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Jun 25, 2017 3:28 PM
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By friends, I mean people you talk to everytime.
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Jun 25, 2017 3:33 PM
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Well, I had 5, but 4 of them moved away after high school, so I never heard from them again.

The one friend I have left lives about 10 minutes' drive from my house, and we hang out and talk to each other once every 2 months or so.

Jun 25, 2017 3:36 PM
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Seiya said:
Well, I had 5, but 4 of them moved away after high school, so I never heard from them again.

The one friend I have left lives about 10 minutes' drive from my house, and we hang out and talk to each other once every 2 months or so.


I'm still in highschool so I talk to a lot of people, but I consider just a few of them as my friends and they aren't in my close heart
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Jun 25, 2017 3:36 PM
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I haven't talked to any of my friends from school in years and haven't made more.

So, 0 to irl friends, I guess.

But everyone here is my friend so it makes up for it. !

Jun 25, 2017 3:37 PM
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If you mean like real irl friends then 0

If you mean like "friends" that i sometimes talk to and i don't really care about , then 0




Jun 25, 2017 3:38 PM
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quite a few, but it kinda comes with the job, you move a lot so you learn to make friends quickly and easily -- kinda helps when other people are of the same mindset :]

rawrX3pounces said:
I haven't talked to any of my friends from school in years and haven't made more.

So, 0 to irl friends, I guess.

But everyone here is my friend so it makes up for it. !



awwwwh I'll b ur friend :3

rawr

X3

-pounces-



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Jun 25, 2017 3:39 PM
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It depends in what you consider by "friends".
In the OP, I don't know, I talk occasionally, but notr everytime.
Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious.
Jun 25, 2017 3:40 PM
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I have 3 people I can call friends. Others are just people I can chat with, but I can't say if they are friends to me.
Jun 25, 2017 3:42 PM
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kiss said:

awwwwh I'll b ur friend :3

rawr

X3

-pounces-
This seems like you're looking for something more than friendship, buddy. :L

Jun 25, 2017 3:44 PM

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rawrX3pounces said:
kiss said:

awwwwh I'll b ur friend :3

rawr

X3

-pounces-
This seems like you're looking for something more than friendship, buddy. :L


you never know~




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Jun 25, 2017 3:47 PM

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kiss said:
rawrX3pounces said:
This seems like you're looking for something more than friendship, buddy. :L


you never know~



Someone is trying to hide his feelings --
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Jun 25, 2017 3:53 PM
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real friends, not acquaintances. you know, people that have actually been there for me and given me opportunity of some kind as well. i'd say just four, even though we don't see each other very often. everyone else is just what I said, an acquaintance.
Jun 25, 2017 3:55 PM

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@myllaut >his

pls


i wear my feelings on my sleeve, i think being open and caring is the easiest way to build friendships



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Jun 25, 2017 4:02 PM

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kiss said:
@myllaut >his

pls


i wear my feelings on my sleeve, i think being open and caring is the easiest way to build friendships


Lol I fecked up my joke ^.^ (because if you were a man it would means you were gay) sorry for that ^.^
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Jun 25, 2017 4:10 PM

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Right now I have two people I consider friends; they're college classmates I go to conventions with.

The people I knew in high school went separate ways but I still keep in touch with one online. One I used to hang out with all the time since the 4th grade stopped talking to me after he settled down with some whore single mother. For a while after that (a few years) I had absolutely no friends and got extremely depressed over it. I'm not going to repeat the same mistake I made in high school where my friends were just "school friends". I'm a very loyal friend and being alone fucking sucks.

rawrX3pounces said:
But everyone here is my friend so it makes up for it.

Accept my request then you fruitcake!
Jun 25, 2017 4:15 PM

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Lost_Viking said:
Right now I have two people I consider friends; they're college classmates I go to conventions with.

The people I knew in high school went separate ways but I still keep in touch with one online. One I used to hang out with all the time since the 4th grade stopped talking to me after he settled down with some whore single mother. For a while after that (a few years) I had absolutely no friends and got extremely depressed over it. I'm not going to repeat the same mistake I made in high school where my friends were just "school friends". I'm a very loyal friend and being alone fucking sucks.

rawrX3pounces said:
But everyone here is my friend so it makes up for it.

Accept my request then you fruitcake!


Well don't trust my words because I'm a solitary guy but I think it's better to be lonely than having "friends" who ou have no trust in
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Jun 25, 2017 4:17 PM

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Lost_Viking said:

Accept my request then you fruitcake!
We don't need some silly friend feature on a website to prove our bond.

Jun 25, 2017 4:17 PM

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If by friends you mean long-distance acquaintances that I occasionally message on this site when I'm not occupied with other remedial tasks, then 1.



Jun 25, 2017 4:19 PM

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I've got my group of 10 or so who I hang out with almost every day. Also, my 100+ fraternity bros that I paid to be friends with
Jun 25, 2017 4:20 PM

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myllaut said:
Lost_Viking said:
Right now I have two people I consider friends; they're college classmates I go to conventions with.

The people I knew in high school went separate ways but I still keep in touch with one online. One I used to hang out with all the time since the 4th grade stopped talking to me after he settled down with some whore single mother. For a while after that (a few years) I had absolutely no friends and got extremely depressed over it. I'm not going to repeat the same mistake I made in high school where my friends were just "school friends". I'm a very loyal friend and being alone fucking sucks.


Accept my request then you fruitcake!


Well don't trust my words because I'm a solitary guy but I think it's better to be lonely than having "friends" who ou have no trust in

I trust my current friends. Like I said, I'm a very loyal friend myself. Some people are more "introverted" than others but just from my experience I think that the vast majority of people are going to be miserable if they don't have at least one friend.
Jun 25, 2017 4:22 PM

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I don't have any friends irl sadly..








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Jun 25, 2017 4:24 PM

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Nek0 said:
If by friends you mean long-distance acquaintances that I occasionally message on this site when I'm not occupied with other remedial tasks, then 1.


If you really have no friends at all, I think your pet can take their place... If on top of that you don't have pets well you can commit... Nah nek0 live matter
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Jun 25, 2017 4:29 PM

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myllaut said:
Nek0 said:
If by friends you mean long-distance acquaintances that I occasionally message on this site when I'm not occupied with other remedial tasks, then 1.

If you really have no friends at all, I think your pet can take their place... If on top of that you don't have pets well you can commit... Nah nek0 live matter

Remember, nekos are friends not food! >:3



Jun 25, 2017 4:34 PM

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I don't have any friends irl sadly..



Real life sucks sometimes, I know what I'm talking about trust me x) (like really trust me I'm only 16 but I know the deal). But I think if being alone doesn't bother you I think it's ok there is no way you can feel shame because your alone. But if you don't feel at ease because our alone, you should try to find people out there. Like even ME, I have like 4 friends(doesn't make any sense what I'm saying right now). But if you want advices I can "help" you (sounds like what hitler saids when he wanted to "help" jews to be free)
(add me if you want, doesn't bother I'm on holyday. Well I'm on vacations so I won't answer really fast but do as you want) This message is too long for what it is and it's very arrogant from me :/
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Jun 25, 2017 4:36 PM

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Nek0 said:
myllaut said:

If you really have no friends at all, I think your pet can take their place... If on top of that you don't have pets well you can commit... Nah nek0 live matter

Remember, nekos are friends not food! >:3


Except in:
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Jun 25, 2017 4:39 PM

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Jun 25, 2017 4:40 PM

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I the option of "everyone in the world" because that's how many thirsty bastards there is on this universe.
Jun 25, 2017 4:43 PM

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I the option of "everyone in the world" because that's how many thirsty bastards there is on this universe.


You know, my grand father always saids that there are a lot of cunts in this world, and I'm surely part of them... (Still trying to figure out what it's supose to say)
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Jun 25, 2017 4:43 PM
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Nope. I used to have one friend but when he got older he changed too much and we stopped talking.
Jun 25, 2017 4:46 PM

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Nope. I used to have one friend but when he got older he changed too much and we stopped talking.


It happens to everyone, myself include. People can change in the wrong way... I'm having more fun talking to people like you on MAL and stranger on the PS4 than in real life
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Jun 25, 2017 4:49 PM
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myllaut said:
Cagliyora said:
Nope. I used to have one friend but when he got older he changed too much and we stopped talking.


It happens to everyone, myself include. People can change in the wrong way... I'm having more fun talking to people like you on MAL and stranger on the PS4 than in real life


Oh it wasn't really in a bad way. He just went further away to study and ended up becoming a lot more sociable than I ever was or will be.

But yeah I agree, I too much prefer the company of people on the internet nowadays.
Jun 25, 2017 4:55 PM

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None, I used to have one but we argued and never made up. There're people I regularly talk to on the Internet but no irl friends atm, just some acquaintances.
Jun 25, 2017 5:00 PM

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None, I used to have one but we argued and never made up. There're people I regularly talk to on the Internet but no irl friends atm, just some acquaintances.


At least with this thread you can figure out that your not alone in this case ^^
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Jun 25, 2017 5:12 PM

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Friends? A ton. Can't even count with two hands. But really close friends that know everything about me and I would die for them? no more than four.


Jun 25, 2017 5:23 PM

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0, no friends since high school, I think that's pretty common for people who don't go into uni straight away.
Jun 25, 2017 5:27 PM

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Like 5 that i really care about and talk to all the time and then a bunch of other people that i have a good relationship with.
Jun 25, 2017 7:01 PM
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People I like to talk and chat to: like 15 where I live?
People I'm very close to in my near environment: 3 (with internet friends uhm 7?)
There is a big difference, because it takes time to get to know someone and REALLY trust.

And there was a time I had many acquaintances, we also went to parties etc on a regular basis and sometimes other activities, but everything felt rather shallow, yet still nice.

It was also my fault. I love to socialize and going out, but still don't want open up too much until I'm sure and have a safe feeling about a person. So I swallow some deeper and real thoughts etc... and stay on the kinda shallow chitchat-niveau. I just think that deeper thoughts about the world etc... and family history and all like that are not everyone's business and maybe I miss sometimes this point to change the level of "closeness".
Jun 25, 2017 8:34 PM
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Never had a friend and never will have.
Jun 25, 2017 8:35 PM

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is uh anime a friend?

in that case i got like 4 close ones and like 10 d i s t a n t ones
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Jun 25, 2017 8:40 PM

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near me? like none now, though i generally think dealing with people irl is a hassle. didn't used to be like this, so not sure what happened. guess im just lazy ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Jun 25, 2017 8:46 PM

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alllll i see is t4rsnakes in the eayes if tgese niggas

gotta asklot of peoplae who say they my feriend
Jun 25, 2017 8:49 PM

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I have plenty of friends.

I even got this pic for proof!


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alllll i see is t4rsnakes in the eayes if tgese niggas

gotta asklot of peoplae who say they my feriend


hmmmmmmmm snakes? guess u gottta be a snake charmer then.... buy a flute...

feel u on the fake friend thing............ hope u find a real one
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Jun 25, 2017 8:54 PM

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I got no friends, I only got enemies ;)



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Jun 25, 2017 8:56 PM

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I have two best friends irl, 4 regular friends and a bunch of people I'm on good terms with, but I don't consider them friends.
Online, I have 5 people that I'd consider good friends.
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Jun 25, 2017 9:02 PM

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It's very telling if you guys can count the exact amount of friends you have
Jun 26, 2017 9:52 AM

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I don't have anyone I talk to everytime.
I don't talk to the people I was friends with anymore.

I can see you


Jun 26, 2017 10:36 AM

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I can count my IRL friends on one hand.
But ever since I graduated, I haven't kept in touch with them.
So that leaves the count at zilch.
But at least I got peeps here at MAL and Discord.


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I thank whatever gods may be
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Jun 26, 2017 10:51 AM
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Valkyrie said:
I have 3 people I can call friends. Others are just people I can chat with, but I can't say if they are friends to me.
That was exactly what I wanted to say

Thanks for saying it for me I guess
Jun 26, 2017 11:01 AM

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I have only 2 IRL friends. I find the older you get, the less friends you need. I have a lot of acquaintances though.
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