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would you rather him/her to be the introvert or the really social kid
Sep 8, 2018 10:35 AM
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titles says all mostly would you rather ur kid to be the guy who plays video game or the guy whos always out and social and stuff
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Sep 8, 2018 10:38 AM
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I wasn't aware that all kids were male, OP. :P

I don't plan on having any kids, but generally, if a child's parents are a certain way, the child has a chance of being like them, so I'd imagine that if I had a child, they would be somewhat introverted.

Sep 8, 2018 10:39 AM
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I just want my kid to have the sickest fedora collection
Sep 8, 2018 10:39 AM
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Seiya said:
I wasn't aware that all kids were male, OP. :P

I don't plan on having any kids, but generally, if a child's parents are a certain way, the child has a chance of being like them, so I'd imagine that if I had a child, they would be somewhat introverted.
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Sep 8, 2018 10:42 AM
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justcaolan said:
I just want my kid to have the sickest fedora collection

This guy's on the right path. Bless.
Sep 8, 2018 10:48 AM
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social, because I would rather want them to have many friends. However, I don't see anything bad about being an introvert but still it's better to be an extrovert
Sep 8, 2018 10:51 AM
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I don't care, as long as they're not a bully. If I found out my kid was a bully they'd get a huge ass whooping.
Sep 8, 2018 10:54 AM
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definitely social
but i'm never having a kid so it doesn't matter
Sep 8, 2018 10:56 AM
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They would become similar to me, I believe. I can already see it happening.
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Sep 8, 2018 11:01 AM

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Social but smart enough to not give into peer pressure and doing dumb shit.

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I don't care, as long as they're not a bully. If I found out my kid was a bully they'd get a huge ass whooping.

the apple doesn't fall far from the tree
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Sep 8, 2018 11:03 AM

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-InfiniteLoop- said:

the apple doesn't fall far from the tree

No, but they would be their own person.
Sep 8, 2018 11:19 AM

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The mindset with me is the social kid would be much more likely to get themselves into trouble and are a lot more work to handle.
Not to mention I'd likely have more in common with the introvert option.
Sep 8, 2018 11:31 AM
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I would rather my own children (not that I'd ever have my own children, rip) lean more toward the side of introversion but also have enough confidence within themselves to make friends at the same time. Basically to have a healthy balance between friends and video games/anime. I wouldn't necessarily want my own children to be as shut in as I am lol. I'd want them to be able to feel free to leave out the front door to socialize or just go somewhere to hang out whenever they felt like adventuring out.
Sep 8, 2018 11:34 AM

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Don't care,if its not a retarded faggot,I can tolerate anything.
Sep 8, 2018 11:35 AM

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I'd just want my kid to be healthy and happy tbh



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Sep 8, 2018 12:21 PM

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Introvert.
1. They are easier to control.
2. They won't whine about having no friends.
3. Less chances of their turning out to be a basic bro or bitch.
Sep 8, 2018 12:25 PM

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I guess social, but really just maybe somewhere in between. Actually, if a kid is a nice person, they should have plenty of friends. Some of those sociable people can be nutty or real jerks, etc.
Sep 8, 2018 12:26 PM

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I'd say I'd like him/her to be an extrovert. More often than not being introverted is usually paired with depression and I don't want my kid to experience that especially at a very young age. Although at the same time I don't want my kid to be a scumbag.
Sep 8, 2018 12:56 PM

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Kids are not something I would like to have. But if in a parallel universe I ever have one I would rather pick introverted kid. Mostly because I won't have to worry about him following a stupid trend no matter how dangerous it is. Because of introversion he/she would probably be more active on the internet where those stupid trends are despised (or aren't depending on the site) and I will more than happy to try to understand him/her and since introverts tend to be quiet and low volumed, it makes communication easier for me because neither me or him/her will raise our voices.
Introverts are harder to figure out but more enjoyable to deal with.
Sep 8, 2018 1:13 PM

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I wouldn't really care. as long as I could do my job as parent and support them.
Sep 8, 2018 2:26 PM

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Anyone who'd prefer their kid to be an introvert is a piece of shit to be honest. People aren't predisposed at birth to being either introverted or extroverted, it comes from their surroundings, their childhood, how they're treated, what they experience, who they know, etc etc. Obviously there are outliers, but most introverts have a lot of negativity in their past; anything from being bullied, bad home life, moving a lot, weird hobbies that segregate you from your peers (e.g. someone obsessed with bugs), and so on and so forth.

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being an introvert and I'm sure there are plenty of people who find solace in solitude, but not everyone made that choice for themselves. For some it was a consequence of decisions outside of their control.
Sep 8, 2018 3:17 PM

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Even though I'm extroverted. If I had kids. I just want them to be happy, healthy and their own person.
Sep 8, 2018 3:28 PM
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Tbh, I always was both, a few years more, a few years less. It destroys someone (or the majority of people) to have no friends at all, especially kids and teens, no matter if they are an introvert or extrovert. Maybe most extroverts do have a larger social circle, but almost everyone needs friends and a little bit of a social life.
Sep 8, 2018 3:31 PM
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social kid no doubt, the economy today is more about customer oriented jobs so a social person is the right choice for most of those jobs

heck i heard being a programmer (considered introverted) today requires social skills a lot
Sep 8, 2018 4:00 PM

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I'd rather them to be extrovert and just their own person, with their own "special" personality, able to think with their minds. That would be my goal as a father, if I had kids
Sep 8, 2018 4:24 PM

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I think I'd go for the introvert, because I could relate better and I feel like it's safer for the kid that way.

A more social kid is probably better though as in today's world you just need to put yourself out there.

Although it's completely up to the kid of course and I wouldn't want to push him into being something he's not comfortable with.
Sep 8, 2018 4:40 PM

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Introvert isn't the opposite of social. An introvert can be pretty social too although less common because they can't handle it for long periods of time easily.
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Sep 8, 2018 4:42 PM
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Social kid. I'd rather my kid not be a freak like me.
Sep 8, 2018 4:45 PM

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That seems like a strange expectation to have.
There are good and bad aspects associated with either behavior and aren't reliant on either.
I don't care about these traits in particular, but I don't want kids anyway so I don't know.

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Sep 8, 2018 4:55 PM

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Half/Half. Not too outgoing, but not too much of a loser like their dad.
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Sep 8, 2018 5:31 PM

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Humans are social creatures. The majority of us crave human interaction of some sort, ever if we don't realize it. That's why people who are in solitary confinement or are stranded away from other humans start to go crazy. Lack of human interaction is psychologically torturous to our minds. Being a social person would make life easier as it would help provide that psychological stimulus that we need. As a parent I would love my children to have the easiest life they could possibly have. But in the end, as long as they are happy, that's all that really matters.
Sep 8, 2018 5:50 PM

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Social for sure but if he or she turns out to be an introvert? eh oh well

Sep 8, 2018 6:01 PM

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I wouldnt mind my kid to be a weeb at all as long as my kid is happy and healthy but yeah I wouldnt want my kid to be socially functional so Id rather my kid to grow up in a socially active environment where he can really learn stuff, know people and experience things I couldnt experience as I was a child
for my kid grows up introvertly my kid wouldnt be as successful as having a sociable open minded personality in many occasions unless my kid is really talented in something else that doesnt require interaction
Sep 8, 2018 8:02 PM

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I'd rather not have kids at all because I don't like kids
Sep 8, 2018 11:54 PM
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As long as they're happy with themselves then either.
Sep 8, 2018 11:57 PM

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I want them to be both like me. It would be better to balance both to get the best of both worlds.

tbh as long as they're not a dumbfuck asshole, Im pretty lenient.
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Sep 9, 2018 12:25 AM

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They can be whatever they want as long as I'm being a good parent and they don't cause trouble to either me or other people.
Sep 9, 2018 3:06 AM
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It's more important that they're in a loving environment and that they have good opportunities for the future rather than whether or not they're an introvert or extrovert.

Sep 9, 2018 3:08 AM

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Whatever just don't be gay my son or daughter.
Sep 9, 2018 3:13 AM
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My son, or daughter, will inherit my Holy Legacy to spread justice to the world. So, they would need to be sociable: but if they are not, they will surely find another way to fulfill the Godly Mission.
Sep 9, 2018 1:51 PM

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Neither of your mentioned options because I'm hoping I'll have a daughter.

Although seriously, whether they are shy or outgoing makes no difference to me. As long as they are happy and at least have one little friend to spend some time with, then I'm happy too.
Sep 9, 2018 2:46 PM

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uhhh i wouldn't be bothered what they wanna do rly as long as they're not a lazy mess like their mother



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Real guys go for real down to Mars girls, yeah!



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