| I look at Instagram or PSN. I stopped being friends with tons of people for stupid reasons. A lot was my fault. Feel like there never good reasons. What are good reason to stop being friends? |
AmityblightAug 8, 2023 5:22 PM
| It was mostly on PSN where it happened, but I used to get tons of thirsties, maybe because I use Junko Enoshima as my pfp on there? But even when told I was a guy, that still wouldn't matter to them, just so many desperate people on PSN for some reason? It's so weird😂 And some others were just ultra depressive types that would message me as soon as I appeared online, they just wear me down, I hate being stifled. Usually though I just ignore them, I really don't delete or block them as much as I should...... |
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| I hardly use my psn. Friends I had there also went inactive so go figure. pretty close with a few. @LightWorker get manly name lol. Try Death-cartel666 But umm when they completely destroy my trust. |
Order-SolAug 8, 2023 6:30 PM
| @Order-Sol I'm too used to my gamertag now though 😂 never once changed it♥️ To be honest though, it was mostly when PSN communities were a thing that I got a vast amount of the undesirables from, I was in many and was super interactive in them. Had far too much time on my hands back then :/ It was a good learning experience if nothing else though. |
Loyal_SheeplingAug 8, 2023 7:54 PM
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| @LightWorker I feel you my username been with for so long I will never change. Those communities were weird I'm glad they gone. I was part of The owl house community ran by OP here. I was a mod |
| @Order-Sol Oh that's cool sounds like you're known eachother for some time :D I have one or two friends on MAL that I met from PSN too. I was both a mod and an owner using my smurf acc, as I didn't really trust too many others😅 Yeah it was wild in some communities, many weren't well-policed (tons of pr0n etc). Anime communities would constantly get trolled & flagged/deleted and some users would have the biggest grudges imaginable lol. I do think it's good that their no more, but I did have fun with them and met some cool users from them. |
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AsymptoteCitizen said: Instagram is 99.9% bots farm (scary place) I never had a reason to use PSN nor any console-based socials, but I assume I don't miss much. Overall, I guess online friendships are so 20th old century thing because the future is nothing but braindead AI bot-chats and the only interesting thing for flashy individuals with shaved bodies (both genders). Instagram is a joke. I only used it to follow people when they wanted too. I was a Tumblr star. You didn't PlayStation people were weird. PS3 wasn't too much social but PS4 version of it definitely was. It's required for PS5 just to run, they remove most the social shit @LightWorker I met Sol back in the days of vanilla sf4. We live in the same town even to this day. |
AmityblightAug 8, 2023 8:11 PM
AsymptoteCitizen said: Amityblight said: Instagram is a joke. I only used it to follow people when they wanted to. I was a Tumblr star. You didn't PlayStation people were weird. PS3 wasn't too much social but the PS4 version of it definitely was. It's required for PS5 just to run, they remove most of the social shit. I only found out about Tumblr's existence after its death. You required internet just to run PS5? By death you mean they removed NSFW content? Well yeah majority of PS5 have no disc drive. It's just a box if you have no Internet. |
| Im not sure how i want to define a friend to begin with these days. Seems like I just get hurt no matter what. |
| Friends? They never feel like they belong next to me, they feel foolish and inferior next to me |
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| At this point, I have a really hard time trusting anyone. Feels like I’m gonna get backstabbed again. |
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| When they become a sith (= deal in absolutes) :O |
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| I assume you mean irl? I blocked one of my best friends and cut him off after he'd shit on my on purpose to constantly "impress" his crush. AFAIK, he never managed to get her. |
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| @AsymptoteCitizen You can't the menu won't load until you update it. @BitChilly I had to learn how to read people. Once you do you can spot a real homie easy. @Fatephile of course he didn't cornball simp. He's a bitch he deserved to blocked. @traed Mal people are fake as AF. In real life? Kinda what I said to chilly |
| I think if they say something morally objectionable (say, against a marginalized group), it's perfectly acceptable to not be friends with them. |
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| It honestly takes quite a lot for me to completely give up on someone as a friend, but I will say that morally indefensible behaviour is up there. For example, one of my best friends in high school ended up grooming a 14-year-old girl when he was 19 so I had to cut the fucker off. |
Take care of yourself |
| Lack of respect, losing interests and talking less, fight over something usually are my reasons |
| The moment your friend thinks he is better than you, you know it's time to your separate ways |
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| My reasons would be: -I see them as immoral -I think they have no chemistry with me -We both barely interact anymore How I see it, it is very dependent on how you for yourself define what a friend is. Maybe a friend is someone you just do small talk with at work, maybe a friend needs to have been with you for years. I would say I have a high enough bar as to who I consider a friend, so I rarely find myself unfriending them. On the internet I do not think being "friends" on some site like steam, discord or whatever else has much meaning. At least I would not consider them friendships. |
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| I personally do not care about relationships that aren't very strong and genuine. Like, you know maybe the more surface level friends, I really don't care about them. |
| I used to be a doormat but after college I finally got some self confidence and refused to let people walk on me like they used to. So now its mainly if they are rude to me or my family/friends. I did stop being friends with one person though when I found out he was a chomo. |
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| I tend to distance myself from negative people, sometimes even unconsciously. I still consider them friends, though. I'd only stop being friends with a person who hurts others or is behaving like a douchebag in general. I don't want to be an enabler or turn a blind eye to their wrongdoings, so sometimes your only option is to cut them out and hope they grow/wake up eventually. |
For me, it usually comes down to one of the following (all things that have happened to me & I cut ties):
There's probably more but these are the big ones I could think of |
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