtf? And threw things in the staff room. Supposedly her boyfriend was sometimes abusive and she got a pass due to that, but you honestly should just leave home problems at home - no? I've also never seen guys cry at work, but I've seen two women cry (different occasions) - which isn't a huge problem, but still. An older guy I worked with did kick something in anger once and break it and another guy called a customer who sniggered at him a fat cow (lmao wtf) and I've a few male colleagues badmouth about others behind their back quite a bit and some guys definitely complain too much, but I've just seen worse drama from women. The vast majority were still more than fine though. I suppose it is possible my mind doesn't register some types of drama from men as "drama". |
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Risa92 said: Lionalanda said: Lmao, no. Men gossip at least as much as women. They just don't call it gossip, but they can eviscerate someone's character with the best of them and are not nearly as in the face about it as they like to pretend. In some ways yes, but women / afab people are socialized to bond over gossip and some do hate other women or afab people inherently and will criticize everything you do. Had an acquaintance who always vented about her female collegue "urgh she looks like a barbie doll and has too much make-up in her face, what does a brainless hoe like that in a programmer job." Called her out because she barely spoke to her, so why would you know that she's dumb / inept for the job, she clearly got the same qualifications as you; got a very clear statement with a deep stare at me: "Because they are all dumb." Lol okay. I had that in high school with an all girls class and in one job, as soon as you / someone left the room, female collegues went like "omg have you seen her shoes today, and wtf is going on with her boyfriend etc." I mean everyone vents sometimes when they are angered about a person, but that was really petty all the time, called them out and was quite isolated then from them lot of times then. I also had lot of psychological bullying at school from other girls including gaslighting, the wildest made up rumors, while I just got into a fight with a few boys. At least you could say lot of them grew out of these phases, but not all. Some women are so used to be socialized to attack on others (and when they are not a kid anymore they just chose to do so to get the upper hand over them, people are not a full victim of their socialization). Interesting, because most of the bullying going on in my school was by guys. And there was a lot of shit-talking involved as well. I used to believe the 'men don't really gossip' before, but I've heard too many times that men talk shit or spread rumors to believe that anymore. |
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| My boss is female and I couldn't ask for a better and understanding boss, but I wouldn't mind a boss of any gender still |
| "If the cuckoo doesn't sing, I guess I'm fine with that." - Natsuki Andou, Kitaku-bu Katsudou Kiroku |
| I think women always are nicer and more accepting of me than men so I would prefer having a female boss, because that would make my job less stressful, due to a nice boss at work and I appreciate that |
| Hmm... it depends on many factors. For example, a female boss can be envious/hateful towards young or attractive female employees, and the same goes for male bosses and male employees (given they are both straight or predominantly heterosexual). Unfortunately, these are some psychological biases in people that regardless of how politically correct it is to pretend they don't exist, will likely affect your relationship with your superiors and other co-workers to a very large extent. In general, I feel more comfortable around female bosses (and even co-workers) since they are kinder, more empathetic, and have a much lower chance of treating you like garbage overall. There are exceptions of course, but that's just a general tendency I've noticed at some of my workplaces so far. Some men are literally impossible for me to work with and I feel like we are spending most of the day arguing and quarreling over trivial stuff instead of getting any actual work done. The best CEO and person I knew was male, though. |
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| What? No one bosses around me. No one. |
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Risa92 said: At least not the people I want to keep around and luckily the people in my job I have now, I was so surprised. The wife of my boss started with: Have you heard that from X (an employee and medicine student who works here)?" I thought "not this again", but then she went on with "he's doing so great in his medicine studies and courses, my husband and I will invite him for dinner and you come too, you're doing great here and with your courses." I'm so happy there, even when they talk about their employees without them being in the room, it's not to bring them down. ;_; I talk about colleagues behind their back regularly, but always to praise them when they do something right. Makes life at work a lot nicer for them, for me and the manager. Have almost never had any problems with anyone. The only exception is a colleague who picked fights with everyone and nobody takes seriously. |
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| No, male bosses are better imo. Less potential drama with the peoples under his order. |
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| Men because they're easier to sleep with for raises. |
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| I prefer having a capable boss, sex has nothing to do with it. I had women and men as bosses, basically no significant difference |
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| I prefer to be a boss. I have boss-o-phobia. |
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BornlovedBoy said: Well if I was a prostitute I'd have to do it every time I wanted money, If you're sleeping with your boss then you only need to sleep with one client and since they already pay you, you don't have to do it every time.Hathyle said: Wow this women sure brings alot to the table. Men because they're easier to sleep with for raises. At that point why not just be a prostitude? I don't sleep with my boss either, the first comment was a joke. |
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kuroava said: hmmmmm i dunno... i find easier to manipulate guys to do my bidding so... if i am ever to have a boss i think maybe a guy would be better? You are an enemy of man. On topic: I don't really lust so I don't care if it's a man or woman. |
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kuroava said: hmmmmm i dunno... i find easier to manipulate guys to do my bidding so... if i am ever to have a boss i think maybe a guy would be better? Well hello there Makima-sama, just call me denji Igreja said: You are an enemy of man.. Not my enemy.. She is like Jennifer Aniston from horrible bosses..or Makima San from chainsaw man. Catalano said: I prefer having a capable boss, sex has nothing to do with it. I had women and men as bosses, basically no significant difference Bruh just give it up and join the neet lifestyle.. Hathyle said: Men because they're easier to sleep with for raises. For a woman This is the truth and nothing but the truth.. From my experience of watching Hollywood movies and TV shows |
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