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Jun 1, 2017 10:19 AM
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is it signs of full physical growth (pubic hair, benis size, height, muscles)? emotional and physical maturity? individual interests? being career minded? asking since i still feel like a 12 year old even after turning 22 recently. or is it bad to want to experience maturity asap? i am also under the impression that everyone matures at a different rate.

thoughts on being a "man" or maturity?
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Jun 1, 2017 10:24 AM
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Who gives a fuck? I think people greatly over estimate how people mature.
Jun 1, 2017 10:26 AM
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When he impregnates another man's butt.
Jun 1, 2017 10:26 AM
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I would say a XY-chromosome-pair and if you are seeing yourself as a man.

BUT I want to be honest and I must admit that I, personally, really dislike negative, "female" traits in men (more than in women) like being too sassy, too submissive, can't stand up for yourself and passive-aggressive etc...
Maturity is for both genders important. Anyway, everyone should stand up for themselves etc...
Jun 1, 2017 10:29 AM
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p0ckyy said:
is it signs of full physical growth (pubic hair, benis size, height, muscles)? emotional and physical maturity? individual interests? being career minded? asking since i still feel like a 12 year old even after turning 22 recently. or is it bad to want to experience maturity asap?

thoughts on being a "man" or maturity?


When you can take care of yourself without help from anyone else.
Jun 1, 2017 10:29 AM
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When he stops watching anime! :D
Jk but if you want to be seen as a "man", you need to be ambitious and have goals in life. Othervise your'e not different from a kid.
Jun 1, 2017 10:37 AM
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when he lifts. It doesn't matter what it is, pick that shit up.

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Jun 1, 2017 10:38 AM
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p0ckyy said:
is it signs of full physical growth (pubic hair, benis size, height, muscles)? emotional and physical maturity? individual interests? being career minded? asking since i still feel like a 12 year old even after turning 22 recently. or is it bad to want to experience maturity asap?

thoughts on being a "man" or maturity?

You're not a man unless you've watched and enjoyed Predator. If you've watched it and didn't enjoy it, you're a slack-jawed faggot.
Jun 1, 2017 10:38 AM
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Depends on the arbitrary standard of measurement of your choosing...
Jun 1, 2017 10:38 AM
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Seiya said:
As a person who wants to see gender roles abolished, I don't really care. Don't force yourself to be something you're not. If you're naturally manly and you're fully comfortable with that, then by all means, don't change anything. But some guys like myself are more feminine than manly, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Maneki-Mew said:
I would say a XY-chromosome-pair and if you are seeing yourself as a man.

BUT I want to be honest and I must admit that I, personally, really dislike negative, "female" traits in men (more than in women) like being too sassy, too submissive, can't stand up for yourself and passive-aggressive etc...
Maturity is for both genders important. Anyway, everyone should stand up for themselves etc...


Maturity has absolutely nothing to do with how masculine or feminine you are. Just because an adult male is submissive, does not mean he isn't mature.

That's why the speech marks are there. ^^"

Mature people don't say yes to anything and let other people walk over them constantly imo.
Jun 1, 2017 10:42 AM

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Man = adult. Let's be honest, there are no adults in this world. I could also ask when is a girl a woman?





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Just wait till you hit 93



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Jun 1, 2017 10:45 AM

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A boy becomes a man when he learns to appreciate good fish. Haddock with some melted butter and potatoes. <3 Mmmhhhmmm.

Don't question my parameters for manhood, eat some fish instead, that's much better.
Jun 1, 2017 10:47 AM

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When he joins myanimelist.net with a username like "perve" and makes shitty threads
Jun 1, 2017 11:03 AM
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Seiya said:
Maneki-Mew said:

That's why the speech marks are there. ^^"

Mature people don't say yes to anything and let other people walk over them constantly imo.


Yeah, but in your previous post, you have it worded as if you hate guys that aren't assertive, and submit in the bedroom.

Eeeh submissive isn't a sexual thing to me. '-'
Jun 1, 2017 11:13 AM
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Seiya said:
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Eeeh submissive isn't a sexual thing to me. '-'


You remind me of why I dislike females.

Says the one, who critized gender roles, but dislikes females?

Sorry, not sorry, that's your own problem.
Jun 1, 2017 11:23 AM

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You're not a man until you accidentally cut the tip off one of your fingers and your only response is to wrap the stump in toilet paper and go drink a beer.
Jun 1, 2017 11:24 AM

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when he cuts off his manhood and gets an operation to turn him into a woman.
Jun 1, 2017 11:32 AM

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Well on some levels it's a question of self knowledge.

Like, if a 10 year old boy came off as being strangely mature, you might say 'hey there man!' to him even though physically and legally he's not yet an adult.
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Jun 1, 2017 11:36 AM
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Seiya said:
Maneki-Mew said:

Says the one, who critized gender roles, but dislikes females?

Sorry, not sorry, that's your own problem.


It may be a problem, but I have no problem with it.

Women are the subhuman, bacterian scum of the Earth. They do nothing but make false rape allegations, nag for favors, and hoard cats in their houses. They also have vaginas, which are gross.

Either the "I don't have a girlfriend"-speech, or, if you should happen to be gay, it's a shame for decent, respectul men. So, about maturity: Don't be so whiny. I srsly don't care about the reasons, why people are like this and if they have a problem with females, because of their reason, anyway. Just don't be like this.
Jun 1, 2017 11:39 AM

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A male becomes a man when you call him a man instead of a male... :/
Jun 1, 2017 11:42 AM

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When he's no longer a boy.​​​​​​​​
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When you fuck her right in the pussy

Seriously though , I think when he starts taking responsibility and knowing what he should be doing and what needs to be done ( like my father used to say )
Jun 1, 2017 11:52 AM

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When you're miserable pile of secrets.
One man is no more than another, if he do no more than what another does.

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Seiya said:
Maneki-Mew said:

Either the "I don't have a girlfriend"-speech, or, if you should happen to be gay, it's a shame for decent, respectul men. So, about maturity: Don't be so whiny. I srsly don't care about the reasons, why people are like this and if they have a problem with females, because of their reason, anyway. Just don't be like this.


Wait, so think it's "shameful" to be gay?

Yes, I did say THAT. :)

It's a shame to hate one gender.
And I was saying that such a behavior is creating the bad stereotype of the women-hating gay men. It's a shame to fulfill such stereotypes, when dozens of others aren't like this at all, who are decent and respectul, because people can't deal with their problems in an appropriate way, without hating all women or men.
Jun 1, 2017 12:07 PM

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A boy becomes a man after he penetrates a vagina with his penis and/or after he is able to make money through a business of his own, also known as self-sufficiency.

If you're a male and you haven't penetrated a vagina with your penis or you haven't been able to make a living on your own then you aren't a man. You're a child.


yet so many have done those and are still nothing but a douchebag..

is there some systems in place??
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Jun 1, 2017 12:16 PM

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didnt you hear the feminist activists saying there is no good man left in the world? try asking those feminist of what makes a man
Jun 1, 2017 12:39 PM

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He no longer lives with his parents.

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When he impregnates another man's butt.


Yeah, that too.
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Jun 1, 2017 12:41 PM

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When he can drink black coffee and espresso on a daily basis without wanting to die.
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Jun 1, 2017 12:44 PM

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It depends on the context.

But here I would say when you're male and indetify as one.
Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious.
Jun 1, 2017 12:45 PM

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ilovegintama said:
xrockxz89 said:


yet so many have done those and are still nothing but a douchebag..

is there some systems in place??

people in general can be douchebags whether they are men or not. ever heard the term douchebaguette?


a real man has class and swagger, those guys aren't even in the running
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Jun 1, 2017 1:12 PM
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Seiya said:
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Yes, I did say THAT. :)

It's a shame to hate one gender.
And I was saying that such a behavior is creating the bad stereotype of the women-hating gay men. It's a shame to fulfill such stereotypes, when dozens of others aren't like this at all, who are decent and respectul, because people can't deal with their problems in an appropriate way, without hating all women or men.


Hating on someone based on their sexual orientation is a horrible thing to do. If that's the case, you're no better than me.

I can't help that I hate vaginas. This is how I was born.

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Yes, I did say THAT. :)

It's a shame to hate one gender.
And I was saying that such a behavior is creating the bad stereotype of the women-hating gay men. It's a shame to fulfill such stereotypes, when dozens of others aren't like this at all, who are decent and respectul, because people can't deal with their problems in an appropriate way, without hating all women or men.


Hating on someone based on their sexual orientation is a horrible thing to do. If that's the case, you're no better than me.

I can't help that I hate vaginas. This is how I was born.

YES, again, that's exactly what I was trying to say. ;)

Well, that's very shallow. If you don't want to have sex with a woman, why do you care about a (even hidden) body part? Don't look at it, don't think about it.
Jun 1, 2017 1:49 PM

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like my grandfather once said
'not until you create a miniature human in your likeness!"
Jun 1, 2017 2:23 PM

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A boy becomes a man when other men stop calling him "boy".
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YES, again, that's exactly what I was trying to say. ;)

Well, that's very shallow. If you don't want to have sex with a woman, why do you care about a (even hidden) body part? Don't look at it, don't think about it.


Sorry, but I have no time for homophobic people.

This conversation is over.

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Jun 1, 2017 2:41 PM

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Seems like an easy way to lose your manhood as well. >.>
Jun 1, 2017 9:58 PM

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Nowadays, simply when he identifies as one.
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Jun 2, 2017 6:06 AM

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When the babies with testosterone poisoning who call themselves men cannot help but stare in awe.
Jun 2, 2017 6:07 AM

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When he watched JoJo and Fist of the North Star
Jun 2, 2017 6:21 AM

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When he watched JoJo and Fist of the North Star

Man, I love you.

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when you can look after yourself as well as act responsibly and be able to make something of yourself.

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Seiya said:
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YES, again, that's exactly what I was trying to say. ;)

Well, that's very shallow. If you don't want to have sex with a woman, why do you care about a (even hidden) body part? Don't look at it, don't think about it.


Sorry, but I have no time for homophobic people.

This conversation is over.


Jesus Christ, that scalated quickly xD


Anyway, to answer the OP's question, for me a man is simply an adult male, regardless of societal expectations, which can change anytime ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


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Seiya said:
Maneki-Mew said:


YES, again, that's exactly what I was trying to say. ;)

Well, that's very shallow. If you don't want to have sex with a woman, why do you care about a (even hidden) body part? Don't look at it, don't think about it.


Sorry, but I have no time for homophobic people.

This conversation is over.

Dude, she just agreed with you that hating on someone for their sexual orientation is a horrible thing to do. And then you called her a homophobe.

Do you have trouble reading or something?
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When you're miserable pile of secrets.


But enough talk... Have at you!
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Seiya said:
Hating on someone based on their sexual orientation is a horrible thing to do. If that's the case, you're no better than me.

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YES, again, that's exactly what I was trying to say. ;)

Seiya said:
Sorry, but I have no time for homophobic people.


I think maybe you need to go re-read that conversation.
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there are plenty of "manly" features people like but becoming a man is just when you can take care of yourself without the help of others
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Seiya said:
As a person who wants to see gender roles abolished, I don't really care.

What if someone and their partner wanted to go for the traditional "husband works while the wife stays at home and takes care of the kids" option? You'd want that abolished, meaning you would ban the choice of choosing traditional gender roles? You can give people the option to break certain social norms, but at the end of the day, people are going to act according to their own will.
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Seiya said:

No woman is going to live off me. And who the hell would want kids?

Traditional gender roles are cancerous, and need to be abolished.

No they don't. At least not all of them.
I stand by the statement that you shouldn't force people to live a certain passive way that's not in accordance to the will of parties involved when it comes to gender roles.
If a husband and wife want to follow the traditional route, let them.
Who are you with your will to butt in and say they can't?
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Seiya said:
AyameTomoko said:

What if someone and their partner wanted to go for the traditional "husband works while the wife stays at home and takes care of the kids" option? You'd want that abolished, meaning you would ban the choice of choosing traditional gender roles? You can give people the option to break certain social norms, but at the end of the day, people are going to act according to their own will.


No woman is going to live off me. And who the hell would want kids?

Traditional gender roles are cancerous, and need to be abolished.


Could you give reasons why they are "cancerous"? I'm honestly curious.
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Beats me. I guess it's when a person fulfills certain criteria?
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