| Let's say a gorgeous girl like this one is there any situation where she can and will be willing to date an average-looking guy like this one ? even if he is nice and all, how can he be sure he will be more than friends ? discuss. |
| You never know how love gets you. It's possible |
| Usually good looking people also seek others of their kind, but sometimes it does happen that they chose someone who looks inferior to them, its just not very common |
| Beautiful people are only meant to be with beautiful people. Someone who is considered ugly will never be allowed to be with someone who is beautiful. It is the way of the world. |
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| the guy you posted isnt exactly average looking no offense, but i've seen it happen before where a less than average looking guy got a really cute girl |
| Yea, people typically fall in love based on personality, but attraction is important. One very important thing is you don't look at someone and say they have a nice personality, you can only judge by appearance. So it is possible cause everyone has different taste. |
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| I don't know. It's not possible for me to implies my male perspective in female's place. |
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| Of course it's possible. Everyone has different tastes, and some people either don't care about looks or find certain less conventionally attractive features attractive. I mean I've personally dated people that others considered "below my league" and turned down more conventionally attractive people. I've also seen friends I didn't consider attractive at all date very hot people. You can't be "sure" though. You can never be "sure." Even hot people can't bank on their feelings being reciprocated all the time. The best thing you can do is be yourself confidently and appreciate other people for things beyond THEIR physical appearance. Find someone you have good personality chemistry with and don't treat their appearance as a trophy. It's not really fair to go after someone because they're hot, then expect them to overlook your appearance in return. People can usually tell that's what you're doing. Also, dressing nicely never hurts. Not like "dress up" fancy, but just nicely. People have little or no control over their physical attributes, but more control over their clothes. Using clothes to communicate your personality somewhat will help attract people who are into that personality. |
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| Weird things can happen, but don't count on it. Nothing is on your side. |
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| if he doesn't got big money, he needs big schlong to makeup for it. |
| Yeah. It is. Granted there are some factors that may contribute it going either way, |
| yeah if you hypnotize her and then fuck her brains out ^___^ |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| You are not comparing apples with apples. The girl is average as well, but average in her own part of the world. The guy also is average, but same deal, in his own part of the world. When you mix the worlds, the average person from the outer, is going to be at a disadvantage, hence the poor average looking black guy in the pictures. Why don't you try the same experiment with 2 average European men, and an average West African or South Indian woman? |
| idk about you but the closer a girl gets to looking like ronald mcdonald, the more aroused i become. CAV where can we cast our eyes to @PoruMairu who thinks of himself a member of the true church. Helion. |
| What is an avarage guy if he doesn't have money? |
| Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious. |
| 'Kay alright, there are still many people who don't care about apparence, believe it or not. |
| Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious. |
| If you look up "SSSniperwolf and Sausage," you'll probably get the answer to ur question |
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shotz_ said: no you'll never touch a girl because you're ugly and gay. My man, you're an inspiration. Tried to kill myself but stopped when I read your comment. OP, I have a feeling that the guy you took a picture of is you, isn't it? Well, I wish you the best of luck with that chick. She's a solid 9 out of 10 in my book. By the way, if you haven't done so already, try, you know, talking to her, spending time with her to see how she feels about you. Very underrated piece of advice but trust me it works. |
| Theoretically and Mathematically speaking, yes, it is possible. |
"I'd take rampant lesbianism over nuclear armageddon or a supervolcano any day." ~nikiforova |
| confidence is key, so yes though i think personality has a good deal to do with it as well, i think those two things outway looks by a good margin. |
| There are no "leagues" once you get out of that high school mentality. Just talk to whoever you want to talk to. Also, money always matters. You can't meet anyone or live an interesting life if you're holed in your mother's basement all day cause you don't have any money to go out. |
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| It'll definitely be somewhat difficult but it's not impossible. Having a cool personality can actually take you a long way, no matter how small you think the chances are. |
Sherlupin said: social skills are the most decisive factor, alwaysLet's say a gorgeous girl like this one is there any situation where she can and will be willing to date an average-looking guy like this one ? even if he is nice and all, how can he be sure he will be more than friends ? discuss. i've met plenty of guys going way above their "league" because they simply aren't beta twats afraid of women, but outgoing, assertive and opportunist types of people don't be afraid, mate |
| People usually judge other people based from their faces because let's face it, that's the first thing we see, right? Beautiful women/men pick partners who they consider to be in their league sometimes but the possibility of an average looking guy dating a gorgeous girl is still there. Imo, as long as their personalities click together, then it's good. Love is a mysterious thing. |
 nice and thats not an average looking guy where Im from |
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| Usually this stuff you find in movies,anime or etc. |
| You're going to need a sense of humor and confidence, and it'll depend on the girl as well. If she just wants a dude that makes her feel good emotionally, and makes her laugh. And not a super attractive guy. But sure, it happens. |
| Yes, its possible. No matter how you looked. Females seek for males personality, your appearance may come after but its not really matter once they loved you. |
Kurniawan_KtrNov 12, 2016 1:57 AM
"People who don't see that anime has changed are either wearing "glasses" or watching only a certain type (and or era) of anime" "Having a low mean score doesn't necessarily mean one doesn't enjoy anime. Rating system is not a school grading system." "Elitist is people who think he is superior than others. Not necessarily ones who insulting/critisizing your favorite anime or people who enjoy a certain type of anime" "Fanboy is people who translating "your favorite anime is shit" into "you are shit". "Being a fanboy is an indication of elitism" |
| Love doesn't have an algorithm that would determine who falls in love with whom. |
| Ya it always happens w me tbh i date someone who ppl wouldnt think i would but honestly, beauty is in the eye of the beeholder 🐝💘 |
bmoore07 said: OP, I have a feeling that the guy you took a picture of is you, isn't it? maybe, maybe not mystery thrity hcaracters |
| Chances are really low, higher chance to be friendzoned. Also why would you exclude the biggest factor in determining if a woman would be interested in the person?...... If you don't have money or status then you won't get the pussy, its the way of the world. |
| Is that image you posted of yourself? |
| sure it is, it's love anything can happen >_< easier said than done tho |
| I mean you probably have to take steps towards achieving it. Like wearing nice clothes or not being creepy. I tend to excel at those though. So chloroform is the natural solution. |
| I've been here way too long... |
| Yes, its called mind break. Do require some efforts. Probably the only way you are gonna get chick. |
Kaiser-chanNov 12, 2016 9:01 AM
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| I highly doubt if this can actually happen :/ |
| I like to think I am pretty average and that my girlfriend is above my league. But well maybe I am just wrong and I am horribly hot sexy guy. |
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| You shouldn't post your pictures so surreptitiously, you know. First step is to be comfortable with who you are. You are in the picture OP, admit it outright. That's the first step. |
| I wouldn't call the girl gorgeous, but I get what you mean. Appearance is really just half the battle. I mean, as long as you are at least mildly attractive and are able to start conversations, anything is possible. |
| Yes, because there are a ton of other factors determine attraction beyond looks and wealth. |
| People who put MAL stats in their sigs are losers lol |
Joopster said: I like to think I am pretty average and that my girlfriend is above my league. But well maybe I am just wrong and I am horribly hot sexy guy. Post some pics so we can tell you fam :^ |
Daddy said: Just grab em by the pussy. That's how we deal with women now.You're going to need a sense of humor and confidence, and it'll depend on the girl as well. If she just wants a dude that makes her feel good emotionally, and makes her laugh. And not a super attractive guy. But sure, it happens. |
| even if he had extremely charming personality it wouldnt last long, life's not a fairy tale. people (not only girls) who looks beautiful doesnt do it without effort and because they give an effort they value beauty and (un)consciously avoids ugliness. |
| Yeah if you psychologically manipulate the hell out of her and convince her you're as good as shes gonna get. Like some Stockholm syndrome type shit. Or you might just be one of those guys =/ Also you do realize there are things that a guy can do to improve his appearance? Get a nice haircut, trim your beard, start working out, get more fashionable clothes etc. |
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