| If you lack looks in a relationship, you will likely be used for your money while you raise someone elses kids. It is also bad donating to content creators while getting nothing in exchange. If you spend money on anything, it better yield some sort of service or tangible product. |
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| As long as it is preferred and not causing serious problems there really is nothing wrong. Of course I don't think someone should throw money the way of someone if they don't particularly need it and arent giving it away to charity but if it's a small amount it's not a really big deal and is just an attempt at standing out in a crowd which is only natural for people to do especially if they are deprived of attention elsewhere. The term is also really meaningless too. It's basically become to mean anyone who gives any girl any amount of attention or kindness. It's just bullshit some MGTOW incel made up. |
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| If it isn't affecting your financials, who cares. |
| Nothing wrong with one sided love. People are used to capitalism so they think everything is about 'giving and receiving'. Dedication and altruism are bad words for some people istg. |
And if you look at your reflection Is it all you want it to be? |
deg said: jvniper said: Literally. For the west, we're such an individualistic society that we don't even know how to function in social settings. That's why the first few replies to this thread sound like they were written by incels. i wonder if they are also the type of person to abandon their kids if they become disabled for example lol since here in asia thats unusual to happen They only say things like that because they think that is the chad thing to say. They don't think about details like that. |
And if you look at your reflection Is it all you want it to be? |
| Being a simp usually has the negative connotations of having unrealistic expectations of eventual reciprocation, and negatively influencing third parties with unproductive behavior. I don't care if you send hundreds of dollars to some scammer in the Philippines, just don't expect sympathy when you're broke and hungry. I don't care if you privately lick the boots of some woman, just don't awkwardly inconvenience me by white knighting in public. There's nothing wrong with one-sided love infatuation if you have realistic expectations and don't bother anyone else. It doesn't bother me either if you snort cocaine socially or lose all your money occasionally on slot machines. It doesn't bother me that you buy used panties to sniff, or subscribe to paid OnlyFan accounts. It doesn't bother me if you buy a boat just to sink it. Just don't be a nuisance. |
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RedCesar said: SabineTB said: Nothing wrong with one sided love. People are used to capitalism so they think everything is about 'giving and receiving'. Dedication and altruism are bad words for some people istg. Not everything is about giving and receiving equal amounts. Love is. If not its servitude, idolatry or emotional slavery. That is insane. Relationships aren't like a game. Do you write down the score of how much love you gave and how much love you received? |
And if you look at your reflection Is it all you want it to be? |
| Yes , it is very pathetic. Going out of your way to help someone so much who wouldn't do the same for you , all in the hopes that you would eventually catch their eye , is very stupid. You cannot force/buy attraction , you either have it or you don't. "Donating" to content creators and believing you have some sort of connection is among the worst , peak idiocy. The person who you simp for will never be able to respect you. |
| Depends on the relationship. If you're simping/falling for an egirl, then yes it is bad. It's pathetic and no one (not even you) are gaining anything from that relationship. You are deluding and hurting yourself by giving money and time to a girl that doesn't even know you exist. No matter what she says, she does it for the money and validation, not for her viewers. If it's a one-sided relationship with someone in your personal life, then no, I wouldn't say it's bad. If she's not currently interested in you, reflect on yourself and try to better areas you're lacking in and try again. If she's still still not interested, then move on man. You deserve better than clinging onto something that won't happen. This kinda turned into word vomit lol. Idk what's going on in your life, but I wish you luck |
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| It's about as bad as you want to make it. |
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| I mean if that's how you want to live your life...then go ahead, whatever makes you happy I guess lol. |
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| You can't be a total pushover in a relationship. You have to realize what you want out of the relationship and do your best to make it happen. Love, attention, care, companionship, money, car, homework, the reputation of dating someone, experience in a relationship, sex, connections to their social circle, etc . . . So long as both parties are getting what they want, no matter how trivial or superficial, then it is working out. And those desires can change. Be aware and make adjustments. When the relationship is one-sided, it's over. |
deg said: AmityBlight said: what the fuck is one side love? It's love or it's not. look up codependency its a real phenomenon, still a lot of people considers social science as pseudoscience especially with regards to getting morality from science Codependency is a bullshit pop psychology term that originally was from a Christian cult known as Alcoholics Anonymous and had to do with enabling behaviours of alcoholics but even that was a stupid take as it saw former alcoholics as forever alcoholics and they called them "dry alcoholics". Unrequited love can be seen as noble perhaps even a form unconditional love can take Check these out instead. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unrequited_love https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangular_theory_of_love https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Color_wheel_theory_of_love |
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| Yes, you shouldn't punch people in front of a camera for making jokes about your wife. |
deg said: 149597871 said: Yes, you shouldn't punch people in front of a camera for making jokes about your wife. are married people like Will Smith can be a simp too interesting Most men who fit the definition of the word "simp" are either married or in a relationship, so yes. |
| Wasting time, money, energy for affection for another human being who can't even mutually give those factors back and accept you who you are is pathetic, that's why one sided love/simping are very bad. |
| Well, everyone's experienced having unrequited feelings so that's certainly not a bad thing in and of itself (as long as you respect the other person's boundaries, of course). With that said, putting someone you barely know on a pedestal and forming a parasocial connection with them is pretty unhealthy as far as I'm concerned. |
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LoveLikeBlood said: Well, everyone's experienced having unrequited feelings so that's certainly not a bad thing in and of itself (as long as you respect the other person's boundaries, of course). With that said, putting someone you barely know on a pedestal and forming a parasocial connection with them is pretty unhealthy as far as I'm concerned. This. Instead of asking "is it bad ?" you could try asking yourself "do I really desire to live this kind of situation, and does this person want it as well ?" If you simping for someone makes both of you guys enjoying a good time, go with it, sure. But I do believe you may be missing out for other great experiences you could have for free ;) Also... Love isn't blind, it just judges with other eyes than cold reason ;p |
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| I can't believe more than 50% say it's bad. On an anime forum. Let's not act like we aren't all feeling unrequited love for a work of fiction! |
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| Don't try to conflate unrequited love with being a simp. One is something that mostly everyone experiences, while the other is a culture of emotionally stunted men. |
 This ground is soiled by those before me and their lies. I dare not look up for on me I feel their eyes |
| I'm not going to waste my time and effort on one-sided relationships. ...well, unless I'm the one that's gaining more than giving. |
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| Yea i've been there it really sucks. |
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