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May 4, 2015 10:54 AM
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I've had a few experiences in the past where I've come to blows with my father, and one time where my mother has tried to assault me. In the latter case I managed to restrain myself from losing it, but with my father fighting has been unavoidable. He has always disrespected me. He'll remain a bitter and antagonistic man until the end I believe. It's always been self-defence, but I've always felt that it sucked being force into a fist-fight. The tension between my parents and I was one of the main reasons I moved out and started living on my own.

When you're the age most of us are, society tends to believe and feel sorry for your parents in situations of dispute, in my experiences.

What about your experiences? Have you ever been in a similar situation where you ended up in a fist-fight with one or both of your parents?
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May 4, 2015 11:33 AM
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Oh my goodness, that's horrible. I can't say I've ever gotten into a fist-fight with either of my parents, they are non-violent. In fact I don't know (personally) anyone with violent parents.
May 4, 2015 1:14 PM
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I had a few fights with my father, my father has a realy negatif attidude all things we do is bad in his eyes, he made my mom go to the hospital for depression like 3-4 times already.

I don't hate him, but it starts to realy piss me off i wish he could be nicer but i know that he won't change but i'll always stay at the side of my mom i'm not scared of him annymore.
May 4, 2015 1:15 PM
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Fuck fist fights, me and my father Rider Kick the shit out of each other.

May 4, 2015 1:17 PM
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My dad and I used to beat the shit out of each other when I was younger. It's understandable though because it's a part of our culture and I was a really rebellious kid.
May 4, 2015 1:17 PM
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We do a riding-duel to settle our differences.
May 4, 2015 1:18 PM
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I have never gotten physical with my parents nor have they tried to punch me either lol

May 4, 2015 1:20 PM
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Gentlemen, this is a fine example of how rotten the first world really is.

As for me, I just talk it through with my father.
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves,
By each let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!''
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May 4, 2015 1:22 PM
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No but i got yelled out aloot during my life i still loved why mother while she was alive and my i still love my father.

Also i feel sorry for you.
You were probably broken inside at that time even though you had too do it they are blood after all. :(
May 4, 2015 1:23 PM

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my dad doesnt smock, eats healthy and was a body builder back in the day and i honestly saw him lift a fuking car with his bear bare hands.
soooo, thanks il pass on dat ....
May 4, 2015 1:24 PM

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Never happened to me and I don't think it will.
But my dad pisses me off sometimes, specially when in a discussion he knows he is losing and starts exaggerating facial expressions and saying "don't talk me back, respect me" and that kind of bullshit. Also when he is in bad humor and complains about every single thing and out of them starts to bring topics that have nothing to do. And I am not the only one who gets pissed off, my mom too. When that sort of things happen I want to punch him but I don't.
May 4, 2015 1:26 PM
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I challenged my grandma to a duel.
May 4, 2015 1:46 PM

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NorthBayAnime said:
I challenged my grandma to a duel.


Did Grandma won was it for bet. :)
May 4, 2015 2:01 PM

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i challenge them to fisticuffs all the time

May 4, 2015 2:01 PM
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Zeally said:
I have never gotten physical with my parents nor have they tried to punch me either lol
May 4, 2015 2:50 PM

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My dad is actually mentally ill. Not sure exactly what is wrong with him but he is very bipolar and has anger problems. It has come to that a few times but in the past few years I have actually gotten bigger than him and stronger and the last few times it ended badly for him. I would never fight him unless he was coming after my mom.

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May 4, 2015 3:02 PM

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you just don't raise your fists to your parents, no matter what, don't be a pleb.
May 4, 2015 3:07 PM
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Never been in a fist fight with my parents. There have been a few instances were they got physical with my brother though. Not fist fights, but things like dragging up stairs by his hair and one time my brother held a gun to my dad. Rarely happens, just a few instances I can remember. I'd say it's a good thing you moved out if that happened often.
May 4, 2015 3:08 PM

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If it's just a little argument it happens everytime, but if it's hand on hand combat I doubt it will even happen
May 4, 2015 3:11 PM

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That sounds rough. I have never been in a situation like that, I am not even sure if I wanted to fight back. I am glad I have really kind and caring parents.
May 4, 2015 3:14 PM

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No, I just take it. Fighting back is useless. Just causes more problems and makes the arguments last longer.
May 4, 2015 3:16 PM

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Geni-2-ol said:
Gentlemen, this is a fine example of how rotten the first world really is.


...beeeeeeeeeeeecause there's no such thing as domestic disputes in third world countries?
May 4, 2015 3:17 PM

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NudeBear said:
Geni-2-ol said:
Gentlemen, this is a fine example of how rotten the first world really is.


...beeeeeeeeeeeecause there's no such thing as domestic disputes in third world countries?


He is a troll, don't take him seriously.
May 4, 2015 3:17 PM

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Not got in a fight with parents have to say, got into a fight with my brother once
May 4, 2015 3:22 PM

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No, my biological father isn't in the picture and my moms the passive aggressive type. I do consider it one of my life goals to punch my father in the jaw.
May 4, 2015 3:43 PM

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Rarely any actual violent physical contact between me and my old man, but puberty must have been a living hell for everyone involved.

The testosterone levels in my family seem to be always a bit too close to the breaking point (sister included. My mother's the only passive-aggressive/Jewish mother-type), so we'd have full-blown confrontations, out-shouting and stare-downs at the drop of a hat almost every day. Thrown in a pinch of constantly changing dynamics of Oedipus/Electra complexes between all family members and you had us over the span of four years.

I never ended up hating any one of them in the end, though. If anything, it seems as if we've become more close-knit as a consequence...
May 4, 2015 4:21 PM

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i have never fought my parents or anyone before and if i did i would probably kill someone
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May 4, 2015 4:28 PM

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No. Of course not. I'm not some savage that doesn't know respect.
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May 4, 2015 4:30 PM

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If I tried to fight my dad he'd obliterate me, he's way muscular than me.

May 4, 2015 4:52 PM

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I have respect for my parents. So no. I don't have fist fights with them.
May 4, 2015 5:17 PM

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I've been in multiple fights with both of my parents. My mother's fights started and stopped at just me pushing her away from me when she got aggresive (granted I antagonized her first), but I got into fist fights multiple times with my Dad for many different reasons.

Unfortunately my Dad is a muscle tank so there was no winning those... >_>

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May 4, 2015 5:18 PM

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Did u watch pacman and mayweather fight just try to imitate mayweather without the punchng.

Hi
May 4, 2015 5:19 PM

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Aeldrian said:
Did u watch pacman and mayweather fight just try to imitate mayweather without the punchng.


Yeah, just run around in circles!
May 4, 2015 5:28 PM

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I never piss my parents off. >.>
May 4, 2015 9:27 PM
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I've never and would never o.o
May 4, 2015 10:14 PM

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NudeBear said:
Geni-2-ol said:
Gentlemen, this is a fine example of how rotten the first world really is.


...beeeeeeeeeeeecause there's no such thing as domestic disputes in third world countries?



Not like this. Every white maggot has called his/her mother a 'bitch' once in his/her life.
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves,
By each let this be heard,
Some do it with a bitter look,
Some with a flattering word,
The coward does it with a kiss,
The brave man with a sword!''
~Oscar
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May 4, 2015 10:15 PM

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I wouldn't resort to hitting my old man.

He's already a senior, that'd be a dirty blow.

I'll just take the hits and give him the look.
May 4, 2015 10:22 PM
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Never fight physically with them but if I do, I would kill them while they're sleeping which will never happen since I need the money, food and all basic necessity. To top it all, I have 5 younger siblings which Im not going to take care if my parents die. So even if I hate my parents, I still need them I guess?
May 4, 2015 10:24 PM

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Yes with my dad. Last night(11pm), my dad is like "what anime u watching?" and I'm like "who cares what I'm watching?", and he just gets mad...... I get pissed from just hearing his voice.
May 4, 2015 10:25 PM

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Fuck, if I get into a fist fight with my parents, I'll get disowned on the spot.

Give your parents some respect, for goodness sake. They probably have done terrible shit to you but that's nothing compared to the 18 years of torture and ungratefulness most kids have shown throughout. There's respect for that.
May 4, 2015 10:26 PM
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I have a very wonderful relationship with my parents. They love and support pretty much everything I do. Never got into a real fight with them. Maybe a few arguments here and there, but not much more.

Sorry you've had such family trouble Autocrat.
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Yes with my dad. Last night(11pm), my dad is like "what anime u watching?" and I'm like "who cares what I'm watching?", and he just gets mad...... I get pissed from just hearing his voice.
Why not just tell him what you're watchng?
May 4, 2015 10:36 PM

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My dad sometimes hits me but i never fight back because he will surely kick me out of the house
May 4, 2015 10:41 PM

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Geni-2-ol said:
NudeBear said:


...beeeeeeeeeeeecause there's no such thing as domestic disputes in third world countries?



Not like this. Every white maggot has called his/her mother a 'bitch' once in his/her life.


Now when you say shit like that, you honestly have no fucking right to complain about the offensive steeping generalizations people make abut Pakistan.
May 4, 2015 10:44 PM

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Geni-2-ol said:
NudeBear said:


...beeeeeeeeeeeecause there's no such thing as domestic disputes in third world countries?



Not like this. Every white maggot has called his/her mother a 'bitch' once in his/her life.


N- no.

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May 4, 2015 11:00 PM

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My parents did yell at me a lot when I was a kid, but they never hit me or anything. My mom kind of feels bad for yelling at me so much, though, but it's whatever now.
May 4, 2015 11:53 PM
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I've considered it, but really, restraining myself and getting my ass handed to me was something I needed (mostly).

A lil bit of old school discipline is sometimes the best answer, as I've been taught. I'm all for reasoning with your kids, but if they keep disobeying despite talks and lectures then its time for some old fashioned belt whipping rodeo.
May 5, 2015 12:19 AM

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Me and my old man usually argue, but I've never felt the urge to hit my dad.
May 5, 2015 12:27 AM

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Zeally said:
I have never gotten physical with my parents nor have they tried to punch me either lol
May 5, 2015 12:30 AM

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NicoIsPathetic said:
May 5, 2015 12:34 AM

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My father (Whom I wholeheartedly respect), and I, have had many a fist-fight in my life. Needless to say, I always got my ass kicked in the end as he is a living and breathing giant and I'm a dwarf compared to him. We both have (or had) short tempers and most of our fights were over petty things. I deserved the thrashings I got back then, because I was an insufferable prick.
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