| I like yuri, but probably only because I haven't actually seen any yaoi. I've been wanting to find a good yaoi show for a while now. |
| Yuri obviously it's not even up for debate. |
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| Avatar character is Gabriel from Gabriel DropOut. |
| I personally prefer Yuri, but I don’t really mind as long as the romance is good. |
| To judge others by your own standard is the height of folly. |
| I'm fine with Yuri. Yaoi can also be an exception though if the plot is good. |
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| Yuri has a higher chance of involving lolis, I guess. So that. |
| I probably regret this post by now. |
| I don't really like both. If ... then only yuri and with hardcore sex in hentai. Usually trying for a real non-hentai plot gets crappy cause it focuses on certain stuff liked by certain types of fans. (Genre is fanservice itself.) This even more so for Yaoi (and Shounen Ai) where I personally find it disgusting most of the time cause of the art style. If I want to watch gayness I need reall stuff like "Naked Kombat" (google it if you don't know it :D) and reall manly guys fighting and dominating each other. Not animated stuf. Not kissing. |
| Yaoi. Not all of it but there are some seriously wonderful yaoi stories. Maybe I was just unlucky but most Yuri that I have seen was pretty bad. It was always non con or at the must dub con. In other words - it was either rape or sexual molestation. Yaoi also has stuff like that but then again it also has stories like Yuri! On Ice!!!, 10 Dance and Free! It is too early to say in what direction Given will go. |
| Being the CRAZY fujoshi that I am, I have to say yaoi. I have watched very little yuri. It is okay but yaoi just brings along with it a whole other level of feels! #yaoiforlife |
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| I watched and read yuri, but yaoi? That's a big no for me. |
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| I'm not sure tbh. I mean, I like both, but a bit differrently. If M/M, I really love the romantic part a lot, rather than the sex. As for F/F, I love the sex part more than the romantic part lmao. So, Shounen-ai > Shoujo-ai Yuri > Yaoi |
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Shicchi said: I'm not sure tbh. I mean, I like both, but a bit differrently. If M/M, I really love the romantic part a lot, rather than the sex. As for F/F, I love the sex part more than the romantic part lmao. So, Shounen-ai > Shoujo-ai Yuri > Yaoi Same,might be because i'm much more attracted to breasts when it comes to sex scenes..But for actual romance of course male on male chemistry is my preference. |
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moodie said: Honestly. If yaoi was atleast as pure as yuri id understand it but yaoi's only purpose is to turn men into sex objects. Whereas yuri takes 2 loving females and puts them together. Love can't be pure. It's dirty by it's very nature. If you're once trapped by the fangs of love, sex is the purest thing you can get. |
| yuri for me but thats probably cuz im more into girls than guys i watched some yaoi and none of them really got me super interested :/ |
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| yaoi is personally more enjoyable for me, the yuri ive seen is a bit eh. I like buff dudes making out, 'tis the quality content I like. |
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| Yuri, I guess. I have no interest in Yoai whatsoever. |
| I am into yuri, but I won't say yuri is better to be unbiased. But as a biased person, I;ll say Yuri is the best. For me, "A good romance is a good romance", I will only say that it is not my type I won't and can't say it is bad without watching. Like I have watched and read a lot yuri and I'll say it is not too sexualised/ But then some people say yaoi is too sexualised, i don't think that too in case of manga as in my view Given is a good romance manga (I have read till 4 Volume only, tho) and yeah people say yuri doesn't gives a right representation, so just for clarifying that just read my forum signature. |
Just go and read I'm in Love with the Villainess LN. |
| The terms are not symmetric. “yaoi” is an actual genre with stylistic elements; “yuri” is simply anything that involves an all-female coupling. So obviously “yaoi” is better, since dreck such as Yuru Yuri is still “yuri”, but if they were all male it would not be “yaoi”. Since yaoi has actual stylistic commonalities such as drama, tragœdy, and rape, it is obviously better, given that drama, tragœdy, and rape, are all patrician elements of storytelling. |
napkinmonsterJan 25, 2022 5:05 AM
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For me, yuri is definitely better. :3 |
SerafosDec 25, 2023 8:10 AM
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| Haven't - as far as I'm aware - watched any actual yuri or yaoi anime outside of ecchi/hentai and Utena, but I like Gundam Yaoi fanart and unironically enjoyed CLAMP's Jojo Doujin so I'll side with the fujos |
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| Yaoi forever! I like BL works so much!! |
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| I like them both, but it's difficult for me to find a BL that I like. |
| I havent really seen enough to judge which i think is written better more often but id likely be biased toward yuri for not really being into guys so much. |
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| Both are good, and anyone who says otherwise is stupid. |
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| I don't really know, they're about even to me. I have the same issues with both and like around the same number of series from each. Mildly prefer yuri I guess, but I'm pretty picky for both. If the leads in yuri are just pure and cutesy moe blobs then I don't like it and that makes up a pretty large chunk of yuri series. Though its hard to find yaoi where the characters have any chemistry. Yuri when written by women are peak and yaoi written by josei/seinen authors can be decent. |
| i cant relate to guys in yaoi, it feels like im watching from the sidelines with yuri im more invested, as i can somewhat relate, or i actually get to live a little bit of a fantasy that is very much inclusive to me there isnt any objective quality i could point to, i just dont care about nor vibe with the guys in yaoi, and to be perfectly clear its probably assumptions, biases, all kinds of flawed subjectivies and most importantly feelings and some personal stories and shit u know idk reading lesbian romances has kind of become a big part of my life, with a soft spot for school and university stuff no hate to yaoi heads gay is good |
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Reply to JKKH
I don't really know, they're about even to me. I have the same issues with both and like around the same number of series from each. Mildly prefer yuri I guess, but I'm pretty picky for both. If the leads in yuri are just pure and cutesy moe blobs then I don't like it and that makes up a pretty large chunk of yuri series. Though its hard to find yaoi where the characters have any chemistry. Yuri when written by women are peak and yaoi written by josei/seinen authors can be decent.
| @JKKH, no, it isn't. There are many BL works with a good chemistry between guys. |
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@JKKH, no, it isn't. There are many BL works with a good chemistry between guys.
| @Memore Usually for me bl are either too cutesy and bland or the relationship is abusive/puts too much emphasis on top and bottom dynamics for my taste. I like gay media and ships in fan content but bl manga tend to fall flat for me. If you have any recs I'd appreciate them though! |
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@Memore Usually for me bl are either too cutesy and bland or the relationship is abusive/puts too much emphasis on top and bottom dynamics for my taste. I like gay media and ships in fan content but bl manga tend to fall flat for me. If you have any recs I'd appreciate them though!
| @JKKH, yes, you can watch in my Completed BL works with score 9 and higher. |
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| As an LGBT person, I appreciate and like both genres. However, it's harder to find wholesome BL stories compared to GL- at least it was like this a few ago. Yaoi is very oversexualized and the "uke" "seme" dynamic is unrealistic at best, and uncomfortably rapey at worse- not to say yuri doesn't have problems with doubious consent and oversexualization (looking at you, Citrus). Every gay story written for a mainly heterosexual audience is going to be fetish fuel for sure. Once in a blue moon you will find an actual good story. |
CakeskiDec 25, 2023 2:17 PM
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| I just know we need more of both of them. More but less dub/non con elements |
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Nigami_Shin said:
yaoi is degenerated filth. yuri is high class entertainment
Honestly. If yaoi was atleast as pure as yuri id understand it but yaoi's only purpose is to turn men into sex objects. Whereas yuri takes 2 loving females and puts them together.yaoi is degenerated filth. yuri is high class entertainment
| @moodie this is sooo true. best take so far |
| Yuri. Because lesbians are so fucking cute 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 If they are sisters or twin sisters even better,,,,,YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES Lesbian incest is wincest for the true man of culture Hehehehehehehe 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎  |
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