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Jan 23, 2016 6:44 AM

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ofcourse NO, man stronger than female so hitting back would be lame
Jan 23, 2016 7:00 AM

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katsucats said:
It's okay to respond to any situation with equal force.
This here. Anyone that is trying to defend the unequal situation of not hitting women back when they are clearly trying to attack you or using force in verbal arguments has an agenda.




Autocrat said:
Hitler was good, objectively.
Jan 23, 2016 7:19 AM
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I'd beat the crap out of her. To show respect, of course.
Jan 23, 2016 7:47 AM

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Not all men are stronger than women. -,- please srsly whoever said that...

Well if they're gonna kill you or something why not. It's you or her.

Also if it's not okay for a man to hit a woman, then it's not okay for a woman to hit a man whether or not she is weaker than him.
Jan 23, 2016 8:02 AM

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katsucats said:
It's okay to respond to any situation with equal force.

This. If you can hit someone, don't be surprised if you're hit back.
Jan 23, 2016 10:41 AM

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Sexymofo said:
Lux_Lucis said:
Is the guy in the vid wrong or right?



Classic video. I've seen more parts of the episode and she was being so brutal to them, it was kind of funny but yea, some men are like lions. If you keep poking them they will bite back and that's what happened to her.


Equal rights... equal responsibility... she deserved it
Jan 23, 2016 10:42 AM

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What's with ppls obsession with hitting women when it comes to talking about gender equality?
Jan 23, 2016 10:51 AM

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I hit the guys (close friends) sometimes when they annoy/piss me off (without force of course) and they never hit back. And I don't think it's ok for a man to hit women unless his life was threatened or something like that. Men have so many privileges already,
Jan 23, 2016 10:56 AM

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In general, yes. Obviously it mostly depends on the what the intent behind the hit is, but if you don't want to be touched or get hit, you have every right to react and get that person away from/off of you. You also shouldn't overreact, if it's just a slap, your immediate reaction shouldn't be to knock her out, especially if you are physically bigger, but you still have the right to protect/defend yourself.
Jan 23, 2016 11:00 AM

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Hmmm Yes.
I run by a set of different rules when it comes to if you do hit someone.

Thing is I don't hit people exceptionally weaker than me.
If she is strong enough to bruise a cheek then she is tough enough to take a punch back.
Fighting is such a weak response to anything but standing up to someone who can do physical harm to you is the right of any human. regardless of gender.

But also a quick slap in the face from someone is not worth a mortal beating, so there are exceptions, if a guy slapped me I would just laugh, if a girl slapped me I would also just laugh. After all if someone being a jerk or not thinking straight a slap usually is a good "snap out of your dickness" response... but even then I would say that there are probably better methods

But then again, I am Scottish, we live in an area with females as strong as the males. My family is a Matriarchy. xD
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Jan 23, 2016 12:18 PM

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semianonymous said:
Sexymofo said:


Classic video. I've seen more parts of the episode and she was being so brutal to them, it was kind of funny but yea, some men are like lions. If you keep poking them they will bite back and that's what happened to her.


Equal rights... equal responsibility... she deserved it


Yeah then the guy is swamped with white knights and got his ass beat.
Jan 23, 2016 12:21 PM

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If somebody really is in danger of getting hurt badly, they have all the right to defend themselves appropriately. Gender doesn't matter at all.
Jan 23, 2016 12:23 PM

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Why not? Women always wanted to be more equal, there you go ladies.
Jan 23, 2016 12:23 PM

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If a Person hits another Person, there is nothing at all wrong with self defence.
Gender plays 0 part in it, as far as I'm concerned. I've never understood the whole "You shouldn't hit women! Hititng women is wrong! frame of mind, because it implies hitting men is perfectly okay.

If you don't think hitting men is okay, then you should state as such. "Hitting people isn't okay."
It's an entirely different kind of flying, altogether!
It's an entirely different kind of flying.
Jan 23, 2016 12:40 PM

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No mercy.



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Jan 23, 2016 1:58 PM

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Mayuka said:


If it was a simple hit or slap out of the heat of an argument and nothing was injured, you need to calm the fuck down


LMFAO "calm the fuck down, it's only physical assault."

Yet another example of people trivializing violence against men. Yum!
Jan 23, 2016 1:59 PM
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Azumaoru said:
>Yes
"What the fuck is wrong with you, hitting a girl?!?!? Have some fucking respect!"

>No
"Oh, what? You think just because I'm a girl I can't take one of your wimpy ass hits?!?!? You think all men are stronger than women or something?!?!? Have some fucking respect!"

You can't win with feminists.


Yessir. Best not to fall for the bait lol
Jan 23, 2016 2:14 PM

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If she hits like a bitch, take the hit and if she tries to hit you again, then restrain her. It's self-defense and there's nothing wrong with that.

If you take a girl's hit like a bitch...well...I'm sorry...

Jan 23, 2016 2:16 PM

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Personally I will never hit a girl unless she hits me so much/hard I bleed... then she's getting her bitch ass put in place.
Jan 23, 2016 2:22 PM

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kattee said:
ofcourse NO, man stronger than female so hitting back would be lame

That's like a little kid trying to pick a fight with a big kid, and then the big kid beats him up. It's the female's fault for engaging in physical violence, not the man's. Hiding yourself under this invisible wall of weakness in situations that benefit you is a shitty thing to do.
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Jan 23, 2016 2:22 PM
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I don't think anyone should be hitting anyone.

But yeah, fuck that bitch if she wants to act all smart and shit. Most of the time the girls that are hit tend to be nappy-headed hoes.
Jan 23, 2016 2:26 PM

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All these no's?

well send them back to the kitchen then they don't deserve equality in your eyes.
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Jan 23, 2016 3:12 PM

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Yes, if the girl is actually hurting and harassing a guy he has the right to hit her back. If you want equality there should be equality on everything.
Jan 23, 2016 3:13 PM

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NudeBear said:
Mayuka said:


If it was a simple hit or slap out of the heat of an argument and nothing was injured, you need to calm the fuck down


LMFAO "calm the fuck down, it's only physical assault."

Yet another example of people trivializing violence against men. Yum!
no "calm the fuck down" as in "don't hit them back"

i would say the same if a guy hit a girl. if it's not life threatening, you should be calm and not resort to violence.

Clebardman said:
"simple hit or slap"

because violence can be casual. Too much anime tropes :/.

i've dealt with enough bullies in my life, I'm tired of it, now I go rampage on anyone who hits me.
a slap on the cheek is not life threatening
Jan 23, 2016 3:16 PM
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If someone were to hit me I wouldn't hit back either way. Unless it's a dire situation.
Jan 23, 2016 3:17 PM

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So better condone it then, @Mayuka?

What a great idea. I believe I have every right to slap that person, whatever sex they are for answering in an argument with violence.

I thought you were a feminist, Mayuka, is that false?




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Hitler was good, objectively.
Jan 23, 2016 3:18 PM

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Immahnoob said:
So better condone it then, @Mayuka?

What a great idea. I believe I have every right to slap that person, whatever sex they are for answering in an argument with violence.

I thought you were a feminist, Mayuka, is that false?
I don't believe in violence in the first place. The person starting the fight is wrong but the person who tries to continue it, as in fight back, is also in the wrong.

The only situation that would be justifiable is when you need to fight back or they'll end up killing you.
Jan 23, 2016 3:19 PM

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Is this some sort of trick question?
Jan 23, 2016 5:54 PM
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Regardless of sex, everyone has a right to defend themselves.
Jan 23, 2016 6:00 PM

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Yeah, I never got the whole idea. Saw an experiment where girls abusing guys in public was almost never assisted. Though when the girl got hit back or was being attacked first, guys would jump in almost immediately.

If a girl punches a man square in the face, I don't think I'd be angry with the man hitting her back. As long as the severity of retaliation isn't taken overboard.

Though I don't believe in violence myself, try not to hurt anyone if I can avoid it.
Jan 23, 2016 6:04 PM

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Yes, its defending yourself. There is no reason it shouldn't be allowed.
Jan 23, 2016 6:05 PM

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She only hits me once, if she hits me again after I had warned her, she will regret it
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Jan 23, 2016 6:07 PM
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If someone hits me, obviously I'm hitting back.
Not because I'm someone who always needs to hit back.
Not because I'm always out for revenge.
Not because they deserve it.
But to teach them their place.
Be it a man, woman or even a child.
Jan 23, 2016 6:16 PM

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Mayuka said:
Immahnoob said:
So better condone it then, @Mayuka?

What a great idea. I believe I have every right to slap that person, whatever sex they are for answering in an argument with violence.

I thought you were a feminist, Mayuka, is that false?
I don't believe in violence in the first place. The person starting the fight is wrong but the person who tries to continue it, as in fight back, is also in the wrong.

The only situation that would be justifiable is when you need to fight back or they'll end up killing you.
Again, you'll just condone it?

I mean, it wouldn't bother them if the slap is of the same magnitude, right? Maybe you're right, I shouldn't be bothered.

So if I'm not bothered, that means they shouldn't be bothered either, that also means I have every right to slap them, since I've condoned it in the first place, they should condone it too.




Autocrat said:
Hitler was good, objectively.
Jan 23, 2016 6:19 PM

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Personally, I have the choice to hit back but I won't.
Jan 23, 2016 6:26 PM

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I would probably hit back..... that is... when I fail to block, because that would mean I was "sneak attacked"... I really don't like sneak attacks, so...
Jan 23, 2016 7:00 PM

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If it's only a slap on the face just as a warning, then no.

If it's a full on assault, the yes, self-defense is entirely necessary.
Jan 23, 2016 7:07 PM
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Yes, My fists will be swinging at 88 MPH sending her Back to the Kitchen.
Jan 23, 2016 7:10 PM

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so is it ok for me to kick a horse if it kicks me???
Jan 23, 2016 7:17 PM

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Azumaoru said:
>Yes
"What the fuck is wrong with you, hitting a girl?!?!? Have some fucking respect!"

>No
"Oh, what? You think just because I'm a girl I can't take one of your wimpy ass hits?!?!? You think all men are stronger than women or something?!?!? Have some fucking respect!"

You can't win with feminists.

Society nowadays... ^^

Tbh, I think it's okay if a guy hits a girl. Like so what if you're a girl? That guy is a guy. You're both human, lmao. If guys aren't allowed to hit girls, then girls shouldn't hit guys. I think that's the fairest way even though it's said that guys are stronger than girls.
Jan 23, 2016 8:56 PM

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I don't think the problem lies in actual legal repercussions as much as in societal repercussions.

When you get into a fight some guy at a bar, you're not really thinking about jail time or how to conciliate the aftermath of the fight. Mostly because those are not immediate repercussions.

Men are spoon fed and bred into this notion that hurting women is a bad thing from they're very young. I remember parents, teachers etc. telling me that whatever I do, I should never hit a woman already in elementary school. This notion is the exact reason why a lot of men find it extremely bothersome to deal with women in physical confrontation, because it will undoubtedly instigate some immediate repercussions from other males that are present. Which is something women are very aware of, which is why a lot of them think they can do whatever they want in these situations and also the reason why they overdramatise and escalate the situation if no one comes to their rescue in order to garner sympathy and attention.

I got into a fight with another guy a few years ago while I was out drinking. I don't remember anyone trying to stop us, rather they'd gather around with cellphones or they'd be cheering us on etc. As I had pinned the other guy to the ground and was hitting him, his girlfriend (or female friend) came up behind me and started hitting me in the back of the head and pulling my hair to get me off him. I simply did a hand motion behind me to push her off, because she was annoying me and I swear every man in a 2 km proximity threw their jackets to the ground and came running.

Should it be acceptable to hit a woman if she hits you? I think that's already acceptable, but you need some real balls to do it.
Jan 23, 2016 9:02 PM

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Yes

That show wouldn't fly anywhere, it was asking for a lawsuit.


Jan 23, 2016 9:09 PM
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I think a man should walk away if something like this happens. If she continues to hit a man, he has the right to defend himself and stop her. I find hitting in general to be wrong, if it's man or a woman.
Jan 24, 2016 9:17 PM

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Sure. But do so at your own peril. It's likely you'd get thrown in jail/beaten up by onlookers
Jan 24, 2016 9:19 PM

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Definitely depends on the circumstances and how hard the hit was. I most likely wouldn't though as I'm afraid I'd be sued for sexual assault or something.
Jan 24, 2016 9:27 PM

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If anyone is trying to fight you, you should fight back. Just, men shouldn't beat women just because they want to and same with women beating men. It's common sense. Self defense =/= abusing

I just don't understand people suddenly jumping up eager to ask about beating women with these equality talks
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Jan 25, 2016 2:08 AM

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Personally I would never hit a women unless my life or the life of someone else was in danger. In that case I would knock them out and I mean 1 punch not a beating. But any other time I can easily take a punch or two and walk away.
Jan 25, 2016 2:18 AM

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I don't think it'd ever be okay for anyone to hit someone else with the intention to harm. I dunno, really depends on the situation though, but still, a man shouldn't beat a woman and vice versa.
Jan 25, 2016 2:40 AM

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Olveparty said:
Should it be acceptable to hit a woman if she hits you? I think that's already acceptable, but you need some real balls to do it.
I don't understand your conclusion.

So a man "needs balls" to hit a woman back, but that's only the case because there are severe repercussions for him doing so. That, of course, is specifically because it isn't acceptable for him to do so.

Unless you were just talking about your own opinion when you said it's "already acceptable".
Jan 25, 2016 2:46 AM

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If a girl tries to hit me, I am more or less not going to retaliate, at least not in a vicious manner. I can take a hit or I'll defend myself firmly but not with actual force. However, if some crazy bitch is coming straight for me with a knife or armed with a gun, fuck it, I'll kill her if I have to. I'd rather be alive than be dead because I'm "supposed" to be a gentleman.
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