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Feb 19, 2016 10:53 AM
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I've watched some shows like Kaze no Stigma, Sankarea and Tokyo Ravens where the female mc loves her male mc cousin. I'm just wondering if cousin marriage is widely accepted in Japan because in my country,you can't marry your 1st to 3rd cousin. Also, I find it weird for some people to fall in love with their cousins because basically cousins are like your siblings. What are your thoughts?
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Feb 19, 2016 10:55 AM
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in my country this relation is normal
Feb 19, 2016 10:56 AM
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Please stop mixing anime with reality.
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in my country this relation is normal
Texas is not a country.

Feb 19, 2016 10:58 AM
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It is hawt if they are interesting as characters.
Feb 19, 2016 10:58 AM
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Marriage between cousins is actually not as rare as people would think, though i wouldn't know if it counts as incest or not.
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Feb 19, 2016 10:59 AM
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It's pretty normal thought, in fact most parent try to pair their children with their(the child) cousin, at least that's how things are in my country.
Feb 19, 2016 11:00 AM
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In anime you will find your share of that. It's a fantasy world so it doesn't seem to bother most people. I have seen it so much I am kinda blind to it anymore. It's just another chance to introduce more romance into a show or drama.
Feb 19, 2016 11:00 AM
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here in germany it's allowed and not that unusual, at least back in the days


Feb 19, 2016 11:01 AM
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ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.
tragedydesu said:
in my country this relation is normal
Texas is not a country.

im not from texas
+ i cant understand why is considered weird in some countries
my parents are cousins and they dont look like siblings or anything
Feb 19, 2016 11:04 AM
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ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.


unfortunately



WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY TOO MANY fans of "fiction" just can't avoid this

"thats not realistic" um

..... duh its not... its fiction



"liking lolis means you must be a pedophile"

real people dont fucking look like anime characters



"watching/playing violent content means you're potentially dangerous"

i did/do that, and ive never fought anyone ever




its all just bullshit
Feb 19, 2016 11:04 AM

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tragedydesu said:
ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.
Texas is not a country.
im not from texas
+ i cant understand why is considered weird in some countries
my parents are cousins and they dont look like siblings or anything
What cousin number are they? First?

Feb 19, 2016 11:08 AM

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ExTamplier said:
tragedydesu said:
im not from texas
+ i cant understand why is considered weird in some countries
my parents are cousins and they dont look like siblings or anything
What cousin number are they? First?

2nd cousins (i just asked them !! =D )
Feb 19, 2016 11:09 AM

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tragedydesu said:
ExTamplier said:
What cousin number are they? First?
2nd cousins (i just asked them !! =D )
That's not as gross, but still gross. Tell them that some guy on the internet does not approve.

Feb 19, 2016 11:10 AM
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It's not unusual where I used to live. As far as anime goes I don't mind since it's just a show.
Feb 19, 2016 11:12 AM

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RedTie said:
It's not unusual where I used to live. As far as anime goes I don't mind since it's just a show.
The fact that you dropped Koi Kaze says that this is a lie.

Feb 19, 2016 11:13 AM

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ExTamplier said:
tragedydesu said:
2nd cousins (i just asked them !! =D )
That's not as gross, but still gross. Tell them that some guy on the internet does not approve.


This made me chuckle more than it should have.

OT : It's just another trope commonly employed in anime. I doubt it is nearly as widespread it as seems to be in anime. Some countries are more accepting of it in general though.
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Feb 19, 2016 11:14 AM
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ExTamplier said:
RedTie said:
It's not unusual where I used to live. As far as anime goes I don't mind since it's just a show.
The fact that you dropped Koi Kaze says that this is a lie.


No. I just got bored and the art is rather dated. As far as the relationship goes I was fine with it.
Feb 19, 2016 11:15 AM

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Cousins relationship is pretty normal.

But most educated parents ( like my own ) prefers and tries to marry off their children to someone totally unrelated (by blood ) to create new relations and bond.
That's how things work in my country.
Feb 19, 2016 11:15 AM

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RedTie said:
ExTamplier said:
The fact that you dropped Koi Kaze says that this is a lie.


No. I just got bored and the art is rather dated. As far as the relationship goes I was fine with it.
Well, at least check out last few episodes.

Feb 19, 2016 11:16 AM
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In my country it's not so usual, but it's legal. I don't think it's strange or immoral, cousins aren't such a close relatives. I would say cousins are more like childhood friends than siblings, but I guess it depends on how much time they spend together and how close they are.
Feb 19, 2016 11:18 AM
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Well, seeing as how first cousin marriage is legal in almost all of the world except for china, japan, about half the states in america, taiwan and korea, it seems it's not that frowned upon (it still depends from person to person though).

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Feb 19, 2016 11:31 AM

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ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.[quote=tragedydesu message=44808493


I think you are mistaken. This question would not be a case of mixing anime with reality. It would be a case of anime inspiring discussion.

As far as the question goes, On a personal level I think it's gross, because all my cousins are gross. There's only one I get along with and the idea of doing anything with him churns my stomach. However, on an impersonal level, I find that it's whatever. So long as you are both legal and consenting, do what you want with your cousin. I'm not going to judge you.
Feb 19, 2016 11:33 AM

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Damonashu said:
ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.
I think you are mistaken. This question would not be a case of mixing anime with reality. It would be a case of anime inspiring discussion.
This is a discussion about real Japan based on anime tropes.

Feb 19, 2016 11:41 AM
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Ultimate215 said:
Well, seeing as how first cousin marriage is legal in almost all of the world except for china, japan, about half the states in america, taiwan and korea, it seems it's not that frowned upon (it still depends from person to person though).

proof


1st cousin parents have a 5% chance of having a kid with genetic disorders while parents that are unrelated have a 3% chance. 2% chance increase is pretty damn high in my opinion. In U.S. alone, they estimate that there are 250,000 married cousin couples so that's about 5,000 more children with disorders. Holy shit! No wonder we got so many retarded people in America!
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Feb 19, 2016 11:44 AM

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There was a thread about this before and it turns out these marriages are just as uncommon in Japan as anywhere else. Nothing wrong with love, as long as you're not making freaky incestuous babies with 3 eyeballs.
Feb 19, 2016 11:55 AM

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Mamster-P said:
ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.


unfortunately



WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY TOO MANY fans of "fiction" just can't avoid this

"thats not realistic" um

..... duh its not... its fiction



"liking lolis means you must be a pedophile"

real people dont fucking look like anime characters



"watching/playing violent content means you're potentially dangerous"

i did/do that, and ive never fought anyone ever




its all just bullshit


Dropping truth bombs right here...
Feb 19, 2016 12:11 PM
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Pretty sure it's legal in my country. Actually, not "pretty sure," I'm 100% sure first-cousins can marry here.

I, personally, don't have a problem with it. Love whoever you want, it's not a 2% or whatever increase in genetic disorders that's going to make it a real concern.

From what I can tell, the only country that really has an issue with this is the US. Or so it seems...
Feb 19, 2016 12:15 PM

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Hmm I'm not sure if it's legal in my country but I really don't have a problem with it. Although I don't know any people who have done that.
Feb 19, 2016 12:30 PM

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MALES,

If you had a female cousin, and she is very pretty, and she tells you that she likes you and cant stop thinking about you, and wants to be a couple.

What would you tell her?
Feb 19, 2016 12:36 PM

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ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.[.


Um.

Cousin and step-sibling marriage is totally legal in Japan. Just Google it.



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MALES,

If you had a female cousin, and she is very pretty, and she tells you that she likes you and cant stop thinking about you, and wants to be a couple.

What would you tell her?

If I was interested in her on a level deeper than just superficial? I would give it a shot. Unless her "think about you all the time" was of the creepy kind. :P

But her just being pretty wouldn't be enough, cousin or not.
Feb 19, 2016 12:41 PM

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Chiibi said:
ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.
Um.

Cousin and step-sibling marriage is totally legal in Japan. Just Google it.
Yes, every 2nd family consists of incest relationships. Got it.

Feb 19, 2016 12:51 PM

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ExTamplier said:
Chiibi said:
Um.

Cousin and step-sibling marriage is totally legal in Japan. Just Google it.
Yes, every 2nd family consists of incest relationships. Got it.


That is not what I said. =______=

Read
http://bccvisalaw.com/marriage/marriage_in_japan.php



Feb 19, 2016 12:53 PM

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Can't say I care about it. Never saw anything wrong with it in the first place. Anyway, it doesn't really matter for Japan, as it still doesn't help them with their birth rate.
Feb 19, 2016 12:55 PM

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Chiibi said:
ExTamplier said:
Yes, every 2nd family consists of incest relationships. Got it.
That is not what I said. =______=
Read
http://bccvisalaw.com/marriage/marriage_in_japan.php
What you said has nothing to with:
Legal vs. Anime level common

Feb 19, 2016 1:05 PM

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ExTamplier said:
Chiibi said:
That is not what I said. =______=
Read
http://bccvisalaw.com/marriage/marriage_in_japan.php
What you said has nothing to with:
Legal vs. Anime level common


I didn't think this was about "anime level common". I thought this was about whether or not it can happen in real Japan or not. Evidently it does.

.....and if you think such tropes are only limited to or were introduced by anime, you are very mistaken.



Feb 19, 2016 4:57 PM

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tragedydesu said:
ExTamplier said:
What cousin number are they? First?

2nd cousins (i just asked them !! =D )


No one cares about second cousin or more. Its all about the first cousin. That's what the world cares about.
Feb 19, 2016 5:05 PM

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This kind of relationship is accepted in some places. Japan included.

Mamster-P said:
"liking lolis means you must be a pedophile"

real people dont fucking look like anime characters

Of course anime characters look human. That's why people fap to them in the first place.

We can save that discussion for another time, tho.
Feb 19, 2016 5:19 PM

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I think it's legal in my country, my old classmate's parents were first cusins so...
To a personal level, I have no problem whatsoever with incest, be it between cusins, relatives or even actual siblings. Since I don't care at all about morals, the only thing that I find logical against marriage between relatives is the high risk of malformation and/or disease so I wouldn't really allow siblings to have childs; but if they adobt them I don't see where's the problem (yeah i'm prepared to be flamed to death)
Feb 19, 2016 5:33 PM
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AltoRoark99 said:
This kind of relationship is accepted in some places. Japan included.

Mamster-P said:
"liking lolis means you must be a pedophile"

real people dont fucking look like anime characters

Of course anime characters look human. That's why people fap to them in the first place.

We can save that discussion for another time, tho.


no they don't lol

minus maybe the odd deformation/mutation.... no real persons:

eyes are near that big and bright

no ones head is that big

no ones nose looks like it has no nostrals or is that small looking, and most anime characters dont have visible lips

just dont even get an anatomist started on body proportions in anime


yes we fap to them cause they have exaggerated features that we already find most attractive irl

even lolis bodies tend to be more similar to human adults than actual children


but for some people, all it takes is anthropomorphism to be fappable, hence all the various types of porn you find of animals, monsters, et, they don't have to "look like people" for everyone
Feb 19, 2016 5:34 PM

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ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.
tragedydesu said:
in my country this relation is normal
Texas is not a country.


Then why do we have a flag?


We're totally a country.
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Feb 19, 2016 6:16 PM

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Idk if it's legal where I live (Canada), but my family is originally from Lebanon and it's legal there (and in most Arab countries, I think? Not sure about elsewhere, though). It's not really that weird if you've grown up accustomed to the idea.

My aunt married her cousin and a few of their kids had some birth defects (one has 7 fingers and 7 toes, another has 10 fingers and 7 toes). Their 3 other kids are totally fine though. Also my uncle married his cousin and all 4 of their kids are fine.
Feb 19, 2016 6:18 PM

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ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.
Texas is not a country.


Then why do we have a flag?
[imghttps://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/f/f7/Flag_of_Texas.svg/2000px-Flag_of_Texas.svg.png[/img]

We're totally a country.
As well as other 49 countries in the u.s.

Feb 19, 2016 6:23 PM

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in my country this relation is normal
Feb 19, 2016 6:24 PM

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Could you guys mention your country name when posting in my country ?

Feb 19, 2016 7:15 PM

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ExTamplier said:
MortalMelancholy said:


Then why do we have a flag?
[imghttps://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/f/f7/Flag_of_Texas.svg/2000px-Flag_of_Texas.svg.png[/img]

We're totally a country.
As well as other 49 countries in the u.s.


But we're better because we have a flag and they don't.
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Feb 19, 2016 7:21 PM

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MortalMelancholy said:
ExTamplier said:
As well as other 49 countries in the u.s.


But we're better because we have a flag and they don't.
I am not sure if you are just messing around or legit uneducated.

Feb 19, 2016 7:23 PM

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I dont really hear this often to be honest,
but if it's anime related i prefer if they were brother and sister because
cousins isn't as "interesting" to me.
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tragedydesu said:
ExTamplier said:
Please stop mixing anime with reality.
Texas is not a country.

im not from texas
+ i cant understand why is considered weird in some countries
my parents are cousins and they dont look like siblings or anything

It's actually pretty normal in my country too, plus myparents are cousins as well. Lol
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ExTamplier said:
Could you guys mention your country name when posting in my country ?

Sure, I'm currently living in Nigeria, but my country is the Republic of Guinea, Western Africa
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