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Jun 27, 2015 9:19 PM
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I see a lot of threads on CD about romantic relationships and dating, but I'm curious how many people are actually in a romantic relationship or even seriously trying to pursue one?

I think a lot of people have really been misled to believe that they are incomplete without a lover/romantic partner and IMO it's a really unhealthy way to look at things. I definitely was under think type of thinking in my teens and it made me really depressed, lazy in my studies, prone to mood swings and I was also obese. I think we should all seek to "complete" ourselves before looking for partners, because you would be going into a relationship with a very unhealthy mindset. Needless to say I feel that I still have a long way to go before I feel I have become complete and thus romance is not a priority in my life.
LoneWolfJun 27, 2015 9:24 PM

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."
-Friedrich Nietzsche
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Jun 27, 2015 9:20 PM
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No.
Jun 27, 2015 9:20 PM
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Nope, for similar reasons as you. I don't want to search for a partner since I'm still searching for who I am myself, in a way. I'd probably just be a burden to them with the way I am now
Jun 27, 2015 9:21 PM
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worldeditor11 said:
No.

Jun 27, 2015 9:22 PM
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No cause I like to live drama-free.
Jun 27, 2015 9:24 PM
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no because i'm aiming for one person only


jeez battosai didnt think u'd stoop so low
Jun 27, 2015 9:26 PM
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No, my gf dumped me 2 years ago.
Jun 27, 2015 9:29 PM
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I'm in a romantic relationship with my cat.
Jun 27, 2015 9:33 PM
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I'm still trying to love myself.
Jun 27, 2015 9:35 PM
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senpaiiiii said:
I'm in a romantic relationship with my cat.


I would have romantic feelings for cat, if she like this.
Jun 27, 2015 9:37 PM

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_Charl said:
senpaiiiii said:
I'm in a romantic relationship with my cat.


I would have romantic feelings for cat, if she like this.

What a coincidence. That's actually me.
Jun 27, 2015 9:39 PM

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Nobody in their sane and righteous mind would want to date me.
Jun 27, 2015 9:41 PM

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I'm in a relationship, however we don't talk much.

It's perfect.
Jun 27, 2015 9:41 PM

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Nope~

gettttt dunked on!!!!!!
Jun 27, 2015 9:51 PM

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SolBlade said:
worldeditor11 said:
No.

Because I choose wisely. It will take some time to find a good partner, so I will take my time and be patient.
Jun 27, 2015 9:55 PM

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Nope, and don't plan to anytime soon.

Picked option 5.
Nop.
Jun 27, 2015 9:57 PM

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Long story short:

Jun 27, 2015 10:35 PM

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Hahaha no
Jun 27, 2015 10:37 PM
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senpaiiiii said:
_Charl said:


I would have romantic feelings for cat, if she like this.

What a coincidence. That's actually me.


Please marry me ;_;
Jun 27, 2015 10:38 PM

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Nope, it's just me, myself and I. :)
Jun 27, 2015 10:38 PM

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-PassingBy- said:
Hahaha no


Jun 27, 2015 10:40 PM

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I recently broke up with someone because I figured it was better to be alone than to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship. Important life lessons!

tl;dr: no, not looking for one either.
Jun 27, 2015 10:51 PM

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I'll just date when I want to eat outside
save all the cute girls from ntr manga
Jun 27, 2015 10:53 PM

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Nah
Jun 27, 2015 10:53 PM

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No. I'm too lazy to have a relationship.
Jun 27, 2015 10:56 PM

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no. but i would be open to friends as well. I think having friends is a very important thing to have in your life.
Jun 27, 2015 10:57 PM
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If I did I wouldn't be on MAL
Jun 27, 2015 11:02 PM

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No

I already do feel like I completed myself, I love myself the way I am. I never found anyone I liked that much or had feelings for but, I'm not really looking or waiting for anyone though just focusing on other stuff like work and having fun. If I ever do find anyone I like then hey, I guess I will go for it.
Jun 27, 2015 11:08 PM
*hug noises*

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I have a platonic relationship with my waifu
Jun 27, 2015 11:18 PM

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I already have a lot to do, so I don't something else. Once I have my life in check maybe I could start looking for a girlfriend. I think it's a bit too early right now. I tried a few times before, and it never worked out.
Jun 27, 2015 11:23 PM

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not at all man. i think i'd have a much better shot if i moved downtown...
I CELEBRATE myself,
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Jun 27, 2015 11:31 PM

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Right hand shame like every other day
Jun 27, 2015 11:54 PM

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N-No.

Jun 28, 2015 12:34 AM

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With my hand
"I am the Bone of my Sword
Steel is my Body and Fire is my Blood
I have created over a Thousand Blades
Unaware of Loss,
Nor aware of Gain.
Withstood Pain to create Weapons, Waiting for one’s Arrival
I have no Regrets. This is the only Path
My whole life was Unlimited Blade Works"
Jun 28, 2015 12:54 AM

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No. I hate to say it but I am a very hedonistic person, and when I weigh the "benefits v. costs" of a "serious romantic relationship", I don't like the outcome.
Jun 28, 2015 12:59 AM

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So much rehashing of this topic sheesh.

Anyways like I've said in the other clone threads, yep I am. And I'm quite happy.
Jun 28, 2015 3:30 AM
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damastah said:
So much rehashing of this topic sheesh.

Anyways like I've said in the other clone threads, yep I am. And I'm quite happy.


Too many waifu pillow humpers ofc.

Usually their waifus aren't passable girls either, kek
Jun 28, 2015 3:32 AM

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Make option 6: Waiting for virtual reality
Jun 28, 2015 3:36 AM

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TheBasedNico said:
damastah said:
So much rehashing of this topic sheesh.

Anyways like I've said in the other clone threads, yep I am. And I'm quite happy.


Too many waifu pillow humpers ofc.

Usually their waifus aren't passable girls either, kek
This song sums the waifu pillow humpers very well. Kek



I'm surprised an artist actually made a song of this. XD
Jun 28, 2015 3:40 AM

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I'm in many bromantic relationships.
Jun 28, 2015 3:42 AM

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MechaKiryu said:
TheBasedNico said:


Too many waifu pillow humpers ofc.

Usually their waifus aren't passable girls either, kek
This song sums the waifu pillow humpers very well. Kek



I'm surprised an artist actually made a song of this. XD

Dude that song is one of the gems of my playlist. I love it.
And no I am not a waifu pillow humper.
Jun 28, 2015 3:43 AM

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LucidSky said:
MechaKiryu said:
This song sums the waifu pillow humpers very well. Kek



I'm surprised an artist actually made a song of this. XD

Dude that song is one of the gems of my playlist. I love it.
And no I am not a waifu pillow humper.
It's mines too. When I first heard it, the first thing that came to mind was the MAL community.XD
Jun 28, 2015 4:22 AM
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I've only got the privilege of looking at her shining eyes and her evergreen smile.
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Jun 28, 2015 4:22 AM

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No, I am not.

Romantic relationships aren't really my kind of thing. I am rather cynical and I tend to rely more on that which pertains to my cognition, rather than my emotions.

To me, there are no logical reasons to be in a glorified friendship with someone.
Jun 28, 2015 4:23 AM

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Yeah, I am. I got lonely after a while and found someone who wants to be together with me sharing our free times. I don't mind that I cannot watch as much anime I did in the past.


Jun 28, 2015 5:01 AM

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MechaKiryu said:
LucidSky said:

Dude that song is one of the gems of my playlist. I love it.
And no I am not a waifu pillow humper.
It's mines too. When I first heard it, the first thing that came to mind was the MAL community.XD

Da hell y'all smokin'? >___>
Jun 28, 2015 5:02 AM

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damastah said:
MechaKiryu said:
It's mines too. When I first heard it, the first thing that came to mind was the MAL community.XD

Da hell y'all smokin'? >___>
The lyrics of this song are basically HaXXspetten's posts.
Jun 28, 2015 5:04 AM

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What the hell is up with that I wish I wasn't, if you're not feeling up to it just break up .
Jun 28, 2015 1:31 PM

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yes :) with a lovely guy

and

3 cats. nyaa! cuddles
Jun 28, 2015 1:36 PM

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No, I am not in any relationship with anyone, and at 27, I have no desire to ever be with anyone.

I only dated one girl in my life, 11 years ago when I was 16. I broke up with her after 8 months, because she didn't share any hobbies in common with me, and I preferred to be alone.

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