| Video games are all lame. Either I will become too good or too dumb for it. Animes are all bullshit,they never understand loners, they just sticking social stigmas and overexaggerate them to assume that it will be consumable to me, eventually those series will only gave the classic lame boomer value like 'integrate to society, don't give up to be rich, have bajillion friends' Porn is good but I only watch/read them to jerk off once a day. Social medias nowadays are all crap, it filled with either massive amount of idiots misunderstanding situation or tryhard unfunny memes that people somehow still like despite being overused. If anything I wish I had a that thing to unleash my anger, I don't want to kill myself it's not my fault everything went suck rn. |
| Хайде, хайде, хайде, това е първата зона, брато, първа зона, първа зона, добре, добре, добре, това става тук горе, отива тук горе, само спокойно, само спокойно... Ха, отдясно е, навсякъде отдясно отдясно къде е дясното ти о да добре добре добре тихо мълчаливо не успях да се съсредоточа върху това ЕХ ТЪПАК КОГАТО СИ БАВНО БАВНО ... ой е путката на моето момиче прасе куче, аз Чувствам се добре, о, мамо, *шамар*, какво е това госпожице татко- |
| I would just recommend continuing gaming and anime while ignoring the social stigma. Truth is the only factor in getting laid is looks. Being into anime or games does not change your smv in any bit. That is a common misconception young people have. |
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| You could try meditation, martial arts, and academics. |
| Your overthinking too much. Start meditating. Practise emptying your thoughts. And talk to more people. It's because you are alone all the time that you keep having such useless thoughts. Humans are social animals. You cannot deny genetics, you must socialize more and you will natural get out of depression. You won't have time to think of such useless thoughts if you socialize more. You need to put in effort to socialize. Everyone does. It may seem like some people are just good at socializing, but they are still putting in their effort in it. They just get good at it with practise. --- Stop taking cues of what life is like from anime, games or any fiction. Life is mundane and it's up to you how you interpret it. You can be a party animal or live in tranquility, it's your life. What other mediums tell you what life is suppose to be like shouldn't matter more then how you really experience and interpret your own life. These meduims just try to nudge you in the right directions in general but it's not wise to take them very literally. --- Pick up a useful hobby that earns you some money. Earning money with a hobby is important, it will motivate you, not bore you. Money, is probably the most important factor for you to take control in life. Earn money and almost no one will complain too, in fact everyone around you will be nicer. It's not because of the money, it's because people will stop treating you like a NEET. --- Btw it's never ever too late to reform. You could be in your teens or in your 30s, 50s. There is always time to reform and improve your lifestyle. There's always time to realign your goals in life. It's your life. Nothing is "too late". People change their goals and lifestyle anytime in life, there is no age attached to it. So don't be in a rush to think that it's "too late" for you. People, specially younger ages, tend to think it's too late for them when they make mistakes in life. You make mistakes to learn from them, so take all the time you need to learn from them, not repeat them. |
tsukareruDec 9, 2023 8:33 PM
 If you are a friend. Visit my profile to recommend me something to watch ( ^▽^)ψ__ |
| My way of thinking is that in your own head is the best and safest, most foolproof refuge for that - yes, even in the long-term. And anime is no more than a vehicle or aid for that retreat if you so will it. It, like any form of storytelling, can help you get in touch with powerful ideas and emotions, but the ability to translate that into a worthwhile experience and one able to provide any worthwhile or meaningful mental sustenance in the long run lies with you at your core. And for some people integrating into society is either not a viable option in the long run, not at all desirable, or both. But it's also true that just because you/me/hypothetical Person X doesn't find any personal value in integration with society that doesn't mean you should allow that to come to mean not finding value in yourself. Because that would be like saying that you/anyone/anything has no value apart from what society bestows upon and assigns it, which is a repulsive thought. People can define value - identify that which truly matters most in the universe to them as an individual - for themselves. But because it's innately from oneself it's ultimately not something in practice which anyone else can tell you or give to you. It has to come from within and therefore is something you'll also simultaneously be questioning in the back of your mind for the rest of your conscious life. |
WatchTillTandavaDec 9, 2023 8:36 PM
| Explore some new hobbies (reading books, crafts, picking up an instrument, listening to music and finding people to talk about it with, learn about a new subject that piques your interest with free info online - history, physics, biology, technology etc). Art or writing are a great way to get anger out. Stay busy. Clean a lot, go for walks outside, work out a lot (don't have gym equipment? look up calisthenics, yoga, martial arts, dancing - lots of free stuff available on youtube and apps). If things are really bad, seek out therapy or professional help. |
| I would recommend you to drop the ball, the arrogance and the prideful behavior. That comes with self reflection, learning new things, occupied with meaningful tasks, getting your own earned income, stepping away from social media, or stepping away from surrounding negativity (the news or people that are also cynical in life and reflect that negativity towards others). Things will go a lot better once you move away from your current comfort/stagnant zone and do it by your own choice. No amount of advise and motivational encouragements will work if you yourself dont make the effort to change. |
TechnopunkDec 9, 2023 10:27 PM
 "Don't let your memes be dreams."- Ancient Japanese proverb, probably |
| You are absolutely right about social media. |
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| Visit some bars to get drunk, go to buhurt training/crazier reenacment groups to get beaten up in sports manner, it will help for even years. |
| Watch more porn, what's stopping you from jacking off more than once a day? You got some weak ass balls or what? |
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| I swear...i dont understand people with just one hobby & then play the blaming game when they get bored... |
" Kindness can sometimes lead you to trouble. "  |
Reply to Hitagi__Furude
I swear...i dont understand people with just one hobby & then play the blaming game when they get bored...
| @Hitagi__Furude Especially if it is a passive hobby. I could understand when someone has a hobby that involves educating themselves on a topic and having to practice to build skill since that can be time consuming and hard on memory but everyone can just veg out watching a show easy. |
Go outside, touch grass, hit the gym. |
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| Odd thread, you should not escape from reality but face it. It is a pity that no one seems to have dreams today... In my opinion, only working adults should use social media, though it is better to stay away from them entirely. As a first step, I would suggest to read the complete works of Dostoevsky, starting with The Idiot. |
| I would suggest getting drunk every night, shitposting or insulting innocent people on MAL and then regretting it the next day while having an anxiety attack. |
If life ain't just a joke Then why are we laughing? If life ain't just a joke Then why am I dead? |
| Live in the pod, put on a virtual reality headset and hop on the deepest din of the internet that is VRChat. Bonus points if you gain a substance abuse problem in the process. |
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| If you want to unleash your anger just hit the gym bro, it’s perfect. Outside form anime, the gym and guitar playing are my favorite hobbies |
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| You can fight in Ukraine. I'm sure it will keep your mind and body busy. |
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| I am physically chronically ill, everyday every second pain at my sacrum tailbone, very difficult to sit, and mentally depressed for more than 7 years This I tell that will help you unleash your anger emotion etc. in a good way: 1. Play music instrument. I play classical piano, and when I'm really stressful and angry, I become calm when I unleash it into the piano, playing Chopin etudes or ballades for example. The sadness slowly become neutral, the anger as well 2. Swimming. Find a swimming pool, I have one very small at back yard of my house, I swim there everyday, swim at same spot, coz its small 40 minutes everyday, get better emotionally 3. After 1 and 2, you will get sleepy and feel a bit productive already. You can fap to make you even more tired, then sleep |
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| Escape to the outside. Go take some walks, or even hike a mountain if there’s one close to you. It’s free and you can do it alone. It’s a good exercise to get some real introspection. You won’t get any better if you find any other way to escape reality. |
Reply to fleurbleue
Escape to the outside. Go take some walks, or even hike a mountain if there’s one close to you. It’s free and you can do it alone. It’s a good exercise to get some real introspection. You won’t get any better if you find any other way to escape reality.
| @fleurbleue i walk from my campus to home everyday |
| Хайде, хайде, хайде, това е първата зона, брато, първа зона, първа зона, добре, добре, добре, това става тук горе, отива тук горе, само спокойно, само спокойно... Ха, отдясно е, навсякъде отдясно отдясно къде е дясното ти о да добре добре добре тихо мълчаливо не успях да се съсредоточа върху това ЕХ ТЪПАК КОГАТО СИ БАВНО БАВНО ... ой е путката на моето момиче прасе куче, аз Чувствам се добре, о, мамо, *шамар*, какво е това госпожице татко- |
Reply to Meusnier
Odd thread, you should not escape from reality but face it. It is a pity that no one seems to have dreams today... In my opinion, only working adults should use social media, though it is better to stay away from them entirely.
As a first step, I would suggest to read the complete works of Dostoevsky, starting with The Idiot.
As a first step, I would suggest to read the complete works of Dostoevsky, starting with The Idiot.
| @Meusnier Meusnier said: you should not escape from reality but face it I do face it, but I need some time to rest myself. Social media, as you know has already no difference with actual reality. So much nerds now infected with normie mindset. I just don't know where actual weirdos in internet are now |
| Хайде, хайде, хайде, това е първата зона, брато, първа зона, първа зона, добре, добре, добре, това става тук горе, отива тук горе, само спокойно, само спокойно... Ха, отдясно е, навсякъде отдясно отдясно къде е дясното ти о да добре добре добре тихо мълчаливо не успях да се съсредоточа върху това ЕХ ТЪПАК КОГАТО СИ БАВНО БАВНО ... ой е путката на моето момиче прасе куче, аз Чувствам се добре, о, мамо, *шамар*, какво е това госпожице татко- |
Reply to Serafos
You are absolutely right about social media.
| @Serafos I know right? The dead internet theory is real bro |
| Хайде, хайде, хайде, това е първата зона, брато, първа зона, първа зона, добре, добре, добре, това става тук горе, отива тук горе, само спокойно, само спокойно... Ха, отдясно е, навсякъде отдясно отдясно къде е дясното ти о да добре добре добре тихо мълчаливо не успях да се съсредоточа върху това ЕХ ТЪПАК КОГАТО СИ БАВНО БАВНО ... ой е путката на моето момиче прасе куче, аз Чувствам се добре, о, мамо, *шамар*, какво е това госпожице татко- |
TierraRobada said: I do face it, but I need some time to rest myself. Social media, as you know has already no difference with actual reality. So much nerds now infected with normie mindset. I just don't know where actual weirdos in internet are now As a great writer said, "Internet does not replace reality, it replaces imagination." I believe that you need time completely away from the Wired. In the end, less than 10% of people use Twitter regularly, and it is only due to stupid journalists that we give importance to what socially inept people say there, although they more often than not represent a large deviation. If you want to read quality trolling, you can have a look at Dostoevky's A Writer's Diary. The Half-letter from "Someone" is lovely. |
| I can't give you any real advice without being a hypocrite but I believe the first step would be stop escaping. Escapes are just that escapes, what are you running from? These escapes only make whatever your problems worst in the long run since the problem will still be there no matter how long you keep avoiding it. Which in turn will make you depressed, stressed, fearful, anxious. Which turns into you isolating yourself more from everyone around you. Further creating even more issues that you then also run from. Speaking from personal experience. Or you can just keep gaming and watching anime, I'm doing the same thing myself lol. |
| Build your own website, learn something new, maybe a new language. |
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| It is stupid when someone keep stuck at the same cycle and hoping something different will come. Society is shit, but keep blaming everything that will never change is dumb and pathetic. Why don't you step out a little and try new things to do? Or at least become less arrogant and trying to understand something from positive side rather than keep criticizing it since nothing barely happen if you do that actually. |
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