Would you date your best friend?
| not sure if this topics been posted before(as it does feel generic to forums I go on) but anyways...would you? not talking about the friend to which your 'only' friends because you've taken an interest in them prior to even being friends...what I'm talking about is your best friend, whether they be childhood, school/college or even work colleagues to which a trust has already been bonded... and for those that are homophobic....i'm also talking about your best friend of the opposite sex |
TensaiShonenSep 26, 2010 7:31 PM
| Already done that before, it never lasts long, and we'll just become BF again. |
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| lol i have many times - some of the relationships lasting 2 years (we split up for distance issues and still consider her probably one of my closest friends) |
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Jiynnx said: That's exactly the same with me.We've joked about stuff alot, and I mean alot. But there's not a chance. I can't even imagine it being done. |
| "the best type of girlfriend is the best friend type of girlfriend". So, yes. That's the best kind of relationship imo, too bad it's almost nonexistent in real life since most people find it awkward to graduate from being friends to someting more. |
| it depends on how attractive she is. |
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| what I've realized now that I think about it, most of the girls I had been friends with and later dated, I pretty much had an ulterior motive of only being friends so I could date them....shallow as it may sound, I don't think I've ever had an actual best friend of the opposite sex without me thinking of wanting to get into their pants |
| I did. We did not last a week and now we are just friend |
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| I don't see a problem with it. When you get married, your husband or wife not only become your spouses, but also your best friends as well. I feel that a relationship that started out as best friends, has the best potential. Since you are already close, and know that you get along with one another, and possibly share some common interests. :) |
| One of my best friend is Motoko Kusangi from Ghost in the Shell, sure. |
| Even when I was in crowd, I was always alone |
Confucius said: One of my best friend is Motoko Kusangi from Ghost in the Shell, sure. ... D= lucky |
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| we were best friends. she was a greek goddess and im your typical asian guy. i was her first on everything, but sadly only lasted a month. now we barely talk. for every mistake, you learn something. but its better to regret than saying the rest of your life "what if.." |
世界中から我々のメンバーの雹。ない階層があります。みんな、国籍は、民族、経済的地位、年齢、能力に関係なく同じです。私たちの旗は、任意の色を持っていません。我々は、無色である。我々は、 ドルですです。 イシシシシ~ |
| HA, since when are girls and guys best friends??? Girls and guys were made to fuck each other not be casual friends...LOL |
| Best friends? What are those? But seriously, I would. |
| Aren't best friends usually of the same sex? And don't people usually fall for people of a different sex? |
| Maybe if she were a childhood friend who's secretly had a crush on me for the last twelve years and a series of events happened that started to make me become more attracted to her... yeah like that would ever happen. |
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Akamitsu said: Maybe if she were a childhood friend who's secretly had a crush on me for the last twelve years and a series of events happened that started to make me become more attracted to her... yeah like that would ever happen. and maybe you'll meet up with her in High School, but wait...The new transfer student is very good looking and for some reason she has her eye on you... That will immediately trigger a triangle relationship where you'll have to decide between the two of them and eventually three, since some other girl will also come along. nah, that could never happen... |
| No, probably not. It would feel weird. |
Bum Bum Dum Dum |
| I wouldn't date my best female friend. She's too high maintenance. In fact, I don't want to date anyone right now. I'm perfectly content by myself, happy even. |
| No, my best friend is a dude and i'm pretty sure he doesn't swing that way either. O.O (lolz) |
Speed is Life - 1st ID... patch on my shoulder. |
| Read Adachi's manga, H2. Being romantically interested in a girl you've known since childhood and have great chemistry with is destined to end in tears, apparently - ultimately resulting in there not even being a friendship left. |
| No way, that would make me gay. I assume you mean opposite gender best friend. In that case no that will never happen because if i thought of her as sexually attractive then i would have made a sexual move from the start or be friends only with the expectation of something bigger and as you said that doesn't count. So if a have a female friend just because i like her as friend then that means i feel no erotic attraction to her. The only way this can happen is if some childhood friend became sexually attractive through growing up and changing and you suddenly got feelings for her. |
| Hell no. I already know she 'like likes' me, or at least she did two years ago when she confessed but I told her there wasn't a chance. I haven't a interest in her and besides I haven't been single for more then a month in the last 4 years. I have noticed we hang out much less since then but I still bug her to hang out every once in awhile. :) |
| Been there, done that.. BAD IDEA!! D: |
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| DO NOT WANT But seriously, I'd never ruin a great friendship by making some awkward confession in an attempt to date them. |
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| No I used to have a big time crush on him in high school though, now he is married..oh all the ruined chances and there is no way I am going to be the "other women" lol. |
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| why not? it's better a person you know, no? before the bf/gf it's a great friend of you, firstly. but it can be a side effect: if the relationship finishes... how will it get? will the friendship finish? |
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| Umm... my best friend's a guy. I'd be kinda sick. |
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| I always fall in love with girls when we're already (good) friends so obviously yes. |
| I probably regret this post by now. |
| My best friend is a male and I am not gay, so no. If I had female best friend then maybe. |
| If it was a girl yeah, I mean we would get along with each other well. |
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| I remember when I had a crush on one my best girl friends when I was a freshman in high school, we both caught on to it and we knew it wouldnt work, but we decided to give it a chance and to n oone's surprise it didnt work :D. We just kept acting like friends instead of lovers, so we just ended it there and we did'nt take it hard at all. To this day we laugh about it. |
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| No. The idea of me and my best friend going out on a romantic date seems incestuous to me. |
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| No. That would be too complicated if we broke up. I don't want to lose a good friend. |
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| We ain't best friends no more :/ |
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| Yes. He's freakin' hot and wears leather pants. Also happens that he's gay. Too bad. |
 Waratte Oemashou Sore ha Chiisana Inori |
BananasInPajamas said: No. The idea of me and my best friend going out on a romantic date seems incestuous to me. lol? in what way? unless their also relative |
TensaiShonen said: Maybe because I see my close friends as brothers and sisters, so the thought of dating any of them never crossed my mind.lol? in what way? unless their also relative |
BananasInPajamasSep 27, 2010 12:38 AM
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| I would :) cause as she knows me better than all i guess it will last for long cause it would be more comftable to talk to her and so on... |
| yah, but it has to be somebody who is really worth it |
| No. Just stay being friends and such. |
| Hypothetically or actually? My best friends are dudes so no. Hypothetically if I had a female best friend and I fell for her why not. |
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| If you have a female best friend, and you're a guy, you're probably gay, anyway. Or, at the very least, are viewed as gay by the friend in question. |
| yea my best friends are all the same sex so since im not a homosexual...then no |
| Depends on the circumstances, it's the same thing as dating anybody... I mean you'll most likely befriend the person before you ask them out, you don't just walk up to he/she and start confessing even though neither of you knows anything about either of you. If you believe it'll work out, then why not. |
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