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Aug 30, 2014 10:27 AM
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I am 18 and I find myself attracted to men who are at least 10 years older than me. I think it's because they're more fascinating and sophisticated.

Are there other individuals here who are attracted to older men or women too? Share your experience. If you're not: Are you for or against it? Do you have any qualms about it?
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Aug 30, 2014 10:36 AM
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I'm 15. Females my age don't look like what I would call attractive, so yes.
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Aug 30, 2014 10:38 AM
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That's normal for women and not the norm for men.
Aug 30, 2014 10:39 AM
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Revelry said:
If you're not: Are you for or against it? Do you have any qualms about it?
nah
Aug 30, 2014 10:41 AM
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I'm more attracted older women than women of the same age than me.
Aug 30, 2014 10:42 AM
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Nope. But naturally, I'm definitely in for younger girls, the older a woman is, the worse of an investment she is. Just as long as they're past their teens, teenagers are usually too annoying to deal with.
Aug 30, 2014 10:50 AM
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Im 18 I wouldnt date anyone over like 21/22 rn because then its just creepy and theres a big difference between an 18 yo and a 25 yo mentally
Aug 30, 2014 10:56 AM
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Hmm well being 23, I admit I've been attracted to women that may even be as old as 50-something.

Now its a very different story if you are asking me what age group of women i'd be most likely to date/form a romantic relationship with. Then I'd say I would not go for a woman over 30 at my current age anyway. If I was more invested into dating life right now, I'd be looking for women around 21-28 yrs old probably, even though the 27, 28 yr old women probably would think I'm a bit too young and inexperienced for them.
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I find myself attracted to girls that are older than me but that's really because I look older than I am. I think that'll change once people as old as me catch up and obviously if I see a hot 25-30 y/o girl I'm going to be attracted to them.
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Aug 30, 2014 11:06 AM

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Definitely wouldn't mind being with an older woman, but it seems unlikely. I have no real preference regarding that matter. -3 years +6 years is my range maybe? All depends on the person.
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Aug 30, 2014 11:15 AM

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I'm 26, and I have seen many 40-something year old women that were quite attractive.

Aug 30, 2014 11:17 AM

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I don't care unless the age gap is excruciatingly different.
Aug 30, 2014 11:23 AM

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JonyJC said:
That's normal for women and not the norm for men.


It's normal for both genders actually.


Aug 30, 2014 11:26 AM
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I'm 26, and I have seen many 40-something year old women that were quite attractive.


Were they like mothers to you?
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Aug 30, 2014 11:38 AM

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LashLethal Bro not every dude that likes older women is stuck in an Oedipus complex..
Aug 30, 2014 11:47 AM
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LashLethal Bro not every dude that likes older women is stuck in an Oedipus complex..


No, it's not that. It's just when you go for older women, you don't want them to be like a motherly figure to you. I know someone who went out with a woman who like 12 years older than him and he was 18 at the time. She drove him around and she payed for the bill. I'm not surprised why it didn't work out lol.
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Aug 30, 2014 12:22 PM

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I'd have sex with a woman up to around the age of 50 so long as they're good looking; I've always found the idea of being with an older woman exciting. Maybe it's because they're more experienced? I wouldn't be in a romantic relationship with someone that much older than me, though. In a relationship I'd prefer to be with someone around my own age, give or take a couple of years.
Aug 30, 2014 12:25 PM
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I'm attracted to women older than myself.
Aug 30, 2014 12:30 PM

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Aug 30, 2014 12:31 PM

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Beauty and brains. Screw the age.
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Aug 30, 2014 12:34 PM

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I like older women. Probably because all the women I find attractive are atleast 5-6 yeard older than me. I could probably be liking younger women in 10 years or so tho'

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Aug 30, 2014 12:52 PM

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Hoppy said:
JonyJC said:
That's normal for women and not the norm for men.


It's normal for both genders actually.

No, male teens may but any man who says he would is either lying or has a fetish.
Aug 30, 2014 12:54 PM
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JonyJC said:
Hoppy said:


It's normal for both genders actually.

No, male teens may but any man who says he would is either lying or has a fetish.
Source?
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Aug 30, 2014 1:11 PM

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Aristotle.
But here's a study from 95 when people weren't brainwashed by sex and city and didn't think women in their 40s are at their prime.
http://www1.appstate.edu/~kms/classes/psy2664/Documents/Hayes1995.pdf or wiki link http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
General rule men like younger women, women like older men but since it doesn't matter and we're all cisgendered, assexual, ungodly monstrosities live in your fantasy worlds.
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Revelry said:
If you're not: Are you for or against it? Do you have any qualms about it?
nah
Aug 30, 2014 4:15 PM

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I like older men, but just some kind of a specific kind, the same kind as Christoph Waltz, Jeremy Irons and Viggo Mortensen.
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Aug 30, 2014 4:21 PM

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The age gap between me and an ex was 7 years, i was 15 and he was 22. It worked fine. I'd probably date any guy between 18-28 now.

Aug 30, 2014 5:16 PM

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Loli_Sensei said:
The age gap between me and an ex was 7 years, i was 15 and he was 22. It worked fine. I'd probably date any guy between 18-28 now.


That's not even legal where i live lol.
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Loli_Sensei said:
The age gap between me and an ex was 7 years, i was 15 and he was 22. It worked fine. I'd probably date any guy between 18-28 now.
Great you just dated a pedophile.
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Loli_Sensei said:
The age gap between me and an ex was 7 years, i was 15 and he was 22. It worked fine. I'd probably date any guy between 18-28 now.
Great you just dated a pedophile.
Pedophiles are primairly attracted to prepubescent kids... 15 isn't prepubescent...
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Aug 30, 2014 5:27 PM

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Rothion said:
html said:
Great you just dated a pedophile.
Pedophiles are primairly attracted to prepubescent kids... 15 isn't prepubescent...
That's still not morally right (Unless the relationship was platonic)
Aug 30, 2014 5:33 PM

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Udgey said:
Rothion said:
Pedophiles are primairly attracted to prepubescent kids... 15 isn't prepubescent...
That's still not morally right (Unless the relationship was platonic)
You're making your opinion look like a statement of facts, you should back it up with an argument instead.
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Aug 30, 2014 5:35 PM

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AnarchicSloth said:
I'm 15. Females my age don't look like what I would call attractive, so yes.
not unless, well
Aug 30, 2014 5:39 PM

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I'm very attracted to older men. It's honestly pretty hard for me see myself with someone around my age anymore. Horndog teens just got old to me quick.

Aug 30, 2014 5:43 PM

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Tsindria said:
I'm very attracted to older men. It's honestly pretty hard for me see myself with someone around my age anymore. Horndog teens just got old to me quick.
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Aug 30, 2014 6:56 PM

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I have the trouble of attracting both. Young girls gravitate to me because of my looks and personality. Older women flirt with me because...well...I'm younger than them, look good, and have my shit together. The last girl I got involved with introduced me to her mom (we weren't being serious, just fuck buddies) and her mom...well, I'll just say "DAMN." At least I know where she got 'it' from.

Anyway her mom started flirting with me and she got mad, lol. I'd probably have banged her out if it wouldn't have been so awkward and she wasn't so married.

Typically though, I'm always getting into shenanigans with younger girls. Like around 18-22. I like energy. But at the same time I try not to get involved with drama-magnets. Had too much of that already. Still happens from time to time, but I just get the hell on at that point. Anyone under 20 is usually still too inexperienced in life for my tastes. Occasionally I'd meet someone who was an exception, but it's rare.

Bottom line is if you're hot, single, DTF and not annoying as fuck, the age doesn't really matter...as long as you're not older than my mom.
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Rothion said:
Udgey said:
That's still not morally right (Unless the relationship was platonic)
You're making your opinion look like a statement of facts, you should back it up with an argument instead.

why do you need to argue that a 15 yo and a 22 yo shouldnt be dating........ its fairly obvious but I expect this type of response from MAL

15 year olds are a lot dumber than people in their twenties and arent fully capable of making rational decisions all the time, the only type of person who would argue with that statement is a 15 year old. Its manipulation on the 22 year old's part because no normal person past highschool age would go for a HS sophomore unless they meant to manipulate them in some way, and if they had sex then its statutory rape. If youre over 18 you should know better than to date minors
Aug 30, 2014 7:11 PM

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Barely anyone at my age is even close to attractive, I would prefer older woman because most of them would be more mature than the girls of this generation




Aug 30, 2014 7:22 PM

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I'm willing to accept women 1 or 2 years older than I am. Any older than that and I'll be a bit uncomfortable with the relationship.
Aug 30, 2014 7:25 PM
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I'm willing to accept women 1 or 2 years older than I am. Any older than that and I'll be a bit uncomfortable with the relationship.
Because you're not alpha enough to dominate someone older than you.
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Revelry said:
Tachycardic said:
I'm willing to accept women 1 or 2 years older than I am. Any older than that and I'll be a bit uncomfortable with the relationship.
Because you're not alpha enough to dominate someone older than you.
you don't have to dominate.
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I must say, I do like older guys but I think ten years older is a bit much, maybe if I was older it wouldn't be, but right now I think guys around six or seven years older would be the limit.
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Rothion said:
You're making your opinion look like a statement of facts, you should back it up with an argument instead.

why do you need to argue that a 15 yo and a 22 yo shouldnt be dating........ its fairly obvious but I expect this type of response from MAL

15 year olds are a lot dumber than people in their twenties and arent fully capable of making rational decisions all the time, the only type of person who would argue with that statement is a 15 year old. Its manipulation on the 22 year old's part because no normal person past highschool age would go for a HS sophomore unless they meant to manipulate them in some way, and if they had sex then its statutory rape. If youre over 18 you should know better than to date minors


I hate this sentiment. 15 year olds are more than capable of making rational decisions. Will they make rational decisions a 100% of the time? Probably not, but no one does.

People need to stop acting like 13-16 year olds are kids that they need to protect with their moral mumbo jumbo.

Also, 15 isn't considered a minor in a lot of countries.
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Revelry said:
Tachycardic said:
I'm willing to accept women 1 or 2 years older than I am. Any older than that and I'll be a bit uncomfortable with the relationship.
Because you're not alpha enough to dominate someone older than you.


I don't see why men have to dominate women in a relationship to begin with.
Aug 30, 2014 7:37 PM
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-Linus- said:
Revelry said:
Because you're not alpha enough to dominate someone older than you.
you don't have to dominate.
Yeah, go and be someone's little bitch instead. Make sure you clean the house properly. You want a reward later on, don't you?
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Ange892 said:
I must say, I do like older guys but I think ten years older is a bit much, maybe if I was older it wouldn't be, but right now I think guys around six or seven years older would be the limit.
If you're into guys six years older than you, then you've already crossed the threshold. It would no longer make any difference if you date someone ten, twenty, or thirty years older than you.
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Nope.

As they say in Japan, women are like Christmas cakes. Past 25, they're just not the same...
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Tachycardic said:
Revelry said:
Because you're not alpha enough to dominate someone older than you.
I don't see why men have to dominate women in a relationship to begin with.
Then I'm curious why you'd be uncomfortable having a relationship with a woman 3 years older than you.
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kagami77 said:
Nope.

As they say in Japan, women are like Christmas cakes. Past 25, they're just not the same...


But Asian women never age...

Revelry said:
Tachycardic said:
I don't see why men have to dominate women in a relationship to begin with.
Then I'm curious why you'd be uncomfortable having a relationship with a woman 3 years older than you.


Well, maybe it's just because I've never done it before? I feel like I don't really have many opportunities to meet women who are that much older.
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