| If she wants to be in a relationship with you, just communicate openly and tell her how you feel. Stop wasting time. If you wait until you finish school, she will almost certainly be long gone. |
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| You made the mistake of making it about you. You should have instead asked if something has been troubling her. |
Reply to The-Nsider
| @The-Nsider You could apologize that you didn't mean to upset her and just say you didn't know how to interpret things, then you can ask if something has been troubling her. If there is you can apologize for not thinking of asking sooner and give some supportive words and actions. You got to figure out how to do this stuff yourself eventually though since you got to act in the moment in many cases when it's in person interaction. |
Reply to The-Nsider
@traed
Look. She hasn't called me in a week.... Of course I'm ticked. I suck with love she probably hates me.
How did it turn out like this...
I guess it's over now.
Look. She hasn't called me in a week.... Of course I'm ticked. I suck with love she probably hates me.
How did it turn out like this...
I guess it's over now.
| @The-Nsider I had edited my post as you were writing yours so i have more in there than was before. Again you're making it more about you first when relationships go both ways. There isn't a reason to be mad when you don't know if there is a reason why she didn't call you in a week. You'd only have a reason to be upset about it if she didn't have some issue causing her to isolate or she became very busy (in which case you would just nicely ask her to inform you if she becomes busy) but even then id say being mad would be an immature reaction because a week isn't really that long when you only known eachother like a month so it's more reasonable just to be sad over it for a while. |
| You can chose to continue pursuing her, but you should probably know she is likely getting with other guys while drinking that much. Sounds like she is for the streets and to the streets she will always return. You still may be able to have a short term fling though if you are hot. |
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Reply to The-Nsider
@traed
We'll like I said I'm sure she hates me and we are done now...I don't see how to turn this around. I wish I knew I do like her....
I have feelings for her.
I wanna say how I feel without scaring her off.
We'll like I said I'm sure she hates me and we are done now...I don't see how to turn this around. I wish I knew I do like her....
I have feelings for her.
I wanna say how I feel without scaring her off.
| @The-Nsider Was your exact phrasing "we are done now" ? Did you mean you broke up with her? Or did you intend to mean done for the moment? Then open up with asking how she's doing and explain your inexperience. |
| Don't play this sort of stupid games, you'll only win stupid prizes. |
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| What kind of question is this? If you like the current girl you are with then why bother trying to get the attention of the other you claim you don't like anymore? |
| What's the point of making your old crush jealous if you don't like her anymore? That's just tedious and petty considering you have a girlfriend that you like. |
  "You win this round. You doggies." |
| @EyeAmTheI Maybe but OP also is only going off rumors which doesnt really help. If he wants to be with the other girl he shouldnt be using the one he is with to get to her. Maybe we will get to see a nice boat. |
| This isnt the site for such questions. Also, at this point, none of you guys actually like each other. You guys are just doing this for fun. Getting a gf/bf, playing with them and then leaving just because you were bored. There is no love in all of this. Its just time pass. There are better ways to pass your time. |
If you enjoyed the time you wasted, then its not a waste of time.  |
| She sounds like bad news so I say avoid her, and keep your current gf. Otherwise bang who you want, and just do not take any relationship seriously. |
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| If it's not a bait thread and its author was not inspired by some mediocre romance anime, then I suggest, as many folks would say, to stop playing, 'cause you may lose the love game by becoming alone and hurting one of those girls or even two of them. And yourself as well. |
| Post #9867 - #9878 are merged from a dupe thread |
Reply to Francis_0
There is anime titled 'Onegai Patron-sama!' that status is currently airing from 2020 until now, the weird thing is there is episode 0 of this anime and they write it as sequel. Need confirmation
| @Francis_0 , I think it's because it's an ONA or something |
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| @hattenM Most people don't know what they will be pursuing at that age (including myself), it's very normal. You're only 17, you have a lot of time to figure out what you want to do. Also, don't ever listen to people saying something like "this age is the peak of your life", everyone's life is different. At 17, I wasn't doing the best either and it was only recently that I genuinely started feeling really happy. Looking for friends in games or online is great, but nothing comes close to hanging out with real people. You gotta ask yourself what exactly it is that's stopping you from making friends in real life. For me, it was my communication skills and physical appearance and working on both of those things helped me a ton. Also, suicide is NEVER the answer, it is going to be a bit rough to figure stuff out, but that's how life is. Everything eventually works out if you put in the effort. |
| I would avoid Internet drama because that might get you doxxed. |
| My cat is purring so loudly that I am unable to fall asleep. What should I do? |
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Reply to KittenCuddler
My cat is purring so loudly that I am unable to fall asleep. What should I do?
| @KittenCuddler You are demanding from me advice that consumes too many brain cells. Your query is more complex than any written on this forum. I would probably go to a professional. |
| ラーメン食いに行こうぜ～ |
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