| There's quite a few porn topics today and I have had this question on my mind for a while. Why is that when a person says they don't want their partner to watch porn not okay? Why does that automatically make that person insecure? It seems that people have it in their minds that everyone watches porn and those who don't and are not okay with it are some kind of up-tight, closed minded person who needs to realize as humans "everyone does it." I think it's bull. Not everyone does it and the people who do it they either do it for the rest of their lives, some may do it well within their twenties and others may just stop completely after being in a relationship. Honestly it's all opinions to me but I don't get why people are often bashed for saying a partner watching porn is a deal breaker or is something they don't like. The people who bash come off as being closed minded and immature. They want to look cool by saying "just watch porn with them." I think it's pathetic. |
shotz_ said: because people literally need to get off. it's a basic human need. obviously your partner won't always be sexually available when you have the urge. that's where porn comes in. ^ You're more than welcome to exclude potential partners on the basis of ehether or not they watch porn, you just have to accept that it's going exclude the majority of people. |
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| becuz more people are okay with porn than people who aren't if someone was opposed of their partner doing it, then they're hypocritical unless they quit porn as well |
shotz_ said: because people literally need to get off. it's a basic human need. obviously your partner won't always be sexually available when you have the urge. that's where porn comes in. ^ What he said. |
| What's wrong with it anyway? It's not like they are cheating. They're just watching videos. |
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| Because that kind of control is unhealthy for a relationship. |
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AltoRoark99 said: shotz_ said: because people literally need to get off. it's a basic human need. obviously your partner won't always be sexually available when you have the urge. that's where porn comes in. ^ What he said. ^ What this guy agreed with what another guy said |
| This generation of people have grown up with porn. Watching a video, or looking at a picture of someone else is NOT the same as sleeping with someone else. Also, as many these days say: |
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Hoppy said: Because that kind of control is unhealthy for a relationship. Hit the target right there. Ether it i a control freak that has demands on whatever his/her partner can do or is getting jealous of porn actors. Both are stupid. |
| You shouldn't tell people what you don't want them to do |
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| If you can't accept that someone does something at all, it's going to cause problems. |
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Hoppy said: Because that kind of control is unhealthy for a relationship. It's not unhealthy. It depends on their ethics/morals. |
mayukachan said: Some morals are unhealthyHoppy said: Because that kind of control is unhealthy for a relationship. It's not unhealthy. It depends on their ethics/morals. |
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UnoPuntoCinco said: mayukachan said: Some morals are unhealthyIt's not unhealthy. It depends on their ethics/morals. Being against masturbation/porn is okay in Christian standards. |
mayukachan said: That's why I don't get along with them wellUnoPuntoCinco said: Some morals are unhealthy Being against masturbation/porn is okay in Christian standards. |
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| Because society is preverted and worship sexuality, so it is now rare to find people who can't keep it in their pants. Good luck trying to tell anyone to be pure, people love their preversions. |
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| It is fine to want a partner that doesn't watch porn (or won't when in a relationship with you). That is a preference. People can have preferences when dating, that is kind of how dating works. |
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shotz_ said: because people literally need to get off. it's a basic human need. obviously your partner won't always be sexually available when you have the urge. that's where porn comes in. exactly this |
| idk I mean, I guess I can understand if ur doing ur partner everyday but from my experience ppl still find it ok for there partner to watch porn still |
| The ones who watch porn are mostly males , females rarely ever watch porn. So I think for some females it can be unacceptable that their partners watch porn. Well If I had a girlfriend , I wouldn't tell her and keep it always hidden , probably this goes for everyone because it's an embarrassing thing to say and not that important , so it's not even worth revealing it. |
Verhus said: it'd suck if she caught you thoughI wouldn't tell her and keep it always hidden , probably this goes for everyone because it's an embarrassing thing to say and not that important , so it's not even worth revealing it. |
| I think it's perfectly reasonable as long as you don't watch porn yourself. |
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mayukachan said: Verhus said: it'd suck if she caught you thoughI wouldn't tell her and keep it always hidden , probably this goes for everyone because it's an embarrassing thing to say and not that important , so it's not even worth revealing it. The only way to find out is to check all my chronology on my phone and PC. Well I don't like when people use my belongings without any permission. It would seem exaggerated and not nice if she took my phone and PC , only to check if I watch porn or not. |
Verhus said: well, one day you'd live with her and it'll be harder to hide your "solo sessions"mayukachan said: it'd suck if she caught you though The only way to find out is to check all my chronology on my phone and PC. Well I don't like when people use my belongings without any permission. It would seem exaggerated and not nice if she took my phone and PC , only to check if I watch porn or not. |
Verhus said: The only way to find out is to check all my chronology on my phone and PC. Well I don't like when people use my belongings without any permission. It would seem exaggerated and not nice if she took my phone and PC , only to check if I watch porn or not. Tell her that's not her bussiness and it's healthly & normal to watch sometimes some other naked girls. BTW: just click between porns all the time & let her see that you need it ;) |
| Is it GreanPeace? I don't think so - whine to your parents or tell'em to buy sth for ur buttpain. Those ppl won't help you. .. ..  |
Hoppy said: Because that kind of control is unhealthy for a relationship. you are literally trying to control what someone does in their free time, while the thing they are doing isn't harming anyone |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
kawaiiyuris said: Hoppy said: Because that kind of control is unhealthy for a relationship. you are literally trying to control what someone does in their free time, while the thing they are doing isn't harming anyone mayukachan said: It depends on their ethics/morals. |
| my dad watches porn. shotz_ said: VerballyStunted said: yeah but it's not uncommon for someone's partner to be unavailable for a couple days or more.Come on now, it is not a basic human need to get off at a moment's notice. It can get quite uncomfortable after a long time, but only an addict couldn't wait a couple days. my dad watches porn. my mother knows. they stopped having sex years ago. |
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Hoppy said: It can be healthy for a relationship actually.Because that kind of control is unhealthy for a relationship. |
| Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious. |
shotz_ said: Or you could use imagination..... apparently people lack that these days so they have to get off to strangers.because people literally need to get off. it's a basic human need. obviously your partner won't always be sexually available when you have the urge. that's where porn comes in. |
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| personally i really dont see the appeal of porn once you have a girlfriend, unless your partner is never there or consistently denies you sex for whatever reasons (both probably indicate you guys arent that compatible to begin with) |
Tachii said: personally i really dont see the appeal of porn once you have a girlfriend  |
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Seiya said: Tachii said: personally i really dont see the appeal of porn once you have a girlfriend [IMG]http://i1373.photobucket.com/albums/ag375/Working_Designs/giphy_zpsdpglgpl5.gif[/IM G] What's the joke? |
mayukachan said: Seiya said: [IMG]http://i1373.photobucket.com/albums/ag375/Working_Designs/giphy_zpsdpglgpl5.gif[/IM G] What's the joke? The joke, is that Tachii obviously has no idea what he's talking about. Just because you have a girlfriend or wife, doesn't mean you're going to get sex whenever you want. |
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Seiya said: mayukachan said: What's the joke? The joke, is that Tachii obviously has no idea what he's talking about. Just because you have a girlfriend or wife, doesn't mean you're going to get sex whenever you want. If she rejects you once, you can masturbate without porn if your sex drive is good enough. There's no "need" for porn. Plus, you lack self control if you can't have sex for a few days. |
mayukachan said: Seiya said: The joke, is that Tachii obviously has no idea what he's talking about. Just because you have a girlfriend or wife, doesn't mean you're going to get sex whenever you want. If she rejects you once, you can masturbate without porn if your sex drive is good enough. There's no "need" for porn. Plus, you lack self control if you can't have sex for a few days. I'm not referring to myself as an individual, I'm referring to millions of people living in the contemporary world. Just because you think there's "No need" for porn, doesn't mean that other men are going to listen to you. I rarely get off at porn. |
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Seiya said: Wait, correct me if I'm wrong, but all you need to do is rub your dick furiously to ejaculate, right?mayukachan said: If she rejects you once, you can masturbate without porn if your sex drive is good enough. There's no "need" for porn. Plus, you lack self control if you can't have sex for a few days. I'm not referring to myself as an individual, I'm referring to millions of people living in the contemporary world. Just because you think there's "No need" for porn, doesn't mean that other men are going to listen to you. I rarely get off at porn. Why do you need to watch things to get excited? |
mayukachan said: Seiya said: Wait, correct me if I'm wrong, but all you need to do is rub your dick furiously to ejaculate, right?I'm not referring to myself as an individual, I'm referring to millions of people living in the contemporary world. Just because you think there's "No need" for porn, doesn't mean that other men are going to listen to you. I rarely get off at porn. Why do you need to watch things to get excited? Let me tell you how female orgasm works then you can tell me how to use my dick. Are you for fucking real? |
Monad said: Girls need to be turned on to lubricate. They can instantly be turned off if they think about something bad.Let me tell you how female orgasm works then you can tell me how to use my dick. Are you for fucking real? Also, I have no clue. I've never reached orgasm, as far as I know. Life's hard. |
OP said: The people who bash [watching porn] come off as being closed minded and immature. They want to look cool by saying "[im above watching porn and you should be too.]" I think it's pathetic. basically you said it yourself; just swap around a few words. |
Hello3245 said: mayukachan said: Girls need to be turned on to lubricate. They can instantly be turned off if they think about something bad. Also, I have no clue. I've never reached orgasm, as far as I know. Life's hard. ha haaaa ur funny stealing my avatar i guess it's time to change back into my gay meganes |
| Yeah, well guys need to be turned on to get hard, whether it's imagination or porn. I don't know why you think that fapping to images in you head is any better than fapping to images on screen. |
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